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Sapiogurl 58F
5400 posts
5/9/2016 7:46 pm

Believe it or not, your SG has never owned or used a dildo, vibrator, wand...well you get it. I am going to be laid (mmm) up for a bit after foot surgery and will probably be violating myself more than usual. I'd like to keep it fresh...mix it up...so I figured I'd get my first toy. A little late to the party at 53 huh?

Sooo what should I get? Suggestions cowboys and cowgirls? *Mwah*

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cwazywabbit009 56M
6256 posts
5/9/2016 7:54 pm

A rabbit

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benard69 63M/63F  
5336 posts
5/9/2016 8:07 pm

We better help you with that foot rehab..We'll bring toys...

Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 1:43 am:

Oooh road trip! Too good to me lovely couple.xoxo

Golly06 68M  
1890 posts
5/9/2016 8:13 pm

I hope you have someone to help you get around. Really, I'm shocked. Never leaned up against the washer on spin cycle? Anything? All sorts of questions (and visuals...and audios) cum to mind of how you have managed to get along without mechanical help. Hope you have a speedy recovery!

Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 1:46 am:

Well, I did do the washer thing when I was a teenager, but other than that...my hands have always got the job done. ha ha

sphxdiver 70M  
21067 posts
5/9/2016 8:28 pm

Sure looks like your really going to need an extra hand there, would be more than happy to help you out.

sailorboy603 55M
122 posts
5/9/2016 10:06 pm

You haven't give much to go on - insertable? external? vaginal? anal? etc, etc.

There are actually some pretty reasonable review sites scattered about the web. Look for ones which not only give a rating, but also describe the product, what they like, what they didn't and why (they might not have the same tastes as you). Online stores like Good Vibrations have "Best Sellers" categories which will tell you what other people like. If you cum to Boston (or go to SF) before your surgery, check out the Good Vibrations brick & mortar stores. Their sales people (all women, I think) are incredibly knowledgeable, friendly, and sex-positive.

The Hitachi Magic Wand comes in both classic (corded) and rechargeable cordless variants. There's also a more powerful corded version from the UK company Doxie. As a beginner though I think all these solutions could be overkill.

Some of the new brands like LELO and Fun Factory make non-traditional, more expensive models, but I think they really are better designed.

Other random thoughts:
- Do you want something waterproof?
- Don't get a bullet vibe (or toy that uses one) because they *eat* very expensive little hearing aid batteries
- Do you want to get one with a phone app or internet connection so all of us can control it for you?

Good luck!

Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 1:48 am:

Oh my...so thorough, thank you baby. I'll just get one of each ha ha

lookin4funinBC9 60M
1385 posts
5/10/2016 3:49 am

I do find that hard to believe not really sure what kind but can you take pics or better video?

Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 3:56 am:

I might just! It's hard (mmm) to believe but TRUE! xoxo

coastalseeker4u 67M

5/10/2016 5:33 am

The Hitachi Magic Wand is an absolute must....and there are all sorts of naughty looking attachments for it.

If you want a dildo, and I think you do, take a look at the Bandit.
A bit pricey, perhaps, but worth it.


sex_for_fun53 67M
304 posts
5/10/2016 6:05 am

Good morning! Well, while I'm tempted to give a standard line about how I would love to be your toy (yada, yada, yada), I'll instead just wish you a speedy recovery from your surgery. I'm sure you're creative enough to "handle" your problem by yourself.

Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 7:57 am:

Thank you baby

coastalseeker4u 67M

5/10/2016 7:39 am

The Hitachi Magic Wand is a must. (and there are lots of very naughty looking attachments you can get for it.

As for a dildo, and I think you'll want one, take a look at the Bandit.


HDSoftail20067 53M  
250 posts
5/10/2016 9:33 am

MMMM a bullet and large dildo and me to give you attention and the sponge baths as desired! Sorry to hear of the upcoming surgery but doubt you will lose you edge of erotic thoughts! So yummy and delicious!

TrucknLuvn 56M/38F  
1613 posts
5/10/2016 10:53 pm

I love my rabbit!


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Sapiogurl replies on 5/10/2016 11:43 pm:

I think I'm just going to have to get one of each! I may never leave the house. Better organize a search and rescue GF. ha ha

CrazyDriven14U 60M
137 posts
5/11/2016 12:47 pm

It's going to be an expensive process, but one that is worth it. Look for high quality products. Experiment with different shapes and sizes, and get both vibrating and the more conventional "selfie sticks". You may get a collection of barely used toys going, but the keepers will have you forgetting about any dud you may have brought home. A couple favorites will soon set you adrift in a sea of masterbation fantasies. Light a candle, enjoy a relaxing bath with some good wine, and make an event of loving yourself. When buying items like this, you really just need to experiment with some of the options to see what suits your needs, desires, and fantasies. Something will rise to the top. Weak kneed and panting? Put it in the keeper collection!

Testing... Is this thing on!

SPB2007 62M  
64 posts
5/13/2016 3:17 pm

May I suggest this sleek little number. Precision engineered for the discriminating woman whose nether regions demand 24-karat comfort.


Don't dawdle; at $ 15,000 it's priced to move. And curl your toes.

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