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Diary of a Decent Guy #2 (is an open mind enough?)  

OnlyASexToy85 35M
72 posts
2/22/2016 5:43 pm
Diary of a Decent Guy #2 (is an open mind enough?)


So here we all are. What a strange place this is. Somewhere filled with all the perversions of the flesh that as a species we have created..... isnt it great! I really think it is wonderful that we live in a time where a site like this is even possible! anyway thats just me rambling...

In this post I would like to talk a little bit about my outlook on life, and also my sexual philosphy. I know what youre probably thinking "great another bloke that is going to talk about tits" - well you are wrong.

In everyday life i have always been brought up to be a gentleman. Yeah i mean the whole works.. Pay for dates (i insist!), Give you my coat if you are cold/wet, hold the door for you.. yeah the whole nine yards. Being a male Ballroom and Latin dancer, i have grown up being told how to treat women with respect and loyalty. None of this one night stand malarky or cheating here. I cant help but thinking though, that maybe that is just a public front for my "true self"

In private i am a very different person. Not in a bad way dont worry! I am just an extremely naughty man behind closed doors. I suppose the word nymphomaniac would be relevant, but that probably doesnt surprise you as i am male! I cant help myself though, i just LOVE to pleasure the female body! I Love to try new things with partners, to find ways of making them wetter, to gain experience for the next time. I believe that the art of good sex is in having an open mind and trying new things, being able to read your partners body and react to what it likes/dislikes. Lastly i think in order to be really good at sex (as a bloke!) you need to be able give your partner all the pleasure they can handle...then a little bit more.

I have been told by some of my female friends that maybe this sets me apart from most guys they have been with. They said it is often a case of them just using them as a "hole to fuck" for the guy, rather than their pleasure being the focus. This genuinely mystifies me. I mean why would you not care about your partners pleasure?

Over the years i have gained a lot of experience. I have been very fortunate to have been with a wide variety of women. In that time i would like to think that i have learnt a thing or two about what the female body likes. I love all aspects of sex, i dont skip over foreplay, can last for hours in the bedroom, have a nicely proportioned cock, always put the womans pleasure first and i have an open mind. In this day of digital dating is that enough? On here first looks matter. I admit i am not the stereotypical chiseled man. I have a human body. It has nice parts, it has other parts. But its me.

I guess what i am really rambling about here is, in my eyes, im the perfect package when you "describe me out loud" or "write me down" ...I just dont look like a Calvin Klein model . I know, I know, how arrogant does that sound. If I am wrong thats fair enough i will happily back down from that statement.

So here is the punch line: Are there any people left out there who dont just make a decision about somebody based upon their looks, but who actually take time to get to know a lover - To build a connection of minds as well as the body?

Feel free to leave a comment with your thoughts or if you like what you read. I just start typing and see what comes out. So Sorry if it makes no sense!

*** Its like "Sex,Drugs & Rock'n'Roll.....Without the drugs......or the Rock'n'Roll...." So just filthy ramblings really! OnlyASexToy85***


KtMnDu 67M
6216 posts
2/22/2016 6:13 pm

"Are there any people left out there who dont just make a decision about somebody based upon their looks, but who actually take time to get to know a lover - To build a connection of minds as well as the body?"

In a word, Yes.....you know that's true, you just have to stay after it........


love2pleasu13 52M
6474 posts
2/22/2016 6:53 pm

wild as hell


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