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Naughtypursuit 52F  
1825 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am
Self Love - Self Care


I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling.

In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex.

The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say.

The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved...

Ooops...guess sex was on my mind.

Naughtypursuit 52F  
2563 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am


sexyldy1000 59F  
4638 posts
2/6/2019 6:10 am

Congrats to you for feeling so comfortable and self-assured that you were able to be so honest. Bet your colleagues never expected you to be so revealing 😊

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:28 pm:
One of the blessings of getting older...

hogknot 53M  
818 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Sex is a good way to deal with traumatic incidents. I will have to try that


mc_justmc 59M  
5596 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Wish I could have seen the looks on their faces, I'd bet it was priceless. I bet they both went home and "self-cared" themselves thinking about that!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I know I did

txslowpoke 66M  
2485 posts
2/6/2019 6:25 am

wishing one day you would do some self care in texas... lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
I just might, I have had it with winter

charmer961 61M  
14540 posts
2/6/2019 6:44 am

Self care doesn't mean taking care of things yourself?

I love it.


rockhard_on 99M

2/6/2019 6:49 am

Sex is on my mind a lot, too, and I think that that is normal and healthy!


weeeload 56M

2/6/2019 6:55 am

.. honesty is the best policy



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Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
It truly is...

boobwhisperer69 57M  
5921 posts
2/6/2019 8:13 am

POW! You blew their mind! Would have liked to seen the look on their faces!


ltrskr 71M  
4028 posts
2/6/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting  :

The end is near, Repent at my house.........!


mutualbenefit69 45M
120 posts
2/6/2019 9:24 am

i agree, masturbation and sex is used fro stress relief. I also find that orgasming before bed does help me sleep better


Wonder167 53F  
4559 posts
2/6/2019 9:59 am

I also think it's great you felt comfortable in sharing your idea of self care. lol Maybe that can be added to protocol along with illustrations. lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Hmmm I wonder if they would give me a prescription....

Tmptrzz 57F  
75395 posts
2/6/2019 10:26 am

Naughty, such a great read hun and you should of gotten a picture of his face. As I am sure it was priceless, and we all have to do self care when we face traumatic events that occur in our lives, well said hun..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


XHamburgDave 76M  
9096 posts
2/6/2019 11:47 am

LMAO Jo Honesty is the Best Policy, loved to have seen their faces

my Friend


BiggLala 48F  
27931 posts
2/6/2019 12:18 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0
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VinnFromTheBlock 60M

2/6/2019 12:19 pm

What a coincidence ,,SO DO I!!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Lol I am sure you do...

BiggLala 48F  
27931 posts
2/6/2019 12:21 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0

Although, the Mentor gets an honorable mention for continuing the session after picking up his jaw from the floor. πŸ…
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Paulxx001 63M  
15434 posts
2/6/2019 2:02 pm

Oops is right... Lol 😁
So.. Inner monologue disappears for you as you get older? Kool.. Glad to know I'm not alone . 😊

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


drinksprite62 57M
4078 posts
2/6/2019 5:41 pm

You are not wrong.
Good for you in being open and honest.


azriel1970 49M  
29146 posts
2/6/2019 6:05 pm

LOL you and think so alike. Honestly I probably masturbate far too much. It is how I deal with a lot of things....


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 7:31 pm:
How can it every be too much...lol

lordjack1957 62M

2/6/2019 9:23 pm

Great minds think alike Milady... take good care of yourself!

LJ


wantaplay8 67M
5607 posts
2/7/2019 4:08 am

LOL...got them,,,,one counselor is well adjusted the other needs some counseling. Well I do like your methods of pushing those difficult visions out of your head.
Sex can be a hobby...at least I think so.


lindoboy100 57M
20702 posts
2/7/2019 11:43 am

Oops.....not quite a slip of the tongue, more so a slip of the finger......

I always knew there was more to you McSuit......ye're a wee bit special it seems!!

Pull ma finger.........


voyeur2017 56M
773 posts
2/7/2019 12:48 pm

That's why I visit this site often..... the need for self -care ~~~ ....happy to read you are well adjusted ~~


SteamedupAgain 53M

2/7/2019 5:00 pm

This is enlightening. I think I need you to counsel me. A lot. In the bath tub too.


CumsDeep 58M
76 posts
2/10/2019 9:55 am

Ouch!!!....brb... gotta go masturbate


Evocules 51M  
1237 posts
2/10/2019 8:09 pm

Self pleasure seems like acceptable self care to me! I console myself often!


rusty_nail 70M  
568 posts
2/11/2019 8:12 am

Sex is a good relaxer

I have also been known to watch the Chopped Food Network program while sipping Dewars to unwind. NO where near the relaxation that comes from masturbating --but it works some.


SolarPowered0 114M
8359 posts
2/11/2019 8:55 pm



Naughty Girl...

I ALWAYS deal with everything via the ol' chicken choke-hold.

I just have a sneakin' suspicion that if you were placin' a choke-hold on that ol' chicken of mine... I' likely be a whole lot less stressed... and I wouldn't need 3 quarts of BBQ sauce to bring to a well-done golden brown.

Solar...



HoHowdy 58M
1285 posts
2/15/2019 4:37 pm

I have lived through being with two coworkers being killed on the job, so I have a similar view. I think sex would be a reassurance of life and being human, and would be darn good therapy.


NJGUY08090 53M
2961 posts
2/24/2019 3:25 pm

Well if you are going to be a counselor you better be prepared. Good for you to be so very open honest.


DarkLoveFu 35M
29 posts
2/25/2019 11:13 am

Are you recommend a lot of sex to deal with my childhood trauma? Now I understand how I managed not to be bothered by everything back then...


Dtts43rt35 61M
6291 posts
2/28/2019 1:56 pm

What a good thing we can do and feel, sex is everything, thanks for sharing!


Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


penetrar37 42M
25 posts
2/28/2019 8:52 pm

it's so hard to follow posts in here


OldStiffOneEye01 46M
12 posts
3/2/2019 12:29 am

Good for you at being so open about your sexuality. I, too, normally can't sleep unless I self-care lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/2/2019 5:16 pm:
It's fantastic right

OlBlueEyz46 53M
663 posts
3/2/2019 12:30 pm

well now ur sexy ass is going to be on my mind as I tend to some self care!

xo


DM_72 47M
4 posts
3/11/2019 6:34 pm

Love how open and honest you are with yourself and your sexuality. At least the mentor stepped in and saved the blushing newbie


Eviloutlaw1 58M
2508 posts
3/28/2019 2:59 am

Wish I could have been a fly on the wall, spit our a mouth full of coffee laughing at this.


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/28/2019 4:32 am:
Lol Sorry...he was a little shy in the follow up meetings but he's all good now.

BEEFARAMA 44M
220 posts
1/16/2020 4:43 am

Whackin it is how I deal with all issues. So dont confront me in a wal mart unless you are wearing a rain suit.


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