This group is for meeting
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Posted:Apr 21, 2014 11:23 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 10:00 am
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What a concept, people on here that actually meet! Hi I am the guy behind this group. I got tired of being told I was to old, to single, not experienced enough, ya ya ya. I think you get the point. So I decided to start a group that actually plays.
I am outside of Toledo. I plan on throwing smaller parties every couple of months with different themes. A couple of times a year will be larger house parties.
So the big question I get asked is what am I looking for? We are looking for real, drama free adults. Adults that are looking to meet and play. People that follow the rules.
Couples, single men or women. Not looking at to young. If this is you drop me a line and follow the blog and group posts for upcoming parties.
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Our little group
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Posted:Nov 30, 2014 7:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2014 10:49 pm
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Question I get asked rightful so from many is what is our group like? Well we are still finding our core group. We have 4 couples , a single woman and 3 guys that make most of our parties. Most of our couples are in their 40's. Most of our folks are White. Most are Middle class. The people that attend are generally from 50 miles or closer.
So the rest of our parties are filled by generally first timers. We have no problem with this. I think that the Porn industry has people thinking that parties are an orgy or free for all. They can be if that is how they are set up. Are parties are not like this. We have some social time, introductions then people can ask to play with others.
We start at around 7 and people may leave when they wish to. Most often around 11 to midnight many start to leave then. We have still been going till 2 am.
There are 3 bedrooms and a basement space for play. When it is warmer, discreet play is allowed outside in the back yard.
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The rules
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Posted:Apr 21, 2014 11:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2015 8:34 pm
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Sorry folks but there has to be some rules. The rules are simple for every party they are First, NO means NO. We are serous about this. It does not mean You will do it anyhow. It does not if you ask often enough it will happen. It just means no.
Second rule, Respect others. If you get turned down be nice about it. If you are rejecting someone be polite about it. Treat others like you would like to be treated. Third rule No drugs and yes 420 is a drug. Drinking in moderation is fine.
Regarding Bi play. I do not screen for Bi people nor do I screen them out. If you are going to play then please move to a room and ask if others are ok with it. If not please close the Door.
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Thinking about attending a party?
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Posted:Jul 19, 2014 8:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2014 7:27 pm
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So You have read or are reading the Blog. Maybe watched a video and checked out our pictures. You find yourself thinking that would be great to attend. But you never sign up.
For New people. These are a great way to see how a party works and experience one, or two. Chances are what you think goes on and what actually goes on are two different things. You are not required to play at our parties. You may join in, watch or just meet other people if you desire.
For Couples. This is a safe way to meet other couples or that single person you have dreamed about.
For single ladies. I get more questions and more views from single women that never come. Why? I am sure in the end you talk yourself out of it. This is the best way to meet and play with other people. You are in a safe environment. You have others around you and you get to pick and choose.
Single guys. For those of you that have manners and come, you always have a good time.
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How to not get invited to a party
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Posted:Jul 6, 2014 12:44 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2015 8:27 pm
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Well as a public service I thought this was important to post. When you ask to get invited be polite about it. Things like I need Fuk, How many woman are going to be there? I need laided. I need to cum, All are less than desirable first liners to ask about the party.
So read the rules, read some on the blog, if you can our profile is a great source of information also.
Be respectful. A great example of this was the now blocked blueeyes43566. Who kept asking for the address for the party. He was informed no one just gets an address unless they are invited to the party. I do not have a girl anymore, whats the address? Sorry my rules no address, until you are invited. Then comes the flood of what a jerk wad asshole, moron I am for not handing this over to him.
onlydirtyruffsex hits me up on Im asking, "adding males" my response back to him was"Looking for more. Most seem unable to read the rules on the blog and respond back."
He replies thats being a standard, thanks asshole.
No call, no shows. If you can not make it tell us. We had hangmelo202 ask to come then admit that he works every Saturday and can not attend. But next time he will be there. The Hosts before of this group informed me he was banned by them for No call no show. Ask for an invite if you can attend.
Picture collectors, There are pictures on here. Please do not ask for more and more. This just shows how much of a perv you are and you are not showing up anyway, RIGHT.
Argue with the host. This always works well to tell the Host how wrong he is. You can respectful ask and state your case. I have changed my mind about allowing a couple of Men to attend. Most often whining and begging gets you no where.
Part of the duty of the Host is to screen out people who we think are not going to fit in. This may range from age to sexual practices. So when people can not read the rules, act like and swear at you because you have not instantly agreed to whatever they want, all these are warning signs. So far at all the parties I have been to I have never seen someone thrown out. So screening does work. So if you are asked questions by the Host. We are only doing our job. Do not take it out on us
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Private reply section
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Posted:Mar 18, 2014 10:25 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2015 7:21 am
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Want to contact me? only this post is set to private. You may leave personal information here so that I can contact you regarding parties. I am a standard member I can not email you on here.
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The Offical summer party sign up!
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Posted:Jun 14, 2015 9:06 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2015 9:09 am
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It is a Flip Flop Fling
Time to relax and have fun! It is time for our House swing party. Three bedrooms for fun and a tent to play in with outside night play by the bonfire! Will have a shallow pool to cool off in along with sodas and snacks.
So in the spirit of summer we are asking everyone to wear flip flops and their favorite Summer clothing.
Party by invite only! You must ask to be invited. There are limits on the number of single males to be invited. Folks that have attended before you need just to ask for an invite. NEW PEOPLE, as host I will ask to chat with you over coffee or by phone. you also will have to send me a face picture for my use only. If you can not chat with me then please do not ask to come and waste my time.
Same rules as our other parties. See above.
Time; 7:00 pm
What is provided: soda, snacks Ice, coolers, firewood,condoms, some toys and lube.
What you need: Adult beverage of your choice, flip flops.
Location: By invite, just east of Toledo.Address will be sent to you about a week before the party
Sign up start for COUPLES and SINGLE WOMEN first and will be open only to them until July 1 when single men may ask for an invite.
Right now the group has lost Gold status so contacting you may be a problem. Email me or go above to the private reply box and leave me a way to contact you.
ALSO I am thinking about a hot tub, any feelings on this? Let me hear some feed back.
Couples 1
rm_jademarin + friend
Single ladies 2
Jan
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Some guys!
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Posted:May 31, 2015 9:56 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 4:31 pm
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Fairly recently there was a post from a male asking to be forgiven for being kicked out from our parties. Now for the most part we have always had a 3 strikes and you are out rule. So in a nutshell this guy got drunk and roughly handled a lady. So he was warned about his drinking and roughness. He asks for and gets another chance. He acts up at this party by insulting a Vet, jumping in front of other guys to keep them from playing, then runs those very guys down by calling them a bunch of little dick guys. There is more but why take up the space.
So gentleman when you read from ladies why they are unsure about meeting you, this is why. If you read how rude a guy was to her, this is him or someone like him.
Ladies and couples, this is we screen and why we ask you to inform your host if anything happens at the party, not months later. Thankful this is rare. Which we intend to keep this way.
We do not have many rules but what rules we do have are important and are to be followed. For folks new to this we are always opened to questions and direction.
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Summer party
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Posted:Apr 29, 2015 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 7:25 am
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So since people have been asking, our summer party will be on July 18. This is a sat. It will be an inside/ outside party like last year. Yes there will be a fire at night with a blanket close by ( those at last years party knows what this means). Any ideas for a theme?
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What if? number two
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Posted:Apr 21, 2015 6:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2015 9:52 pm
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You attend a party and a couple of weeks later you find you have been infected with a STD. What do you do?
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Time for what if ? number one
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Posted:Apr 2, 2015 11:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2015 8:11 am
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Here is a set of questions meant to make you think about you and swinging. Some will be easy to answer. Others will be harder. Please do not take the east route on these, you will only cheat yourself. I invite all to reply, even if your answer is already posted.
So you meet a couple at a swing party and a few weeks later you receive an invite to go play at their home. You play with protection. The husband does not because he is vas safe. The woman calls you a few weeks later and tells you that she is pregnant.
What do you do? How do you think the should be raised? Who should raise the and be in their life? If they ask you not to be part of the childs life would you agree? If they asked you to be part of their life would you?
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Feb House Party, please read
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Posted:Feb 10, 2015 10:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2015 8:25 am
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Due to lack of interest, weather maybe the host..... Feb House party is cancelled. See you in the summer.
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HEY YOU, idiot!
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Posted:Jan 3, 2015 11:55 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2015 10:46 pm
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Time for a class on swing rules. It seems like almost every guy on here seems to think I am a woman and therefore can say the most crude things they want. For the record your host is a guy. A straight guy that has no interest in seeing your dick, sucking you, or letting you screw me. Even if I was a woman the way you have approached me would be a turn off. Stop and think for just a second, this is a group so do you think that pictures with women are not going to show up? Why do you ASSUME they are by a women?
So in the swing world one usually needs to go through the husband to get to the wife. When sending a message or talking on chat it is always best to find out who you are talking to. A simple question of is this the Male or Female is acceptable. One of the things that many do not understand about couples swinging is that the man most often enjoys watching his partner have sex with others. He most often screens potential playmates. So starting right off with a up close dick picture and or crude comments most often will get you no where.
Respect and nice comments will more often get you some place. That may not be to the bedroom but then everyone on here are not for everyone.
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