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Nashville_Milf 35F  
55 posts
9/28/2017 1:50 am
Tied up and Spanked

Im one of the odd ones that loves to get tied up just as much as I like to tie up a man and spank him. Most women dont like it both ways but I love to switch. I can be a DOM and I can be a SUB and honestly love them both equally.

I found out this is rare and even got some shit for it by some "professional" S&M types, whatever that means.

I dont think one HAS to be one or the other. Once can be sexually stimulated being a DOM OR A SUB at any given time. For me its role play. Its fun. I enjoy it both ways.

This week Im a DOM though! LOL. We shall see how I feel next week!

Cum_Happy 108M
2810 posts
9/28/2017 7:00 am

As beautiful as you are, you should be able to have it both ways, always.
You do have a dominant look though. Maybe it's just my own craving. Sometimes I do wish to be completely submissive to a beautiful woman. But I too can and do switch. I'm just a plain old kinkster when it comes right down to it. I also have cravings to be humiliated, and I get some strange reactions to that, haha.

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RobK2006 54M
5854 posts
9/28/2017 7:49 am

You are very sexy! I think it is cool that you like to be both a dom and a sub.

notsure1949 72M
10491 posts
9/28/2017 8:20 am

nice photo, not into that

forgotforgetting 55M
7966 posts
9/28/2017 9:27 am

No one is one thing all the time. Perferences are known to shift and sometimes with the wind. So, just keep being you.

Welcome to the blogs.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde

SingleItalianGy2 49M  
1196 posts
9/28/2017 8:33 pm


First I want to thank you for sharing your BLOG and your post. In regards to your post I agree with you a 100% you can be what ever you want as long as you enjoy it and it makes you happy. Doesnt matter what others think...especially the so called "professionals". If they were truly professionals they would know it only matters where your heart and mind allows you to go.


38 posts
1/26/2018 1:08 am

Daddy's Little girl needs a spanking!

38 posts
1/26/2018 1:10 am

Daddy's Little girl needs a spanking! Best pussy I've ever had! Yummy!

Rsp24099 46M
15 posts
5/21/2018 1:49 pm

Hey very very sexy

Rustyone49 57M
3 posts
6/8/2018 6:59 pm

Being male, i served as a submissive to a mistress years ago. i loved the humiliation, servitude, and giving her pleasure without taking any of my on. the direction, strive for perfection, to please...i took honor and was humbled at her pleasure...aw, to serve again

NowIC4U 59M
79 posts
8/17/2018 3:38 pm

I'm with you

sleemanjack68 53M

9/20/2018 1:52 pm

Love those eyes...

Thickdick3333 45M
4 posts
9/23/2018 11:29 pm

Nashville,Milf you are very sexxxy.


jaylvsbigcock 46M
5 posts
10/19/2018 11:50 am

Im here for your bidding Ma'am. Tell me what you want me to do.

jaylvsbigcock 46M
5 posts
10/20/2018 4:34 pm

This messenger hates me......Im yours

jaylvsbigcock 46M
5 posts
10/29/2018 8:05 am

So Miss Ashley this week finds me on vacation and free ALL WEEK. Youre not going to let that slide by are you? I'm a licensed electrician and also have a plethora of 'other' useful skills. I know my way around a toolbox ya know. I'll volunteer my time allowing you to put me to work at any and all task needed or desired as to not let this week be waisted in less meaningful ways. I will satisfy your every want.

4tenn 75M
44 posts
10/29/2018 7:19 pm

Ashley, I just like to fuck.

pleasespankme33 55M
158 posts
12/5/2018 5:54 pm

Depending on my partner Ican be sub or Dom........i enjoy about a 60/40....therefore more of a sub/Switch........

Looknfind18 69M  
4364 posts
12/20/2018 10:46 am

lovely photo!

Msrikki 47M/47F  
207 posts
12/23/2018 2:24 am


loneleix 61M
925 posts
1/7/2019 10:54 am

Balance in all things..... at least it's a good goal.

I find that I enjoy the excitement of my partner and it doesn't matter that much what it takes to get there.

jslhiggy 50M
1 post
1/18/2019 8:49 am


Bigjon466 48M
3 posts
2/27/2019 11:22 pm

?*Blond folded to?*

jimijames2016 55M
22 posts
3/3/2019 11:22 pm

You go girl !!! Yea I like it both ways also, some days I'm the itch and some days I'm the scratch... can't tell why or when it flips either xoxo Jim

BigHeart269U 56M
6 posts
3/9/2019 8:32 pm

Well Ashley, most Trophy wives wudn't be allowed 2b Both... perhaps that's why you left. Your independent Eagle nature should be your guide & I applaud that! Think we wud have sum Great Fun together, but wud wanna establish a bit o' Trust b4 we went both ways... but I'm game 2 try! hmu

NorthernReb57 64M

3/24/2019 11:31 pm

You are very right, no reason why it can't be both ways especially if that's what you like and the you mood changes.

headbell 66M

3/30/2019 5:39 am

hi, you are a gorgeous sexy hot young hottie, I have never been tied up or tied anyone. I would love to try this with you

Jdhot4Tg 57M  
1215 posts
4/19/2019 8:13 pm

MMM Nice pic

wolfpilgrim 67M
1 post
4/19/2019 10:46 pm

I would enjoy immensely going from one to the other and back again and again ........and again

dcoe47901 53M
1 post
4/20/2019 4:13 am

I'm m gonna fall in love with you Nashville girl lol want to give you my number I don't know if you were able to get it my love angel

LadiesR2B1rst 58M  
1721 posts
4/22/2019 12:33 am

Very much interested Dani !

OlderGent965 62M

4/27/2019 10:19 pm

......my goodness, you are dangerously attractive. Your pic is enough to drive any man mad with lust and desire.

TruckerGary57 60M
1 post
5/10/2019 2:04 am

Mmmmm. Spank me do what ever you want to me

shyguysrock 35M
1 post
7/3/2019 7:11 am

Tie me up and use me how ever you want

freakzone1966 55M/47F
1 post
8/2/2019 5:55 pm

you are either fake or the woman of my dreams for which i would do anything

Encouragable101 50M
1 post
8/8/2019 7:54 am

I believe both parties should be giving 110%. And that should include trying new things. Guys are very demanding and expect to have their way. Why shouldn't a woman have the same. Guys who dont try new things are missing out It keeps it interesting fun and hot. Your right a lot if not most ppl aren't into it. Its their loss. Kinky sex is a learned behavior and some ppl arent even on the path. I recently started Being a switch and I like it. opens a whole new dynamic. Finding partners?? More difficult depending on what your into.

I like your comment, you do have a look, um sexy no mistaking. Fuck' um if they don't like or care to try and Judge.


AhPuch 34M

8/9/2019 2:56 am

ahpuch1 on kick and adonisgood on snap

earlybird861 44M  
45 posts
8/12/2019 12:28 am

oh Baby, you look hot

Jdhot4Tg 57M  
1215 posts
9/11/2019 4:42 am

MMM adlest your honest,i'm love a hot Redhead

jason2371961 60M
432 posts
9/17/2019 3:40 am

hello its nice to see you

EasyArie 52M
1 post
9/18/2019 10:49 pm

Nothing wrong with you. Anyone that can't accept you for you isn't worth your time or energy. You're beautiful and fuck anyone that says differently!

wannado3773 30M
16 posts
9/30/2019 8:37 pm

I think its a fine conclusion, and quite sexy. Hope we could chat more

blondehair56 65M
2 posts
11/3/2019 1:44 am

well as beautiful as you are i'd say you should have your cake and eat it too, and i'd like to help you either way because I can be flexible when it comes to what a woman wants or enjoys.

whitechoco322 36M

11/19/2019 5:53 am

tiep up,licked,sucked,spanked....

HOrnyPerv5000 36M
1 post
1/4/2020 4:44 am

I would enjoy possibly being your sub. Wait I would definitely enjoy that

HOrnyPerv5000 for the WIN!

Sagboi11 25M
16 posts
2/11/2020 1:42 am

That’s pretty hot

DPrived4Fun73 48M

2/15/2020 11:17 pm

Those eyes are hypnotic, they can make me do anything you want to do! Beautiful......

LadiesR2B1rst 58M  
1721 posts
2/22/2020 8:37 pm

I would much rather be tied to you !

rcj8869 50M
3 posts
4/15/2020 3:09 pm

Wow, I didn't realize you posted this blog over a year ago. I wonder if you're still getting notifications when someone leaves a comment?
I think you can be switch if that is what you like. I personally don't see anything wrong with switching, it makes it more interesting , fun and exciting.

discreetdesir55 63M/61F
43 posts
5/20/2020 9:51 pm

yup...looks like you would taste sweet.

justchecknin 44M
126 posts
5/27/2020 8:51 pm

I think I would really enjoy the switching moods!!

4234002 53M
1 post
8/18/2020 4:38 am

ready when you are ........let me know......

headbell 66M

8/31/2020 4:12 am

hi sweetie, thanks for the flirts. I feel you can be what ever role you enjoy at the time behind closed doors, as long as both enjoy, have fun & cum

2tallbamaman 52M
1 post
11/3/2020 11:48 pm

I totally agree with everything you said. I been looking for a female switch for 2 decades but not going to give up because I know she is out there somewhere.

logbuilder09 62M  
1 post
11/21/2020 3:07 pm

tie me up babie

stage28 55M  
1 post
10/7/2021 11:58 pm

Tell it like it is sister. Never be ashamed of who or what you are. Lords know I ain't. I feel real men take it up the ass. At the same time I like to mix it up some and switch. Good luck to you. I think it would be nice getting to know you. Keep on keeping on...

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