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The cock shot issue  

SweetorSharp 50
83 posts
9/5/2014 8:36 am
The cock shot issue


I feel the need to explain myself! In my profile I state that I do not want to be sent graphic cock shots. I am getting a little flack regarding this due to the pics I have and this opinion makes me I am told a hypocrite!

This is a very simplistic view and makes assumptions about my reasons.
My opinion is all about how much thought and care is put into photo choice. My pics I hope are tasteful and go as far as I want but I chose the ones there to appeal to men. I thought about what I hope would catch the eye of the sort of men I would like to attract.
In my view (and it is only my view which I am entitled to) generally women do not find the blunt generic dick pic attractive. There is a reason it does not often appear in classic art!
So if a man has a cock shot as his profile pic he (again my opinion) has little understanding of the way women think and what we find attractive or stimulating.

Reasoning explained

S X

rm_hoephilly 41
17 posts
9/5/2014 8:41 am

couldnt agree more, after all one cock looks pretty much like another lol


SweetorSharp replies on 9/5/2014 9:04 am:

mindworker1970 50
326 posts
9/5/2014 9:00 am

ROFL. I do not have a picture of my junk on this site. If a person asks for one I explain that I do not have one, then ignore that person. I am very specific on my profile, the kind of person that is looking for that sort of picture holds no interest for me. But that is my choice, other people are looking for other things, and I hope they find what they are looking for.


SweetorSharp replies on 9/5/2014 9:05 am:

MissCinders 55
1524 posts
9/5/2014 10:48 am

I realize the picture I have here and I do not get upset about any comments I receive. If you want people to look at your junk then put that as your profile pic and all will see it. What I do not care for are the ones that send it unsolicited. I had one guy tell me today that a picture says a thousand words and he also wanted to let me know whom I was chatting with. I kinda agreed and wouldnt you know it, he sends his dick pic and a picture of his motorcycle. The motorcyle looked much better!


FullOn4U 55  
20427 posts
9/6/2014 2:53 am

And yet one of your testimonials is from a man whose main photo is a cock shot!

But on a practical basis, when deciding which men you want to have sex with it appears that you want men who have an innate understanding of how women think. You say yourself that sending a cock shot shows that a man does not understand how a woman thinks, but if you tell men not to send a cock shot then you lose that indicator.

Doesn't it make it easier for you to let men send what they will and just disregard all those who have cock shots?

And if you really can't stand the sight of them just use the filter and you never have to be bothered by the sight of one ever again


SweetorSharp replies on 9/6/2014 10:23 am:
I am afraid I cannot control people changing their profile pics!!! And a pic is not the only indicator if someone is not "my cup of tea"! I do generally ignore any thing I don't like as we all should do.

need2lookagain 54
25 posts
9/6/2014 2:09 pm

Based on the principle that the women are in control of developments in most relationships - it is reasonable to expect them to indicate when they are ready to see and feel the famous manhood that so many young male minds believe is their main attraction and appeal


matt-battler 47
199 posts
9/17/2014 4:16 am

Women have been complaining about cock shots ever since the site was founded - doesn't matter how much you disapprove it won't do you any good! And yes, if you have graphic pics yourself it does seem like double standards - judgement is a two way street, don't kid yourself that your pics are different because you put thought into it and you think they're 'tasteful'


SweetorSharp 50
34 posts
9/17/2014 9:13 am

I did not say I disapprove I said I personally do not like. I have no right to disapprove of anything or anyone but I have every right to have a personal opinion.


saucy-chef 61
26 posts
9/19/2014 7:24 pm

An Articulate & Intelligent Lady indeed.....pay heed guys, this Blonde has Cla$$ & is NO Bimbo xx


deggles 48
31 posts
9/21/2014 3:16 am

Honest blog; mainly because you don't have to explain yourself. Your reasons are your reasons, and your choices are your choices.

Good on ya !


rm_Johnson19632 57
1 post
9/22/2014 5:15 am

I have to say, that you are entitled to your opinion as are all, but I would say I have no idea what kind of a statement a cock shot conveys. It just seems such a pointless message, after all first attraction won't be achieved by what can't be seen in a normal situation, the guy might have two heads and you might not be attracted to a guy with two heads, again your prerogative.


silverfox1603 56
49 posts
9/22/2014 8:04 am

Hi,
I just don't understand why you feel you need to explain. Surely, on Your Profile ,you have the right to put whatever photos you wish, and set whatever specific parameters you desire for the men that you would be interested in? Would you be truely interested if they need an explaination?
By the way, I Love your photo's.
Sean.
xx


Uptownboy2011 53
20 posts
9/22/2014 8:19 am

Your profile,your opinion,and that opinion is what you are entitled to express.

Personally, I, like you,am more interested in the mind, a far greater sexual organ than any part of the anatomy, stimulate my brain and you stimulate me.


RipvanW22 65
19 posts
10/3/2014 7:08 am

In a similar vane The gynaecological crutch shots do nothing for me. I much prefer the hinted at, the subtle shadow and the pout. and above all the smile !


Hotstuff71970 49
24 posts
10/25/2014 1:49 am

Well written and totally agree, I think there should be some intrigue to get the mind going


Crashbangwhollop 52
2 posts
11/8/2014 10:19 am

Having read your well written blog it strikes me as a simple matter of choice ,post sexy pics of your body in a separate section which the viewer then has a choice on viewing is fine but posting a pic ( even on an adult site ) of a penis ( they will never look better than a fine pair of breast ) on a PM which opens removes the viewers choice !
It's just a matter of taste and if being on this site has taught me anything it's that there r so many 'tastes ' out there that folk shouldn't get all worked up when somebodies is different !

Now to be very clear I am a little conflicted since I would love the chance to get to know the author better but not so conflicted as to agree to a load of crap just to get get in her sexy panties ( does she wear them ,I must ask ) it's her right to state her pretences and to tell the children to fvck off


swiftfoxy 51
460 posts
11/13/2014 10:09 pm

A well written blog - makes for a nice change


hgw90 58  
220 posts
9/16/2015 4:11 pm

well I try to "satisfy" different tastes with my profile pics
and you are a "normal" women the old saying: stimulate my mind and my body will follow But on here there are a lot that seems like they like a bit more "expressive" picks


gramp4u 71  
29 posts
3/28/2017 1:15 am

i agree it is your right and agree most cock shots are gross. I personally would love to see more pics showing a woman's total figure (excluding face if she wants to keep it off here) and how she likes to dress. After all most tits and pussies are great but more than one pic of each is redundant!!


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