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Sapphire_Mystery 64F
233 posts
7/16/2019 3:55 pm
I never could connect the dots

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Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
7/16/2019 4:04 pm

It was for the best.


justaguyinalaska 54M  
570 posts
7/16/2019 5:39 pm

A fascinating mystery! Although there are scant details with which to deduce, I will plunge ahead into wild speculation:

1. Your ex-beau divorced because he became involved with another woman and- in that instance- clothes did come off. Many times.
2. Your ex-beau is a churchy Christian and pursued his affair under an immense weight of personal guilt.
3. He eventually confesses to his wife. Divorce ensues.
4. His minister continues to kibitz and maneuver him and his ex toward a reconciliation. One of the minister’s trump cards is establishing linkage between your ex-beau’s success and his marriage.
5. You are suddenly entangled on the periphery this moribund but still clinically *alive* relationship.
6. Guilt- always a gift that keeps on giving- inspires a moment of *sartori* with your ex-beau. To validate and sustain his success, he must reunite with his ex. Unfortunately he is visited by this revelation at the precise moment he is about to undress you.
7. Lacking the courage to share either his situation or his decision with you, your ex-beau flees into the night, presumably back into the arms of his ex-wife.
8. Praise the Lord, another marriage resuscitated…..at least until the next moment of doubt and pain.


easy_going2014 53M
13405 posts
7/16/2019 6:41 pm

run away as fast as you can...

you have another chance to dodge a crazy situation...

when I was in college this young lady asked me to come spend the night with her... we had worked together at the Safeway store...

I said, ok... and, went home with her...

we got in bed and I took my clothes off and she did not and would not... I asked her if something was wrong... she said no, I said ok... got up out of bed... and left her apartment.

that was strange...

mad me think of this one...

Gotye - "Puzzle With a Piece Missing"

Tiny pieces come to me every day
Still I wait
Things are falling into place
But so much time goes to waste
I stretch and shift
These parts won't fit
I can chop and change all I like
Rearranging this won't make it right
All doors are open
All the doors are open

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s2ndegree 61M  
9736 posts
7/16/2019 6:52 pm

He had to wear his clothes or suit or whatever he donned if anyone was
going to take him serious in business or anything for
that matter.I'm not sure wearing two different socks would ruin my
whole day Maybe a bit of embarrassment.

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Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
7/17/2019 1:57 am

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    A fascinating mystery! Although there are scant details with which to deduce, I will plunge ahead into wild speculation:

    1. Your ex-beau divorced because he became involved with another woman and- in that instance- clothes did come off. Many times.
    2. Your ex-beau is a churchy Christian and pursued his affair under an immense weight of personal guilt.
    3. He eventually confesses to his wife. Divorce ensues.
    4. His minister continues to kibitz and maneuver him and his ex toward a reconciliation. One of the minister’s trump cards is establishing linkage between your ex-beau’s success and his marriage.
    5. You are suddenly entangled on the periphery this moribund but still clinically *alive* relationship.
    6. Guilt- always a gift that keeps on giving- inspires a moment of *sartori* with your ex-beau. To validate and sustain his success, he must reunite with his ex. Unfortunately he is visited by this revelation at the precise moment he is about to undress you.
    7. Lacking the courage to share either his situation or his decision with you, your ex-beau flees into the night, presumably back into the arms of his ex-wife.
    8. Praise the Lord, another marriage resuscitated…..at least until the next moment of doubt and pain.
What an interesting analysis, justaguyinalaska. I do recall that he was very religious. And now that I think more about the situation, I know he was separated but can't say with certainty that he ever used the word "divorced". Thanks for stopping by my blog.


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
7/17/2019 1:59 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    run away as fast as you can...

    you have another chance to dodge a crazy situation...

    when I was in college this young lady asked me to come spend the night with her... we had worked together at the Safeway store...

    I said, ok... and, went home with her...

    we got in bed and I took my clothes off and she did not and would not... I asked her if something was wrong... she said no, I said ok... got up out of bed... and left her apartment.

    that was strange...

    mad me think of this one...

    Gotye - "Puzzle With a Piece Missing"

    Tiny pieces come to me every day
    Still I wait
    Things are falling into place
    But so much time goes to waste
    I stretch and shift
    These parts won't fit
    I can chop and change all I like
    Rearranging this won't make it right
    All doors are open
    All the doors are open
Your situation does sound a lot like mine, easy_going2014. I think we both dodged a crazy situation! Thanks for reading and commenting.


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
7/17/2019 2:01 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    He had to wear his clothes or suit or whatever he donned if anyone was
    going to take him serious in business or anything for
    that matter.I'm not sure wearing two different socks would ruin my
    whole day Maybe a bit of embarrassment.
"Two different socks" .. thanks for the chuckle, s2ndegree! Have a great day.


Granny872 67F  
2405 posts
7/17/2019 3:17 am

“I did it. I had do it in order be as successful as I am today”.

I would assume, from that comment, that whatever he did had nothing to do with an ex- or marriage or another relationship, but rather, a career choice.

Maybe he had gang tattoos? Or tattoos removed? Scars?


Sapphire_Mystery 64F
134 posts
7/17/2019 3:46 am

    Quoting Granny872:
    “I did it. I had do it in order be as successful as I am today”.

    I would assume, from that comment, that whatever he did had nothing to do with an ex- or marriage or another relationship, but rather, a career choice.

    Maybe he had gang tattoos? Or tattoos removed? Scars?
Interesting, Granny872! My intuition took me down that path too ... something physical that he didn't want me to see. Thanks for your comment!


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