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Miisyme 55F
35 posts
7/11/2016 5:12 am
i'm back, who'll join me?

well, that was fun. was in a relationship for a few months so was away from here. but it all got heavy and serious so here i am, single and ready to mingle again! who is up for joining me? I'm not getting any younger and i have so many things i want to do and explore. how can i have got to 50 and not had a MFM? or been to a club with a partner?

but strangely enough i am more confident and able to say what i want now than i ever could at 20 or 30. life is too short to put up with bad sex, i had 20 years of that in my marriage, don't want to go back there again.

i recently read a report that said heterosexual men are bad at sex as they are not taught it correctly in school. that they couldn't find a clit even if shown a diagrammed. and they are taught that their orgasm is the end game for sex. do you all think that is true? or are there some guys who genuinely put a woman's pleasure first and not just say it?

jamousf 44M
1 post
8/25/2016 5:32 am

life is too short for bad sex....

porterpiper1 53F
3767 posts
8/13/2016 8:50 pm

Most of us on here, where told sex was bad unless you are married, no wonder we have such perverted minds, lol, most of us learn about sex with porn, I had my first orgasm when I was 28, it sad but true. We are learning much more now that we are older and sex is no longer taboo, I wish I could have know this pleasure when I was a lot younger

Kalbi54 65M  
1225 posts
7/16/2016 7:05 am

In a word, YES

sexstarvedme1966 53M
360 posts
7/12/2016 8:35 am

The trouble is that sex is "dirty" and not talked about. I remember growing up I was well into my teens before I found out that girls could masturbate, too. I honestly didn't know that they could and certainly didn't know how!

Sex ed at school was purely that the man puts his penis into the woman's vagina and moves it backwards and forwards until he ejaculates. That was it. The rest of it was pure biology. No mention that sex was fun or that the woman could orgasm, too. As for the clitoris... not even a mention other than as a label on a diagram.

When you combine the two things together, it is not surprising that men have no clue. I learned so much from my first gf who was quite particular that we both have fun. But it was not until my late teens that I fully understood how to make sure that a woman came too.

I do know that now half, or more, of my fun is the enjoyment of my partner. I love oral sex and being able to make her push my head away from her suddenly very sensitive parts. But even then, I don't think that she has had her turn and so now it is mine. It is still very much a partnership of pleasure. if it were not, then I'd just be using her vagina to masturbate with, and I am many years past when I did that.

hotenjoyment 59M
5 posts
7/11/2016 5:56 am

I don't know what's wrong with me. The woman's pleasure has always been first in my mind. After I know she has cum, though, it is all about my pleasure.

charlio71 75M
596 posts
7/11/2016 5:37 am

I don't know about most men. To me sex is not good unless my lady is truly satisfied. I love when she guides me, she is my only priority. You will find a man whom will put your needs first. 51 is not old, take your time and don't settle for less than what you want!

I believe nothing until it has become history!

mrlovr59 63M
320 posts
7/11/2016 5:31 am

And then there's those of us who know how to make a woman look at their lover and say what did you do? As they're still quivering....

Ienjoythetaste 71M
2570 posts
7/11/2016 5:30 am

There are always reports being done on everything. They are very much like statistics and are slanted to get the required answer.

Sure there are man who only look at gratifying themselves but there are many more who genuinely like to please there partners.

As to needing a diagram for the clit what about a woman's other sweet spots?

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ClassicFriction 58M
886 posts
7/11/2016 5:24 am

They're teaching sex in schools? That never happened
when I was in school! I had to learn by trial and error.

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