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Is distance doable for you?  

LetsChillax 53F
8768 posts
6/30/2019 3:48 am
Is distance doable for you?

How far would you travel to meet someone for a glorious weekend of sex?
An hour
Half a day
Drive all day
Fly to meet them
Won’t do it, only for locals

Bluesradio62 57M  
33 posts
8/16/2019 9:07 pm

Have flown to the West and D.C. for a Relationship, and have had people fly from D.C area., N.Y., Ohio and California to meet me......

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8/3/2019 9:25 pm



BiGuy48125 45M
47 posts
7/20/2019 12:14 pm

It's a play date, not a relationship. Why spend all day travelling?

YoungStud84646 22M

7/19/2019 9:03 pm

three hours is my hard cutoff. for driving, not the sex, lol

Danielle0088 20F
5 posts
7/17/2019 1:47 pm

If they want to meet me then they can travel themselves. I am willing to travel a little ways but not all day.

Jamesgoots1 36M
34 posts
7/16/2019 12:59 pm

Fly t at least theee or four days then

Lickunow255 46M
4 posts
7/13/2019 5:28 pm

Oh yes it is

1025mws 56M
677 posts
7/11/2019 3:25 pm

I would fly to see and make love to the right woman.
I would drive 4 hours.

mtguy2019 65M
185 posts
7/10/2019 7:55 am

A plain visit would be nice too. Some gals are fun.

looking4u69ca 59M
3528 posts
7/8/2019 8:04 pm

I would fly but I want a week. For a weekend I would drive 4 hours or so one way.

1hardcock00 56M
25 posts
7/8/2019 5:44 pm

three or four hours is long enough

barbas562 63M
41 posts
7/8/2019 5:33 pm


1seeking1 54F
3020 posts
7/8/2019 3:44 pm

Please clarify, someone I know and I know it is amazing sex or first time meet , take huge gamble? Since I do not drive and limited time, local
should be easier.

Jacknight1273 47M
614 posts
7/8/2019 10:59 am

I could fly if I am positive that we Will have sex.

Most likely to drive all day.

garhfx 64M
28 posts
7/7/2019 7:08 pm

Would certainly depend on the situation. But, somewhere from an hour to half a day.

MrRareity 60M  
3756 posts
7/7/2019 12:42 pm

If we had a connection and I thought it could lead to more I would fly to meet them. If it was just an online connection and I knew it wouldn't go any further I'd travel an hour to meet them as a friend.

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kentuckiana 63M  
53 posts
7/6/2019 10:03 am

If it's a partner, where we share a mutual attraction and enjoy each others company, (in & out of the bedroom), flying to meet them is a privilege & honor. Having met a potential partner on this site, we discovered that me being from the states, and she an aid worker from Norway; that we would be in Shenzhen China at the same time-both for work related responsibilities. We met for the first time in China, hit it off, and I later flew to meet her in San Diego, when she was in the states for a conference. We continue to share holiday greetings, and attempt to always coordinate travel schedules.

Part of the reason I joined AdultFriendFinder; was due to a heavy, worldwide travel schedule; it is difficult to maintain a casual or serious relationship locally, when you are out of town for week long, or longer periods. Whether it includes sharing intimacy, or just meeting a nice dinner partner, the site allows making a connection with others in destinations, where otherwise; you're stuck in a hotel with room service deliver dinner.

With all that said, if just meeting a new, potential partner for adult fun, probably a drive of more that a couple hours (each way), is about it...Not driving 5-6 hours, even for a weekend of glorious intimacy...'cause if it was that "glorious," I'd probably want to keep it going, and from experience know, that initially a long distance relationship can work, but over time; we all just need to decompress from the demands of travel, cook dinner together at home, get better acquainted, share family & local events, etc.

Just my 2-cents worth...

Wantahardman 59M
32 posts
7/6/2019 7:33 am

I would drive a couple hours if it looks rewarding. But I tend to travel a bit to other areas too... so that can open up possibilities..

brow6902 55M
79 posts
7/5/2019 5:08 pm

I have driven for 9hours for a weekend with a sexy woman...was worth every second behind the wheel....but was a long ride home tired from our fun!>>!

SomewhereSE 62M
205 posts
7/5/2019 12:55 pm

I wouldn’t go beyond local (45-60 min) unless we already met in person and had chemistry or more. In my experiences, the greater the distance the bigger a nightmare/disaster it turned out to be. If it’s local it’s not a total waste of time if it goes to shit, there are things to do in the city.

ohhi72 32M
11 posts
7/5/2019 7:31 am

not very far at all

author51 57F  
91969 posts
7/5/2019 5:30 am

I fly to meet but only with the one for me and I them..

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Akinhardon 50M
28 posts
7/5/2019 12:46 am

I'd drive 2-3 hour...max. Roumd trip.

HavTongueWilTrav 64M
6 posts
7/4/2019 10:19 am

I live in Dayton, OH and have flown to Boston once, Denver a few times, have driven to Tenn., Ky., Mich. and, In. a number of times, those were some great weekends too.

dubyavee 39M

7/4/2019 10:05 am

I voted an hour, but would like more to keep it local.

AMfun4meandu 67M
500 posts
7/4/2019 9:12 am

An hour for the first time, BUT if it is good sex and a second time is wanted I'd go a half day travel.

fun4me2find 55M
18 posts
7/4/2019 8:51 am

I voted half a day...but think an hour for a first time weekend....repeat meetings be willing to go farther

LatinoStud2020 28M
18 posts
7/4/2019 6:03 am

I’d drive from 1-3 hours or possibly all day if the sex was worth it!

Havnfn1971 54M

7/4/2019 5:54 am

I may not have picked up on this as I spent more time viewing your pic than reading the question LOL.. As written, if I KNEW I was going to have sex with a woman I liked, I'd go up to 3 hours or so. To meet a member for the first time, I'd limit to an hour since it is fraught with risk of the woman not being who she says, old pics, or maybe the risk of her not liking me after I travel so far. Because of this, I don't see how I would actually know hot woman so far away

ynot57755 62M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:20 am


ynot57755 62M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:18 am

I would love to be able to travel, what ever it takes. Enter the real world. Work 60+ hours a week and with bridges and tolls cashless. It makes so hard to move about discreetly. Yes like most men here (50-75 I am married.

espinete_2011 42M
32 posts
7/4/2019 12:23 am

I don't have a long of time

jolielaide 48F  
1255 posts
7/3/2019 9:21 pm

    Quoting 1Hemiguy1:
    Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

i forgot the question bc i was looking at the profile pic too

dwz5234 67M  
273 posts
7/3/2019 2:52 pm

well i flew to montana. another time i drove all day

Mark35169 42M
53 posts
7/3/2019 2:30 pm

I've driven 450 miles

albaflying 59M  
46 posts
7/3/2019 6:24 am

To meet you, I would go as far as I have to!!

FortFun1018 72M  
37 posts
7/3/2019 5:43 am

3 hour flight. 5 hour drive. Was worth every minute. Planning 4th meeting now.

binlate123 65M  
6 posts
7/3/2019 5:23 am

How ever long it take to meet you for dinner!!!

snowey8 64F  
106 posts
7/2/2019 11:57 pm

yep an hour drive

wantyoufucked 55M
36 posts
7/2/2019 10:40 pm

Up to 2 hours maximum

caleliyan 56M
16 posts
7/2/2019 8:49 pm

Distance no problem for me!

BolivarMOuy 48M
37 posts
7/2/2019 11:40 am

If it's for the weekend and not just the day or night, I think half of a day is acceptable. If it's just for the one day or night an hour or two is more reasonable.

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hrlyridr87 66M  
339 posts
7/2/2019 10:05 am

I like to travel, see new places and meet new people. I would drive half a day to a whole day for a meet with the right lady.

1Hemiguy1 57M
144 posts
7/2/2019 9:23 am

Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

1Hemiguy1 57M
144 posts
7/2/2019 8:55 am

I travel quite a bit for work driving so if it's I'm my territory I'd drive to meet up. If it meant for a weekend or evenings together during the week.

RavenGB 59M
1076 posts
7/2/2019 2:05 am

I think that to meet anybody distant, you'd need to be going there anyway. When you have sanity restored to your domestic politics, I might visit the States to see some of the natural marvels of your country. If I was in contact wth somebody close to my itinarary, I'd be happy to meet for drinks/dinner and take it from there. It is almost impossible to know what somebody is like in person from a virtual interaction, so for both parties, walking away must be possible - to do this after somebody has spent a lot of time and money travelling would be awkward.

Apart from you, what natural wonders does northern Michigan offer ?

redned1963 56M  
61 posts
7/1/2019 7:57 pm

I think the longer the distance the less likely it will
be a repeat

mffdvr57 58M
3 posts
7/1/2019 6:55 pm

I live in the middle of nowhere, I pretty much have to drive a minimum of 2-3 hours to get to anyone but it doesn't really bother me.

OofuncoupleoO 51M
19 posts
7/1/2019 6:01 pm

I flew half way across the country. Brought her back with me. Going on ten years now ❤️

AyneAlAngus 55M

7/1/2019 4:53 pm

I have lots and lots and lots of time. Say when. LOL No, really.

laughwithsinners 58M  
27 posts
7/1/2019 4:08 pm

I think about an hour but even then it depends if I can get the time off

LetFuck204 33M
20 posts
7/1/2019 4:05 pm

If I could get time off work and get a decent plane ticket, I would consider flying.

Luking4129 45F

7/1/2019 3:21 pm

I think it depends on the situation.

Leegs2012 47M
52652 posts
7/1/2019 12:21 pm

Only locals

69ereatwetpussy 57M
3567 posts
7/1/2019 11:26 am

For a weekend i'ld travel half a day. for a few hours a hour drive.

jajo696 65F
1943 posts
7/1/2019 10:49 am

Im interested in ongoing, therefore, its gotta be only local for me.~~

allnitelong2063 56M
215 posts
7/1/2019 9:57 am

I vote a hour!

I_willoralu 45M
1564 posts
7/1/2019 9:34 am

If I really enjoy her company I would go as far as it takes.

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tw04fun330 42M/36F
8 posts
7/1/2019 9:03 am

We are willing to travel for the right people

Showyouinsac 46M
78 posts
7/1/2019 8:27 am

If it’s good I’d fly

matureman004 37M
64 posts
7/1/2019 7:48 am

i am willing to drive for date

Azbear1969 51M
66 posts
7/1/2019 7:30 am

Would easily drive up to a few hours away which I have done in the past.

Dodahsux 63M  
5 posts
7/1/2019 7:06 am

Would drive 2-3 hrs for a weekend if its a sure thing. Been stood up to often by locals to take a chance on much more than that.

funsnellvillecpl 62M/51F  
2252 posts
7/1/2019 4:28 am

We once drove 135 miles to meet someone and got stood up, thats after they pursued us for months . So now we limit it to an hr or maybe a lil more ,

Userneeded 31M

7/1/2019 3:53 am

More so only locals, but if im traveling for work for examlle then where ever i am.

48jenny 66T  
35 posts
7/1/2019 3:46 am

If one clicks distance for me isn't a problem.

66hardandready9 36M  
4 posts
6/30/2019 11:22 pm

distance isnt a big deal when meeting a matched mind set

passingthrough98 65M  
14 posts
6/30/2019 11:18 pm

would depend on the date and what was going on. I would drive 3 to 4 hours for the right weekend fun

gdguygil2 57M
35 posts
6/30/2019 10:58 pm

Each situation is different, but closer to home is better.

Nicolecd1966 53T  
59 posts
6/30/2019 8:18 pm

I have went as far as 3 hours, but that was for bringing in the New Year. So I voted for the hour, though 2 hours isn't to bad either. I haven't traveled below the bridge where you are yet, but have had offers!!

Superman4695 35M
150 posts
6/30/2019 7:22 pm

For a whole weekend if I find her hot and it was guaranteed I might drive about 500 miles. I'd have to be quite sure about the situation to invest that much time and $$$ (gas isn't cheap these days). Mostly 200 miles would be my limit. She'd have to be worth the extra

390 posts
6/30/2019 7:21 pm

I have driven for over 10 hours to met for a 3 day weekend of sex. It was not a one time thing for I have made that trip several times in the past years. We still keep in touch.Those weekends were fantastic sexual pleasures.

gentlelovrjust4u 62M  
166 posts
6/30/2019 7:03 pm

I am not really interested in one time flings. I would drive a couple of hours to meet with someone that might be interested in a semi regular get together though

Stevvebm69 57M
8 posts
6/30/2019 11:56 am

I have flown cross country for a hookup. Was worth the trip. No I go twice a year. It’s for “work” after all. Lol

Blueyedguy823 53M  
347 posts
6/30/2019 7:48 am

I have flown to meet someone. They were in a cool place so I figured if it was a complete bust I could go distract myself with other things. BUT... usually with an hour or two is the preferred travel time.

CleavageFan4U 63M  
61215 posts
6/30/2019 6:29 am

I once drove 7 hours for a 3 day weekend. But she was a blogger-babe that I "knew" even though we'd never met, so it wasn't all that risky.

We were joking about how long it would take us to get nekkid after meeting, so I changed the game by greeting her at the hotel room door nekkid - YUP, the first time she saw me in person I was totally nekkid!

Our three day weekend ultimately turned in to four.

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dell9600 63M  
856 posts
6/30/2019 6:23 am

My lady and I live a 3 hr drive apart. Kinda sucks sometimes, but we do really enjoy our time together when we get to see each other.

candylicker_6t9 58M
317 posts
6/30/2019 5:19 am

If it's truly glorious I'll sail the seven seas.

seems6666 49F  
3700 posts
6/30/2019 5:15 am

I voted for an hour, a hour and a half max. Then if the meet isn't that great, you can get away quick!!

dogslife2live01 68M
1855 posts
6/30/2019 5:01 am

usually half hour...but for you i would go to the far ends of the earth

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Shyguynyc5 43M
68 posts
6/30/2019 4:40 am

Here in New York ,especially Long Island ... a hr is still kinda local .

backpocket13 43M
8739 posts
6/30/2019 4:32 am

Hey Chill,
.........I try to stay as local as possible if I decide to meet with someone, which is seldom,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13

sexyldy1000 59F  
4923 posts
6/30/2019 4:31 am

When mutual desire and interest exists, distance has never been an issue

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.
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avg_nice_guy 52M  
248 posts
6/30/2019 3:58 am

living alone with a dog makes getting away for anything impossible lolol

LetsChillax 53F

6/30/2019 3:49 am

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