What I want...
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Posted:Nov 23, 2021 5:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 4:37 pm
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Honesty, loyalty, humor, adventurous and availability. Thats just the start...
someone within 3 hrs, single and self sufficient!
it would be amazing if he was HUNG and knew how to use it.
I love Primal men, not MACHO...manly but not toxic.
I also love submissive men...again manly but chivalrous and willing to bend a knee.
Someone who is looking for more then JUST sex...a real bonding, a relationship.
That is why I am NOT actively looking on here!
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V is home!
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Posted:Oct 8, 2021 2:17 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2021 5:28 am
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Ms V is home!!!!
We hope have her with phone and computer over the next few weeks but no rushing her abilities!
Its enough she is HOME.
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She is coming home!
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Posted:Sep 30, 2021 2:20 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2021 2:17 am
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One week from today MsVenus is coming home. Its gonna be a long haul and many challenges but we'll manage. She wont have a phone or computer for a little longer, as her memory improves and she can remember passwords and the like. We'll be taking her shopping for a few things the week after and getting her established with new doctors and the like. My mom is working VERY hard on all the paperwork and finance stuff and keeping V's mom up to date on everything.
The importing thing is...SHE IS COMING HOME!
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Aug2021 Update on MsVenus
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Posted:Sep 2, 2021 4:40 am
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2021 2:20 am
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UPDATE SEPT :
Went visit V again and talk her medical team...she is ok come home soon we get some work moms house done. So likely by beginning of Nov!!!!
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So mom and I went visit V tue Aug 31st...exactly 8 months the day from the last time I saw her! OMG She is starting be HER again!!! she puts it, she has only had her brain back for about 2 weeks. She does not remember the majority of the last 2 yrs however. She was in very good spirits and so happy see and more importantly REMEMBER us. She will be staying at the nursing home for another few months continue her improvement. If goes planned (and hoped for) she will be coming home moms house by the end of the year!!
I want thank of you who have kept her in your thoughts and those who started writing her happy notes over the last month. She still adores letters and postcards so please PM for the address.
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July2021 update on MsV
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Posted:Jul 18, 2021 4:39 am
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2021 4:40 am
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hey everyone...some good news, the treatments are working and V is feeling better...she has now been giving 1-2 yrs. She has some fragmented memory return but the dates and things are skewed. She is able write letters too!!!!
Now she is being moved to the nursing facility in a week or so vs the hospital and I have a new address for those interested.
**UPDATE**
She is all moved in to the new place and said to freely give out her new addy to anyone interested. She also asked Me to say HIIII to all our friends 
******
keep sending those happy healing thoughts 
LadyAlanna
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june2021 update on Venus
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Posted:Jun 8, 2021 3:07 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2021 4:37 am
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So My mom went to visit V on Friday, take her some clothing etc. She is doing much better in many ways. Back in Jan she had to be tied INTO a wheelchair to keep her upright and now she is mobile and taking care of herself with only verbal prompts. She was not able to have any sort of conversations as of Jan and now can, even if she cant remember more then 30 min at a time. She is content and pain free, the best we can ask right now!
The cancer treatment she is undergoing seems to be helping, the tumors are shrinking. She doesn't really know what's going on but does know she is sick, mostly because of the hair loss. The doctors are saying 1-2 years now instead of a few months they told us in March!!
We did find out she loves getting mail/packages. So if you wish to contact Me privately I will forward an address for notes and such. Remember she wont remember you or your history together but something light and cheery would be lovely!
mladyalanna on most other formats
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Sad news about VenusAdora :((
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Posted:Apr 14, 2021 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2021 2:50 am
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Im not sure how say this...its raw and painful and new. My dear friend is...just not anymore.
Many of you know that she has been having major health issues since early Nov. and has been hospitalized since early Dec. We have had no real answers about WHY she had the seizures or WHY she seems have taken a mental break from reality. NOW...we finally have answers and its not good!
Our dear friend Venus has stage four cancer in her chest. Started in her lungs and has moved into the lymph nodes OUT of her lungs. We know that this particular type DOES affect the brain. They have given us the phrase "weeks to months" for her continued time with us. I have not been able to even see her since end of Dec and still cant! They are moving her to a nursing home near Charlottesville soon and I hope to see her at least one more time.
My mother and I are taking care of her and her cats/things. Basically acting as executors for her estate. We know that Venus wishes to be cremated and scattered over water/ocean and Im already planning that. The cost will be covered no matter what! However, I am planning to start a gofund or something as a memorial to hopefully help defray some of the cost. roughly 00-00, but anything would be helpful. Ill be posting this on too, hoping to let all her friends know.
feel free to contact ME " MladyAlanna" or or here at AdultFriendFinder
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About Venus
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Posted:Dec 28, 2020 3:54 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2021 2:00 pm
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Hi everyone. I know many of you are concerned about V...so here goes super short version.
Over last 4-5 weeks, ( just after thanksgiving) V has had at least 4 seizures that WE know of and ended in hospital 4 times. This last one since Tue. Dec 22rd. She is NOT herself at ! As of right now we dont know why or how this happened but msV has checked out of reality. She is under hospital supervision for foreseeable future.
I wont be able go in and see her for awhile, hospital going lock down again as of today. We will be calling nurses every afternoon though.
If anyone wants for info or leaving well wishes that is just fine.
, , telegram and are under "mladyalanna".
if you dont have any of those, here at AdultFriendFinder
Ill try keep this updated as well.
As of dec 29 they did a lumber puncture for infection ...hope get answers soon.
Jan. 1
Still no answer as the lumber results but docs are thinking this is more psych then medical. Once she can respond a certain level she will be moved their Behavioral Ward. Hopefully we will be able visit again soon.
They have found a combo of meds that has her calmed enough sleep again. She was staying 2-3 days at time and then napping briefly.
jan 8
no changes, sorry folks
jan
they have cleared her medically in good health but are looking into long term care, mental health, for her. In many ways she has gotten worse, Im VERY sad to say.
jan 20
V being transferred a long term mental health facility about 2 hrs away from Me. They still do not know WHAT happened, other then the fact that medically she healthy.
march152021
Spoke to her mom yest. She is still not HER. They have run more and more tests and she had 2 more seizures at least. She doesnt even recognize her own picture. But they say she is in good health and humor. This will be a VERY long road!!!
april 7.2021
update: today we found out that they FINALLY found something medically wrong for msV. She has a tumor in her chest that is somehow responsible for all her mental issues. She is on a 6 month treatment plan for chemo. She will however NEVER be herself again. The first month of her illness with the seizure, destroyed her brain. She has been improving physically and is now able to walk again and is getting better for taking care of herself. They are hoping to get her well enough to eventually be moved to an Assisted Living vs being in a hospital. Im not sure yet exactly where or when but when I do, Ill update again. I have been told that once Covid restrictions lift some, I will be going to visit!!!!
LadyAlanna
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I FEEL this was written with Me in mind....THE TOO MUCH WOMAN
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Posted:Jul 17, 2020 11:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 4:37 pm
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There she is. . . the "too much" woman. The one who loves too hard, feels too deeply, asks too often, desires too much.
There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality. Her presence is as tall as a tree, as wide as a mountain. Her energy occupies every crevice of the room. Too much space she takes.
There she is causing a ruckus with her persistent wanting, too much wanting. She desires a lot, wants everything—too much happiness, too much alone time, too much pleasure. She'll go through brimstone, murky river, and hellfire to get it. She'll risk all to quell the longings of her heart and body. This makes her dangerous.
She is dangerous.
And there she goes, that "too much" woman, making people think too much, feel too much, swoon too much. She with her authentic prose and a self-assuredness in the way she carries herself. She with her belly laughs and her insatiable appetite and her proneness to fiery passion. All eyes on her, thinking she's hot shit.
Oh, that "too much" woman. . . too loud, too vibrant, too honest, too emotional, too smart, too intense, too pretty, too difficult, too sensitive, too wild, too intimidating, too successful, too fat, too strong, too political, too joyous, too needy—too much.
She should simmer down a bit, be taken down a couple notches. Someone should put her back in a more respectable place. Someone should tell her.
Here I am. . . a Too Much Woman, with my too-tender heart and my too-much emotions.
A hedonist, feminist, pleasure seeker, empath. I want a lot—justice, sincerity, spaciousness, ease, intimacy, actualization, respect, to be seen, to be understood, your undivided attention, and all of your promises to be kept.
I've been called high maintenance because I want what I want, and intimidating because of the space I occupy. I've been called selfish because I am self-loving. I've been called a witch because I know how to heal myself.
And still. . . I rise. Still, I want and feel and ask and risk and take up space.
I must.
Us Too Much Women have been facing extermination for centuries—we are so afraid of her, terrified of her big presence, of the way she commands respect and wields the truth of her feelings. We've been trying to stifle the Too Much Woman for ions—in our sisters, in our wives, in our daughters. And even now, even today, we shame the Too Much Woman for her bigness, for her wanting, for her passionate nature.
And still. . . she thrives.
In my own world and before my very eyes, I am witnessing the reclamation and rising up of the Too Much Woman. That Too Much Woman is also known to some as Wild Woman or the Divine Feminine. In any case, she is me, she is you, and she is loving that she's finally, finally getting some airtime.
If you've ever been called "too much," or "overly emotional," or "bitchy," or "stuck up," you are likely a Too Much Woman.
And if you are. . . I implore you to embrace all that you are—all of your depth, all of your vastness; to not hold yourself in, and to never abandon yourself, your bigness, your radiance.
Forget everything you've heard—your too much-ness is a gift; oh yes, one that can heal, incite, liberate, and cut straight to the heart of things.
Do not be afraid of this gift, and let no one shy you away from it. Your too much-ness is magic, is medicine. It can change the world.
So please, Too Much Woman: As See Desire. Expand. Move. Feel. Be.
Make your waves, fan your flames, give us chills.
Please, rise.
We need you.
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Copyright © 2018 Ev'Yan Whitney. All rights reserved.
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ROAD TRIP
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Posted:Jun 15, 2020 5:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2021 9:58 am
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So Im taking a few days this week and going on an adventure. Who knows where Ill end up or who Ill run into...wish Me luck!
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walking partner
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Posted:May 28, 2020 6:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2021 10:00 am
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*update jan 3, 2021...
still looking
no joke, no motives, nothing...literally trying get moving again...I use work in a semi active job 3-5 days a week and now Ive been on My rather shapely ass for 2 months. I need get moving and grooving again. Id like a pleasant person go walking with on occasion. Nothing overly strenuous...the walking paths downtown...to start with most likely. HAVE TO like BBWs and not be an asshat!
LADY A
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spending time on ME
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Posted:May 24, 2020 7:36 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2021 10:01 am
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This year is a year...time focus on finding or rediscovering who I am and what I want. Ive spent the last 20 years being MOM and and WIFE and Ive lost who Alanna is. Ive changed so much in the last 20 years. My likes and wants and needs have changed from that bright eyed firecracker I was so long ago. I still have the fire but Ive learned bank the embers, wait.
My journey is long no doubt and will take many places. Right now it is taking inward, telling focus on Myself and how I think, how I feel and how I interact with others and the world around .
My hormones are NOT helping, dont get wrong...I still want and NEED find Myself a playmate or but for now...that is NOT a priority. Dont be afraid keep talking ...leave a name, a contact, a smile, something remember you by that IS NOT A DICK PIC!!! The time will come that Ill be ready for that again.
Lady A
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alternatives
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Posted:Jan 13, 2020 5:17 am
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2020 3:49 am
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once in a blue moon Ill use another chat method. Sky pe. Alanna Firehart
dont be offended now boys if I dont answer you and the same rules apply there as here. I dont do skin or cyber or shows and I dont allow rude behaviour. Im a Lady first and foremost but the Pirate takes no prisoners and SHARK BAIT IS A THING.
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To link to this blog (PirateAlanna) use [blog PirateAlanna] in your messages.
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