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How many is too many?
How many is too many? So a friend made a casual passing remark that I was a slut. It was not meant to be a hurtful comment but it did get me thinking. I’m still young and enjoy the fun and attention of being with different guys but how many do you think? |
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I love it. There is no such thing. There is a woman who has worked hard at discovering her sexual appetite and now appreciates it. I wish there were lots more out there. You are welcome in my company anytime. ☘
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Thats a number only you can choose, you do you other people cannot make proper informed discisions about such a personal aspect of your life
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Get as much as you can while you can. You are only young once. All my regrets in life are things I haven't done when I could have, nothing that I did.
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I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good ![]()
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As many you want it your life.
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1/3/2020 2:34 pm |
Just get checked often!
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There's no limit in my opinion.
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I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good ![]()
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Sophie knowing the number wouldn't bother me. ☘
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I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good ![]()
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More pussy the better
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💖💖
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That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .
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I’m not sure what you’re asking
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That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .
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I wish I’d done what I’m doing now when I was younger! Enjoy!
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depends on some things. how it affects you and the people you give a shit about. Is it hurting you or your relationships. Will it affect your future. Myself, I am kind of wondering why your asking, if you were cool with "it" then... If you were a guy would you be asking? health wise, wouldn't it be better, safer to have a couple regular dudes to fuck?, Anyway....good luck and have fun, lifes tooo fucking short!
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Happy friday
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Lol.... If a guy brags about how many ladies he has fucked he is considered to be either a liar or stud. If woman brags about how many men she's fucked she is considered to be either or SLUT or a PROSTITUTE. For those of us who love fucking we will never win and almost certainly branded or stigmatized in some type of negative light. Personally I say " Fuck You" to those who want to try and label me "Male Slut, Player, Perve, etc" fact of the matter is I am all those things and many many more. For the longest time I thought I was a "Sex Addict" when in reality the simplest way of describing me is..."Pleasure Addict" **** Next time someone makes a casual remark grab there hand and pull them close to you and whisper in there ear. I've fotgotten about more Pussy/Women then most men will ever have ( then step back and observe the reaction. Respond accordingly to said reaction.
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So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off? ![]()
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keep sucking and fucking hun ![]()
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Hey, Sophie. *Have A Slutful Weekend* Jack ![]()
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You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago... Triple Digits
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Tell me about each and every cock you have had fuck you, all while I lick and suck your cum filled pussy......
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Some women think being called a slut is a compliment. I don't care how many she has fucked. I prefer women with experience as I have an imagination. lol>>!
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Buenisssimooooo
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So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off? But what's the right type of guy? ... for you. only you can answer but you should see my other comments.
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This is a question that should never be asked or answered - by and between partners. Up until now, you've accomplished nothing but the skills to learn (on your own). Not even your brain will be fully developed for another five or six years. You have nothing, accomplished no great intellectual achievements and basically have nothing to lean on or claim of expertise. (well for most at 21) A hard truth but something to recognize as you tell yourself, "I can have/do anything I want" and then making the effort to reach those goals. My point is, it will not always be that way. You'll grow, mature, educate and reeducate while discovering new interest and deeper desires/passions (not sexual) for life, career, family and other fun stuff. However, with nothing gained and to loose your aversion to risk (and consideration thereof) really doesn't exist. Yet sex with endless numbers of partners is the biggest risk you take as this can lead to death or worst living with an std and not capable of having the sex you enjoy now. And random partners are never randomly honest or even knowledgeable when they themselves engage with endless numbers of random partners. Back to "it will not always be that way". The only thing you need to think about is who do "You Want to Be?" in ten years. The mature Sophie is who I'm talking about. How will endless partners play out in your head in five, ten and twenty years and how will that affect your relationship when you want to settle into the life you're creating now? Otherwise, ignore all those that cheer for the slut. They simply envision bedding you with nothing more than burn and churn techniques that get them off ( damn the woman's needs ![]() And, you and your friend may be confusing the term slut with a more articulate explanation of what you enjoy. I'm willing to bet you're not too sure about what that really is. But don't latch onto the term slut because everyone who likes/engages in sex could be equally labeled the same way - especially men and then most men here. ![]() ![]()
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That is something you can only answer young lady..... we have not been together so I know you still have not been with enough yet.....
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Enough is enough! I guess the real question is, how much is enough and how much is too much for you? Some of us never seem to have enough, no matter how much we get. And some, never seem to get enough, even when we have had too much. When our lifestyle negatively affects our home, our family, our health and well being, then it is too much. And by then, sadly, it is usually too late. There are more sexually transmitted diseases today than there are partners, and many of them are incurable. If you've had a good time, and you still have your health and your sanity, maybe you should consider settling down some. There is nothing wrong with having been a slut, but there is nothing worse than a has been old slut. Do what most professional fighters, race car drivers, football players don't usually seem to have the good sense to do. Get out while you are young, while you are ahead. jmo Click: Quote or Respond Tell me what you think of my comment. I will see reply in “Where I’m Quoted”
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No even if I was dating you I still let you fuck other men long as I'm there holding you while you cum and some guys don't like it but I don't mind it at all ![]()
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keep sucking and fucking hun ![]()
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Hey, Sophie. *Have A Slutful Weekend* Jack ![]()
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You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago... Triple Digits
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I’m not sure I should answer that publicly!!
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Really wouldn't bother me no matter how many, it fun to experiment and figure out what you like, as long as you're having a good time where is the problem? up for chatting with you if you want to add another one into the mix!
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I would love to have a GF like you. She could have all the guys she wanted, as long as I am there to lick her clean afterwards.
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There’s no number, it an opinion and one that means nothing. Just be happy and free.
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Sophie, the older you get the easier it is to read people. You'll find some who don't care about the number, some who do, and some who find it kinky you've had so much experience. If you want a steady in your life, you'll have to share more how you view sex. One woman I met said, she views sex almost like a hug. She doesn't have to be in love to enjoy their company, just if they were fun. She said what surprised her was how many men rejected her advances. She eventually understood that many guys don't have the confidence or do not believe it's that easy so they thought she was kidding. So, it's really up to you if you want to share how many. Just treat yourself well, be safe, be healthy. Let's just say she and I had our fun, until she took a break from the lifestyle to have and raise kids.
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1 post 1/6/2020 2:48 pm |
The answer will always be “not enough “
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If anyone asks me how many women I've been with I tell them the truth: I haven't counted. Anyone who asks your number is probably not the right guy for you. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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Doesn't matter what people think its about what you think about yourself . If your ok with the number of guys or girls you've been worth than fuck what everyone else says .
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1/7/2020 7:27 pm |
As long as your safe tested regularly it wouldn't bother me. Do whatever makes you happy enjoy life while you can, but be smart about it....Not a turn off at all.
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My FWB often refers to herself as a slut, and she definitely thinks it is a bad term. Now her daughters, at least three of the four, all have had & continue to have multiple partners, and her three adult grand-daughters, OMG, they swear they have had any guy in pants within 50 miles ! BUT, she NEVER calls them sluts! She on the other hand, acknowledges a grand total of less than 10 in her entire 60 years of life! I exceeded that as a guy before I was FIFTH-TEEN ! SO yeah, as a guy I must be a slut, or a man-whore, as a few gals of my past have called me! And ya know, I have no regrets on that whatsoever! As to YOU, so you ENJOY sex, and with multiple partners too!! ENJOY !!! The only thing that could came close to making that bad is if you accepted payment for it, and went around bragging about it! And even that is subject to opinion !
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never to many honey!!!!!!!!!!! xoooxxxooo...\8
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Wow. You are a very sexy hot and beautiful slut! Which makes you even more desirable! Because you know that you like fucking a lot and want more of it... that’s very hot!
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never too many, keep on fucking
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There's no such thing, its the other person's problem and not yours
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Only count the ones that made an impact.
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Nobody says before they die, I wish I had less sex.
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1/9/2020 9:50 pm |
"Too many" is stupidity made up by those who get zero.
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Fuck as many people as you want and enjoy each and every one. It should only matter to you, and if someone else thinks it's their business and thinks being a slut is a bad thing, that's their problem. Knowing the ever-growing number of your partners wouldn't bother me. If we were married, I'd love to have you as a hotwife.
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I see nothing wrong at all with having a high amount of sexual partners! I did it when I was young! Lol don't waste it! Use it baby!
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I will give you a number but it will only be given while we are fucking ![]()
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If you are happy with ypur choices. Well then fuck everbody else.
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Well, I'm not marrying you so you can have as many men as you want, as far as I'm concerned ![]()
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you get em girl!
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Hey our bodies r ours an to enjoy sex or pleasure with it or from it is only for us to decide how or with whom . We all love to be seen an it ok
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Never to many. That is not possible. I have been with over 1500 men or women starting at 14 and still going. If that makes me a slut then I'm proud to be one.
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Post 4285259 Have as many as you like but don't catch anything doing it.
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You sound like my kind of woman!
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People who only want to fuck you will tell you that it doesn't matter how many guys you have been with, because they don't care about you, they just want your body. But there may come a day when you find someone special with whom you would like to share the rest of your life, and perhaps your sexual past is too heavy a burden for that person. Think about it. Greetings. Si quieres escribirme, este es mi... Buzn Para que no te dejen sin palabras
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As long as you enjoy it. The more the nerrier
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How many is too many? Hmmm I'll go ahead and set a number that if I were informed of how many you have fucked I think 100 is too many. IF .. you're not in porn but that is just my opinion... Anyways.. fuck and suck away all day every way I'd say don't make em pay to play with you bootay! Okay? Lmfao 😍 you're gorgeous btw
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Don't worry about what others think. Enjoy your life now. Someday, you may find the one, but until then, enjoy the many.
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Count me in!!
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Never too many but be safe in sex so you don’t catch something and get some experience in but when you think you find someone worthy of you that makes you happy and feel special then settle down with that special person
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fuck until you cant walk
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Only you and time can answer that question.
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Only you and time can answer that question. post 4285259]
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zero
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1/17/2020 12:41 am |
I guess, as many as it takes until u r over with it. YoLo ![]()
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Its your business and unless somebody is kissing and telling then do as many as you like....life is short
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Ya I’d say that’s something you get to decide for yourself. I’ve never had issues with numbers of partners, for me it’s more about if the person was safe about it.
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I don’t think their should be a number cap put on this stuff. Just live your life! ![]()
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Enjoy being a slut. You have a high sex drive . You enjoy yourself. Nothing is wrong with that.
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Lifes for living and we are all grown ups, make the most of the fun imo. Just play safe and make sure there clean, thats my moto.
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It is that person's issue. If you enjoy what you are doing why change? Fuck however many you want ![]()
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If you are being called a slut, it depends on how you react to it and the situation that you are in. You have to put it into context and understand why you were called one. Was it out of spite or anger? Was it in a joking manner? Was it during a hot and steamy sex session? It is ultimately up to you whether or not you embrace being called one or not and how you react to it. As far as do I want to know how many guys you have slept with? My answer is, No. Ignorance is bliss as long as you are clean and that you have the freedom of having sex whomever you want. ![]() ![]()
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1/19/2020 1:34 am |
I found the best sex was with woman i fell for. I didnt do that till age 44. I realized i want one woman for sex..
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1/19/2020 1:35 am |
its all good
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As long as your having fun that's all it counts
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No, knowing the number of men you've had sex with wouldn't be a turn off. Women who like sex are the best
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number is no issue, Enjoy life and all its pleasures.
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I say have as much fun as you can the world is made for beautiful women to enjoy and take what they can, and just lie to whoever u date
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Just enjoy yourself and be safe about it.
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Let them laugh, taunt, and mock, for they shall not pass this way again. When they come to hell and see their name*z, the way was prepared ~ ![]() ][ntution has never lied to Y ![]() Where We go, ]-\nGeL*z fear to tread ![]() Yet They Go, for they 0nly send ![]() ,,,their BesT ~ ![]()
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I am a confessed slut and I love it. I have been somewhat of a slut since high school. I wish I had been more of a slut when I was younger. you've been given good advise...........play safe always and have fun been told by more than one older person you do not regret the things you did when you were younger nearly as much as the things you missed out on so fuck and suck them all if you can..........have fun and stay safe and just dont tell how many until you find the one to settle down with.........don't hide it just dont advertise it
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Enjoy yourself the way you want to while you can. We don't live forever.
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A gal that was one of my best friends was divorced (neither of us were interested in marriage). . After a while, we became friends with benefits. She revealed to me that since her divorce she has slept with over one hundred men. That didn't hurt our friendship. . Unfortunately, she had a stroke at age 62 and passed away in a hospital 36 hours later.
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Its ok to have a big appetite I guess haha
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All men and women are sluts. It's our nature.
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I have learned in life that the best products are Finished ones. If a person does not accept the finished version of you (basically when you Are Done, then and Only then You Are Done!!!) Then he is not worth dealing with. I will accept that Whomever I am with, is ready to be with me because the are Finished.
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1/25/2020 2:52 am |
Sophie, First off to hell with that friend..... and are you a slut, I doubt it a Nymphomaniac Probably..... There's nothing wrong with that.... hell have fun and stay safe
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I don't think it matters anymore (or shouldn't anyway).
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Who gives a Fuck it's your life you only live once Do what makes you Happy as long as you play Safe💃
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1/26/2020 9:29 am |
why bother what other people think, Enjoy life
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you need to learn how to lose count, just like people do with their age
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At one time, like in a gangbang, or one at a time over many years? The truth is you are only as slutty as you feel, and there is no right answer. Everyone one is different, so do what makes you happy, content, and find your happy place. People that call you a slut, are usually the ones you aren't giving any to. People come and go from our lives constantly, be what you want to be!
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1 post 1/29/2020 4:14 am |
As a 71 year old woman I applaud your curiosity as well as your libido. For far too long women were made to feel badly about their sexual desires and needs. Guys could go out and get accolades and pats on the back for nailing that secretary from work or the waitress at the restaurant. Studs, Lothario, Cocksman are all endearing terms applied to men who got laid frequently by various women. When a woman behaves the same she gets a demeaning label like slut or whore. What is wrong with equality among the genders. In my opinion honey, go ahead and try to wear it out (you won’t, god knows I have tried and I have no regrets, just some wonderful memories and a few yucky ones). Carolyn
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Never to many and nobody has a right to judge.
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You are looking very acceptable and responsible I love a girl to watch tv and I suck her pussy and ass and in the end she leave my home happily and tell me we will meet again. Maybe you are that one 🥰🥰
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I wish I’d done what I’m doing now when I was younger! Enjoy! ![]()
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Hi sweetheart
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you only live once enjoy each time x
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Didn't know there was such a thing
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if your not committed to any one person, too many is when you start to think its too many.... not when others do.. everyone is different and enjoys different things. too many is exactly when you stop and decide to settle down.... you will know
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I’m not sure the quantity is as important as the quality or safety that goes into it for me personally. If you’re running around having unprotected sex at the local crack house, I’m going to pass
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Live life and have fun, don’t look back. Before you know it you will be old.
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theres never enough \8b
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Enjoy your sexuality! Be sure to protect yourself in all ways.
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I wanna be there when you gonna get new record 👅💦💦 James Valentine
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Enjoy it we all love a good slut
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Please put me in your count total, Numbers do not bother me in the least so long as we are both having hot fun at the time
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it doesn't matter what others think of you but what you think of yourself
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When I met my wife, I was looking for a slut first, then a relationship. When she turned 30, she did have a reflexive moment asking if she had been too much of a slut to find true love. I ensured her that I loved the slutty version of her too and made her promise to be a hotwife in marriage. We have continued to have our fun and she is still a very proud and sexy slut, even 19 years later. Never change who your true self is for another person because you will eventually end up frustrated and longing to be true to yourself.
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I met this woman, within minutes she told me she has this hangup, one that just wont go away......I had a look of confusion, and asked her what that hangup was....she told me she is addicted to suck cock and was a cum addict......I laughed and said well why didn't you tell me that sooner.....I unbuckled my pants, and she slid to her knees and finished lower my pants and underwear, she them proceeded to give me a superb vacuum inspired blowjob, she showed me my load on her tongue and in her mouth before she swallowed, she then told me I was the 83rd cock she had sucked. She saw me again about a week later, I was walking down the street when this car pulled up, it was her, she said.....hey you I could sure use a nice cock right now....so I jumped in we went to her place, we got naked, I played with her big tits for a bit, then asked if she had any toys.....got out her vibes and dildos, so played with her for awhile, licked her pussy.....she then told me she was still a virgin, never been fucked......so I was her #1 fuck.....I brought a couple friends over to her place where she had us come into a separate room where she sucked each of us, while the rest drank beer in the kitchen.....when it was my turn, she said you are fucking me.....so I did.....
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K1k & SC bu22er
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You just have fun in what your are doing, use protection and have a blast
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