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Living a life less ordinary...
 
Black Country born and bred... Adopted Londoner since 2004... sensual, passionate... open minded and always looking to push my boundaries with the right person. Married but living a life in the shadows
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Posted:Dec 4, 2012 3:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2021 1:51 am
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Hello and thanks for dropping by into what is a snap shot of the ramblings which go in my mind. If you want to leave a message for me alone, please feel free to do so here! The comments will not be posted so its just between you and me baby lol.

Feel free to look through the posts and leave a comment if you can in the various posts. Comments are useful to me to ensure that what I am writing is having some impact somewhere and gives me the impetus to carry on.

Ciao

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First dose of the Vaccine
Posted:May 3, 2021 4:34 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 4:44 pm
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One down and I feel good for it! Second in July... happy that life is getting back to normal!
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Modern NSA Dating
Posted:Mar 20, 2021 4:58 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2021 1:14 am
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With a proliferation of modern Apps - tinder, bumble, others... have you used any to build a black book of casual contacts?
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Frustrations
Posted:Mar 20, 2021 4:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 9:48 pm
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One week in and it does seem that even after all these years - the fake profiles and small pool of people in the UK does make this site unreliable.

Makes one wonder how with modern dating apps - how this place keeps going...

🤔
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Young Woman on a Divan - Max Klinger
Posted:Mar 13, 2021 3:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2021 8:18 am
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I have share this piece of art by a Max Klinger - personally I think is amazing on so many levels - the sensuality is off the scale

(Damn looks like the moderators took off the pic)... soooo I guess you had google the pic as titled and see what you think.
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Long absence
Posted:Mar 13, 2021 3:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2021 7:59 am
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My word, my last blog post was almost 4 years ago.. how bad of !

I hope you are well and coping as well as can be under the pandemic which has taken many loved ones away and has altered life forever.

My life - has been interesting... my life which is open carries on much as it has these last years - thankfully still gainfully employed, still providing for my own and good there.

My life in the shadows well I have had some escapades - nice enjoy the company of some most wonderful human beings and push some boundaries... but it’s taken a back seat for a little while and I hope I can restart the exploring again soon and feel that passionate lust which brings out the flutters and wet sticky feeling

Well I leave you for now - hopefully not for another 4years or longer! soon you wonderful filthy people xx
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Power of a Blog Post
Posted:Sep 7, 2017 3:54 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2021 4:13 am
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OK, yesterday's post on the Trading Flowers led to some interesting and fun exchanges and I am much the wiser thanks for to some lovely people who wrote to me and traded flowers lol

It just put my faith back to this site thanks to some good old AdultFriendFinder vets who frequent the blogging world on here.

The power of a blog post!

who knows maybe i might even find a lover

Thank you!!!
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Trading Flowers??
Posted:Sep 6, 2017 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2017 4:43 am
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Hey Guys, long time!

I just upgraded to VIP and now I keep getting messages from people asking to trade flowers... what's that all about??

Can someone please tell me as it's driving me mad!

Thank you!
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Checking for Sent Messages
Posted:Apr 14, 2016 8:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2016 9:28 am
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How can I check messages I have sent and which haven't been replied??
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Happy New Year AdultFriendFinder'rs xx
Posted:Dec 31, 2015 6:24 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 9:48 pm
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The Gate of the Year

And I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year:

“Give me a light that I may tread safely into the unknown.”

And he replied:

“Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the Hand of God. That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way.” So I went forth, and finding the Hand of God, trod gladly into the night. And He led me towards the hills and the breaking of day in the lone East.”
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Tribute Pics
Posted:Dec 14, 2015 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2015 7:29 am
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Hey Crew

Been a while since I posted but good to be back...

I have noticed a lot more ladies have tribute pics where guys cum over pics. Very flattering m sure, but what's the equivalent for ladies appreciating guys?
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Cold Feet
Posted:Mar 21, 2015 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2015 12:49 pm
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Lying in bed alone, missing the feeling of a warm body next to me with whom I can intertwine my legs and warm my cold feet
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HAPPY FRIDAY
Posted:Mar 20, 2015 8:33 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 9:48 pm
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Yay, roll on the weekend
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