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Diary of a Decent Guy #1 (my journey begins)  

OnlyASexToy85 36M
72 posts
2/22/2016 4:20 pm
Diary of a Decent Guy #1 (my journey begins)


So yet again i find myself signing up for membership on AdultFriendFinder. Ive decided this time to properly "throw myself into" this and so i have decided to start a blog. Within these incoherent ramblings, i aim to reflect the struggle you face as a decent guy just trying to have a little fun. Dont worry its not going to be me having a little cry about how no one pays me any attention - thats not the case. It will simply be observations and thoughts about adult dating scene...from my perspective.

So now the brief introduction to this diary is complete, i feel the pressure of having to think of what the "big opener" shall be. Ive decided that it should be what i think is the biggest issue facing single guys on here - preconcieved ideas

Now we all know there are guys out there who are...well...arseholes. I would be a liar and naive to say that wasnt the case. HOWEVER, i would like to think there are equal amount (if not more!) decent guys out there. Men who know how to treat a woman with respect, passion and equality. Gentlemen.

What i find interesting it this. Either the ladies on here tar you with the same brush as the arseholes. They think that you are only capable of monosolabic grunts whilst thinking with your penis. The first message we send has to be "spot on" in order to gain a response it seems. I personally try to make my messages individual, including something i have read on their profile to show i have understood it! The second thing that could happen is - friendzoned. When they find out youre a decent guy they just chat to you because youre sweet and different to "most guys" - So i ask, what the hell is the deal with that?

I realise peoples tastes are different. Thats fine. But sometimes it is hard to show a true reflection of your personality in a single digital text message. So maybe next time someone takes the time to write a decent message to you - Spark up a convo. You never know they might just be different...

*** Its like "Sex,Drugs & Rock'n'Roll.....Without the drugs......or the Rock'n'Roll...." So just filthy ramblings really! OnlyASexToy85***


nicelipss66 44F
23909 posts
2/22/2016 4:30 pm

Welcome to the blogs, and don't sweat it or worry about, just do your thing, enjoy it, hope to read more of you


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