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TB5758 62M/63F  
38 posts
1/6/2019 5:32 am
Instant Message Function?


I cannot tell you how disappointing the Instant Message function or I should say disfunction. I hate the fact that people would think I am purposely not answering. If I cannot chat, I would just say so. Ever since the “new button” was added it has gotten worse not better. Just wish they would fix it. It is right up there with eliminating the trolls. Makes it hard to enjoy the site for what it could be.

cathunter20102 52M
63 posts
1/6/2019 5:49 am

The IM on this site has NEVER functioned well at all. I agree it's very frustrating!


jajo696 65F
2121 posts
1/6/2019 6:04 am

whats the new button ? Yes...its always been tempermental....fortunately tho....most people know that its whacky and will understand if they are not seeing your replies.

I always just chalk it up to the crazy site.

Dont hold ur breath waiting for it to be fixed. ~~


2Saltie2 26F

1/6/2019 6:11 am

It works great for some. I get unwanted messages all the time. I let them know what I think then close it. No problem on my end.

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idblueswoman 61F  
712 posts
1/6/2019 6:24 am

I personally don't like chatting so I try to keep my status as busy, but I still get pinged.


mutualbenefit69 45M
120 posts
1/6/2019 7:30 am

totally agree


Russian_Agent 93T
68 posts
1/6/2019 7:43 am

I miss the days when I didn't have to turn it off every time I log in. It's like getting spam phone calls.


notsure1949 71M
9667 posts
1/6/2019 7:44 am

some days it works, some days it does not, when they make fixes on here, IM suffers


redrockrascal 61M
21518 posts
1/6/2019 7:48 am

I've rarely had problems with it

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TB5758 replies on 1/6/2019 7:50 am:
People say they messaged me and I never see it or I respond and they don't see it.

BiggLala 48F  
28366 posts
1/6/2019 10:01 am

You can go to your settings to set your IM status to default to 'busy'. That way, you can set it to 'available' when you want. I don't know how that impacts your availability when you're on the mobile version (if you use that), but it works--for me at least--on the full web version.

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TB5758 62M/63F  
533 posts
1/6/2019 11:53 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    You can go to your settings to set your IM status to default to 'busy'. That way, you can set it to 'available' when you want. I don't know how that impacts your availability when you're on the mobile version (if you use that), but it works--for me at least--on the full web version.
Thanks I will try it


author51 57F  
94419 posts
4/20/2019 1:01 am

I am one who does not go on IM at all. I did when I first joined but found the men would get pissed for not answering them in a timely manner so I stopped using it altogether...There are a lot of glitches here for sure...

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missthee 54F  
4199 posts
5/6/2019 9:12 am

I prefer receiving snail mail, but I try to answer pings - if I even notice them. I'm pretty sure it's a very small percentage of total IM requests.


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