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"Life"style Mistakes
Posted:Sep 28, 2021 4:27 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2021 7:49 am

While this kink is enjoyable to say the least, it doesn’t come without its setbacks. As in life, at times mistakes are made, rules broken and there is no time machine to grant you a do over... But chances are that at some point the promise was made that you would be better than the statistics, that no one was leaving the other.

The mistake itself isn’t really important, because it’s the way it’s handed that I want to highlight. There will be ‘bumps in the road’ and unexpected situations…rules can be bent or broken, mistakes will be made but if you have a solid enough foundation built over years of dealing with so many other challenges you can get through the turmoil that these issues bring. Talk it out, hear each other out and go from there. Here’s where all that trust and communication come in handy in life and when you’re exploring this kink.

Work it out as soon as possible, don’t let problems and resentments build…talk it out. Being each other’s biggest supporters even though you're both hurting will help you lean on each other when things get tough. There will be some talk, examine, and do some soul searching, crying, and trying to figure out what’s next. Find your inner compassionate Buddha and help each other through your issues. It takes a lot of talking, loving & trust but it’s likely that you’ll be better off for it. Take chance, you won't regret it. So in the interest of helping other couples out there I hope that this is something you come across. I've learned a lot the past few days so here’s what I can share:

Some arguments will be a completely different beast than the usual disagreements married couples have. Emotions run deeper and it’s incredibly important to be able to be able to talk it out.

Truth and absolute transparency is required! I’ve said before, and I’ll say again, the good, bad & ugly has to be communicated to your spouse …and it’s awful when it’s the bad & ugly but it’s necessary.

There’s a deeply emotional side to every issue…most mistakes really aren’t the end of the world.

You can choose to view things as positive or negative…But if you remember the good, this moment will bring you closer & make you stronger than before.

In the end remember this lifestyle or your relationship will rarely be understood by others, so what they have to say should count for very little because chances are only your partner was there during the tough times. When things happen and emotions run high, it's important to not get lost in the moment but remember all that has being accomplished. Remember day one and see how far you've come. Look around and what has been built over the years. This will hopefully allow you to reflect and set aside any pride that may exist and allow you to start the communication, yes don't be afraid to go first. Forgiveness and compassion are crucial for so many reasons for both parties even if simply because chances are that at some point or another your partner forgave you when you needed it. Give them a sign that everything is going to be OK and you will get through things together as you've always have you will RISE...

Remember, using anger to move forward is not the way but rather letting go of that moment. Just think, what if you done this sooner, how much better could you be as a person? Are you not only hurting your partner but yourself not to mention others that may have had nothing to do with the issue such as ? By not forgiving and realizing everyone is going to hurt you that matters in your life it's bound to happen, it's what you do with it that shapes your relationship and ourselves. Forgiving shouldn't take someone dying to learn. Forgiving is the hardest thing a person can do but it is also the one of the most rewarding feelings and way to be at peace with one's self, life, and surroundings. It is when you forgive you can start to grow as a person... as a couple.

Look around and remember what brought you together, forget everyone else and remember the vows and/or promises.

I apologize if this post is vague and a little scattered, but I wanted it to apply to most issues couples may face.

Chirp Chirp
What Is Love
Posted:Sep 25, 2021 6:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 8:20 pm

the end of the what we all want, whether we choose to admit it or not is love. But what is love? Recently I've had to think about this and I realized somewhere along the way I had forgotten what I already knew. I didn't write and post the for it to be some kinda of revelation as I believe we all want something along the same lines. I posted it as a reminder. As I've said before we can get lost in trying reach a certain goal. Whether it be in the lifestyle, with , work, exercise what have you. So much so that we forget the journey that we are on with our partner thereby accidentally forgetting them. We are all guilty of it including .

So what does that mean to me?

I envision a love that made me weak to my knees and shutter at the thought of it. To be so full in happy that it’s so hard to breathe cause she makes me feel like I’m on drugs. So engulfed by each other we need each other, to the point where I know at the end of the I know someone truly has me and understands me for who I really am. I’m talking about to the point where I can come home one and we can sit and laugh about the ways of the world, talk about if aliens are real, read a together as we sip on a desert wine and feed each other whatever we cooked together listening to our playlist we made with one another. to finish the and take a bath together, talking about god knows what cause we just have that type of bond where we can talk for hours and hours and be satisfied, washing one another as we splash water and bubbles with the biggest laughs and smiles on our faces. To end the night laying in bed as we into one another’s eyes seeing the beauty in letting someone hold your heart and not to have to worry about it being left or forgotten. And when we slept we somehow began to cuddle and dreamed dreams that left us so far away from earth.

Whatever goals you have no matter what the timeline may be take a week off and do this with your partner. It's imperative that they know that through it all you both share the same thoughts, feelings and desires and soon you will get there.

Chirp Chirp
Patience Is Everything
Posted:Sep 25, 2021 12:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2021 7:50 am

Having a bit of writers block tonight knowing that I won't be able to write much longer. Anyway for most this lifestyle is about growth as individuals and as a couple. During this time remember to love your partner for who they are, for the person you fell in love with. This might seem like something that shouldn't have be said but unfortunately we can get caught up in the moment and easily forget. However, in the event that at some point, THEY choose change know that may take sometime. Be Patient!

People can change; they can grow and mature. People are also imperfect. One of the most difficult aspects of trying grow is the lack of faith from those who should be the most supportive. Rather than waiting and expecting for them fall back old patterns, verbally recognize and praise the changes that you have seen, even when they’re small.

Chirp Chirp
Simple Must Do's
Posted:Sep 23, 2021 8:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 8:19 pm

In the lifestyle or in life in general we sometimes forget the little things. Recently, I've learned the little things matter so so much. While this site is created for adult entertainment don't forget the little things outside in the real world. The smiles, the looks, the intimate soft touches and the inside jokes. Give him or her a sign from time to time to let them know you are still there, that you still care that you still remember. There is always a way.. Nothing and no one else matters.

Simple must do's:

Cherish every moment with your partner.

Slow dance in the living room to silly love songs.

Look at old pictures together. Otherwise what's the point in taking them.

Wake next each other after a weird dream and talk about it.

Cook together while almost burning the food, because you can't stop to kissing each other.

Drive around singing every song at the top of your lungs.

Tell each other something that came to mind just because you thought of telling the other first.

Cuddle on a rainy day watching a movie after another.

Live every possible fantasy with each other as often as possible.

Let your lives be your own happy ending, romcom, or love story that makes everyone jealous.

Take chances with each other you won't regret it.

Remember the promises made no matter what...

"Love is patient, love is kind." I read this on a scrapbook once...

Chirp Chirp
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