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Have you been successful here?  

MsSwitch4MrRight 53F
1886 posts
10/20/2019 4:36 am
Have you been successful here?

Other, as described below

Handleyankee3 31M  
14 posts
4/27/2020 11:40 am

I have been loving it

msexcited69 55F
2 posts
1/16/2020 2:06 pm

I have hooked up with a couple of guys on here that are great and have the same sexual desires that I do.

k_medtraveler 51M
7 posts
1/8/2020 6:10 am

I have met a couple of people from this site but mostly no-shows. Those who say they are willing to meet, actually are not.
I've had better success from other social media sites. I am willing to travel and meet IRL if someone i swilling.

chans878 29F
4 posts
1/3/2020 11:49 pm


chans878 29F
4 posts
1/3/2020 11:43 pm


Sudden2020 70M
123 posts
1/3/2020 6:14 pm

It all depends on what one wants to call successful, I have run into a few fakes and no shows, but i would say that I have been successful as the number of points I can amass.

GreenEyedGuy1968 51M
143 posts
1/1/2020 9:56 am

I voted Yes.
But I would have to add... no, not lately.

I joined in 2004 until 2005 and it was awesome back then. I was in Texas and meeting all over between Killeen-Austin-San Angelo-Dallas-San Antonio.
I joined again 3 years ago just about the time my divorce was final and I met ONE woman for one of the brief times I had Gold status. And I had met her shortly after getting back on here.

I would say I actually had WAY better luck on free and paid vanilla sites than on here in the past 3 years.

dspskall 19M
20 posts
12/30/2019 2:03 pm

not really

AZTomH 50M  
1 post
12/29/2019 4:06 am

No, so many fakes!

AdultFriendFinder needs to step up their scanning and approval process. Scan the pics to see if they are on other sites from other countries. AdultFriendFinder can obviously see about the person's IP address in being local, if they are in Africa that means they are not in Arizona. Come on AdultFriendFinder step up to keep your paying customers before they stop paying because they are sick of all the BS and crap from fake accounts and scammers!

bemytreat 46F
6 posts
12/29/2019 2:08 am

no! alot of fakes and time wasters!

Takeithard833 33M
14 posts
12/26/2019 8:38 pm

A lot of work sifting through the fakes, also requires patience, and a little luck too. It's harder for standard members then it used to be. With all the fakes and people that back out, tough to justify going for gold again.

unattached4u63 73M
3 posts
12/24/2019 10:50 am

NO luck here.

ShibbyWiggles 33M
37 posts
12/12/2019 10:01 am

Pretty much endless misses and like 3 yes'

I like fet.life. a lot more.

BloomingPoppy 44F

12/3/2019 11:41 am

Yes I have.

pobre_rata 51M
78 posts
11/28/2019 5:05 pm

0, none, thas its my success ratio, a lot of scammers

playtime1909 50M
14 posts
11/27/2019 2:19 pm

mostly miss....people dont meet, disappear, or I get a bad feeling about them...met a few...a couple were fun

poolman816 47M
47 posts
11/26/2019 12:17 pm

I have had some luck but it is true there are many fakes and it isn't easy getting in touch. I think if the IM worked well it would make this much easier to meet other people.

Lips4ur2Lips247 36M  
135 posts
11/25/2019 1:10 am

nope. too many fake profiles, or profiles of users that leads to cam sites. and the one or 2 that's real live on the other side of the country or the planet. And i don't meet many preferences lol

ayna45 99M
25 posts
11/17/2019 3:28 am

I haven't had much luck here

carlosg0nsales 35M
61 posts
11/16/2019 7:55 pm

Yes I have

Crazyhorse7784 66M
4 posts
11/12/2019 12:09 pm

Yes I have a few times
Had some great sex

MayIFillUP 44M  
14 posts
11/10/2019 10:31 pm

I have had good luck in meeting women.

NudeBeachBum72 69M/68F  
17 posts
11/10/2019 2:33 pm

Have hooked up with a lot of cool and fun people at about 10% ratio, too many lurkers and want to be's!

wantingmore40216 60M
49 posts
11/7/2019 9:06 am

I've had some success, not as much as I'd like.

InLoveWeTrust3 39M/37F
19 posts
11/6/2019 2:06 am

It was better years ago, when you didn't need points to chat

lokillo7412 45M
18 posts
11/4/2019 6:24 pm

It was better a few years ago. There are too many fakes nowadays. That sucks because there aren't no more free chats per day for non-paid members.

sexynfun01 56M/48F  
2 posts
11/3/2019 9:55 pm

We live in a great area for swinging

coffeebeans60 60M
33 posts
11/3/2019 6:02 pm

I agree with most commenters that there are a lot of fakes on here

pretty222005 52T
12 posts
11/3/2019 7:34 am

No. My location really. lol

howdydoodyXLII 49M
34 posts
11/3/2019 4:52 am

In the early days of being on here, I had a few meet ups with local women. Still friends with the first one I met, but she met someone else and got married. I have a friend i met thru AdultFriendFinder, but we never hooked up. A few sexual encounters here and there, but the well has run a little dry. It has been well over a year. It is harder to communicate on this site being a standard member than it used to be. Then you come across the fakes who try to con you into sending money. Trying to find better options for hooking up.

Jrod_153 25M
148 posts
11/3/2019 4:43 am

Kind of successful . Ive met only a few women on here and ive been on here for more than 5 years lol. When i mean a few i mean a few

topd3 55M  
12 posts
11/2/2019 10:34 pm

I have been successful a few times.

14sum69fun 51M
40 posts
11/2/2019 5:36 pm

Good chat connections with a few people, but typically no one wants to meet in person.. 1 every few years or so. Luck is slim to none...

fishersman68 52M
48 posts
11/2/2019 12:11 pm

no but still looking for that one who wants to meet on a regular basis

s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
11/2/2019 11:48 am

If you're looking for an honest guy then just keep track of
those who said they haven't met anyone.Now if you're looking for
an honest woman just keep track of the ones who said yes!

Using more than all the road!

62 posts
11/2/2019 11:06 am

been doin this stuff for ten years now. Scored once w/ Ashly Madison, then switched to this site and have managed five more w/ one being an occasional stop. Have not paid a cent but persevered through all the changes. It is after doing that you can find out what's real and what is Memorex???

Now, it seems to be IM, that the site is managing. I'm spending points, and members that I chat with never receive the notice. There appears to be a delay from information from IM, to information on the page I am currently on, and I can no longer refresh the IM like I used to be able to do??
Best of luck and fuck for free. It's God Given!

SavvySoulSexual 54M

11/1/2019 9:57 pm

I've connected with men and women from this site. True, there are many who pull out before a transition from online to in-person. I hear that many people have lost their ability and comfort with real interpersonal interaction. I know people have a tendency to put their best photos forward, and may feel insecure about what they fear they really are.

I don't pay too much attention to the photos and will meet anyone just for the sake of building real community. It is not about fucking and cumming; that is a natural drive for us humans and it will happen when our lust is aroused. I have read here that woman don't want sex; long ago many of us men knew that women enjoyed sex more than men do... true, you can't get away with acting like and AH, but that never did work out well for anyone.

Yes, with a positive, giving attitude, and by skillfully and quickly ignoring the promotional fakes, a man at least used to be able to find new, in the flesh, connections at AdultFriendFinder. And, YES, until you meet in person, it is all a just digital delusion.

fishersman68 52M
48 posts
11/1/2019 4:11 pm

seriously? there are actual women here?

17mustangman 46M
3 posts
11/1/2019 4:08 pm

I have had a few great times from here and even turned 1 into a long term thing on my 1st account. You gotta be a gentleman straight up, if your single, your single, if your married say it. So many fakes or cheaters that everybody is hesitant about contacting. I always offer to pay on every date even thought some women prefer to pay there share and continue to chat or go out. Just be yourself and say it like it is. J

bigthrills7 56M  
5 posts
11/1/2019 3:41 pm

I've been a gold member for decades it seems and I just keep renewing based on hope! ha

I've met dozens over the years, MM situation, some hot , some not. It's very time consuming to meet and can honestly say, I haven't met a guy from AdultFriendFinder that I continually see and have made a good relationship/friendship since I've been on here. Could be me or could be them, not blaming anyone.

Funny how I had much better luck before we had computers and the only way to find sex was those Swinger ads found at your local adult bookstore. You answered ads and had to mail back your letter, a SASE and $1. You had better luck dealing with snail mail than you do today! I still have sex with 2 guys I met that way and that was the '90's! Times have changed!

The site is shadowy when it comes to online security I'm now finding out. Just got McAffee for protection.

I also believe that AdultFriendFinder uses deleted member accts to fluff things up. Like on the IM.

But really, for a single bi guy I think it's the only game in town so I'm staying.

fuks4u2tonight 51M
5 posts
11/1/2019 3:07 pm

met some wonderfull women from here ... xx

Loves them Big n Bouncy .... ..... xx

letsgettogeth119 60M

11/1/2019 7:21 am

Since my woman friend moved away, it's been very difficult meeting people. I've spoken with many but haven't met anyone yet. Lets hope things get better.

Slash56925 61M  
11 posts
10/31/2019 9:36 pm

small town and age = not much happening

brow6902 55M
89 posts
10/31/2019 1:11 pm

There is fun to be had, but few and far between good ones!

TravelingMan524 68M
238 posts
10/31/2019 5:45 am

Oh yeah!
Not easy but worth it.

3forfun1954 66M/56F  
2 posts
10/31/2019 12:28 am

I cant receive webcams as a gold member. i complained they cant figure it out they have me blocked for some strange reason .My membership ends soon I hope there is a better site than this on the internet

virgin348 29M
14 posts
10/30/2019 11:40 pm

I guess it's really what you make of it. i thought it was a waste of time at first but i've had more success the last few days. no meets yet but closer than i was before it just takes time and patience.

Azbear1969 51M
82 posts
10/30/2019 11:37 pm

I have been successful a number of times with ladies from here. I have one from here that I see every Sunday.

if_bi_wife 61M/60F  
24 posts
10/30/2019 5:34 pm

slow in our area, lots of lurkers and guys trying to find something on the side. Finding real people that will actually show up is rare. lots of fake profile views by non paid members and flirts from people that say they did not flirt with us. Ice breaker messages sent out to new males on here that do not have a clue as to manners. this is not a free meat market for the young to think every one wants to jump in bed with them.

chaosk77 43M
27 posts
10/30/2019 12:01 am

I feel like it's mostly entertainment. ....

bradkris2 48M/46F

10/29/2019 3:03 pm

Definitely gets frustrating when time after time women can't follow through. Seems like most are in it for the fantasy, even right down to making plans, then they fall off the face of the earth. We don't wanna give up, but very disheartening when we are real and in it for exactly what we say. There's other sites for chat and fantasy. We just want to have awesome fuck fests with a woman!!! Fun for all!!! What's so hard about that?

virgin348 29M
14 posts
10/29/2019 1:17 pm

    Quoting  :

What you want me to upload a pic of cash i got plenty of money. i just don't want to pay 120 a year for gold. if most the accounts are bots or fakes like some people are saying.

1951Friday 69M
19 posts
10/29/2019 12:27 pm

It sort of depends on what you consider success.

olderboy48 70M
65 posts
10/29/2019 9:52 am

It is good to have limited expectations. Can't treat every conversation, flirt or view as a expected outcome. Cast a wide net and hope for an occaisional catch.

Kenoshaguy69124 35M
13 posts
10/29/2019 6:33 am

I have found my share of good fun

manda745 37F
18 posts
10/29/2019 6:23 am

no, too many fakes on here, and they keep making the site worse!!!

Acuplovin 50M
22 posts
10/28/2019 9:02 pm

Have had a limited amount of success, maybe 10 or so over 10-15 yrs but they have all been wonderful and giving women

sexisfun49127 50M
81 posts
10/28/2019 5:07 pm

the site used to be alot of fun,,hooked up with some great people,,now it seems alot of bots and gamees

patferro81 39M
19 posts
10/28/2019 5:03 pm

I had my good moments

lighthousecollec 58F  
908 posts
10/28/2019 4:54 pm

I have meet a few on here but its not what I am looking for here. I am not giving up either. Just have not found the right one for that connection.

I have set up a private mailbox on my Blog for your convenience.

TheBest002018 36F
2 posts
10/28/2019 3:43 pm

I have been successful in meeting guys and having a great time with them but NOT for my main reason in being a member on this site.

Disciple8383 37M
4 posts
10/28/2019 2:13 pm

Zero after 7 or so years, but to be honest, almost all nearby accounts have proven to be fake ones.

That said, most normal dating sites are the same as well.

Discreetmeetfish 53M
41 posts
10/28/2019 12:54 pm

like most who aren't liars on here there isn't much opportunity. to many snobs. but there is still hope

aniceride 50M  
108 posts
10/28/2019 11:03 am

not to blow my own horn but yes i've been very blessed.my meets are mostly with couples and have been with 22 in the last 13yrs from here.

Sexczy69 65M
3375 posts
10/28/2019 10:12 am

Met my loving wife on this site and we are still together after 10 years....

Imapig54 66M
51 posts
10/28/2019 9:36 am

It's been awesome

WLVgentleman 63M  
18 posts
10/28/2019 8:29 am

A little bit of "success", but especially in the last couple of years this site has really gone downhill. I do like to watch a few cams on occasion, and enjoy chatting with a very select group of long-time "friends", but otherwise this site is now primarily populated with fakes and scammers. It's almost not worth the effort any more.

Openallthetime00 50M
5 posts
10/28/2019 8:11 am

Had some meets all good but mostly flakes and hookers

chet571957 63M  
25 posts
10/28/2019 8:03 am

No real meetings. A couple of no-shows Seems most would like to but can't bring themselves to actually do it. In 10 years, I haven't figured out if its just cheap entertainment or if no-one can find what they really want.

doingitwhenwecan 61M
4 posts
10/28/2019 7:44 am

not really but i keep looking maybe soon

Hardick2cumonn 30M  
38 posts
10/27/2019 11:53 pm

Sometimes yes

ltfy9006 46M  
31 posts
10/27/2019 10:07 pm

This use to be a good place to meet but not any more

Cpllooking6671 53M/49F  
2671 posts
10/27/2019 6:09 pm

While I say we are successful, it comes at a price of wasting a lot of energy and time on wannabes, fakes, flakes and ghosts.

bollymorningwood 36M
12 posts
10/27/2019 1:58 am


Igasu 39M
16 posts
10/27/2019 1:42 am

I met a friend once

redsled361000 61M
272 posts
10/26/2019 11:23 pm

Nope talked to a few no hits

ramiro150982 38M
12 posts
10/26/2019 11:18 pm

muy de acuerdo

Mr2please2 58M  
37 posts
10/26/2019 9:52 pm

A little success..too many fakes... too many cpls want on spur and unwilling to communicate except for email only...TokenBlackchick is right..lol had better luck on Yahoo IM and the old Craighslist!

2beusedtoo2 61M
115 posts
10/26/2019 8:48 pm

Well 5 yrs and only 2 meets 1 not bad and one that was terrible none was what im looking for .all good ones are players or AdultFriendFinder only sends posts from to far away.but check me out im avaible to meet

MerlynWantsYou 65M  
19 posts
10/26/2019 8:36 pm

nada ... but I'm at the age where anyone near me is just not interested. C'est le Vie.

redy2plzu6969 66M/57F  
67 posts
10/26/2019 7:57 pm

Very disappointed in this site. Only one connection in 8 years for us. Lots of flirts and interested people but too may fakes and flakes. Too many men on this site.

Sugarcookie478 48F  
33 posts
10/26/2019 4:13 pm

I’ve made some great connections.

BlkDyk 53M  
26 posts
10/26/2019 2:52 pm

I don't enjoy the frequency that I would like. But I have made a few connections here. Looking forward to many more.

TokenBlackChik 34F
102 posts
10/26/2019 11:52 am

I've been stood up enough times that I should quit but meh... Winners never quit, right? Lol I met a guy about a year ago and we've been on and off since then. I'm still looking but only finding guys who want a whore on call. Oh well...

allaboutfun250 51M
14 posts
10/26/2019 11:47 am

Chatted with lots of cool people and canned with some also by have yet to meet up with anyone from this site.

Punkerelli 40M  
36 posts
10/26/2019 11:21 am

I've had some success. I've meet a couples. Nothing ongoing though. Lately, I've been getting a lot of flakes though.

Spidey604 42M
75 posts
10/26/2019 9:55 am

When i was gold, way better luck though...but have found a regular fwb...hot

56creampielover 63M
137 posts
10/26/2019 9:38 am

a lot of talk with no action

tryme992012 61M
46 posts
10/26/2019 7:25 am

I have had success on here. But a lot of it is just talk and they really dont want to meet. Seems like success comes every few months.

wanttoplay858 62M/64F  
14 posts
10/25/2019 11:34 pm

It was easier before when there were more memebers and easier to contact eachother

IMaMagikman 34M
118 posts
10/25/2019 10:04 pm

Yes. With 1 person and no comaints at all. It just run it's course

KJM65 51M
5 posts
10/25/2019 9:11 pm

Okay, I've had good success on here. Yes there are some talkers, with no follow through. Which is why you have to weed out the talkers. As a single man, you have to know that you can't run amok. Some times you have to laid back in the cut

Slash56925 61M  
11 posts
10/25/2019 8:34 pm

After two years I met 1 real woman in person and about 5 that are friendly around 30 scammers hundreds of no show fakes .

Reynolds221 50M
46 posts
10/25/2019 6:15 pm

Too many fake profiles..

Showyouinsac 46M
78 posts
10/25/2019 11:44 am

I’ve had mixed Successs. Was easier before all the lame changes around here. Tough to connect now

2canchewtoo 47M
25 posts
10/25/2019 11:29 am

No but as a member not paying it is damn near impossible to do anything..

kella200 39M
63 posts
10/25/2019 10:17 am

Yes definitely been successful, got laid a few times , just wish more women were on here xx 😘

Handleyankee3 31M  
14 posts
10/25/2019 6:19 am

Would luv to meet u

Oceana1969 54F  
442 posts
10/25/2019 6:15 am

I have met some very nice people here ans had some beautiful relationships. Since craigslist shut down this site has changed.

Sprangadang 42M

10/25/2019 5:04 am

I don’t think I’m doing it right. Lol

shoe14 54M  
217 posts
10/25/2019 3:56 am

lot of fakes

aki0804 M
75 posts
10/25/2019 1:20 am

Most females and CPL are fake and those not are hungry for money

brandini734 26M
176 posts
10/24/2019 8:51 pm

I have in the past but not recently since I stopped being gold. However, I still keep contact with people I already met.

Danny65432198 31M
84 posts
10/24/2019 8:19 pm

I have and wanna be with wiitb u

Lookig for pussy

sealand669 54M
1 post
10/24/2019 7:57 pm

The website is a waste of time! I have conversed with 60 to 70 women , and the majority of them were from Amsterdam, and Africa!! The site is inundated with fakes! Poor job of managing !!!

lookin4herMI 48M
140 posts
10/24/2019 7:56 pm

Yes, but no anytime recently, and with AdultFriendFinder removing member privileges it’s not going to get any better. That’s just one reason why this long time gold member, is no longer gold!

passingthrough98 66M  
16 posts
10/24/2019 7:11 pm

way too many game players on here! guys that just want to talk sex while jacking off and never meet. It gets old with that and the rude men. Have met a couple people over the years but not enough to say I have been successful. Guess I am to old for anyone or something.

castle077 60M  
297 posts
10/24/2019 6:58 pm

not as much as i'd like

matuiori 34M
35 posts
10/24/2019 1:28 pm

He salido solo con una mujer de la pagina y la pasamos muy muy bien

lokingforfun82 39M
155 posts
10/24/2019 10:52 am

I guess that depends on you're definition of successful. I've successfully had 2 or 3 successful encounters on here but that's been in the span of at least 15 years. Even when I was a gold member I didn't have much success on here.

bear29ford69 47M
41 posts
10/24/2019 9:11 am

A few times, but hard being a basic member, and chat locks up alot on here

hotredsox67 48M  
45 posts
10/24/2019 8:42 am

id love to try a mfm with a couple lots of guys acting i dont know if i want to jump right into that never tried it before i like women nothing wrong with it though

louisianafun2 43M
29 posts
10/24/2019 7:21 am

Some real people here but have to wade through all the fakes first..lol

ur_Black_desire 51M  
56 posts
10/24/2019 1:47 am

I've played with a few connects from here, byt the scene has changed tremendously and meets are slowing up!

blademaster70 50M
212 posts
10/23/2019 10:34 pm

I joined back in 2009, and had a lot of success for a few years. The last four years have been hit and miss tho. And with all the recent changes, it's been extremely slow going. Lately I've resorted to more traditional dating sites, seem to have better luck connecting with women there than here.

DoUIntheButt 38M
104 posts
10/23/2019 8:41 pm

Ehhhhh Kinda!

mightyswell88 50M
9 posts
10/23/2019 7:29 pm

I have yet to hook up with anyone. Lots of chatting, and some possible hook ups in the future with some guys I may play with, but certainly no women

sphxdiver 70M  
21067 posts
10/23/2019 4:33 pm

I've met some very fine women here !!

6 posts
10/23/2019 3:19 pm

I have found some nice people here and we still keep in touch too Guess I have been very lucky and have even talked to them on the phone too

Oktitman 51M
3 posts
10/23/2019 12:40 pm

I’ve met a few and it was great, but there are tons of flakes and fake profiles. Many of these fake profiles are posted by AdultFriendFinder and they will flirt to keep you interested. There are too many men here and that fucks it up for many of us. The women are being bombarded by these fucktards and makes it difficult.

Reynolds221 50M
46 posts
10/23/2019 12:34 pm

I believe there are a lot of fake profiles on here and people just get their jollies out of that.

exhibicionista46 40M
284 posts
10/23/2019 12:01 pm

si, he tenido bastante exito, tanto en citas de una noche como en relaciones bastante largas...

Sex is the best thing in life. It is free and no taxes are paid. Fucks

Boomboomdoggie56 54M
22 posts
10/23/2019 10:24 am

I mostly chat have met alot of great people on here ,but not alot of moments

albaflying 59M  
51 posts
10/23/2019 9:36 am

Yes I have. Not as often as I would like. Lots of fakes here.

sassos 54M
40 posts
10/23/2019 7:24 am

Take your time and verify profile/person

Duke4Uonly 65M
2 posts
10/23/2019 6:43 am

I've had some success with hooking up but there are a lot of fakes on here . Women flirt , hot list me , but have no intention of ever meeting .

1_4agood_time 41M
66 posts
10/23/2019 5:44 am

I find that when its time to actually meet, most women flake out.

bigloads12345 45M

10/23/2019 5:39 am

I have been a member for ten years. Over that time I've had one steady hookup with a women that lives an hour away. Turn' s out we went to high school together. Both of us are married, so getting our schedules to match is tough.

Meeting anyone local is very difficult. Either the personalities clash or there are different expectations. That coupled with the fact I live in a small city does not help the odds.

fahrenheit451x2 57M
83 posts
10/23/2019 3:16 am

In the past yes but lately no. There are so many bots on this site that it's not really worth the effort.

Pnpinthe805 49M
5 posts
10/23/2019 3:02 am

i been on for a week or more then started add more pic and then more and more guys where looking and then saying things like how hot sexy or want me cum play and best for last a ton of real gay guys who wanting me to cum play with them or uck them and the best wanted to fuck my manhole!!! yes there is cock god for fagup guys like me and that's here my home for cocks!!! + two guys one day and there both had big bags of tina with them to smoke me out both smoke me up to a less 2 time the fag i am

HeavyHitter6901 38M
1 post
10/23/2019 1:11 am

I have been on here over a month and have not had any luck when it seems like i am about to actually meet they get cold feet or they do t just wanna fling like there profile says they want a long term fling or they want more... What is with that?you waant a quikie get a quikie and thats it you want long term anounce that shit inyour profile and stick to it wishy washy people drive me nuts!

jobella37 54F  
77 posts
10/22/2019 11:18 pm

I have been bombarded by endless messages but not for the stuff I was looking for: couples, 2 or 3 men, and a woman and or woman and man threesome.
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ravennaguy 60M  
3 posts
10/22/2019 8:56 pm

it seems to be mostly bs on this site.

StrMan4Fem 55M

10/22/2019 8:12 pm

    Quoting  :

The vast majority of women in my age group of choice turn out to not be as sexual as I hoped. Most just wish to chat and blog and enjoy companionship for dining out and non-sexual activities. These are the ones who always find an excuse why they can't meet when it might turn sexual

MsSwitch4MrRight 53F

10/22/2019 5:55 pm


NickelGold 48M

10/22/2019 4:28 pm

Some meet and greets but looking to achieve sexual encounters with older women and mature couples.

NVHorny 55M
3 posts
10/22/2019 4:15 pm

I have met a couple women and a few couples. I am partial to MFM so it can be slow going.

DiscoverMidlife 54M
124 posts
10/22/2019 4:10 pm

I guess it is open to how you define successful. I have been successful in meeting women. But I have had to put an incredible amount of effort and patience into it. Kinda like any type of dating?

Cantwaittwomeetu 57M

10/22/2019 3:52 pm

I have been successful in mtg women from AdultFriendFinder and getting laid....

Snow_Thumper37 33M
1 post
10/22/2019 1:40 pm

    Quoting CharlotteID:
    I would be more receptive to meeting if the men on here would put forth more effort than this line, hey want to meet up and fuck. I like like any other girl is down for hot sex but however if there's no built in get to know ya time then it just comes off as seeking a woman that does meet up for just sex as a means to the end. Not that I am disparaging or judging those women as a girl has gotta do what a girls gotta do. As in my case a lot of men want discreet and that's okay,but at least put effort into creating a "date night in" and I don't care if we cook food,get pizza delivered or $.99 tacos and movies or listen to music. See I am okay with going out to do those things as well and just because a potential partner is not,does not mean that aspect of getting to know some one to perhaps engage in hot sex encounters gets tossed to the side,my belief is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys,so ya I want spend time with you to find out if your a nice guy.
I am responding to hey comment that I sawed while reading through people's comments pertaining to the poll question has anybody actually met anybody on this site and upon me reading what you wrote I felt it my obligation to respond to your many points being made. As follows below is what she wrote, I say she in case anybody else is reading this.

I would be more receptive to meeting if the men on here would put forth more effort than........ hey want to meet up and fuck........ if there's no built in get to know ya time then it just comes off as seeking a woman that does meet up for just sex as a means to the end............. but at least put effort into creating a date night like get food,get pizza delivered or $.99 tacos and movies or listen to music.
A potential partner is not,does not mean that aspect of getting to know some one to perhaps engage in hot sex encounters gets tossed to the side,my belief is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys.

Now I would like to make several points myself.

You are exactly right to want something more. Since when has date night gone out the window to get lucky even try because let's face it there is no underlying obligation that says you have to sleep with somebody. Furthermore how would one expect to get lucky without putting forth the effort like you said or in my case and in some men's cases courting that woman. Any woman worth courting is somebody you would not regret getting in bed with and chances are will get into bed with you. Now I don't know about most but I won't be with somebody unless you're somebody that I could be proud of whether our encounter is a secret or whether we go public with the s*** if I wouldn't take you around my family then I probably don't want to be around you.

With that being said I know I majority of men nowadays don't feel that way they are perfectly happy with f****** a monkey behind closed doors and then later that day hanging out with family friends like they didn't just f*** a monkey 3 hours prior. Date night gives both a chance to gain an attraction EVEN. more attracted to the other person because someone who is just willing to sleep with someone finds no attraction in anything, and honestly that's just unattractive.

Now the way that most men nowadays troll and looking for anybody to f*** is completely fine with fucking anybody because if a man comes on to a woman like that is all he's interested in is fucking what's to make you believe that he's not coming onto every woman like that. If it is that easy to get with a women you really think you were the one guy out of a million profiles that she picked out, I don't think so. She's getting with everybody like that.

Now I love what you said that your belief, "is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys. Because I would like to consider myself a nice guy and Imore often than not, have always walked away with a bombshell or even just a downright good girl willing to get down. Maybe not on this site but out in the real world yeah . So It's true nice guys should get laid because that's what keeps us nice and the only time I have really ever turned into an assshole or been rude to somebody is after I have been blown off or used repetitively that's what makes a nice guy turn into an assshole.
But you put it very well, and I figured I'd put in my two cents on the nice guy thing and how nice guys can turn into an assshole with the wrong girl that he may have thought was right. Good comment I was surprised to have had that epiphinal moment while reading it.

Nice guys still do exist we're just hard to find cuz we don't like being around assholes or being turned into one

92camaro66 53M  
1706 posts
10/22/2019 12:52 pm

I have met and had some great sex with quite a few hot people from the site. Met some awesome hot couples for mmf. Mmmmmm. Some very hot milfs too. Has been fun!

teboneUP 60M  
40 posts
10/22/2019 12:29 pm

If success is defined as meeting someone on AdultFriendFinder and having sex with them, then yes, I've been successful. I've met and fucked five women from AdultFriendFinder this year and all of them live out of state. I will continue having success because distance never stops me from fucking women who want to meet and fuck. Never has never will.

29HornynBored 35M
16 posts
10/22/2019 12:06 pm

ive had some fun here, i think for whatever reason there are very high expectations for how this will all work out as instant sex.

wideload888 52M
47 posts
10/22/2019 11:26 am

Met someone several years ago, but no luck since.

The fault is mostly mine. These days, I'm looking for something closer and easier - I don't have the freedom to meet like I used to.

maybe1932 66M/51F
29 posts
10/22/2019 10:56 am

Yes we've met four young men. Two didn't get past the met and greet.

Greatsex4ume2 64M  
42 posts
10/22/2019 9:41 am

Had a couple of nice freinds years ago but nothing for a long time as trust seems to be an issue as well as no shows!

Edua2013sw 54M
257 posts
10/22/2019 6:43 am

I can't have succes on site never has an encouter only vrtual sex chat

hillcountryman60 61M
154 posts
10/22/2019 5:22 am

Yes, in the past but lately it seems people are less serious about meeting.

couting_starr 26M
2 posts
10/22/2019 5:21 am

I hope i'll get one soon but its really difficult for a single man to find women on this site specially in India.I have seen women are more frank and straightforward in western countries than in India. I have spent nights over here looking but none of the talks escalated as some are fake and most are money seekers.
I havent known someone who genuinely needs sex on this website till now.
But you must keep trying, may be you get a chance someday.

curiousparty1234 35M
8 posts
10/22/2019 4:27 am

I haven’t had much luck personally, most people that I’ve chatted with end up getting cold feet when the idea of meeting up comes, the mobile chat doesn’t work (and with free members needing to pay to use the chat it really blows), or I can’t even get a “thanks but no thanks” reply to the messages I can get out. Wish they’d reinstate that 3 free chats for standard members

bear29ford69 47M
41 posts
10/22/2019 1:56 am

When the site works right it's a ok site

idahosmilin 68M
29 posts
10/22/2019 1:23 am

I have met quite a few people from this site. It takes patience some times but it happens. Good luck!!

Harlyman54321 47M  
51 posts
10/22/2019 12:41 am

Haven't had to much luck. Im bi like both. >>!

redandfrog 54M
7 posts
10/21/2019 9:33 pm

One needs an absolute large amount of patience

Spunsubinfl 40M
25 posts
10/21/2019 9:21 pm

I always get flakes WANT TO MEET AN OLDER HUNG DOM BUT.......

Let's fuck

idblueswoman 62F  
772 posts
10/21/2019 8:30 pm

I am amused by how often I am asked if I have had any luck on the site, or been successful. I think it's different things for different people.
In the 10 yrs I have been on this site I have met a number of individuals.. if that is successful is up to one's idea of success.
That being said, I met a women here 10 yrs ago and neither of us are bi sexual. Long story short she is no longer on the site, but she has become my best friend, my sister and my family. We have been there for each other through deaths of our mothers, other family members, cheer for each other with the birth of grandchildren, spent holidays together, vacationed and have had girl's getaways when life has been tough. That is my success.

On the other hand, I have had a few FWB's over the years, and for the last three years nothing. I am good with that..

ModernMinnie 39F

10/21/2019 8:00 pm

When I compare the number of people I've met to the number of orgasms I've had, then I'd say 'no'. Not successful.

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rahulg220 25M
13 posts
10/21/2019 7:48 pm

not till now

s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
10/21/2019 7:28 pm

Depends on your meaning of success or rather how
YOU define it!
In my terms ,yes plenty!

Using more than all the road!

marthoc444 52M  
39 posts
10/21/2019 6:32 pm

When this site did not limit contact one may have been successful

TallTattooedDude 53M  
35 posts
10/21/2019 6:17 pm

If You are a straight single Guy looking for ladies You will have better luck going out to bars etc.
Everyone here wants Pussy or Guys that suck dick or take it up the butt and they prefer those ones to have tits whenever possible as well LOL
Nuff Said

Fero4930 60M
283 posts
10/21/2019 4:45 pm

Yes I met with efe people

goforit6_29127 62M  
27 posts
10/21/2019 4:29 pm

Yes I have met a few ladies on here and they were all great people. most were great in bed and a few we didn't get that far but still chatted after we had meet.

ChopTank62 59M  
106 posts
10/21/2019 2:47 pm

I have met a few people on here and have had a couple of ongoing sexual relationships [but not often]. I also have made what I consider to be a couple of pretty good and healthy non-sexual relationships with people. You [sometimes] get back what you invest in people.

skypilotc140 52M
92 posts
10/21/2019 2:27 pm

I have had success. But it is only occasional. The changes with the site have definitely had a negative impact.

MaxVonHoroschau 47M
20 posts
10/21/2019 2:03 pm

So many of the profiles are fakes, and so many people claim to be one thing, but they’re not. It’s worse when people don’t honestly fill out their profiles. And they’re the ones that tend to be either 0 to wanting to get married in two emails, or they’re just plain asshats.

happyenigma 66M
16 posts
10/21/2019 1:48 pm

1 seeking 1 is 100% correct but it is not entirely men who do this. They all get caught up in their stories. Of course I had a very well disciplined life that was based in the truth and keeping secrets (Not Mine)
Personally, now that I'm 65 now, I really can't spare the brain cells to remember a lie, so I continue my life of not telling them.

happyenigma 66M
16 posts
10/21/2019 1:41 pm

Not a whole lot of response, but I attribute that due to the fact that I am only a standard member. So I'm planning to take the plunge to Gold status. After two months I will compare the results and make the determination whether to stay or go. I must say that I have been on other sites that response was crazy BUT I figure 90% were fake profiles or bots. But was free, entertaining and not one hookup.

1seeking1 55F
3247 posts
10/21/2019 1:35 pm

Yes but success requires work and patience, too many liars, cheaters , flakes and virtual seekers. Real and genuine seems rare, now mostly here for blogging and entertainment. Guess too many liars and no shows, hard to keep being optimistic. How about yourself?

utfrangrl 46F
267 posts
10/21/2019 12:56 pm

Yes have met up with a lot of site singles and couples.

fashionablegma 77F
8060 posts
10/21/2019 11:46 am

Oh yes for the many years I have been on here,though over time my tastes in men have changed a lot,i guess as I have aged in body but not my soul

PumpkinSpice6 36F  
192 posts
10/21/2019 10:58 am

Very successful.

yumehole 54F
111 posts
10/21/2019 10:07 am

We have been very successful here.

DiscreteEscape4U 44M
28 posts
10/21/2019 9:56 am

Met some good people, and some that seemed promising, but not that ended up with a meet.☹️ With a standard membership, it's tough to even start talking...

rebelram999999 51M
72 posts
10/21/2019 9:00 am

Yes i have been successful, not as much as I have hoped, but I have had a couple of great meets and looking for many more!

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stilshoots 73M  
35 posts
10/21/2019 8:49 am

Only met with one woman and she wants to meet again . Most women on here a FAKE . Have chatted with several but no meets

tryusfororal2019 63M/54F
134 posts
10/21/2019 8:23 am

We are working a little closer to find our lucky guy.

docotis53 67M
241 posts
10/21/2019 7:54 am

Few and far between

iajo60 59M/56F
72 posts
10/21/2019 7:19 am

good for you wish you the best here

iajo60 59M/56F
72 posts
10/21/2019 7:17 am

It's like anywhere there are people just trolling but can't put everyone in that group

CharlotteID 52T

10/21/2019 7:16 am

I would be more receptive to meeting if the men on here would put forth more effort than this line, hey want to meet up and fuck. I like like any other girl is down for hot sex but however if there's no built in get to know ya time then it just comes off as seeking a woman that does meet up for just sex as a means to the end. Not that I am disparaging or judging those women as a girl has gotta do what a girls gotta do. As in my case a lot of men want discreet and that's okay,but at least put effort into creating a "date night in" and I don't care if we cook food,get pizza delivered or $.99 tacos and movies or listen to music. See I am okay with going out to do those things as well and just because a potential partner is not,does not mean that aspect of getting to know some one to perhaps engage in hot sex encounters gets tossed to the side,my belief is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys,so ya I want spend time with you to find out if your a nice guy.

JJPark2018 53M/41F  
85 posts
10/21/2019 5:25 am

Awesome supply of guys for my Wife. It is required she is a nympho..
Fairly good supply of Couples for full swap.

newportnewsman69 38M
19 posts
10/21/2019 4:49 am

Yes iI've been successful on here. Met some wonderful ppl on here.

MomoBear1 70M/105F  
345 posts
10/21/2019 2:29 am

We have been very successful her in meeting men for her, coupled for us both and naughty bifem for our wild sex fun

willlickualot 56M
32 posts
10/21/2019 2:19 am

yes I met a few women on here an we are good friends

tryme992012 61M
46 posts
10/20/2019 11:23 pm

3yes once in awhile seems most women just want to chat not meet.

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1401 posts
10/20/2019 10:24 pm

I have cyber met people mostly . . . most of the women with whom I seem to share a mutual connection seem to all live on the far side of mountains or oceans if not both, I have met a few local women and they have been fine people just not someone that I am attracted to.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

neednewfun50 63M  
113 posts
10/20/2019 9:05 pm

maybe once every year and half or so get lucky but mostly just a lot of fakes flakes and women who just want attention without ever truly planning to meet

19me66 M
16 posts
10/20/2019 8:27 pm

I have chatted (a lot) but when it was time to go f2f got ghosted. Very frustrating. Much more difficult in here for a straight guy.

letsgettogeth119 60M

10/20/2019 7:37 pm

Met two people here a few years ago. Had great sex with both. Now, there's very little activity.

sexydad1167 52M  
1361 posts
10/20/2019 7:17 pm

Yes, although I haven't met anyone in a few years. When I was meeting, met around 20-30, some worked out some didn't. A few became close friends.

zeke53028 61M  
1109 posts
10/20/2019 12:40 pm

I'm not really looking to meet anyone from here. I use it mainly for the blogs and as a time waster. Plus the women I'd be interested in are hundreds of miles away.

looking4u69ca 60M
4263 posts
10/20/2019 11:15 am

I'll say kinda. Met a few I had sex with. Met a few I would not have sex with.
A hell of a lot of effort with very little results.

Mr00Fun4U 61M  
975 posts
10/20/2019 9:18 am

Aaahhh no luck yet in physically meeting someone. Been close a few times so that's what keeps me going...the thrill of the hunt/chase.

Plus I have met through correspondence and become friends with some tremendous Women. That is plus/benefit that I never even saw coming my way.

Have you been successful here

Leegs2012 47M
56548 posts
10/20/2019 9:18 am

Yes, just blogging away and loving your Blog!!

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MyBaffies 51M
4422 posts
10/20/2019 8:59 am

Had some success. Went a year meeting up with someone regularly before she called an end to it. So if that one year out of the fifteen or so years I've been on here counts as a success, then yes.


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Thatcher04354 61M
7 posts
10/20/2019 8:53 am

It depends on your definition of successful. Have I met new people and made new friends- YES. Have I had sex with new people? YES Have I found a long term hook up- NO

roustabout6 64M
132 posts
10/20/2019 8:19 am

Met a couple of times just a one time thing. I'm not young and hung anymore, so one shot is all I get, oh well, thanks for the memories...

LickU4Hours333 49M
31 posts
10/20/2019 7:58 am

Good story and I get points too

CleavageFan4U 63M  
63133 posts
10/20/2019 6:56 am

I put kinda.

Initially - yes -wildly, but the place has definitely slackened of late. Not sure if it is (incorrect) assumptions ladies make given my age, or if the pool is just fished out, or what.

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seems6666 50F
4117 posts
10/20/2019 6:00 am

Hmmmm I've met a few over the years.... some I still chat to, some I hope I never see again,,, and probably won't , some who want to meet again after ghosting me
I did me my ex on here,, that lasted 10 years.. most of it pretty shit
So I guess it's a bit hit and miss

azriel1970 50M

10/20/2019 5:33 am

I will say yes. Though it has been a bit I have met some amazing people on here and no not everyone I played with lol.

TicklePlease 52F  
12892 posts
10/20/2019 5:03 am

A few people who've become close friends in real life? Check

Quite a few acquaintances whom I keep in regular touch with and look forward to seeing in real life when I travel to their city again? Check

A handful of lovers over the years who've taught me all kinds of wonderful things in and out of the bedroom? Check

A double handful of fun dates that didn't go anywhere but were enjoyable company for a few hours? Check

Yup, I'd say I've been wildly successful here!

Granny872 68F  
2755 posts
10/20/2019 4:58 am

'Success' is different for everybody, yes?

I have met a few men, but have I met men I wanted to or was offered the option to meet more than once? No.

Yep, it's my blog, and the content is not up for a vote or for manipulation. If you don't like the content, just stop reading. Easy peasey.

luvhandle14 54M  
481 posts
10/20/2019 4:54 am

Yes, but not that often

MsSwitch4MrRight 53F

10/20/2019 4:36 am

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