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Diary of a Decent Guy #10 (if music be the food of love..)  

OnlyASexToy85 36M
72 posts
2/26/2016 11:19 am
Diary of a Decent Guy #10 (if music be the food of love..)


Music has long been used as a means for humans to express their feelings. It is only natural then, that music and sex would go hand in hand. I wondered what sort of music i would use in the bedroom myself. I found it quite a hard question to answer if im honest. I dont personally dont think its just a case of throwing on the slow jams and having at it! So i started to muse over what different styles may bring to the bedroom, and here is the nonsense i came up with...

Slow Jams - Might as well start with the classic from Barry White to Michael Buble have long been used as part of the sexual ritual. The velvety soft tones and easy rhythms allow lovers to go nice and slow, intimate and romantic.

Pop - Some pop music could be used for foreplay, some for the main event. I mean i cant think of a man who wouldnt love a woman to dance for him to Christina Aguileras Dirty! But then within the genre you have slower, faster songs that can add to the mood. I know what i mean to say but dont feel im vocalising it well there..sorry

Dance - I know, time and a place and all that..but hear me out. Lets think about it, good for helping to keep a rhythm. Fast deep beat ladies?

Classical - The sheer length of these pieces could be useful. They invariably try to tell a story, going through highs and lows.. building to a crescendo!? hmmm sounds familiar

Now i know i have only touched briefly on a few genres, but thought it was interesting that they all bring something different to the..well erm bed. I have always enjoyed a bit of Buble if anything, but might try some others and throw in some random types!should be interesting!

Let me know what music gets you in the mood

*** Its like "Sex,Drugs & Rock'n'Roll.....Without the drugs......or the Rock'n'Roll...." So just filthy ramblings really! OnlyASexToy85***


love2pleasu13 53M
6475 posts
2/26/2016 11:39 am

music is good for the mind and soul


TicklePlease 53F  
13318 posts
2/26/2016 4:32 pm

I'd never listen to it outside the bedroom but there's a lot of EDM that works perfectly for playtime. I usually just put my Pandora mix on but a word of advice if you do that... don't let "Foggy Mountain Breakdown" pop up on your mix during sexytime.....


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