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Dead Bedroom  

MisterXTC1000 55M
10 posts
11/20/2019 5:15 am
Dead Bedroom


So not sure how to state this really. Been in a Dead Bedroom situation for the past 5 years. Other than the lack of or really no sex the realationship is pretty normal if you would call it that. I need some sex and anything that i do to try and make my significant other feel sexy doesnt work. Not sure if that is ever going to change and or if I can deal with that for the rest of my life. I really enjoy sex and have been deprived for some time now. The last attempt I was told to go downtown and get a ???? What the hell does that even mean? Oh well enough ramblings. Our sex life used to be great and even somewhat crazy from having sex in a bathroom on a crowded island near by to sex in the car now nothing. Any suggestions? If anyone even reads these damn things.

1seeking1 54F
2868 posts
12/2/2019 3:13 pm

Well that does not sound good. This conversation has to between the two of you. I left my sexless marriage with two young kids in two. Perhaps two of you should sit down and talk, maybe mention your profile here ?


author51 57F  
86374 posts
1/23/2020 6:27 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Well that does not sound good. This conversation has to between the two of you. I left my sexless marriage with two young kids in two. Perhaps two of you should sit down and talk, maybe mention your profile here ?
I agree here..Communication is key and when there is no sex, something is wrong with the partner who is not into it as much anymore.. Can not stress enough open and honest communication..Are there any medical issues maybe? She is at the age of menopause if within your age limit..That plays a huge part in a woman's sex drive.. Been there, done that myself.. Sometimes it is that they are just not happy with themselves maybe or lack self esteem and being secure...Just some thoughts here...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


alibaba6919 59M
13 posts
2/7/2020 1:51 pm

we all in the same boat LOVEless BOAT good luck to you


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