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Stood up?  

Mtthunder406 38M
24 posts
7/9/2019 2:56 pm
Stood up?

Have ever been stood up on this site or had someone puss last minute?
All the time
I've been the puss
For a gift card
Sure but it was probably a good thing

10171 posts
7/9/2019 5:24 pm


by a gadfly type personality.
case closed.

Mtthunder406 38M
46 posts
7/9/2019 7:50 pm

Thats ruff.

12724 posts
7/9/2019 11:43 pm



funmaleinmd 45M
31 posts
7/10/2019 6:39 am

It's typically "I just got my period". I've also had "the baby sitter didn't show up".

Mtthunder406 38M
46 posts
7/10/2019 2:46 pm

What about my kids sick?

1025mws 56M
677 posts
7/11/2019 3:32 pm

I have set up a time and place to meet this woman and she never showed up.
She did not even call or write to say why. That is pretty bad when you drove 2 hours to be with her.

Mtthunder406 38M
46 posts
7/11/2019 9:04 pm

I think people like the idea of getting laid??

drlktrhot 50M  
10 posts
7/13/2019 5:49 am

Had someone go into panic mode and leave after arriving because they could hear they neighbors....

BlkGoddessE 42F  
1 post
7/13/2019 7:35 am

I had a guy show up. He was jittery as all get out. As a good hostess, I offered him a stiff drink & small talk. He said he'd rather "get to it". So when u touched him, he jumped. I asked him to leave. Skittish & lame dicks are a huge turn off.

Mtthunder406 38M
46 posts
7/13/2019 4:06 pm

Yeah people are lame if not crazy

Rochblue 43F
75 posts
12/8/2019 12:40 pm

Generally speaking, the whole 'stood up' thing is usually a catfish thing. They can only play that game for so long before the end of the line comes one day and meets are discussed or arranged...then poof, no show, no call. They move on to their next gullible victim and start all over again. It's not exclusive to catfish, but it's a big part of it. I have heard of men and women occasionally getting cold feet before, though. I don't know. The way I see it is that if you really get to know one specific person pretty well online and over a good amount of time (in terms of months or more), establish legitimacy over time when meets are at the point of consideration (meaning web cam, phone call or something along those lines), then the likelihood of being stood up is slim. Like all things in life which yield a rewarding outcome, patience is a virtue and the time and effort put forth up front will much likely yield a much higher and quality success rate. The complete strangers who want to contact each other and meet immediately seem much more likely to fall in the realm of fakes, scammers, catfish, gold diggers, prostitutes or otherwise of some negative outcome.

Mtthunder406 38M
46 posts
12/30/2019 9:18 am

I agree rochblue. Seems like saying" lets meet at a bar or coffee for a quick drink(aka a public place) so we can face to face a yea or nay?" Would be an easy thing to do but even thats difficult for some reason. SMDH

Rochblue 43F
75 posts
1/6/2020 12:52 am

Mtthunder406 "I agree rochblue. Seems like saying" lets meet at a bar or coffee for a quick drink(aka a public place) so we can face to face a yea or nay?" Would be an easy thing to do but even thats difficult for some reason. SMDH"

I think that "some reason" is simply due to many factors.
First of all, despite of the illusion of what we think is true around here, there are honestly very few real and legitimate women left on this site. A lot of that is due primarily behavioral issues with men around here. I know for a fact that not a single day goes by when I'm on here and get contacted with mountains of nonsense, ignorance, retorting, retaliation, arguments, exposing people for ill behavior, others irrelevantly making contact with me, wasting time, wasting effort, wasting points, getting frustrated and annoyed, nobody reading profiles, etc, etc, etc... Bottom line: women don't come here to be mistreated, talked down to, argued with or having to cater to those who cannot and/or will not read profiles. We have no incentive to be on the site. This is why almost no real women even exist here these days. Those who do mainly use the site for online only aspects of what it offers and have no desire whatsoever to chat to most men here, much less meet them or sleep with them. The illusion of abundance is created through fake profiles, bots, catfish and otherwise. Secondly, those very few real women who actually exist on site with intent to eventually meet up are very selective, in most cases. Let's face it, AdultFriendFinder is a congregation place of bottom feeders, losers, idiots, mentally challenged, low IQ, perverts, creeps, liars and otherwise (generalizing). Women know this and are cautious. We like to get to know men for a long time first (usually months or even in terms of a year or more sometimes) to feel comfortable enough to consider meeting, and only if decency seems to exist without any fear or vibes of any red flags we should be concerned and hesitant about. So I believe these are all of the reasons of why just striking up a chat with a local stranger and offering up an invite to a public bar or coffeehouse for a drink/meet & greet is that difficult anymore. The site and the people on this site seem to constantly get worse and worse.

Just my theories and my very own personal views on it all, anyway.

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