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Anal Sex 101 - For the Ladies  

Sepnrach 42M/36F  
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10/14/2020 1:57 pm
Anal Sex 101 - For the Ladies

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Ladies, has your man expressed an interest in anal sex, but you’re feeling too intimidated/grossed out/nervous/etc.? I took the stance for years that I would NOT engage in anal sex, no way no how. Being an intense sexual creature, I still reveled in watching women take a big hard cock in their ass, and by all accounts seemed like they really enjoyed it! But how? Was that even possible?
Here are the invaluable components to enjoying anal sex to the maXXX:
WARM IT UP SLOWLY!! In the last couple years, my husband has encouraged me to try to keep an open mind and start by engaging in some sensual ass play - touching, licking, kissing and some very entry (fingertips or mini sex toys). After some proper foreplay with his mouth, we use a sequence of dildos to warm it up - a small skinny tapered one, then a bigger (but still smaller than my husband) realistic one, then by that point I am ready for his cock.
STIMULATE YOUR CLIT!!
I don’t think I would enjoy anal quite as much if I didn’t have a vibrator to stimulate my<b> clit </font></b>during the duration of the act. It truly changes the sensation to a highly erotic one if it’s uncomfortable at first, and the orgasms during anal sex are the best and most intense I’ve ever had!
Lastly, and most importantly:
CLEAN YOURSELF OUT!! When contemplating the idea of anal sex, the first thought that always turned me off was it being dirty. Gross!! I remember googling “how porn stars clean themselves for anal sex” and found a simple yet effective enema bulb online specifically for cleaning out the anal cavity for sex. I use it when I know I want to offer my ass up for the night or if he requests it. The bottom line here is that anal sex is gross because that’s where the shit is. If I’m worried about being unclean, I tense up involuntarily and ultimately it is not a pleasurable experience. When I clean myself, I’m not thinking about that and can reach a level of relaxation after warming up and using my vibrator to climax that allows my husband to fuck me in the ass hard for long periods of time, just like the porn stars do! I never dreamed that would be possible, since not too many years ago I said, “there’s no way I’d ever have anal sex.”


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