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TB5758 62M/63F  
38 posts
11/22/2018 9:35 am

Some people you find on the site seem interesting, you agree to meet, but they absolutely refuse to reveal themselves. They also only want to use the site to converse. Well the fact is the site is undependable and is okay initially but not good for future conversations. If the other person is not on, then you are in a waiting mode. seems to be a great alternative but a lot of people are so paranoid they won’t even consider it. So, it leads me to this. I am not sure of anyone who would take the time to get ready, drive somewhere to meet a person they have no way to identify. We were fooled once by a gentleman that had photos which were not even remotely close to his actual appearance. That is one thing and shame on him. The idea of concealing your face and body until the first meeting is just ridiculous. We don’t speak for everyone, but we will never meet under those circumstances. We would not expect anyone to meet us that way either. We have careers, vanilla friends and family as well. We do not want them to know what we do as adults. There should be an unspoken code of discretion for all of us who play irrespective your individual kink and desires. No face, no body, no meeting. We think this is fair.

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3755 posts
11/22/2018 10:15 am

I agree. Have waited long times for those I wish to talk to to contact me an alternate way, but many wont take that step, and so we never really talk, much less meet.

2Saltie2 26F

11/22/2018 10:38 am

If people will not talk elsewhere after talking with what you believe is a reasonable amount of time let them know no longer interested. Let them know if no picture that you will not talk. They can do a private photo album here. Put it for friends only. Send a friend request so the person can see the picture. If it doesn't work out the person can be unfriended.

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cumalluwant 55M
84 posts
1/18/2019 8:37 am

Bravo and well stated..

bande6365 55M/57F  
132 posts
4/8/2019 6:12 am

Agree 100%. And if someone isn’t willing to go off site....or in some cases, “too” willing to go off site, itcan be a red flag.

1seeking1 55F
3131 posts
4/27/2019 6:30 am

Well put , i understand not having face pic here. I can always provide one. So many think I will meet without knowing what they look like. The ones who do not look like their pics, what a waste of time. Wish more were honest.....

TB5758 replies on 4/30/2019 3:32 pm:
Thanks for reading. Yes honesty is important especially when you are in this type of lifestyle as it is called.

Yohan8u 50M  
21 posts
1/3/2020 5:08 am

What get's me is the people who want to meet at my house, but refuse to give me a phone #. If I am expected to trust someone enough to give out my address, they should trust me enough to give me their number. If you don't trust me we can meet in public first

TB5758 replies on 1/22/2020 4:54 pm:
100 percent right!

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