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MsJaneBondage 50F  
197 posts
1/23/2020 9:28 am
Catfishing with a dick pic?

Ok.... just had a thought!

Someone who has nothing but dick and body pics (good looking) sent me a face pic. OMG! So very unattractive... and I’m being very honest and upfront with no malicious intent.

Yes... I need to be attracted to the face and body cause my intent is to have a lot of kissing while fucking and be visually stimulated as well as physically stimulated.

I just can’t imagine fucking the guy. I may sound shallow, but I need to be attracted to someone by more that their physique. So, are guys with dick pics catfishing?

MsJaneBondage 50F  
135 posts
3/6/2020 8:48 am

I have loads of pics of guys that dhon'tshow dick pics, and if a guy wants to fuck, I have to know what he looks like. There might be one or two women on here that will fuck anything and anybody, but do you really want to take the risk in fucking them? Sounds like a trip to STD land.
However, I have talked with some guys who have great bodies, and once they send me their face, oh hell no. If I can't see myself kissing the guy, I certainly can't fuck him.
No one is saying put your face on your profile but you should at least expose your face when you are triying to get laid. It mght just bring more luck. xoxo

y0u0nmyface 35M
14 posts
3/6/2020 7:23 am

Some people have to be discreet so maybe wont send face pics
For thoae more interested in appearances apps like bumble require a face pic.. #justsayin

BiggLala 48F  
28212 posts
1/23/2020 6:23 pm

Or, could it have not been his dick and body, they didn't seem to match.
-I figured this is what you *meant*. Looks good separately, but the picture doesn't "fit" when all put together.

Yes, some guys do catfish with cock and/or body pics. I think they think all women want huge monster cocks so they use Internet cock pics (probably [gay] porn stars) and models. Then...yeah...the face is that of a non-athletic person; jowls, more than one chin, etc.

I don't have to have a dude that looks like Thor or Captain America. However, I do require truth in advertising.

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MsJaneBondage replies on 1/24/2020 12:03 am:
You are absolutely correct. I’ve been with a Thor and Brad Putt look-a-likes and they were no different or better than the James Gandolfini guy I had a bit of a crush on. It’s not always about looks, and character and charisma okay a huge roll. But... I have my limits and I’m not about to vet my time in anyone that I don’t feel like kissing from a first glance.
I’m a habitual swipe lefter.

MsJaneBondage 50F  
135 posts
1/23/2020 5:13 pm

Ok, so I'll resond to all in in one comment:

Butterface is being too nice in some situations. Maybe a face only a mother can love? However, it's not about judging their looks either, it's just that they are not my type visuaally. Add in a personality, it may only help to create a new frriendship as I love people that are genuine and kind. I don't need the perfect guy in body and face and character, personality, attitude, intelligence, and at least decent looking, actually makes a guy super attractive. Just don't lie to me to get me to meet.

Catfishing is used in this post more as a term for hiding their real identity. And yes, after several emails (invested time) the guy finally sent a pic. Could it have been his face Or, could it have not been his dick and body, they didn't seem to match.

So what I will now call Dogfishing is using particular body features, (men & women) to create interest only to get bamboozled by an image completely different. And superbjversion2 is absoutely correct but in this case, he was dogfishing either by using a super old pic, or his face was that of a very very large man.

LOL superbjversion2, a detachable penis? I've got a drawer full of those.

The way I see it is that he lied. The way you do one thing in life is the way you do everything in life. You lie to get me to talk to you, you will lie about everything else after that. And if you aren't lying after that, the trust has already flown out the door.

Great Names: Schmecklefishinng, Tuna Fishing, Din-A-Linging, or just plain Phishing is what it is, and those that practice it, are never going to get what they seek.

Yes, I heard the stories about the women posting old pics and showing up super old or super heavy. The guy thinks he's going to get the girl in the pic, but she never shows up.

**So, in gentalia terms Catfishing = pussy, and Dogfishing = dick? Just sayin it sounds funny.

I do facetime and talk on the phone before I meet. I've been catfished far too many times as I give the benefit of the doubt. I show up early, order my own coffee, and sit in cognito. How did he go from 6'3" 240 to 5'10" 350?

Have so much more to say, but got tot run back to reality now. Love all your comments.!

IVFalternative 49M
630 posts
1/23/2020 3:53 pm

I agree with superbj if it's really them it isn't catfishing. Especially since he sent his real face pic when you were messaging.

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clittywhisperer1 55M
1289 posts
1/23/2020 2:42 pm

schmecklefishing has a nice ring .Everyone has their own ideas of what is attractive enough .Most are really not very rational or likely in some way .TO have all the minute demands of any one person met fully is not likely at all . perfection does not exist in humans . My good friend will never find his match because he has ridiculous fantasy selfish ideals that the lady must meet or he just throws them off . I hope everyone finds what makes them feel accepted and cared about. you can improve a face with surgery, as well a body with lifestyle , exercise or surgery ,but character , intelligence ,and personality are not so easily improved .

superbjversion2 65F  
19811 posts
1/23/2020 2:17 pm

It's not catfishing if the appendage (or other body part) is really his; it's just highlighting his best feature. But unless his dick is detachable, ya gotta be attracted to the rest of him.

Around here, my odds are good but the goods are odd

bluebean69 51M
136 posts
1/23/2020 1:50 pm

Nice. Thanks

y0u0nmyface 35M
14 posts
1/23/2020 12:07 pm

Most everyone has something attractive about them- if it isnt so much in the face maybe elsewhere? Im usually able to find attraction in personality- good looks doesnt hirt though!

fisherman5999 57M  
456 posts
1/23/2020 12:02 pm

This goes both ways, women use photos of their bodies to attract men, this is fine, but when you finally convince them to meet, you never know what is going to show up !

seems6666 49F  
3726 posts
1/23/2020 11:02 am

Reminds me of this song...
Nice Legs Shame About Her Face
The Monks

Met her on a blind date, helping out an old mate
Waiting at the corner, she's be dressed in black
There was I expecting a really tasty bird
He said she was good looking, I should have doubt his word
When I saw her there she was a real disgrace
I thought nice legs shame about the face

I had to take her dancing, I couldn't let her down
So we caught the bus to the other side of town
Out upon the dance floor, I wasn't getting far
So I had a drink with my friends up at the bar
I asked them what they thought of her they fell about the place
And they said nice legs shame about her face

seems6666 49F  
3726 posts
1/23/2020 10:59 am

    Quoting tubesteak66:
    You sound like you are on the wrong site...just saying.
Why is she on the wrong site? Do you fuck every woman that breathes, regardless of her looks, or personality? ... are you just looking at a hole to fuck?
It's fucking idiots like you that make this a shit place for women, and men wonder why they can't get laid... coz this is a "sex site" .." join tonight and get laid"... well how did that work out for you?!

sensualmaninmn 58M  
511 posts
1/23/2020 10:49 am

All jokes aside, that is why I have a face pic posted. I also love to kiss before and during sex, so why would I want to attract someone where the feeling isn't mutual?

sensualmaninmn 58M  
511 posts
1/23/2020 10:46 am


tubesteak66 53M  
575 posts
1/23/2020 10:17 am

You sound like you are on the wrong site...just saying.

Paulxx001 63M  
16681 posts
1/23/2020 10:11 am

That's a good question. Perhaps ya have a point that makes a lot of sense.
Here's the other thing... No one wants to admit that they're not good looking enough for a 'chance'.
So... ya have 'standards' do ya? 😊 lol 😂 😮 So do I. 😎 face time is good!
Ooops... And who doesn't like a pretty face, right?
Hey... Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.

... is there another way to look at it.
A Man Will Never Forget How A Woman Smells

benard69 63M/63F  
5104 posts
1/23/2020 10:07 am

More than likely Tuna fishing...

RaiseTheBarCHS 37M
6 posts
1/23/2020 10:02 am

Dickfishing? Dangling it out there hoping for a nibble?

Fluffy7591 62F
56 posts
1/23/2020 9:53 am

Not shallow. Most of us need attraction. As long as declined nicely you did nothing wrong. I wouldn't say catfishing. I am sure there is plenty of good looking men who use dick pictures. Or of their body but not face.

redrockrascal 61M
21417 posts
1/23/2020 9:43 am

are guys with dick pics catfishing?

*in my best Clint Eastwood growl*
You've got to ask yourself, do I want to catfish with my dick?
Well PUNK, the catfish has the most powerful jaws in the water and sticking your dick in that water is gonna get it bit clean off.
Well do ya . . . PUNK

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Leegs2012 47M
52922 posts
1/23/2020 9:37 am

Oh Yes!! Understood!

santascumming4u 56M  
25 posts
1/23/2020 9:37 am

I agree Jane. Even doggie style that face is still in your head!!

MsJaneBondage 50F  
135 posts
1/23/2020 9:31 am

Maybe we need to give it a new name.... like Dogfish... Dick pic catfishing should be Dick Oic Dogfishing.

profcoquin27bis 55M
2990 posts
1/23/2020 9:30 am

i agree

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