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Sweaty Sticky Ball Slapping Sex... And Other Summer Pastimes... ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—  

Paulxx001 64M
9404 posts
6/29/2021 11:13 am

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Sweaty Sticky Ball Slapping Sex... And Other Summer Pastimes... ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—

Sweaty, sticky, balls-slapping sex, cleaning a bathroom tub, and beach volleyball are three things that don't interest me in the least when the 'humidex' nudges over a hundred degrees. I came to THAT conclusion many years ago. Late last night, I was reminded again of how I'd arrived at my opinion.

I don't have air conditioning in my home; with the fresh breezes that flow and blow through the rooms of my abode, I never bothered. And, I have a fan strategically placed to provide me with all the witching hour wind I need for sleep. Those whirling propellers serve me well โ€” except when they don't.

A power failure brought my spinning blades to a silent standstill.

Electricity โ€” in my part of the world โ€” is driven by cheap and reliable hydro that NEVER goes down; OK, occasionally. Now tell me; how can anyone survive THIS โ€” smouldering, sweltering, smelter (*try saying that fast, five times*) โ€” without power? I needed a plan to cool off.

So there I stood โ€” naked, in front of my huge living room window (*it was dark, and no one could see me *) โ€” and gulped in the faint wisps of lava air that fluttered in. My silly neighbour, the one who walks her Shih Tzu at midnight, paused next to that moonlit maple tree on my lawn. I would have noticed sooner, but my eyes were shut. I held them that way until her barked and... *uhh*... startled me. Facetiously, I waved โ€” surprisingly, 'Shih Tzu lady' waved back. For fuck's sake!

I stepped away from my window and gave up.

'Plan B' found me driving around in my frozen car, where the AC worked fine, and the music was loud, and I could breathe. Life was great again. While I waited for the power to come back, I wondered, what did people do before electricity?

In winter, I can see myself โ€” going 'old school' and โ€” throwing a log in the fire to warm up, but in this inhuman inferno? I'm moving an air mattress to my deck 'next time' โ€” if there is one. Perhaps it's just me, but I can't take the heat. I'd probably wither and perish if I lived in Florida or Arizona.

Oh yeah, and herding cattle; that's another thing I wouldn't do.

Am I alone on this one?

.......................


Sex on a beach โ€” sure. And the drink is fine too.



Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/29/2021 11:14 am

I recall that as a teenager, I'd lie on a chair and bake under the sun while slathered up with coconut-scented 'Hawaiian Tropic' suntan oil.

I'd measure my tanning progress by peeking under my trunks at my white, Uhm, thigh. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/29/2021 11:16 am

Back in the day, UV rays were a myth. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—


Pleasureinc 57M  
1940 posts
6/29/2021 12:30 pm

I was hoping to get an invitation to that beach volleyball game! Cold showers right before bed are a useful approach when it is hot but no AC, as well. Hang in there, as this too shall pass.


lust4life59 62F
2287 posts
6/29/2021 12:30 pm

why do you think porches are so popular on houses in the US south? Although with the mosquitoes porches are better when they are screened in. My power went out for 5 hours the other night. From 7PM till midnight. Of course it was from a storm, so the air was cool outdoors, and I just moved out on the deck after dark and lit a few citronella candles and sprayed myself down with Cutter. And an advantage of a Kindle, you can read in the dark.


Only_one_14 52F
3326 posts
6/29/2021 12:33 pm

Sex on the beach is my favorite drink! Yum! Back in the day, I sprayed my body with a ice cube spray bottle. The mist felt so good on my naked body. We used cold wash rags to cool off. Had a buck with ice water and put our feet in it to stay cool. We were always outside to the hose was used a lot. Frozen pops were a must to have. Sweaty sex is a must and a cold shower feels good afterwards. Especially when your lover washes your hair and body!

A Man who knows how to use his tongue is extremely useful!


Paulxx001 replies on 6/30/2021 2:14 pm:
Banana ๐ŸŒ and cherry ๐Ÿ’ were my favorites! Shh... Haven't had one in years! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ“โ—

BeccaLuvs 59F
20358 posts
6/29/2021 1:39 pm

Well, now I could almost be the expert with being forced to live without power, normal way of life for us! True though about it being slightly worse in summer then winter, (well, our kinda mild winter, your winter, not sure you guys would survive), anyway the worst in summer apart from melting, is that the foodstuffs in the fridge melt! Oh, and also used to enjoy the sun, worshipped it when young ! Still love it, just have more respect for it now! Have you noticed somtheing though Paul, in summer you try to avoid the sun, in winter you seek it out?! Do you ever get sun in winter though, hope you do!

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BiJack55 72M  
312 posts
6/29/2021 2:09 pm

I've done all those things and more. Still do the sex. Just more leisurely and in the shade, with a fan and cold refreshments. Little ice goes a long way when properly applied.


smartasswoman 64F  
34983 posts
6/29/2021 2:11 pm

I have to have AC - even during moderate weather it's not a good idea for me to sleep with an open window, because I'll probably wake up in the middle of the night having an allergy attack.

Yeah, I would not have had a happy life back in the pioneer days.

I agree with you that I'd rather deal with winter than with insanely hot summer. Which is pretty obvious since I live in Minnesota.


superbjversion2 66F
23396 posts
6/29/2021 2:41 pm

I am with you on this one! Growing up without AC, we slept in the basement often. As a teen, I was lucky enough to have a pool. To this day, I need a lot of trips to the lake ... or cold showers.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/29/2021 3:28 pm

    Quoting Pleasureinc:
    I was hoping to get an invitation to that beach volleyball game! Cold showers right before bed are a useful approach when it is hot but no AC, as well. Hang in there, as this too shall pass.
True, about THAT basement. Lived it.
It might be about our passion for the event
Cheers. โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
flip back if u have a pov...


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/29/2021 3:35 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    why do you think porches are so popular on houses in the US south? Although with the mosquitoes porches are better when they are screened in. My power went out for 5 hours the other night. From 7PM till midnight. Of course it was from a storm, so the air was cool outdoors, and I just moved out on the deck after dark and lit a few citronella candles and sprayed myself down with Cutter. And an advantage of a Kindle, you can read in the dark.
Movies...?
Perceptions?
Candles?
Have you seen that 'Miracle' light, that kills them dead? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/29/2021 3:54 pm

    Quoting Only_one_14:
    Sex on the beach is my favorite drink! Yum! Back in the day, I sprayed my body with a ice cube spray bottle. The mist felt so good on my naked body. We used cold wash rags to cool off. Had a buck with ice water and put our feet in it to stay cool. We were always outside to the hose was used a lot. Frozen pops were a must to have. Sweaty sex is a must and a cold shower feels good afterwards. Especially when your lover washes your hair and body!
There are so many other liquids... wee-D have.
Lol....
I'm a 'seven and seven' guy. And lemee chill till I find, out what twists U.
... while I'm waiting, pass me a beer.๐Ÿ˜ถ

thanks


bbuckwwheat 62M
6119 posts
6/29/2021 4:56 pm

I do not have much to add other than there are battery powered fans.

And that a luxury once enjoyed soon becomes a necessity.

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Fayette, Iowa


sexyldy1000 60F  
9151 posts
6/29/2021 8:59 pm

I also do not have air conditioning in my home. People look at me strangely when I admit I don't. Recent work has taken me into residential buildings that are also without AC, not even in the central hallways. You would think it would be mandatory as a basic human need. My mother used to sit in the sun slathered in Hawaiian Tropic or baby oil. Amazingly, she had beautiful skin and never developed melanoma. My worst experience was falling asleep by the pool in Hawaii. I barely made it back to my room before passing out, no doubt from heatstroke. I was in so much pain but somehow managed to get through the remainder of my two-week stay and have the freckles as a forever reminder of my foolishness.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
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LadyLuck2 65F  
9056 posts
6/29/2021 9:03 pm

Having lived in Nevada, Arizona, and Florida I am a believer in AC. I can promise you that the very worst experience is when the AC goes out in your car. AC is everywhere unless the power is out--then we have screened porches here in the South. I'd rather be in the heat than in the cold.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


author51 58F
123495 posts
6/29/2021 10:33 pm

I would not live without an air conditioner in my attic apartment Hun and can relate to losing power as you read on my blog...lol.xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

LEGS SHAKIN39


PonyGirl1965 55F
18844 posts
6/30/2021 1:55 am

I cannot live without AC. I hope you got your power back.


mc_justmc 61M  
6780 posts
6/30/2021 4:42 am

OK, I scanned the responses and apparently no one caught this: Shiatsu is a massage, Shih Tzu is the dog. I have one, and she has never given me a massage. When the power/air conditioning goes off down here you don't do anything until it comes back on.


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:00 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Well, now I could almost be the expert with being forced to live without power, normal way of life for us! True though about it being slightly worse in summer then winter, (well, our kinda mild winter, your winter, not sure you guys would survive), anyway the worst in summer apart from melting, is that the foodstuffs in the fridge melt! Oh, and also used to enjoy the sun, worshipped it when young ! Still love it, just have more respect for it now! Have you noticed somtheing though Paul, in summer you try to avoid the sun, in winter you seek it out?! Do you ever get sun in winter though, hope you do!
Eee... food soiling is a mess!
So few power outages here, but if we have them in winter, we just through the food in a cooler and shove it in a cooler outside.
The sun โ˜€ in winter is beautiful. It warms the cheeks... and feels great.
I mean... if you were to take your pants off. ๐Ÿ˜Š
lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Omg... Yep, winter sun is pleasant. โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
Sounds like your have many power outages there? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:01 pm

    Quoting BiJack55:
    I've done all those things and more. Still do the sex. Just more leisurely and in the shade, with a fan and cold refreshments. Little ice goes a long way when properly applied.
Now THAT, sounds like a well executed plan.
Yep, I could go for that fan and some ice! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š
Sounds like you know what you're doing! ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:07 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I have to have AC - even during moderate weather it's not a good idea for me to sleep with an open window, because I'll probably wake up in the middle of the night having an allergy attack.

    Yeah, I would not have had a happy life back in the pioneer days.

    I agree with you that I'd rather deal with winter than with insanely hot summer. Which is pretty obvious since I live in Minnesota.
Eee... allergies! Yep. That's not good.
I respect those pioneers, they had stamina.
And probably, a heck of a lot less time to grumble about the small stuff. I imagine they were too busy hunting moose? ๐Ÿค”
Or Buffalo ๐Ÿƒ.
My car is a place where I go to cool off. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ But that's also why I love the lakes and rivers nearby.
It gets hot where you are? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:12 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I am with you on this one! Growing up without AC, we slept in the basement often. As a teen, I was lucky enough to have a pool. To this day, I need a lot of trips to the lake ... or cold showers.
A pool? ๐Ÿค” Now THAT'S a lot of fun!
I spent many summers by the lake at my parent's cottage. Bliss... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Water and wetness seems to be a theme here, huh? ๐Ÿค”
How close is your lake? Can ya jog over there? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:17 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    I do not have much to add other than there are battery powered fans.

    And that a luxury once enjoyed soon becomes a necessity.
True, about batteries.
Power failures happen so rarely hear. Back in the day, they were more frequent.
Tortuous days of a hundred or more are happening more frequently, with global warming.
I hope I didn't jinx things.Thanks for popping in. ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm expecting alien technology to give us a hand with some sort of alternative energy source.
I mean, WTF are THEY waiting for? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:23 pm

    Quoting  :

I can see you preparing the eggplant, bean concoction โ€” waiting for the cow-hands to mosey along. โ—โ—๐Ÿฎ
So-cal heat is SO, not my style ; I'd die!
Water here is cheap and usually the weather is nice.
I shouldn't bitch, right?
Sounds like others have things much worse than my couple of hours of discomfort.
How hot ๐Ÿ”ฅ is hot? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:26 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I also do not have air conditioning in my home. People look at me strangely when I admit I don't. Recent work has taken me into residential buildings that are also without AC, not even in the central hallways. You would think it would be mandatory as a basic human need. My mother used to sit in the sun slathered in Hawaiian Tropic or baby oil. Amazingly, she had beautiful skin and never developed melanoma. My worst experience was falling asleep by the pool in Hawaii. I barely made it back to my room before passing out, no doubt from heatstroke. I was in so much pain but somehow managed to get through the remainder of my two-week stay and have the freckles as a forever reminder of my foolishness.
Eee... agh... I'm cringing at your Hawaiian story. Sounds rough.
I think we can live without AC here and in many parts of Canada ๐Ÿ, but there are days โ€” when it would be nice to flip it on, no?
You walk into strange buildings?
My gosh, you're not a repo man are ya? ๐Ÿ˜Š
Dja Have a fan in your room? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:33 pm

    Quoting LadyLuck2:
    Having lived in Nevada, Arizona, and Florida I am a believer in AC. I can promise you that the very worst experience is when the AC goes out in your car. AC is everywhere unless the power is out--then we have screened porches here in the South. I'd rather be in the heat than in the cold.
Wow! You've lived in some hot ๐Ÿ”ฅ spots, but it's a dry heat, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
No thanks. I'm a pussy when it comes to extreme warmth.
I do really well in the snow, though! ๐Ÿ‘
No AC in the car is a death wish! It's happened to me once or twice. OMG, rolling along in traffic at two miles per hour. Eee...
Porches, now THAT'S a really nice idea.
You'd be fine in the cold ; if you had a pro to dress you. It's all about being prepared, isn't it? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:39 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I would not live without an air conditioner in my attic apartment Hun and can relate to losing power as you read on my blog...lol.xoxo
Ooo... yes! AC would be a must in your place.
No windows to produce a draft? ๐Ÿค”
Do you have many power failures there?
Stay cool. ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ— โ—


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:41 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I cannot live without AC. I hope you got your power back.
Power here, rarely goes off. JINX... uhh, lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Nope, you seem like a warm weather gal!
It's a question of adapting, isn't it? ๐Ÿค”
You'd be fine in the cold. Ya ever made a snow ball? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 2:46 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    OK, I scanned the responses and apparently no one caught this: Shiatsu is a massage, Shih Tzu is the dog. I have one, and she has never given me a massage. When the power/air conditioning goes off down here you don't do anything until it comes back on.
Really? hmmm ๐Ÿค”
I had to check twice. Damn smell predict. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Ok then, you'd win a prize if I had one to give away. I made the changes, although, I like that double meaning. Perhaps it was intentional?
A Shih Tzu? I pictured you with a German Shepard. How is that tiny dog? Doesn't bark much?
I think I'd dissolve without AC where you live.
But your car has AC, right? So you always have a place to escape into.
Thanks for the heads up. Who knew the words are spelled so similarly? ๐Ÿค”


smartasswoman 64F  
34983 posts
6/30/2021 3:39 pm

It does get hot in Minnesota - we had a week plus of temps in the 90's earlier this month (that is pretty unusual for June, though). But I don't think it's as bad here as other places further south.

Lake Superior is a two hour drive away and provides nature's air conditioning. If the climate goes to hell in a handbasket, maybe I'll move to Duluth.


scoupe42 58M  
12523 posts
6/30/2021 4:10 pm

Amen to that, to have sex on a beach, beat the heat anytime!


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 6:03 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    It does get hot in Minnesota - we had a week plus of temps in the 90's earlier this month (that is pretty unusual for June, though). But I don't think it's as bad here as other places further south.

    Lake Superior is a two hour drive away and provides nature's air conditioning. If the climate goes to hell in a handbasket, maybe I'll move to Duluth.
Ooo... THAT'S warm!
Hand baskets โ€” only sold at yard sales, these days, huh? ๐Ÿค”
Duluth? Really?
I shouldn't complain; with so much water to play around in here, I'm spoiled. But every once in a while, I just shrivel up.
*Hey, ya found a new friend? Good for you. *
Today is in the seventies and I can do THAT, forever. I won't become one of those old people who complains about the weather all the time. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
6/30/2021 7:52 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Amen to that, to have sex on a beach, beat the heat anytime!
Yep. Ya got that right!
No beaches around here with THAT type of privacy. Any sand by the water in your neck of the woods? ๐Ÿค”
Or the other Q would be โ€” any ladies there willing to get grains of sand in private places? ๐Ÿค”
Omg... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ


secret_lade 47F
8323 posts
7/1/2021 3:57 am

I'm miserable in high heat and humidity.... Which is why I spend so much time at the lake in the summer. I would have done the same thing as you, if it were too miserable for me to sleep I would have hopped in my car and took a road trip to cool down.


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
7/1/2021 6:50 am

    Quoting secret_lade:
    I'm miserable in high heat and humidity.... Which is why I spend so much time at the lake in the summer. I would have done the same thing as you, if it were too miserable for me to sleep I would have hopped in my car and took a road trip to cool down.
You've shown pictures of your lake, right? It looks really peaceful. You're lucky to live close to a beach like that.
The car was my only option!
Today it's in the 70's and that's perfect for me.
You going to the lake for the forth? ๐Ÿค”


sexyldy1000 60F  
9151 posts
7/2/2021 4:42 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Eee... agh... I'm cringing at your Hawaiian story. Sounds rough.
    I think we can live without AC here and in many parts of Canada ๐Ÿ, but there are days โ€” when it would be nice to flip it on, no?
    You walk into strange buildings?
    My gosh, you're not a repo man are ya? ๐Ÿ˜Š
    Dja Have a fan in your room? ๐Ÿค”
No, not a โ€˜repo manโ€™ but I did work previously in mortgage collections when interest rates were in the high double-digits. I donโ€™t use a fan. I keep my window open whenever it makes sense. Last night, the fireworks ๐Ÿ’ฅ sounded like they were going to land on my roof!

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
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flannel_light 59F  
3974 posts
7/2/2021 8:49 am

I grew up with no AC and we had the windows open and we had the breeze coming through then we got a window unit and I slept with a fan in my bedroom. Now since I've been still going through the change the doctor tells me I cannot stand the heat I have to have AC and I've been sleeping here lately in my living room because my bedroom is so hot even with the fan on and the AC so go figure

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
7/2/2021 11:21 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No, not a โ€˜repo manโ€™ but I did work previously in mortgage collections when interest rates were in the high double-digits. I donโ€™t use a fan. I keep my window open whenever it makes sense. Last night, the fireworks ๐Ÿ’ฅ sounded like they were going to land on my roof!
I like watching a fireworks ๐ŸŽ‡ show, but I find it annoying when random people keep blowing bunches of flares into the air.
Didja call the cops on them? ๐Ÿค”
No, that wouldn't be Canadian. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
7/2/2021 11:24 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I grew up with no AC and we had the windows open and we had the breeze coming through then we got a window unit and I slept with a fan in my bedroom. Now since I've been still going through the change the doctor tells me I cannot stand the heat I have to have AC and I've been sleeping here lately in my living room because my bedroom is so hot even with the fan on and the AC so go figure
I CAN figure; I think the heat is the worst!
Well, only a couple of more months to go before it stops.
How are you in the cold? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ”ฅ โ—
Happy fourth of July! ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


loneleix 61M
879 posts
8/15/2021 7:51 am

A few years ago tornados wiped out the high voltage feeds for the city where I live. There was no damage here in the city but all the power coming in was down for six days. Luckily, it was spring time so the weather was pleasant. No power, no gas stations, and no means of keeping things cold as Ice was also at a premium.

It was actually kind of nice. I met all my neighbours who usually don't come outside. I have a gas grill and we managed to put enough stuff on ice to last for most of it (a friend I had installed an ice maker for helped with that). We had lots of company. Almost every night there was music and a small party on my deck. My girlfriend and it put a mattress on the roof one night as there was no uplighting to disturb the star show.

Then..... people started going outside the city to get gas and generators so the silence was gone. Still..... it was nice for a while.


Paulxx001 replies on 8/15/2021 4:13 pm:
Back in '98, we had an ice storm that knocked out power for three fricken weeks โ€” for some. Now THAT wasn't romantic at all.

Not with the minus temps that were flourishing at the time. Mind you, I didn't have to worry about stuff in my fridge spoiling. But it was fricken cold and bleak โ€” for a while.

Mind you, it was also dead quiet, and so peaceful.

Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
8/15/2021 4:07 pm

    Quoting loneleix:
    A few years ago tornados wiped out the high voltage feeds for the city where I live. There was no damage here in the city but all the power coming in was down for six days. Luckily, it was spring time so the weather was pleasant. No power, no gas stations, and no means of keeping things cold as Ice was also at a premium.

    It was actually kind of nice. I met all my neighbours who usually don't come outside. I have a gas grill and we managed to put enough stuff on ice to last for most of it (a friend I had installed an ice maker for helped with that). We had lots of company. Almost every night there was music and a small party on my deck. My girlfriend and it put a mattress on the roof one night as there was no uplighting to disturb the star show.

    Then..... people started going outside the city to get gas and generators so the silence was gone. Still..... it was nice for a while.
You paint a poetic picture and a memory of how things MIGHT have been โ€” back in the day โ€” without AC. It sounds like you made the best of it. I get the vibe.

Strange, how people coexist during times of trouble, then go back to the way they were.

I like that roof image. ๐Ÿ˜Šโ—โ—โ—


lunchandconvo 51F
3702 posts
8/18/2021 5:19 am

WHOA!
i got to that last pic ! ! ! !


Paulxx001 64M
21534 posts
8/18/2021 11:54 pm

Yeah, I'll bet. ๐Ÿ‘ โ— โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž
So, you recognize that beach? ๐Ÿค”


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