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So It Ain't Your Cup of Tea  

SingleStr8NYCGuy 51M
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3/6/2018 8:27 pm
So It Ain't Your Cup of Tea


I confess that I may not be quite as upfront and honest about what turns my crank, because when people hear the word "fetish," it can conjure up all sorts of different things. Dressing up, role play, pain, scat, water sports, voyeurism, etc.

In my case, it's sheer pantyhose, legs. ass play, women who have g-spot orgasms, toys, and sometimes fantasies about being with transsexuals

Yes, when I say pantyhose, sometimes I wear them. It felt like that first dive off the diving board (and not just jumping into the water) to admit that turns me on, but I also found "Leg Show" magazine, and that helped. All I'm looking for really is someone who enjoys that same sort of thing and hopefully who shares toys as well as using them.

Hopefully being with a woman who likes pegging, rimming, - whatever you want to call it.

But to engage in cybersex with someone who is open, passionate, and receptive to my hose fetish is one thing. to suddenly back off from playing with toys confuses me. I've learned not to pass judgement on other people because of what makes them cum.

I just hate misreading someone and misreading the potential for realization of fantasies. Ah well.

BiggLala 48F  
29058 posts
3/7/2018 6:27 am

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SingleStr8NYCGuy replies on 3/7/2018 9:16 am:
Oh I agree, sweetie, but the person in question I was thinking of was great up until a certain point, and I don't understand what went down hill. All I know is that it now seems like a wasted effort. I've rarely had this sort of thing happen tome after so much time invested in someone.

Keep in mind we had traded photos back and forth, and she even sent me a hot video clip.

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