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Ten Wild and Honest Thoughts on How Women Feel About IT  

Paradox12121 50M
118 posts
7/23/2020 1:57 am
Ten Wild and Honest Thoughts on How Women Feel About IT

My days are filled with lots of flexible time. Rest assured, successfully working from home requires discipline, dedication, and the ability to quash distractions. But for me, battling self-control is like trying to fight heroin addiction. So, when I stumbled into those articles on - ‘What Women Think About Pegging’, I should have known better. Eventually, self-discipline prevailed. I only blew an hour of my life, reading all their reflections.

Pegging; is the stimulation of the male prostate using a strap-on dildo by his female partner.

At this point, I expect many of the male readers of this post are cringing and the female portion is saying, “No way. That doesn’t interest me.” Well, hang on a second, because that’s EXACTLY what those women in the articles said - BEFORE they tried it. I’ve had some titillating prostate play (with her finger), so I became a tiny bit intrigued, as I read what those women thought.
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Here are some of their takeaways…
“I couldn’t believe his quivering as I thrust back and forth over his prostate.
When I did something he liked, I could feel all his muscles squeezing me.
My favorite part was just watching him enjoy himself. I found it to be such
a huge turn on.”

“It was a great bonding experience. I loved that he trusted me, submitted to
me, and put me in charge. It was a thrill to be the dominant one with the
power to control every intimate feeling he had.”

“It was spectacular to have a guy underneath me grunting and groaning. It
was exhilarating, in a different way. When you have total authority over
someone else's pleasure, it’s so much fun. I was surprised to see how
much he liked it.”

“It was so hot to penetrate him. It was awesome to put my hands on his
hips and go to town. It was also fucking hot to have his ass in my hands. It
turned me on so much that I was dripping wet and about to cum; just from
sheer excitement.”

“Just to hear his moans and make him shiver and shake - it was incredible.
Also, he had to open himself up and become vulnerable. It gave him a
better understanding of our sex. We really bonded over the shared
experience of vulnerability.”

“Holding him after he came was so hot. He was trembling and could barely
move his legs. He was drained from all the excitement and that was the
best. It was more empowering than I thought it would be. Also, I felt sexy
in a harness. It was really cool to have a penis."

“Mentally, one of the biggest turn-ons ever. Watching your partner be all
slutty and needy is just wonderful.”

“The best part is knowing how good and amazing they're feeling
because you're giving it to them. For me, it's a lot less about the
power dynamic and a lot more about the intensity, pleasure, and intimacy."

“I felt really accomplished. I fucked my man to the point where he didn’t
care how horny he sounded; he just begged me for more. It honored me
as a woman that I could offer him such wild pleasure, with just a harness
and a dildo."

“I really enjoy how powerful I feel. Also, when I’m pegging him - I get so wet
that it drips down my thighs. Hearing his moans and seeing his face when
he cums, really turns me on. I get so excited that I can cum from the
rubbing of my harness against his thigh, as I fuck him.”
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And they went on… and on. The other takeaways those ladies agreed to was;
Communication beforehand - is the MOST important thing.
Don't do it if you don't want to do it.
Do it with someone you REALLY want to please sexually.
Lots of lube.
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And the biggest take-away for me?

For fuck’s sake, don’t start reading random articles on-line before you’ve finished your work projects. I had to bust my ass to make a deadline today. I barely made it.

As for pegging? I don’t have a partner right now so I can’t even think about it. Even if I did… well… I believe most men, are embarrassed by admitting they might be into it. The way those women described it - it does sound hot and it does involve a fair amount of trust… and lube, of course.

How about you? What are your thoughts?




Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 2:11 am

Boy... it's a huge pain in the ass to format anything using this version of HTML on this site, isn't it?

Well, on the topic of pegging, I have to admit I got a bit turned on reading about how those women felt about it. But I'm not admitting to anything else. At least not until I get to know you better.


lindoboy100 57M
22378 posts
7/23/2020 3:17 am

I've never tried it, nor had any particular interest in so doing. On the other hand, I'm not disinterested. If it turns my partner on it's bound to turn me on.

I did have a fling with a girl who loved anal play, I thoroughly enjoyed everything we did do though it never got to her penetrating me.

I'll be brief though, I've got a feckin' deadline to meet!

Pull ma finger.........


author51 57F  
102822 posts
7/23/2020 4:29 am

I love anal foreplay and full anal intercourse both for myself and a male partner if he wants it..It comes down to pleasing one another.I have not done it myself but if a partner asked me to for him,I sure would..Great read and loved how these women described it all...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


positively4you 71F  
4061 posts
7/23/2020 6:03 am

I am way too anal phobic to go there. Call me selfish. I just cannot go near a poop shute. All I could focus on is “ you do know what comes out of that, don’t you?” So, if that is his must have, he must go elsewhere. I have done well this long without it.


azlyn456 61M  
102 posts
7/23/2020 6:10 am

It's on my bucket list. I hope I can find a woman willing to peg me.


Granny872 68F  
2806 posts
7/23/2020 7:00 am

Eh, mixed feelings about this topic.

Strictly speaking, stimulation is stimulation no matter the source, and if the object is sexual gratification ... consenting adults and all that.

When that stimulation is stigmatized because of a person's upbringing, psychological and emotional feelings or personal dynamics with a partner, then it could become tougher to deal with.

Just my opinion of course.

Yep, it's my blog, and the content is not up for a vote or for manipulation. If you don't like the content, just stop reading. Easy peasey.


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 12:25 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I've never tried it, nor had any particular interest in so doing. On the other hand, I'm not disinterested. If it turns my partner on it's bound to turn me on.

    I did have a fling with a girl who loved anal play, I thoroughly enjoyed everything we did do though it never got to her penetrating me.

    I'll be brief though, I've got a feckin' deadline to meet!
Well, neither have I.
What intrigued me was that whole thing about 'control' and a shifting of roles. I may have some latent 'sub' tendencies. It sort of rocked me.
But not to the point of including THAT type of penetration.
I do need to stop with the distractions. They always lead me to paths unknown.
I don't know if you're the same as me but curious minds pay a price!


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 12:28 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I love anal foreplay and full anal intercourse both for myself and a male partner if he wants it..It comes down to pleasing one another.I have not done it myself but if a partner asked me to for him,I sure would..Great read and loved how these women described it all...
There is probably nothing more empowering than controlling someone else's orgasm. Making it happen when YOU feel like it.
Sounds to me like you're a candidate for that harness... lol. Yes!


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 12:36 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I am way too anal phobic to go there. Call me selfish. I just cannot go near a poop shute. All I could focus on is “ you do know what comes out of that, don’t you?” So, if that is his must have, he must go elsewhere. I have done well this long without it.
Point taken.
Most men will cleanse with a safe enema, leaving no bacteria at all.
But it's really not about the penetration as much as it is control and power.
A latex glove and a slender finger would produce similar results without a need for a frown. He would writhe at your whim.
Are you into any type of power trip over your partner? Controlling his time of release would be yours to define.


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 12:41 pm

    Quoting azlyn456:
    It's on my bucket list. I hope I can find a woman willing to peg me.
I understand exactly what you're taking about.
It'll be a tough call to bring THAT topic up, in the introductions. Best of luck!
You think you'll take it slow or ask HER right off the start?


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 12:49 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    Eh, mixed feelings about this topic.

    Strictly speaking, stimulation is stimulation no matter the source, and if the object is sexual gratification ... consenting adults and all that.

    When that stimulation is stigmatized because of a person's upbringing, psychological and emotional feelings or personal dynamics with a partner, then it could become tougher to deal with.

    Just my opinion of course.
Your opinion is as worthy as the next.

In this case we're referring to a man's G spot, which - I might add - is out of this world sensitive and feels indescribable. Have you ever had yours massaged?
I can't say that I'd like my whole self, to be intruded, just to please THAT spot.
What about those thoughts about - power, control, and manipulating your partners big O?
That's what this thing is really all about.

Your opinion is welcome here any time.
Now... about my other Q's? ... lol.

No worries... But feel free to add.


BiggLala 48F  
28972 posts
7/23/2020 2:49 pm

I can relate to what these women said about the feeling, the rush, the power exchange, etc. Anal penetration on ME isn't pleasurable to ME. However...lol...

Uhhh...a little back story, I developed a liking for watching gay male porn in my mid-30's. After a few years, I became curious about pegging, I think as an extension of enjoying watching men have sex. Fast forward a few more years I FINALLY met a guy from here who was open to me pegging him. Long story short, I bought the strap-on, we scheduled a time/date, and then...he bailed. I know he wasn't scared about it because he was bisexual and I've seen vids of him with other men, and he's used a dildo on himself when we were together (won't go into the long story of why he bailed).

Anyway...fast forward another few months I later met a guy who really did let me peg him. When I tell you how aroused I got when I JUST put on the strap-on??? MAN, I was raring to go!!! 😈 And THEN when we finally did it?!?! Oh hell, I now know how some men feel when they're "giving it to her good". Yes, the power exchange is intoxicating. My only regret is that we didn't for too long in the act, and I only got to do it that one time.

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fisherman5999 57M  
692 posts
7/23/2020 4:22 pm

I'm Bi so I like anal, I have a lady that tried pegging me, she said that she felt powerful, being in control how fast & deep, I need to find a strap on that has cocks for both of us at the same time.


sexyldy1000 59F  
6899 posts
7/23/2020 5:18 pm

Taking on a Domme role is not natural for me so I am not really interested in using a 'strap-on'. However, I am familiar with edging and enjoyed the 'ebb and flow' of controlling his orgasm. I have also used one of my toys on him so he could experience the sensation of a vibrator on his shaft and balls. For me, it's all about gentle, erotic, arousal and pleasure.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 10:45 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I can relate to what these women said about the feeling, the rush, the power exchange, etc. Anal penetration on ME isn't pleasurable to ME. However...lol...

    Uhhh...a little back story, I developed a liking for watching gay male porn in my mid-30's. After a few years, I became curious about pegging, I think as an extension of enjoying watching men have sex. Fast forward a few more years I FINALLY met a guy from here who was open to me pegging him. Long story short, I bought the strap-on, we scheduled a time/date, and then...he bailed. I know he wasn't scared about it because he was bisexual and I've seen vids of him with other men, and he's used a dildo on himself when we were together (won't go into the long story of why he bailed).

    Anyway...fast forward another few months I later met a guy who really did let me peg him. When I tell you how aroused I got when I JUST put on the strap-on??? MAN, I was raring to go!!! 😈 And THEN when we finally did it?!?! Oh hell, I now know how some men feel when they're "giving it to her good". Yes, the power exchange is intoxicating. My only regret is that we didn't for too long in the act, and I only got to do it that one time.
That's quite the adventure and it sounds like it was exciting as well as hot.
The way those women described the power transfer was something that intrigues me - without the strap on, mind you.
I guess there might be other ways to get that same vibe.
Perhaps you'll get lucky again. Although not too many men will admit they're into it, right? Thanks for sharing!


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 10:47 pm

    Quoting fisherman5999:
    I'm Bi so I like anal, I have a lady that tried pegging me, she said that she felt powerful, being in control how fast & deep, I need to find a strap on that has cocks for both of us at the same time.
Hmmm... now THAT, sounds hot! Happy hunting!


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/23/2020 10:52 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Taking on a Domme role is not natural for me so I am not really interested in using a 'strap-on'. However, I am familiar with edging and enjoyed the 'ebb and flow' of controlling his orgasm. I have also used one of my toys on him so he could experience the sensation of a vibrator on his shaft and balls. For me, it's all about gentle, erotic, arousal and pleasure.
Edging? Ebb and flow...? Hmmm... Now THAT, is something that I can relate to.
You're not one of those women who prolongs his anguish while he's tied up, are you?
Did you change roles at one point?
I've been edged and it is very hot! Thanks for sharing.


TicklePlease 52F  
12893 posts
7/24/2020 4:16 am

    Quoting fisherman5999:
    I'm Bi so I like anal, I have a lady that tried pegging me, she said that she felt powerful, being in control how fast & deep, I need to find a strap on that has cocks for both of us at the same time.
That would be a "feeldoe" brand strapon.


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/24/2020 5:05 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    That would be a "feeldoe" brand strapon.
Really...? Please share more or perhaps you have a tale to tell?
What are your thoughts on women taking charge during sex?


TicklePlease 52F  
12893 posts
7/24/2020 11:35 am

    Quoting Paradox12121:
    Really...? Please share more or perhaps you have a tale to tell?
    What are your thoughts on women taking charge during sex?
I got one to try with a partner who was bi... hoping I'd get some physical pleasure out of it but it didn't do anything for me except give me a newfound respect for any man who can fuck like a beast. I could only muster up fucking like an small angry mammal and my glutes and hams were sore for a day or two afterwards from all that exertion.

Hey, maybe that's why so many gay men have great asses!!!

If I want to take charge, I play my cowgirl card!


Paradox12121 50M
184 posts
7/24/2020 3:24 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I got one to try with a partner who was bi... hoping I'd get some physical pleasure out of it but it didn't do anything for me except give me a newfound respect for any man who can fuck like a beast. I could only muster up fucking like an small angry mammal and my glutes and hams were sore for a day or two afterwards from all that exertion.

    Hey, maybe that's why so many gay men have great asses!!!

    If I want to take charge, I play my cowgirl card!
lol... Good exercise tips for sure!
You have a point about gay asses! 👍


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