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Posted:Jul 9, 2016 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2017 5:43 pm
For those of you who are standard members, here is a glimpse of my profile as I KEEP getting asked the same questions, over and over. Becoming quite cumbersome.


No picture, no response, period.

I rarely reply to "Hey there,"Hey sexy," hey beautiful" or things of that nature. Would you speak to your or your mom like that!?!?

NO traveling MEN. NO interest. Absolute.

I will not cam. I don't and won't. PLEASE don't ask!

I do believe one's screen name states a lot about them.

Charismatic, professional, sapiosexual, confident, and exciting individual. I am very diverse and intelligent. I don't take myself too seriously, and I'm the first one to laugh at myself. I love to laugh and entertain everyone around me. There's never a dull moment with me. I don't take people or situations for granted. I am kind, and I don't judge. Although, I am somewhat shy, I tend to open up and gravitate towards people of interest, quirky huh?

I have some kink's that I'd like to explore more. I am truly a bisexual woman.

Being on this site for a bit now, I have learned that I can get attached very quickly and easily (especially to more dominate women). Regardless, I will take my time getting to know you, so we are aware that the situation is right for all involved, in particular with a couple. Trying to be a bit ambiguous this time around.

It seems that my online status shows I am online, but I am not. It also indicates that I viewed profiles that I haven't. Accusations include being a , stripper (which isn't a bad thing), tease, fake even thou I have a verified photo and video) and much more. All I can say is, I don't personally care what you think. I am who I am. My profile = my rules. I will take every precaution to protect myself and . Please pass me by if you're not willing to be patient. I am a true woman who's selective (you should be too) and worth the time it may take to get to know me.

PLEASE, NO MILLENNIALS. Just a too big of a gap in ways of thinking!

Worth mentioning:
-NO men under 38, period. End of story.
-Never, EVER any traveling men.
-I usually never meet people close to my "backyard". Too much to risk.
-Looking for a hit and run (all genders)? Not the woman for you.
-Your profile should contain something worth reading aside for your sexual need/want/desire.
-I will not cam. I don't and won't. PLEASE don't ask!

My Ideal Person/s

My interest lies in people with a good sense of humor and a high degree of intelligence. Educated, articulate, sexy, passionate and playful. Please be somewhat fit and in shape as I take care of myself (no offense intended).

Something long-term with women then couples and lastly A (single/unattached/NOT FW male.

Not into men with bushy facial hair, long hair, hunting, fishing, motorcycles or racing. Just isn't my thing. Go-T's can be very sexy (especially with salt and pepper).

No need to write me more than once, not necessary. Like all women on this site, I get a quite a bit of email. Please be patient, if we have common interests, you are assured a reply. Please consider a "no reply" as a "kind" no thank you.

I do have facial pictures to share with people of interest. I will share my apps with people of interest.

Side note:
I rarely reply to "Hey there,"hey sexy," hey beautiful" or things of that nature. Would you speak to your or your mom like that!?!? Even if you start an email jokingly like that, you will most likely be blocked. Yes, I have an incredible sense of humor and a ridiculous sense of humor (dry as it may be, mostly tongue in cheek -try and keep up-).

-SINGLE men-
Here's your very own special section. Hope you're paying attention. Take the time and read and re-read my profile. There are plenty of hints to my desire/want/needs. For starters, if you start out with something I have expressed in my profile, you are guaranteed no response. I am not here for small talk as I am interested in getting to know people. Unless you have my personal information, please don't just check up on me. A bit sassy, maybe. I have no "set" specific of what I dislike/like in SM, however, I tend to be drawn to shorter (must be confident as I am taller and wear heels), stocky, and confident men as well as taller, bulkier (NOT too bulky) men. Usually, the in between men are out, sorry. I know one extreme to the next. Tattoos a plus. Salt and pepper hair? I am probably already a bit "moist" while talking to you. Jeans with no shirt, you win. Jeans with no shirt with salt and pepper hair, I'm in big trouble (she said with a wicked evil grin).

For even more about me, please see this blog: A personal side of MissCarpeDiem

Some photos you standards can't view:

Fascination with play pictures? Yay or Nay?
Posted:Jul 9, 2016 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2017 5:43 pm

Fascination with play pictures? Yay or Nay? Circumstantial?

For me (opinion, only):
Main profile play picture: BIG no no.
Soft profile play pictures: sure, why not. (love the erotic ones)
Play pictures in hidden/private albums are my preference.

Huge turn off (although, not related to this poll), is seeing people with multiple partners and not exercising safe sex. Eek!

Play pictures, yes? In profile.
Play pictures, no? In profile.
Private play pictures, yes? Hidden/private album?
Private play pictures, no? Hidden/private album?
Private play pictures, yes? Friends only album?
Private play pictures, no? Friends only album?
Main PROFILE play pictures deal breaker?
6 Comments , 56 votes
Wondering why no reply!?!? 1st edition..
Posted:May 27, 2016 10:47 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2017 10:28 am
I had written quite a long post about this, then decided to let the images speak for themselves....

I think I was rather nice in the reply to him, actually!

--Time of emails.
--Minutes between emails.

Please do tell me if I am wrong?

It seems that someone has reported the image of the email trail and has been removed.​ ​Doesn't surprise me.

Here is the email trail in text form:

Question for you?

5/27/2016 2:27 am

Listen, I get if you are not attracted to me, but its the fact that you can't even give a response! Ok, so I read your profile, so to preach the whole interested in a person who is intelligent, and to not even grant a person the respect of a honest response! Well, add the word ignorant to your profile! Considering you are a master in the art of ignorance! Goodnight!

5/27/2016 2:44 am

Nice, judging someone without knowing her situation or responsibilities. Additionally, I have hundreds of emails to "sift" through. Yep, I am the ignorant one. Here's your response you requested, "NOT INTERESTED!" Shame on you, sending a "dick" picture without taking the time actually to write me an email. I can only assume that you email ALL women in that fashion. ANY intelligent woman would read right through your bait of, "Question for you?". Obviously, YOU HAVENT read my profile because I specifically state I am NOT seeking NSA /FWB situations. I am VERY clear on that. That being said, why in the world would I respond to you? Get real. STOP using "texting" language in your profile. Write something that actually has something to do with you instead of sex and what you are seeking. I will leave you with ONE simple word even YOU can understand, "BLOCKED!".
To blog or not to blog?
Posted:May 24, 2016 10:16 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2017 6:13 pm

I have decided to start a blogging (inspired by a lovely member) about my time here on AdultFriendFinder. I am hoping to answer questions that I get asked over and over (sometimes by the same people), post ridiculous emails I receive and some replies, my thoughts on several subjects, member profiles and anything else that comes to mind. Hoping people actually read (seems to be a less used attribute on this site) to get the answers to the most common questions asked of me. I understand this is a public forum and would happy to address questions received but remember, this is my blog. I reserve the right to choose not to answer or acknowledge.

I am pretty confident that there will be quite a few derogatory comments and remarks. I will gladly leave your posts up as you have the right to your opinion. Remember, though, this is a public forum, people will perceive and make assumptions based on your posts as I am guessing you have initially to trigger a response to mine.

I gather the question remains, what do you all think?

Keep the blog or ditch the blog?

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