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19 posts
12/25/2014 12:08 am
What is the deal here?

Girls...do you get stood up at an unusual rate?
Or is it just me?
I can find no pattern in the guys that stand me up? It is all different ages from 20s to 40. First time dates, guys that I have gone out with 6 or 7 months?
Thank God I have never been stood up in public! Why? Bc about 4 hours from the date I always text and say "Are we still on for 6? [or whenever we are meeting for dinner/drinks]". If no response, I say fk it. And half of these guys text me a few days later like nothing happened. I always ask them "So what's the deal?!??" and they will say something like 'oh, I got busy'

Guys...do you deal with standups?

Is it the same on regular dating sites? I dont know bc I dont belong to any and my friends aren't either [all married off, etc].

veryjuicykitten 26F
105 posts
12/25/2014 12:24 am

Sounds like the guys who don't reply about meeting, yet text a few days later want 'control' of you...if a guy didn't return my call about a meet, I would block them so they didn't get the opportunity to be nonchalent later on

MAKEUPLOSTIME replies on 1/18/2015 9:04 pm:
Thanks Kitty!

pytimesx 60M
941 posts
12/25/2014 3:38 pm

I'm not a girl but there are two measurable metrics that can be used to determine why people flake ( outside the Elasticity of Flakes on the Site )

Her Interest Retention Rate and Personality Consistency Rate.

MAKEUPLOSTIME replies on 12/27/2014 4:02 am:


12/27/2014 3:59 am

Y'all I do appreciate the feedback. Makes me feel a little better. I am cracking up over the 'jerking off in their pillow' comment!!


1/18/2015 9:07 pm

I have never ever thought of that!! But it makes so much sense. I am a softie polite person and always give everyone in life a second chance. Then they pull the same shit??! CONTROL - yup a lot of people will do anything for it I guess?! WOW


2/4/2015 1:58 pm

Be more direct if u still have any feelings about the situation DecadentDonovan ?! lol

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