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An important sex question...  

Sharinrosey 29F  
221 posts
1/20/2018 5:34 am
An important sex question...

The important sex question is…

Why do some men prefer women who are emotionally faithful but physically promiscuous?

Given a choice which would you prefer…

An emotionally faithful yet physically promiscuous woman or a physically faithful yet emotionally promiscuous woman?

Can you even be physically promiscuous and stay emotionally faithful because I know I have found it extremely difficult at times. What are your experiences? Have you ever found yourself drifting from your partner? I would love to hear from both men and women willing to share their experiences.
Emotionally faithful?
Physically faithful?

BiggLala 48F  
28974 posts
1/20/2018 5:59 am

I'm curious. What do you mean when you say 'emotionally promiscuous'?

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Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/20/2018 6:12 am

Emotionally promiscuous by always wanting to be unfaithful but never actually doing anything about it so I suppose being emotionally detached would be the same.

RobK2006 53M
5591 posts
1/20/2018 6:51 am

I would say I am a little emotionally promiscuous. I've only cheated one time (well, maybe two times if you count some dancing at a club once that got a bit out of control). The one time was when a married friend and I fucked. I have definitely been emotionally unfaithful with a close friend of mine, who also behaves in an emotionally unfaithful way with me.

DoctorBooty 39M  
6377 posts
1/20/2018 7:27 am

I can’t abide physically cheating on me, but she can look, we’re human and can’t help that. I can’t stop visually undressing every pretty girl I see.

Basilikummen 43M
1010 posts
1/20/2018 8:21 am

I don't know how valid my vote is, as I consider polyamory possible when people have love and respect, but if I had to choose in the one-or-other scenario I would prefer to have emotionally faithful. Sex is just sex, but love is love.

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Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/20/2018 2:45 pm

So far it seems men prefer emotional stability over physical control

cowboy_19925 28M
1 post
1/20/2018 9:30 pm

Me personally, I love my partners to go and have fun with others emotionally and sexually. It doesn't bother me if they do.

Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/21/2018 2:00 pm

It would be nice if all men had the self assurance you must have then girls like me could really have some fun

englishmean60 66M
24 posts
1/22/2018 5:55 pm

I think that emotionally faithful is the better of the alternatives. Sex is sex but being emotionally faithful is a smoke to purloin and abridge a phrase.

TravelingMan524 68M
238 posts
1/23/2018 12:23 am

I have always been emotionally faithful until recently when I formed a very close attachment to a second lady.

Up to that point love was love and sex was sex. Two very different things.

Love does make life more complicated.

Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/23/2018 3:19 am

I think you may have answered my curiosity with this as I have had sex with many attached and married men and they all seem to feel the same as you where they can simply separate the two but I still find it very difficult not to get emotionally involved if I see someone regularly

sexylegsblonde 64M/61F
239 posts
1/25/2018 6:50 am

I too tend to become more emotionally involved with a man or men that I see on a regular basis for sex. Parties, or once or twice sexual encounters don't have that effect on me like someone that I see two or three times a month for sex. Kisses Mrs Sexylegs

LickYourYoni 71M
563 posts
1/25/2018 5:14 pm

It turns me on to have my partner have sexy fun with others.

Lkn4funwith2 55M
1011 posts
1/26/2018 1:39 am

For a LTR, it has to be BOTH. For a FB/FWB, I prefer a physically faithful woman who will let me know when she wants to move on to someone else.

Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/26/2018 2:11 pm

I am getting the impression most men would prefer to know what I have been up to rather than being kept in the dark?

Sharinrosey 29F  
48 posts
1/28/2018 6:59 am

Thanks for your thought provoking input and I agree it is a very difficult scenario in different circumstances and I am starting to think it does come down to what's important to the individual.

For my hubby it is all about being emotionally connected to him but for the physical side he loves it when I have sex with other men and for every couple it would be different.

I have realised every couple or individual is different and am now starting to understand why some men and especially women can be so judgemental about what I do

AlfredPeers 53M
68 posts
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Papazote30 35M
68 posts
3/22/2018 8:57 pm

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lwantsex805 39M
16 posts
5/19/2018 2:59 pm

    Quoting Sharinrosey:
    Emotionally promiscuous by always wanting to be unfaithful but never actually doing anything about it so I suppose being emotionally detached would be the same.
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lwantsex805 39M
16 posts
5/19/2018 3:01 pm

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