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Well, I don't know if that was such a smart title but what the hell... I am not really sure where to begin or where this blog will take me.
I guess I should start with a little more about myself than I put on my profile. I like to put my thoughts to paper so to speak and at times I a sure I will offend. But I don't really care, opinions are like assholes and everyone has one.
With that said I welcome any and all comments just remember that I have the right to return comment and most likely will.
I have been told that I am passionate, quirky, loving and funny and oh yeah moody. Am I well to find out you will have to get to know me. I am real and if you don't think so well then move on sucka your wasting me time. Alot of the times my blogs will be about my life activities, especially sex but occasionally I may blog about something like I don't know erotica. I am a very sexual person and I am not ashamed of that, if I were why would I be on "The World's Largest Sex..." you get the picture. Oh and also, although I don't know why I am wasting my time because the assholes usually don't read blogs, but if I am not interested that means I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!!
I look forward to meeting some fun people here and hope i won't be disappointed.
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Its been a while
Posted:Apr 2, 2020 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2020 10:20 pm
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Its been a while since I have posted but this I feel needs be said...

I AM NOT MEETING ANYONE AT THIS TIME!

The sheer fact that I have say this every person who contacts right now blows my mind! We are in a fucking pandemic! WE ARE IN A SHELTER AT HOME ORDER!

If you are that fucking thirsty you will NOT be meeting me EVER! I know that I am not what everyone finds attractive so don't worry.

But for the love of god! Go pull a few off in your favorite sock and stop trying to get me to meet!

So for the one''s in the back...

Don't bother asking to meet because we a not going to meet.

Why...
If you have to ask why your are an idiot and your dick is not the good!
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Condoms
Posted:Aug 11, 2017 7:28 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2017 8:32 pm
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In this day in age I am still surprised at how many men have issues with condoms.

With so many STDs out there I'm surprised at how many men still won't use a condom. I know it feels different than skin on skin bareback Etc but how many of you can honestly say that you were truly clean? I know the test for STDs is not the most comfortable one for guys LOL Having a swab stuck in the head of your penis does not sound like fun to me! But too many men assume they're clean and don't know that they have anything until they pass it on to another woman. I have a friend who got not one but two STDs from a guy who thought he was clean. After she told him that she thought she gave them to him. His attitude was it's all good didn't bother to get tested. She later learnef she got them from hom, necausecof the timeframe. She hadn't had sex in over 6 months. That just blows my mind! So he could be going around giving other girls STDs and to me that's just being uncaring and ignorant!
I WILL NOT BE WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS ISSUE WITH CONDOMS! Some guys get defensive and say I'm clean, but that does not sit well with me. Unless you can go to your personal health care provider and prove to me that you haven't had sex between the time that you had your swab and blood test done and got your results back. Then you don't honestly know if you're clean. Often unfortunately people will get an STD and not notify their partners. Either out of embarrassment or the fact that they've had so many or don't know who all their partners are. This is not an anyway being judgemental, I have been to a few parties and have slept with men and women and I don't know their numbers or addresses or any other personal information only their names. But condoms were used and I was tested after the fact. I too would have been in trouble if I came up positive for something because I wouldn't know what women to contact or how to contact them.

So can anyone tell me what their thoughts are on the use of condoms and what they do if someone will not use one? I for one will walk away from a sex partner if they a have issue using a condom or flat-out refuse to use one.
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Missing him
Posted:Jul 31, 2017 7:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2017 11:48 am
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I woke up this morning missing him more than usual.
So I reached into my nightstand for my vibe. Not wanting to move too much and alert the dogs. I quietly turned it on and slid it between my legs.
The vibrating causing my clit to tingle a the thought. When I found my clit, my pussy was soaked with anticipation. I changed the setting to low and allowed the excitment to build. Not wanting to cum too soon, I slid it down to my wet inviting pussy. Taking in every throbbing moment, arching with pleasure. Holding tight on to the vibrator so not to lose momentum. I pull it out soaking the sheets and bring it up to my clit. Enjoying the motion, feeling the ridgidness, I set it to max. My legs stiffen, almost losing feeling. I cum so hard, I want to let out a moan but know I can't.
Laying in a puddle, body shaking and tingling. I think, "go again..."
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Friend request
Posted:May 30, 2017 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2017 7:11 am
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In the past few months I've been getting more friend requests than what I would consider normal.
Has,this been happening to anyone else?
I don't accept a friend request very often and when I do, I find myself removing them shortly after. Has something changed here to promote this?
Why do some people have over 100 friends? Do they just accept a request without question? Do they not remove the dead weight? Do they not know how? Why would you want so many friends?
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Obliatory Fuck
Posted:Mar 12, 2017 6:20 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2017 6:03 pm
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Have you ever had someone help you out with the situation and you felt the need to sleep with them?

Lately I have been getting help from different people with things that I normally wouldn't have gotten help with. And as grateful as I am for their help,part of me felt like if they had propositioned me I would have taken them up on it out of obligation.

Of course none of them propositioned me thank God. And I honestly don't think I would have taken them up on it. But just the thought of the obligation did cross my mind. I don't know if I was just feeling so grateful that someone helps me that somewhere in my mind I felt like that was what I needed to do if it was requested period or if I was just getting so damn horny from not having sex in 4 months LOL

Has anyone else had a situation like this? I did have a friend who go things done around her house thru bartering sexual favors. I think that may fall under pandering...

Any thoughts?
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Geographically challenged
Posted:Jan 16, 2017 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2017 6:45 am
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How many others have run into this problem? You live in an area but everyone that you sent to connect with or from another totally different area basically a 35 minutes to an hour or more apart.

When I lived in Boulder Colorado everyone always said to me oh there must be a lot of nice college guys there looking to have fun. Well the problem is yes there is a lot of college guys most likely looking to have fun but they also didn't understand certain situations. Since I've moved to Kansas I've heard the comment all there must be a lot of horny Army Guys near you because I live so close to an Army Post. The fact of the matter is, that although there are a lot of army guys here they are all so lonely so they find young women to marry. Or live in the barracks and either can't afford to or are too cheap to get a room to hook up.

I for one, do not host at my place for a number of reasons. Also the guys that I seem to encounter here don't understand that meeting in public means meeting at a coffee shop or something of the like. Not meeting in the parking lot of Walmart LOL. I understand people have Financial constraints etc but one of my deal breakers is if you can't host you get a room if not then we're not going to meet.

So back to the geographical difficulties I know I've spoken to other people who have had the same issues how many of you that read my blogs had that concern like I said when I lived in Colorado I lived in Boulder and Longmont but always seem to meet people that lives in Denver or Colorado Springs if you know anything about the geography of Colorado then you know that Denver is 45 minutes to an hour from Boulder Colorado Springs is even farther. Now that I'm here in Kansas it's the same thing people I talk to seem to be much farther away, as far as Nebraska which apparently isn't as far as I thought LOL

My question is what do you do? Do you bite the bullet and come out to meet someone that far of a distance knowing that you may not hook up or do you move on have you drove a distance to meet someone and it worked out have you driven to meet someone and it's been a total train wreck?

So come on guys let me know what year what your experiences have been and what is it why are we also geographically challenged?
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Unsolicited dick pics
Posted:Nov 11, 2016 11:40 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2016 6:19 pm
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On several occasions I've heard women complaining about getting unsolicited dick pics. So I have a few questions ladies are you more offended if you get a dick pic from a site like this or if it comes from another site that's more benign? Would you get more offended if you got a dic pic on a site such as match because it's more a geared towards relationships and dating as opposed to sex or doesn't matter at all?
I myself don't get offended per se but it makes me wonder what goes through guys heads when they send you a pic of your dick and not their face. I don't mind seeing what the potential has but I really would like to see what they look like as well.

So guys why is it that you do send pictures of your penis is without being asked? I did recently read an article about a great comeback a woman had written to a guy who sent her a dick pic. At times I thought about sending out something similar to it to guys who sent dick pics. I'm not talking about guys who have pictures of their penises already on their profiles out in the open where anyone can see I'm referring to the guys who may not have any pictures at all on their profile but the first picture they send you before they even say hello is of their penis or if you ask if they have a picture that's what they send us a picture of their penis as opposed to their face.

So does anyone have any answers or can it anyone care to comment on why you would send a dick pic to someone? Again I'm not complaining I'm just asking out of curiosity and to learn why certain people behave the way they do.

Here's a sample of the reply that I have come up with:

Thank you for your recent submission of your penis picture. There are several other candidates that I am currently viewing. So please be patient, and I will get back to you as soon as I've made my decision.

So guys, how would you react if you receive that as a reply to sending a dick pic?
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So many thoughts
Posted:Nov 6, 2016 8:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2020 10:20 pm
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Post yet it's been awhile since I've been on here and I have so many thoughts going through my head.

I guess I'll start with being what they consider a BBW big beautiful woman. I don't really like that title but I guess it is what it is. I often wonder if men think women who are large or big are desperate for love and sex... for me and the few that I know it's quite the contrary being big for me is a fact of life it's not something I'm proud of or I'd like but it's just something I deal with. I am actually quite confident in myself and know what I want and will not settle for less. I have my standards and choose to stand by them, but sometimes some of the emails I get from guys makes me wonder.

One guy I asked him for a face pic and once he sent it and I told him I wasn't interested, he told me it wasn't his real pic. Who does something like that? I still talk to him but I am not investing much effort in meeting him.

Don't consider myself shallow but I do know that I need to have a physical connection prior to meeting. I know guys are the same way they are very visual so I don't really put much thought into it or emotion when I asked. I don't ask or say I'm not interested to hurt people's feelings I just expect the same from them. Why waste anyone's time if there is no attraction or interest.

I guess the next song on my mind is the new changes that the site has made. They have made it very difficult for standard members to engage other members. Does anyone else question the new guidelines for standard members? I have researched other sites and found one that is somewhat comparable to this site but don't feel comfortable using it I've been on this site for quite a while and as long as I am still a gold member will stay here.

Back to the guy with the fake pic. I'm sure many men get girls who send fake pics and then when they meet they realize they were duped. I have had a couple occasions where are the pictures did not quite match the person I thought I was meeting. Mainly they seem to have old pictures they sent your post. I tried to update my pics at least once a year LOL how about everyone else do you update your pics? Has anyone used fake pics? What was the reason for using a fake pic comma did it turn out good or bad for you? I myself would be too afraid to use a fake pic and then actually meet someone in person knowing that I was not that person they saw. If you met someone who used to fake pic what did you say to them? What was your reaction? Did you still go through with hooking up?

Well I'm sure I'm at my limit for this blog so once I get my thoughts together I will start another one
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So many thoughts
Posted:Nov 6, 2016 8:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2020 10:20 pm
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Post yet it's been awhile since I've been on here and I have so many thoughts going through my head.

I guess I'll start with being what they consider a BBW big beautiful woman. I don't really like that title but I guess it is what it is. I often wonder if men think women who are large or big are desperate for love and sex... for me and the few that I know it's quite the contrary being big for me is a fact of life it's not something I'm proud of or I'd like but it's just something I deal with. I am actually quite confident in myself and know what I want and will not settle for less. I have my standards and choose to stand by them, but sometimes some of the emails I get from guys makes me wonder.

One guy I asked him for a face pic and once he sent it and I told him I wasn't interested, he told me it wasn't his real pic. Who does something like that? I still talk to him but I am not investing much effort in meeting him.

Don't consider myself shallow but I do know that I need to have a physical connection prior to meeting. I know guys are the same way they are very visual so I don't really put much thought into it or emotion when I asked. I don't ask or say I'm not interested to hurt people's feelings I just expect the same from them. Why waste anyone's time if there is no attraction or interest.

I guess the next song on my mind is the new changes that the site has made. They have made it very difficult for standard members to engage other members. Does anyone else question the new guidelines for standard members? I have researched other sites and found one that is somewhat comparable to this site but don't feel comfortable using it I've been on this site for quite a while and as long as I am still a gold member will stay here.

Back to the guy with the fake pic. I'm sure many men get girls who send fake pics and then when they meet they realize they were duped. I have had a couple occasions where are the pictures did not quite match the person I thought I was meeting. Mainly they seem to have old pictures they sent your post. I tried to update my pics at least once a year LOL how about everyone else do you update your pics? Has anyone used fake pics? What was the reason for using a fake pic comma did it turn out good or bad for you? I myself would be too afraid to use a fake pic and then actually meet someone in person knowing that I was not that person they saw. If you met someone who used to fake pic what did you say to them? What was your reaction? Did you still go through with hooking up?

Well I'm sure I'm at my limit for this blog so once I get my thoughts together I will start another one
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Pictures on profiles
Posted:Jan 30, 2016 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2016 12:03 pm
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What catches your eye, makes you want to view/contact someone:
Classy peek a boo, not showing all
Full frontal- showing tits and pussy
Face pics
Full body pics nude
Full body clothed
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auto reply for instant message
Posted:Aug 13, 2015 9:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2015 8:44 am
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Would anyone else like to see an auto reply for instant messenger? I don't know how many times i responded to a chat only to find the writer was interested in something I was not.

I know instant messenger is one of the few ways standard members can contact others and try to be understanding. But it gets annoying.

To me this is a big waste of my time, and trust me, being a woman I get a lot of messages and feel these guys time is being wasted as well. I have gotten to the point where my first response is, "hello, I'm not into the following..." It sounds a bit harsh but I'm just done with wasting time to the point that I ignore messages. I know its difficult for guys in general to get a woman to respond and don't really like ignoring people. But what choice do I have?

Does anyone think there needs to be some type of intro or info they can read prior to contact? Or am I alone?
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If you are patient enough you will get your answer
Posted:Mar 29, 2015 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2015 12:57 pm
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Lately I have been toying with the idea of being in a relationship. This is something I thought long and hard about. But in the end decided its not the right time for me.

I don't really have the time or maybe don't want to make the time. Either way I am satisfied with my decision.

I was really beginning to feel that pull to find someone who fit my needs and wants.
Thought about dropping off this site for a while too, just to determine if I was using it as a distraction to what I was truly searching for...

Even started to freak myself out with the way my feelings for boy toy were leaning!
I am beginning to develop deeper feelings for him. But I am also happy with our situation the way it is. It does continually loom over my head that what we have can end at any moment and that does make me sad but I know I will move on from what ever emotional disaster may occur.

The true realization came a few days ago. A friend of mine recently returned from a 9 month deployment and as much as I want to spend time with him. I just don't seem to have it! It made me realize that if I really wanted to spend time with anyone I would find a way. Now don't get me wrong. I love spending time with this man! So much so that I visit with him for hours. But it always seems lately that with any time I think of planning something. Something else comes up and takes precedence.

I told my tonight I really need to find a distraction from boy toy but don't see it happening because I am so busy with everything else. We started working on the house and yard. I am starting up a work out routine with my and -in law. I had started then got nasty sick. (no bueno). And between working both jobs, I really don't have much time to involve a romance.
Now the challenge will be leave time to play!

Until I am better that is also on the back burner...
I do wonder if I am too busy because of my feelings for boy toy or just too busy in general. But then I remember he is in Colorado and we have separate lives.
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Body image my struggle
Posted:Mar 22, 2015 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2015 9:07 pm
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I was recently on chat IM here with a 56 yr old guy. Now keep in mind this is past my maximum age limit but I thought, " what the hell don't be closed minded and explore your horizons." I didn't see a face picture of him so all I had to go off of was his personality. This for me comes easily, since I try not to judge people solely on their looks.

He seemed like an ok guy, he was a standard member so after a few shared messages he asked for a few pics. I hesitantly sent one of me in a black dress. He said, he like curvy women and then asked me, "How big are you?"
My thought, and response were, "What do you mean?"
His response, " I don't mind curvy women, but I don't like fat women who have skin hanging in front of their pussy, it makes it hard to get in."
I was taken aback by this, partially because I have lost weight and do have an apron of skin that hangs down and will always have that unless my fairy god mother pops in to give me the money it will take to have it removed! I told him that I have that, I have lost weight and am continuing to lose weight,and I was done talking to him, he was obviously looking for something else. He continued to try and talk to me telling me I seem like a really nice lady, etc.
I was so upset that I just blocked him before I said anything I would regret.

I understand that I am not everyone's type, hell I even have that comment in my profile but damn if I don't get the guys that know right where to stick that knife!

I had to assure myself that he was JUST ONE GUY! But the talk didn't work so well. it took some time to pull myself out of the funk. I had to remember that I have been seeing a guy in Colorado for three years know who knows and accepts me for all my bumps and warts. I have a guy or two here as well.
I also sat down and thought, he can't reach my pussy???? Does he have a 3 inch dick? Does he not like to be ridden? What about doggy style? I just had to shake my head and shake him off.

It also made come to the realization that quite possibly the reason I don't keep the weight of is because of past hurtful relationships. Perhaps I stay fat to keep a wall up around myself, to prevent anyone from getting in, getting too close. Its sooo easy to blame my weight for guys not wanting to be with me.
Because of this realization I am scheduling an appointment with my doctor to discuss this and my eating disorder that has seemed to rear its ugly head again.
Hopefully with some help I will be able to come to terms with myself and be able to open up once again.

Folks I am very cautious about who I meet for numerous reasons, but I do not reject someone because of their looks alone. I truly do try to see beyond that thing that I may find unattractive. Now don't get me wrong, I will not be with someone if I don't feel the chemistry is there but that has more to do with physiological circumstances.

How many out there reading this have struggled with body image? Do you have instances to share? I am not asking to call anyone out for their lack of tact, or ability to see their actions hurt. Just wondering if I am a minority in this...

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