I was all a dream...
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Posted:Feb 16, 2021 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 7:19 pm
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Have you ever had a day that went so good that you had pinch yourself see if you were dreaming?...
it wasn't today but I will harken (thanks Kevin James for the WOTD) back to some of my favorite moments of being on AdultFriendFinder:
My first meet and greet:
Man, this was a disaster waiting to happen. This was back in 2006, before all these cool features that AdultFriendFinder has now and alot of them were hit or miss. I was working at a Local Post Secondary institution in the Athletic department, working -18 hour days and barely having time for myself. I came home from work one day and found my first response. I didn't back then so I was working on the fringe of how contact them. Pretty young woman. Dark Skinned, BBW. I had worked through the issue finally get an introduction out. We talked a couple more days and she wanted meet. My first meet yall. Granted, i've been internet ho'ing since 1995, so the meet and greet wasn't new, but having effective cut through the M&G bullshit and small talk was new. We both knew what we were looking for and that made this meet a memorable one. However, I was told that my dick was too big for her.
Yeah, i was shocked by that too. Like what size was the last dick you played with and how did you survive that? We met, and went our separate ways
The Coolest group of friends EVER:
Now, I'm a swinger. I haven't been to any events for a couple of but once a swinger, always a swinger. But Who really brought it out of was my homegirl Mo. Some of you may know her or the group that we're a part of. We travel, we party and we fuck!!!! But before the group, Mo was just a beautiful woman that I want have fun with. So I met up with her in the A (my 2nd hometown, a lovely but dangerous place for me), we hit up a Gerald Levert or LSG concert (i remember Levert shimmy across the stage and all the girls going wild). I remember we had so nose bleed tickets, but it was just a good show. We left, had dinner, i fucked the shit out of her and I earned my other stage name, BigBanger1. Matter of fact, when she introduced me to the ladies of the group, she made it a point to say i rep the name well.
The Weird hook ups:
Now, AdultFriendFinder afford you the opportunity to however you like and considering that my hornyness is on level 8 most days, I like do something strange for some change sometimes. My first strange hook up was my first cuck couple. I had heard about it for a time, but this husband and wife bet each other that she couldn't swallow my dick whole. Come find out, he's got this 3-4 inch dick that can't do shit for her. She sucked off, i busted on her face and left. Now, more recently, I got a IM in the middle of the night the week of my birthday in August. It was this young woman, who I had seen online or said anything , asking straight up fuck . So, after asking a couple of questions see if she was with the shit, I went. She lived in East Nashville in a nice apartment complex. I walked up the door and she was already naked and ready. and after we were done, i never heard from her again. Which was cool. My favorite random hookup left a testimonial that was on my profile for a while. that was because she ghosted after the fuck and i was hoping i could contact her again through her profile. And for about 3 months, i hit her up ever so often just see if i get a response. Then i get a response 3 later after i'm married.
Ight, i'm done sharing my thoughts here. if you wanna hear more hit up...if you want say hello, hit in the inbox...
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The Civilized Choice???
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Posted:Feb 16, 2021 3:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 7:19 pm
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I'm noticing something about my "new" approach on AdultFriendFinder.
One, women are visual creatures as much as men. Don't let them lie to you and say they don't need the stimulation. I've had woman tell me they weren't interested cause I didn't have dick pics on the profile. It's disappointing, cause I'm coming from a place of common respect and empathy. I've been on AdultFriendFinder since 2006; kept my profile meticulously groomed, had the right intro, did all the side tests and compatibility tests to show what kind of person and lover I was. Then to be overlooked because I HAD dick pics on the account.
That was the kicker.
Two, women act like they are picky. And yes, some of them are. But I draw your attention to the "WAP" revolution and my other fav song. "Girls need love, too".
The American society was constructed to keep a woman "in her place". Meaning under the man in all ways: Socio-Economic and sexually. Woman, just like POC's, have never been able to just be themselves like I have all my life. I've embraced my sexual side over my 45 and 1/2 years, as of 2/18/21, and never really had it thrown back at me or been shamed. Hell, if anything, my friends provided me with good natured ribbing and cool nicknames because of it. So I don't know what it is like to be a woman who wants to just have sex, but have to worry about how others will see her. To have things thrown at her, like "The Walk of Shame" or being call a Jump Off, loose booty or something possibly more degrading. However, I just wish this society could lighten up a little and possibly allow these women a sexual and societal awakening. You don't know what's its like to be repressed in some way, shape, form or fashion, unless youre BLACK/POC (that i do know) and a WOMEN (will never know in 100 lifetimes). And White women, I don't include you in that, cause you have liberating sexual titles of Queen of Spades and Cukholdress, which solidifies your place in this society; right below white men, but still above a black woman. I say all that to say all this;
STOP THE SEXUAL REPRESSION OF WOMEN IN GENERAL AND BLACK WOMAN SPECIFICALLY
This is why they feel like they have to be picky (and of course you can be if you want). Allow them to be picky because they want to be, not because society has painted them into the box of expectations and won't let them be anything else .
Now, on to the 3rd part of my dissertation; how all these words i've type affect my approach.
I've adopted a "Non-threatening" stance here. I have a friends folder, but my public photos are PG rated (cause i ooze sexuality, can't stop that, just hope to contain it). There's no mention of what sexual position i like or the sexual bravado that i do carry. Why?
Because of the sexual repression that goes on in this country. I react to my conditions, just like a scientific experiment (Hence the name The (T)heory, (P)roof and (T)ruth). I will only be able to conform to the parameters set within my experiment. After 15 years on this site, i have seen the ebbs and flows of sexuality. I've been in Vegas Mansion orgies and intimate one on one that last for days. But, for all the openness that i've been involved in, its crazy to me that i'm unable to open up on here, due to factors involving social standing, Online safety and a little good ol' fashion sexism.
And its still ironic to me when i get someone that rejects me because i've tried position myself as a Civilized Choice.
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