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Sapphire_Mystery 64F
233 posts
4/21/2020 6:38 am
Envision your perfect future

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Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
4/21/2020 6:42 am

If I had seen this same documentary fifteen years ago, I wonder if I would have recognized myself as easily.


older4young2020 52M  
21 posts
4/21/2020 7:29 am

Well, with this COVID-19 virus going around, it appears a lot of us have plenty of time to reflect on life and dream of a perfect future.

Mine would involve lovely young women and lots of money....


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
4/21/2020 8:01 am

    Quoting older4young2020:
    Well, with this COVID-19 virus going around, it appears a lot of us have plenty of time to reflect on life and dream of a perfect future.

    Mine would involve lovely young women and lots of money....
You sure are right about everyone having time on their hands due to Covid19, older4young2020. Thanks for stopping by. Have a great day!


jajo696 65F
2213 posts
4/21/2020 9:08 am

i would be living comfortably very near the ocean....where i could walk daily and see the sunrise n sunsets over the waves. I would be retired but working or volunteering in a thrift shop. I would have a small place n space that i could maintain and a garden of flowers and veggies. And a special regular one person who was truthful, smart, funny sexy and reliable and would treat me as well or better than i would treat him. Ahhhhh yes...in a perfect world.~~


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
4/21/2020 9:54 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    i would be living comfortably very near the ocean....where i could walk daily and see the sunrise n sunsets over the waves. I would be retired but working or volunteering in a thrift shop. I would have a small place n space that i could maintain and a garden of flowers and veggies. And a special regular one person who was truthful, smart, funny sexy and reliable and would treat me as well or better than i would treat him. Ahhhhh yes...in a perfect world.~~
That does sound like a perfect situation, jajo696! Thanks for commenting and have a great day!


justaguyinalaska 54M  
570 posts
4/21/2020 11:23 am

For many people, it is better to imagine *the future* in two discrete components.

First is to have the resources to create a desired *future*. The fundamental resources necessary to evolve and grow are health, time and money (in that order of priority). I encourage people to focus on growing these resources in their lives.

Secondarily (and complementary) is to have a personal vision of a *future*. If you have a firm vision, this informs and motivates your efforts to achieve and sustain your personal resources. However, those of us who have not yet formulated a forward-thinking vision, the energy spent on the first component will position you to act upon what eventually comes into focus.

While dreams do truly *die hard*, we should accept how our life experience influences and alters our dreams.

Regardless, dreams are truly a way of expressing optimism, which I consider to be an essential element of getting through the day.


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
4/21/2020 11:56 am

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    For many people, it is better to imagine *the future* in two discrete components.

    First is to have the resources to create a desired *future*. The fundamental resources necessary to evolve and grow are health, time and money (in that order of priority). I encourage people to focus on growing these resources in their lives.

    Secondarily (and complementary) is to have a personal vision of a *future*. If you have a firm vision, this informs and motivates your efforts to achieve and sustain your personal resources. However, those of us who have not yet formulated a forward-thinking vision, the energy spent on the first component will position you to act upon what eventually comes into focus.

    While dreams do truly *die hard*, we should accept how our life experience influences and alters our dreams.

    Regardless, dreams are truly a way of expressing optimism, which I consider to be an essential element of getting through the day.
It never occurred to me, justaguyinalaska, that dreams are a way of expressing optimism. I like that thought! Thanks for stopping by with such a thoughtful reply. Enjoy your day!


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