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Diary of a Decent Guy #45 (which would you rather have?)
Posted:May 22, 2016 11:57 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 3:59 am

I dont know what you guys think, but ive personally always felt that regular fun with the same person leads to a better understanding of each others likes but maybe im just old fashioned like that let me know what you think!
Some regular NSA fun with the same person
Lots of "one night stands" with different people
A combination of the above!
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Diary of a Decent Guy #44 (im back, who missed me?)
Posted:Apr 14, 2016 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2016 6:36 pm

So after a brief hiatus from the site, i once again find myself back.

I know i have been silent on the old blogging front for a while, its a shame too because i felt like i got myself on a bit of a roll... But hey ho, life happens sometimes.

So how is everyone? have you all been keeping well? I hope so

Ive been out focussing on myself, not in a vain kind of way.. but in a "trying to give myself, the best kind of future possible" kind of way. Now that things are all in order...

So i have been racking my brain as to what the next post should be about, and cant decide. Thought the thought has crossed my mind to ask you readers what you would like to hear my thoughts on....

So for now ill keep thinking up the best next post i can, and if you have any suggestions fire them my way!

Look forward to hearing what you have to suggest.
Diary of a Decent Guy #43 (women in black lingerie)
Posted:Mar 14, 2016 2:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2021 6:3 am
There is something so seductive about a woman in lingerie. Hell, i suppose its the reason there IS lingerie! Everyone has their own preferences on style and colour, my personal favourite is simply anything black...

I think it is something to do with the contrast, and the "bad girl" overtones of black underwear. I dont know if that is even a thing, or if i just made it up... but i know what i mean

I love the way lingerie shows just enough to tease, but not enough reveal whats on offer. Its the spectacle it makes of the womans body.

Ive always found "suspenders" to be deeply erotic. I love the beauty of them. The stockings helping to make her lines sleek and silky. It really drives me crazy when a woman wearing stockings wraps her legs around me during sex. mmmmm so hot. The garter belt just adds to the whole experience. To see a woman unclip the stockings, then slide them sensually down her legs - heaven.

I have spoken before about the appeal of the "none reveal" when a woman shows just enough but keeps things covered. Thats why i find burlesque sexier and much more erotic than a strip club.

I would like to share with you some sexy examples of what I am trying to express... I hope you like them as much as i do

Diary of a Decent Guy #42 (my lazy sunday fun)
Posted:Mar 13, 2016 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2021 6:3 am
In my previous posts, I explained how i have been looking forward to a nice lazy weekend - it certainly hasnt disappointed!

Yesterday was spent enjoying the sunshine. I had a nice lay in, woke up to glorious weather and got out for a nice walk around the nature reserve. It was so lovely and warm, with just a gentle cooling breeze that blew intimitently. As i walked round the nature reserve a met a young lady who was walking her dog. We had never met before, but began to walk and make idle small talk. She was lovely, it turned out we had a few mutual friends and even swapped numbers.... lets see what happens there...

Today has been spent in my Pjs. I woke up around midday after a feverous texting session with said lady last night. We talked until about 4am! I have been on here most of the day talking to some lovely people, making new friends and reading some blogs.

All in all its been a perfect weekend. Exactly what i had hoped for!

How have you spent your weekend? Share your stories in the comments! x

Diary of a Decent Guy #41 (why i hate one night stands)
Posted:Mar 12, 2016 5:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 4:01 am

I know this may be a little shocking. A Guy who hates one night stands! Yes you have officially now seen everything I didnt want to just throw that statement out there, without any substance to back it up. Please allow me chance to explain a bit further WHY i detest one night stands.

I want to start with something that i hold at my core. A belief that sex is better when enjoyed with a regular partner. I hate one night stands because you havent had chance to learn the others preferences. Its usually awkward, bumpy and not very fulfilling...

I like to take time to get to know my partners. I like to discover for myself what their bodies love. I feel that sex is a journey that you take with your respective partner, and in my experience, no two journeys are the same. For me the journey is one of the best bits, the sex becomes more satisfying, more intense and just generally better.

In my younger years, I loved going out and seeing if i could go home with someone. So its not like i havent had one night stands. Its just i think sex with a regular partner is more enjoyable. Maybe this is something that comes with a little maturity and experience?

One night stands make me feel dirty, not even in the good way either. They leave me feeling used, cheap and just generally like ive lost a bit of myself - No thank you! You see it isnt always women that are left feeling that way after!

That before i even mention the "walk of shame" the next day....

So there you have it. Thats why i dislike one night stands. Its the lack of connection... Give me regular!!!!
Diary of a Decent Guy #40 (lovely start to the weekend)
Posted:Mar 12, 2016 3:00 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2016 9:12 am

So I have woken up this morning, and i think spring may have finally arrived. I live in Yorkshire, the biggest county in England. It is "up north" and is known for being a bit grim, when it comes to weather! Today however is a different story..

I have opened my curtains this morning, to be greeted by blue skies, Birds singing, a gentle breeze and a lovely warmth Im sat with a cup of tea, enjoying the breeze coming through my windows and loving the smell of nature being whafted in!

Could this monring get any better? Im not so sure...

I said in Yesterdays post, that i was looking forward to a nice and chilled weekend. This is the perfect start to it!

How has your weekend begun?

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Diary of a Decent Guy #39 (the weekend ahead..)
Posted:Mar 11, 2016 10:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2016 11:10 am
Rejoice! Its Friiiiiiday!

I have to admit i am actually looking forward to a quiet one! I have been working a lot recently, and also have a very active social life - Im straght up knackered.

So Ideally my plan would be, to fall asleep tonight and wake up Monday morning. Failing that, I envision PJ days and just generally un-winding after a long few weeks Dont worry though i will still be on here, talking even more nonsense

What are you up to this weekend?
Have any plans you would like to share with the blog?
I look forward to hearing what craziness you all have planned

Ive got to say that i have met some levely people through the blog im excited to see who i will meet next!

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Diary of a Decent Guy #38 (small party anyone?)
Posted:Mar 10, 2016 4:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2016 4:40 pm

I have been thinking about organising a naughty party for quite some time. Ive discussed it with a couple of friends on here, and decided the time has finally come to take the plunge!

I am looking for a couple guys and a few women to join me and my friends. Ideally you would have little or no experience in orgies, but have a keen interest in trying - so we are all on an equal playing field.

The party would be based in West Yorkshire, further details to be given to the lucky few If you cant get yourself here, please dont waste my time. I am looking for genuine members only, who are looking for a first time orgy.

The plan would be to meet for a few drinks first, get to know each other and ease the inevitable tension. Then head to my place for a night of naughtiness! I know there must be some naughty northerners out there who would be interested! Maybe even some others who just fancy a night away

If you are interested and you can get to us, either leave a comment on this post or drop me a personal message. At this point im just getting a feel for the interest that there would be in it. There is nothing set in stone as yet...

So if you are interested in giving it a go do let me know x
Diary of a Decent Guy #37 (some beautiful tattooed women...)
Posted:Mar 10, 2016 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2016 3:43 pm
I am an absolute sucker for women with tattoos....
Im not talking about a random tweety bird, or some random persons name etc. I mean proper artistic tattoos, where they have used their body as a canvas. Stuff like this...

Do you see what i mean now?
When tattoo's are used to "add something extra" to the body, it is a beautiful thing! I happen to find it extremely sexy

What are your thoughts?
Diary of a Decent Guy #36 (erotica in black & white)
Posted:Mar 10, 2016 1:17 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2016 1:45 pm
I have long found black & white photography both beautiful and eerily haunting. There is a power to it, that you just dont get from colour images. I thought i would show a few sexy black & white photos that i find erotic. Hope you like...

Diary of a Decent Guy #35 (never had oral satisfaction)
Posted:Mar 10, 2016 9:58 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 4:02 am
So ive just replied to a post from another member. In it she wrote about making guys cum with her mouth. This is something im yet to experience my self. Not through lack of trying! I have never cum from being given a blow job. Its not that i dont enjoy them, i do.. I feel there is just something stopping me! I dont know why, and i want to sort it out!

There is something amazingly intimate about oral sex. It also has a feeling unique to itself. I love the feeling of it so why cant i cum?

I wondered if I am the only guy like this? I mean you hear that "all guys love blow jobs" but does that mean that all guys cum during oral sex?

I have met countless women, who when i have described my plight - have confidently assured me they would change that. Always ending in their jaw aching and me not having cum! So It must be me right?!

They can look up at me, tell me they want me to cum in their mouth etc I get so close to cumming, but never quite enough to push me over into heaven!

Help! I really want to experience cumming through oral....if its not too much to ask I suppose for now, the search will have to continue...

Diary of a Decent Guy #34 (working my way up)
Posted:Mar 10, 2016 6:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2016 12:03 pm

Today i decided to have a look at the progress of my blog - I must say im a little surprised! In a little over 2 weeks I have over 12,000 views, Im in the top 30 male blogs and I have even managed to get a number of people "watching" my blog.

I set out on this journey, with the sole aim of putting some more of myself out there. I wanted another way to show that I am genuine, and it has seemed to fulfill its purpose. It is humbling to see such a great response to my musings, in such a short space of time! Its now left me wanting to get my blog to be the Number 1 male blog!!!!

I do have a small favour to ask of each of you though. If you have taken the time to read my blog, please do leave me a comment with your thoughts. I have always hoped my blog would become a place, where people could discuss and share thoughts.

I suppose I am using this post to fish a little bit. Tragic i know. It isnt for some self esteem boost. I just want to know peoples thoughts on what I am writing, any feedback helps me to write better posts!

To both new and returning readers. I really appreciate you taking some time out of your day to read my posts. I hope you enjoy them. Whatever your reaction please let me know.

Anyway. I shall continue trying to think of new and wonderful things to discuss in my posts. I just wanted to take some time to say how humbled and grateful I am for all your continued support.

Diary of a Decent Guy #33 (one hell of a sexy afternoon)
Posted:Mar 9, 2016 9:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2021 6:3 am

If you have read any of my previous posts, you will know that today i had arranged to meet someone off of the site. We have talked for months from a previous membership on AdultFriendFinder, and we have wanted to meet for a long time! Today it finally happened....

She just left about 30 minutes ago, and my body is still a little in shock. She has just done things to me, and made me feel things....that.... that i honestly cant describe at this moment. I havent yet got my head around them myself!

For the first time in about a year, we both had the same time available to meet. We made our arrangements and anticipated the long awaited day. We have been swapping pictures and videos to each other, and both of us felt like we just couldnt wait. The scene was set for one very hot and very passionate encounter. It really didnt disappoint.

I just want to say firstly, that she is incredible. She is quite a bit older than me, but has an amazing figure and looks stunning for her age. As she walked through my door, neither of us could wait any longer. We began to kiss, a little nervously at first but soon it became much more passionate.

I pushed her against my wall, and things really started to heat up. I could hear her gasping with excitement, as I pressed my body against hers. She could feel my hard cock through my trousers. Our hands began to wander, and before long we were undressing each other.... eager to get things goings.

It took every thing i had not to fuck her there and then. She was already so wet, my cock was throbbing - we really didnt need the foreplay. I resisted the urges and began to tease her with my fingers. Her body began to squirm, as my fingers danced across her clit. She would let loose a deep satisfied moan as they slid deep inside of her.

She began to tease me cock. It was like we had slept together a 1000 times before. She knew exactly what i liked, and just how to get me going! That was it i couldnt hold my feelings back any longer....

By now we had made our way to the bedroom, and we fell onto the bed as we kissed. She pulled away slightly before looking me in the eyes and said in a whisper "please fuck me" ... There isnt a man in the land who can resist that request.

I teased her pussy with the end of my cock, just giving her the tip - denying her what she really wanted. I could feel how wet she was, she could feel how hard I was... Then I slid deep inside. Her body contorted as she moaned. Our bodies were now one and remained so for the next few hours.

We had waited so long for each other that all of the suspense was let out in one go. The passion at my place was palpable. Our bodies changed from one position to the next, our hips worked in perfect time together. We both came over and over. I could literally feel how excited she was....

She kept telling me how it felt so horny to be with a much younger guy. I said the same about an older woman. I just couldnt help myself, i just wanted her again and again. With just minutes recovery in between.

It then came time for her to leave. Parting was such sweet sorrow. She had worked me so well my legs felt like jelly (so did hers apparently) that i wanted her to stay. Her family called though.

I cant wait till i meet her again. I have never met someone so sexual in my life. I want to experience this cougar more than once!

So there it is... A brief summary of my afternoon. Hope you enjoyed

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