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Diary of a Decent Guy #6 (trying to get verified)
Posted:Feb 23, 2016 6:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2016 1:59 pm


Why am i still not verified!

Sorry allow me to give you a bit of a back story. After deciding to throw myself back into this site, i decided to go the whole .... membership, VIP, Verification etc I have obviously managed to obtain the first two things, theyre easy. The problem is getting my account verified.

I have loaded a picture as it requires, after many many attempts before were apparently "not suitable" for one reason or the other. Anyway, the picture is loaded. Does anyone know how long it usually takes from when the photo is loaded to your account being verified and getting the little blue sticker?

PLEASE HELP! I just want to get my account verified asap!

Thanks in advance
Diary of a Decent Guy #5 (a slow night)
Posted:Feb 23, 2016 4:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2016 11:31 am

Well ive been sat at home following a long day at work, had eaten my evening food and been watching tele with cups of tea ever since. Obviously with this website to keep me in mischief.

Ive had a bit of a slow night tonight, not many people seem to be up for a chat. Its a shame really, because lets face it.... Im awesome. Oh my god NO! could you imagine if i was actually serious then! Dont worry im not an egocentrical kind of guy. Please dont judge me. ha

Anyway, so whilst ive not been chatting to people this evening its given me chance to explore the website a bit more. Theres quite alot of stuff on here isnt there never really had a look around it properly... just used the "main areas" Also been doing a little bit of webcam broadcasting for the first time. that was quite liberating actually.

Ive just realised, ive not really told you much about the Decent guy that writes this blog - me. So no i have to think what to tell you without it being too much! Ok here goes... Im Dave, a decent, passionate, truthful and slightly weird guy from Yorkshire in England. Ive been brought up to be a Gentleman and treat a woman like a godess. Doesnt mean im not a naughty guy though. Thats right despite being a gentleman i still like some naughty and kinky sex to spice up life. So im looking for the same thing as everyone else i imagine "A lady in public, A in Private" - Yes that old thing

If any of you ever fancy chatting to me im always up for meeting new people from around the world. I like to engage with people and learn about their experiences and share mine in return. So if you are reading this and thinking you havent had a message for a while, why not drop me a line? Im a friendly guy who wont send you a cock pic in my first message.

Ill at least wait till my second.

Anyway thats a bit about my evening, and a little piece of me. In and amongst the ramblings of a crazy person. Why am i still typing? I should stop shouldnt i?

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Diary of a Decent Guy #4 (to see or not to see)
Posted:Feb 23, 2016 3:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2016 2:15 pm
So i have a bit of a confession to make. I wear glasses. Have done for as long as i remember. The thing is, im not sure thats such a bad thing any more. When i grew up glasses were not cool. Obviously the old classics of "four eyes" etc would often be shouted! These days however, with the advent of Geek Chic...glasses are cool!(apparently!)

So i am interested to know peoples thoughts. Please leave a comment telling me whether you think i look better with or without glasses. You can see me without glasses on my profile picture, and theres a picture in this post of me with them on.

Go on let me know which you prefer! Yes this is probably fishing on some level, but i am also genuinely interested to know peoples honest thoughts. So dont just read this post, please please please let me know what you think!

Anyway, Im rambling again...

Diary of a Decent Guy #3 (after a long day...)
Posted:Feb 23, 2016 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2016 12:55 pm

What a long ass day that has been. Started badly, after having only a little sleep. Go to work and handle complaints all day. I need a massage and a cup of tea.... In fact wheres the alcohol?

Its rare for me to have a day that pushes me to alcohol, but i do have a nice "getting home routine" i wonder if anyone elses is the same as me! Id love it if after reading this post, you took a minute to leave a comment describing your routine!

Now obviously, being english, the first thing i do is put the kettle on. I mean what can help cure a bad day better than a nice brew! As the kettles boiling i go and turn my shower on to warm up and head to my bedroom.

I then get take of my suit, and begin to wander around my apartment naked. I casually sit and drink my first post work cup of tea in my birthday suit and put on some music to give the place a little atmosphere. I then head to the shower to make myself feel human again...

For me this is one of the best parts of the day, i get a nice warm shower and have some "me time" - Yes i do mean what you probably thought there. I have a bit of a slow play whilst washing. I just love the feeling of the warm water washing down my body, covering every inch of me. Its only natural that would make the feeling of touching yourself even better! After im done, i get out the shower, towel myself off, make myself smell nice and put on a fresh clean pair of tight boxers...

Ive done this for years.

So im interested to know if this makes me slightly odd, or if any of you lovely people have similar routines after a hard day at work! lets have some fun and share!
Diary of a Decent Guy #2 (is an open mind enough?)
Posted:Feb 22, 2016 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 29, 2016 2:57 pm

So here we all are. What a strange place this is. Somewhere filled with all the perversions of the flesh that as a species we have created..... isnt it great! I really think it is wonderful that we live in a time where a site like this is even possible! anyway thats just me rambling...

In this post I would like to talk a little bit about my outlook on life, and also my sexual philosphy. I know what youre probably thinking "great another bloke that is going to talk about tits" - well you are wrong.

In everyday life i have always been brought up to be a gentleman. Yeah i mean the whole works.. Pay for dates (i insist!), Give you my coat if you are cold/wet, hold the door for you.. yeah the whole nine yards. Being a male Ballroom and Latin dancer, i have grown up being told how to treat women with respect and loyalty. None of this one night stand malarky or cheating here. I cant help but thinking though, that maybe that is just a public front for my "true self"

In private i am a very different person. Not in a bad way dont worry! I am just an extremely naughty man behind closed doors. I suppose the word nymphomaniac would be relevant, but that probably doesnt surprise you as i am male! I cant help myself though, i just LOVE to pleasure the female body! I Love to try new things with partners, to find ways of making them wetter, to gain experience for the next time. I believe that the art of good sex is in having an open mind and trying new things, being able to read your partners body and react to what it likes/dislikes. Lastly i think in order to be really good at sex (as a bloke!) you need to be able give your partner all the pleasure they can handle...then a little bit more.

I have been told by some of my female friends that maybe this sets me apart from most guys they have been with. They said it is often a case of them just using them as a "hole to fuck" for the guy, rather than their pleasure being the focus. This genuinely mystifies me. I mean why would you not care about your partners pleasure?

Over the years i have gained a lot of experience. I have been very fortunate to have been with a wide variety of women. In that time i would like to think that i have learnt a thing or two about what the female body likes. I love all aspects of sex, i dont skip over foreplay, can last for hours in the bedroom, have a nicely proportioned cock, always put the womans pleasure first and i have an open mind. In this day of digital dating is that enough? On here first looks matter. I admit i am not the stereotypical chiseled man. I have a human body. It has nice parts, it has other parts. But its me.

I guess what i am really rambling about here is, in my eyes, im the perfect package when you "describe me out loud" or "write me down" ...I just dont look like a Calvin Klein model . I know, I know, how arrogant does that sound. If I am wrong thats fair enough i will happily back down from that statement.

So here is the punch line: Are there any people left out there who dont just make a decision about somebody based upon their looks, but who actually take time to get to know a lover - To build a connection of minds as well as the body?

Feel free to leave a comment with your thoughts or if you like what you read. I just start typing and see what comes out. So Sorry if it makes no sense!
Diary of a Decent Guy #1 (my journey begins)
Posted:Feb 22, 2016 4:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2016 6:14 am

So yet again i find myself signing up for membership on AdultFriendFinder. Ive decided this time to properly "throw myself into" this and so i have decided to start a blog. Within these incoherent ramblings, i aim to reflect the struggle you face as a decent guy just trying to have a little fun. Dont worry its not going to be me having a little cry about how no one pays me any attention - thats not the case. It will simply be observations and thoughts about adult dating scene...from my perspective.

So now the brief introduction to this diary is complete, i feel the pressure of having to think of what the "big opener" shall be. Ive decided that it should be what i think is the biggest issue facing single guys on here - preconcieved ideas

Now we all know there are guys out there who are...well...arseholes. I would be a liar and naive to say that wasnt the case. HOWEVER, i would like to think there are equal amount (if not more!) decent guys out there. Men who know how to treat a woman with respect, passion and equality. Gentlemen.

What i find interesting it this. Either the ladies on here tar you with the same brush as the arseholes. They think that you are only capable of monosolabic grunts whilst thinking with your penis. The first message we send has to be "spot on" in order to gain a response it seems. I personally try to make my messages individual, including something i have read on their profile to show i have understood it! The second thing that could happen is - friendzoned. When they find out youre a decent guy they just chat to you because youre sweet and different to "most guys" - So i ask, what the hell is the deal with that?

I realise peoples tastes are different. Thats fine. But sometimes it is hard to show a true reflection of your personality in a single digital text message. So maybe next time someone takes the time to write a decent message to you - Spark up a convo. You never know they might just be different...

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