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Naughtypursuit 52F  
1828 posts
1/26/2020 7:59 am
Etiquette in online sex/dating sites


Internetiquette

-Your word is your worth - Avoid appeasing and making empty commitments, don't lie. Its better to be disappoint at the get-go then to build up deception over time

-Don't piss on the seedlings, they become Trees - assuming someone is a weed because you are not familiar with them or they seem unequal to you will only get you into trouble

-All Trees can be felled - no one is too tall, too strong, too powerful or impervious. Even a mighty tree can be felled by a tiny bug

-Any plant can heal or harm - depending on how you interact with it. Its better to understand nuances then to decree everything is absolute. Just because someone disagree with you does not make them evil

-Don't poison the pot (blogville) - if you pour poison into the well you drink from you will eventually feel the effects

-Whats good for the goose is good for the goose - just because someone does something their own way, they are saying what works for them. Its normal to compare and contrast but there is no need to set up competition or drama over it. -We have all walked in different shoes in our lives

-Follow the intent - rather then jumping to defensive/offensive/being triggered take a minute to reflect, better yet take 24 hours to reflect.

-Follow the rule of threefold - read everything three times, read your response three times.

-Remember you can catch more flies with honey then you can with sour milk

-Know yourself, dont mistake your dogs admiration as evidence that you are wonderful. Don't use knowing yourself as an excuse to excuse your bad behaviour.

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you - Tzu

Naughtypursuit 52F  
2563 posts
1/26/2020 8:00 am

Internetiquette

-Your word is your worth - Avoid appeasing and making empty commitments, don't lie. Its better to be disappoint at the get-go then to build up deception over time

-Don't piss on the seedlings, they become Trees - assuming someone is a weed because you are not familiar with them or they seem unequal to you will only get you into trouble

-All Trees can be felled - no one is too tall, too strong, too powerful or impervious. Even a mighty tree can be felled by a tiny bug

-Any plant can heal or harm - depending on how you interact with it. Its better to understand nuances then to decree everything is absolute. Just because someone disagree with you does not make them evil

-Don't poison the pot (blogville) - if you pour poison into the well you drink from you will eventually feel the effects

-Whats good for the goose is good for the goose - just because someone does something their own way, they are saying what works for them. Its normal to compare and contrast but there is no need to set up competition or drama over it. -We have all walked in different shoes in our lives

-Follow the intent - rather then jumping to defensive/offensive/being triggered take a minute to reflect, better yet take 24 hours to reflect.

-Follow the rule of threefold - read everything three times, read your response three times.

-Remember you can catch more flies with honey then you can with sour milk

-Know yourself, dont mistake your dogs admiration as evidence that you are wonderful. Don't use knowing yourself as an excuse to excuse your bad behaviour.

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you - Tzu


waterdrop00 52M
130 posts
1/26/2020 8:03 am

Very profound wisdom ............ but few practice the principles.....


cwazywabbit009 55M
6195 posts
1/26/2020 8:05 am

Now to get those that need this to read this, that is the challenge!

Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


hornybbc69 60M
103 posts
1/26/2020 8:06 am

well said keep it up thanks for sharing lol....


1seeking1 54F
2968 posts
1/26/2020 8:13 am

Thanks for sharing, hopefully more will read this.


dwz5234 67M  
263 posts
1/26/2020 8:31 am

I like your words so true so many more should read this thank you


MrBlkking 51M
6 posts
1/26/2020 8:41 am

As I was reading these well written and noted wise words, I started to think you were trying to talk about gardening. lol. With that, everyone on this site has an obligation to be respectful to themselves AAAAND to those they interact with on this site. Being honest is the key, yet very few people have not come to grips with that word....HONESTY. It is much needed today.


Paulxx001 63M  
15412 posts
1/26/2020 8:41 am

I'm having wine for breakfast... You?
Something I read, about starting a day off, on the right foot. 🍷🍷🍷🍷

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


lust4life59 61F  
265 posts
1/26/2020 8:43 am

THis is all so true. One of the best bits of advice I got from my late husband was not responding to a heated discussion without thinking about my response for 24 hours. One of the beauties of a blog is that it gives you time to respond, rather than the chatroom, wait two mins and the moment is lost forever. It was OK to write it in the heat of the moment, just don't hit send. If you revisited your response the next day, and it was still relevant, then and only then reply. Nine times out of ten, my response ended up in the trash bin.


mc_justmc 59M  
5594 posts
1/26/2020 8:43 am

Unfortunately, the people who need this, won't read this.


golsingh1 60M
24 posts
1/26/2020 9:03 am

We all need to be thoughtful BFFORE opening our mouths to speak.


JustLookn439 54M
527 posts
1/26/2020 9:40 am

Never ever give out etiquette advice!! LOL... don't want to tell people how to PRETEND to be nice people. It is better that they fall all over themselves with stupidity and rudeness as it helps you weed them out more quickly!


uuwreckme 60M
173 posts
1/26/2020 10:10 am

That is a fantastic post naughty. Very wise words!! Felicitations!!


Tmptrzz 57F  
75267 posts
1/26/2020 10:36 am

You nailed this one Naughty thank you so much hun.. I hope you have a very Peaceful Sunday hun..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


misskissin 56F  
84903 posts
1/26/2020 10:43 am

Brilliantly put. Thank you for sharing.


drinksprite62 57M
4069 posts
1/26/2020 11:24 am

Very sound advice and well written. Wish more people would practice it.


BiggLala 48F  
27925 posts
1/26/2020 2:41 pm

    Quoting JustLookn439:
    Never ever give out etiquette advice!! LOL... don't want to tell people how to PRETEND to be nice people. It is better that they fall all over themselves with stupidity and rudeness as it helps you weed them out more quickly!
#truth

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leftoverture69 56M
163 posts
1/26/2020 3:28 pm

sound advice!


azriel1970 49M  
29131 posts
1/27/2020 5:23 am

Love this sweetie!!!!!!!


topherific 57M
4612 posts
1/28/2020 8:16 pm

actually piss is good for plants, promoting nitrogen adding to soil quality


Keppel37 51M
3598 posts
2/5/2020 8:16 am

That Lao Tze wasn't half a clever bloke.....

He maybe didn't come up with 'Keep it simple,stupid' but he should have

Mxxx


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