Going to say good bye for a while...
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Posted:Feb 22, 2012 8:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2012 5:24 pm
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Hello to all my AdultFriendFinder friends. It is with sad adieu that i wont be posting any more blogs for awhile. I guess i have to contemplate where i want my life to go...in which direction. Do i just want to end up with anyone from this site?? No i am wanting much more that that in my personal life. Friends are nice but i am on a mission to find my soulmate. I doubt he is here on this sex site. And i only wanted to let all my friends know i might be leaving AdultFriendFinder soon. I have found a nice decent man but he lives in another province...one east of Alberta. He is decent and i am only hoping that he and I will build a strong relationship. Thus i did not want to be here and then gone. I felt i owed all my friends a bit of time. Not that i am anything special but i know i have a heart full of love to give to the right man deserving of my love and no one is deserving of my love who is on AdultFriendFinder. I know there are good people on here...just none that i have ever met face to face. So good by to all my friends. May you all in time find what we are all looking for....is to love and to be loved. Jennie~~
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True Friends....
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Posted:Feb 10, 2012 11:49 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2012 12:25 am
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Have any of the readers of this blog had an instant friendship develop with others online who lives thousand miles away and yet had such a unique friendship that you wished more could occur without the miles between your friends. I have one friend who lives very far away. Yet he makes me feel special. He sent me a Christmas card, he made CDs for me with my picture on it and it was labeled with a very amourous name directed towards me. Does it not make you sad when you feel these strong connections and cannot do anything about it. I have phoned a few friends in the state to talk. I am not talking about it going just in my favour but i do reach out and try to build these frienships. Just wondering if I am the only one who feels close connections to people afar or does it happen to more people on AdultFriendFinder. Not talking sex here....just purely talking of friendships. Take care all of you who will read this. I am a real person with real feelings and real emotions. I am sure others out there feel the same way as i do.
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Friends...
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Posted:Feb 9, 2012 1:53 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2012 8:34 pm
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I have had two instances where i know the guy from vanilla settings and it is very uncomfortable. What do i say to these guys when they see me on here and see my pictures. Most of my pictures are with me wearing clothes but some are of me naked or semi nude. I am so uncomfortable to the point where i feel i should remove those pictures. I try to always add classy pictures. None of them are with other men and/or women. But still i feel so very conscious of them seeing these pictures. Has this ever occured to any of you before and if so..how did you handle this situation. Should i think they are on here as well or should i feel this guilt i feel?? I really need your advice here. Thank You.
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How far is to far...
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Posted:Jan 28, 2012 2:19 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2012 11:07 am
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I have made many friends from AdultFriendFinder. However, it is always the distance that gets in the way. I truly am looking for one who wants to settle down with me. I get numerous emails from men all over the country trying to woo me into a relationship. I talk with two men frequently. One lives in Virginia and we often talk on the phone for two hours. The other one lives in California. A few red flags with him however i always give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Local men are only looking for sex on here. They will only break my heart. So my question is this: Do you think i am living in a fantasy world, with men so far away and yet talking with them?? Or do I appear as too needy (by the way i am not) to want and need a man in my life forever. Being best friends, lovers, companions as well as soulmates. I know many have told me this is a sex site. I know full well it is but Mr Right might be on here looking for his Ms. Right?? Who really knows. Just am looking for some positive feedback. I dont need to be told how are going to find true love on a sex site?? I dont need to be belittled. I am sensitive and i take words to heart. So if you are only going to bash me then just keep going. I dont need negative people in my life. Only positive ones. Thank You in advance for possibly reading this. All the best life is able to give to you.
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How far is far enough???
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Posted:Jan 19, 2012 2:18 am
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2012 6:52 pm
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How far does a woman have to go to be with the one she adores and he adores her back. How far am i really willing in order to go all the way with a guy (just to have sex) to say we are in a relationship. I have had to stop and smell the roses of just what i want in my life. Friends with Benefits (whom one man thought it was to pay for sex) or No Strings attached?? I am not getting any younger and lots of out there who just want sex in my humble opinion. So how far is far enough?? Just has been on my mind as of late. Anybodies experiences would be greatly appreciated in order to solidify in mind of this thought.
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Discretion
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Posted:Jan 7, 2012 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2012 5:27 pm
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Often i read on profiles people needing discretion due to the nature of their relationship. Yet in fact i hear of it often and especially from the chat room members make comments to others in relation to this in passing. To me this is not only unacceptable but rude as well. How do they know it wont get to their wife or husband or boyfriend/girlfriend. It causes uneasieness on the person they are talking about. So where is this discretion we all talk about and yet it is so hard to give it. When i meet a friend for coffee...i dont blab it all over the chatroom. Chatrooms are a magnet for trouble. More hard feelings come from people chatting and thus when i do go in and rarely do i enter our Province's chat room i rarely say anything. It does not bother me much if i am ignorned but what bothers me is when i hear of these problems with discretion that so many have. Private acts should stay out of these chat rooms. It upsets me and not much upsets me to write a blog about it. Lets keep meets private...even if it is just a coffee date. Remember...what you dont want said about you should not come out of your mouth. I dont have anything to hide but some do and need this discreation. Have a little heart and respect your fellow man.
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New Years Resolutions???
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Posted:Jan 2, 2012 4:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 9:31 pm
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Do any of you make New Years Resolutions?? Mine is simple. Laugh a little louder, smile a little bigger, love a little deeper, and walk through life a little slower. I know i am able to do this. Simple words....yet complex theories behind it.
What are yours??
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Compliments...
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Posted:Dec 24, 2011 10:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:19 pm
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I just wanted to write to all of you men out there. Sometimes i have to question as to the motive of your compliments. Is it meant with honesty or just you are so horny you have to say something. I am hoping it is the first of the two. One can never hear enough that men still find you sexy and appealing. Just hope it is done with honesty. When i write on a persons picture i am honest and sincere. Here is hoping it goes both ways.
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Whores or women with dignity
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Posted:Dec 22, 2011 9:39 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2012 9:49 pm
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Just wondering what men like. Do they prefer woman who are whores and give up their body just for sex or do they prefer one who has some integrity and dignity and some morales?? Sometimes i feel most men like whores versus women who see themselves more than that. Just wondering is all.
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Diversity...
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Posted:Dec 3, 2011 11:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2012 11:42 pm
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How people are so different, yet the same. Diversity.
How regardless of race, gender, class or background, how we were raised or our employment-that we are more the same, than we are different.
To love and to be loved is what I believe is the one common denominator throughout all the world in it's various countries and states. It's Universal. It's the one thing that regardless of how shitty life gets-and it does for ALL of us at times, love is what helps you wade through the mud to the clear waters. Cause at the end of the day, you still at least have that.
Regardless of your looks, weight, education, sexual orientation or any of those differences, this is where we are the same.
We're the same in other ways as well. We all have had experiences of despair, of heartache, of elation, of being victimized, discriminated against, but also having privileges of some sort. Be it getting a good job because of looks or being a man or winning a court battle and getting custody because someone is a woman. We share all these things and more, despite the Diversity between us.
Then I got to thinking about why some people fall to the wayside and why some get through seemingly unscathed in life. While I'm sure much of it has to do with how one is raised, the support system at home and whatnot- what makes people be survivors vs. victims, is how they react to the trials and tribulations we ALL face. Some people, seem to think that what they are going through-nobody else has or does. How wrong they are. The big difference in the outcome is how we as people deal with it.
Think of the last time you had your heart broken. What did you do, how did you get through it? For me, I got angry, I cried a couple of days, then gave myself permission to heal and move through it and past it. But for others, they seem to not be able to do that-and go down a very deep spiral to nowhere. They see themselves as a victim. If you view yourself as a victim you will be seen as one. Same thing with survivor. If you take what happens to you in life-learn from it- then toss all the other emotional garbage that you no longer need, you become a survivor. Sometimes the saying " Mind over matter" actually holds true. At least it has for me.
Differences. Diversity. Inside where it matters-we are the same.
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Are men afraid of love...
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Posted:Nov 29, 2011 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2011 4:01 am
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I met a friend tonight for coffee and i was explaining why men have a difficult time falling in love. He advised me that is the hurt that he is afraid of...being vulnerable and putting himself out to be hurt.
Well i have been hurt in love so many times yet i still put myself out there waiting for one good man.
My friend said people have different needs. I could only agree with him.
My question however, is this....are men afraid of being hurt by women and thus just settle for sex. If so...what is your mindset when this occurs??
All replies will be answered. Just trying to get into the mindset of a man....even if i dont have a penis.
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Sex expected???
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Posted:Nov 25, 2011 7:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2011 4:59 pm
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I am curious as to know where it is written that sex is expected on the first date?? To me i would rather get to know the man as a person first. To see what makes him tick. I know all about sex. That is almost a given. But what i am interested in knowing is what their likes are, their dislikes, their turn ons as well as just getting to them them more on a personal basis. I believe if it is based solely on sex the relationship will never last. I have been speaking with a man from Virginia for over a year now. He knows me more than anyone else does. Why is this?? Because he took the time to get to know me as a woman. And i am sure we will meet one day. That is how it should be. A man should want to get to know what is between the ears rather than the legs of a woman. Not just hop in the sack, do the act, and then go their seperate ways. This is what i perceive as a good relationship. I want to know all about the person i am persuing. Get inside of his brain. Learn about each other. Is this a lost art?? Getting to know each other before the physical act of sex. I rather call it making love when we get to this point. Just my two bits!!!
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What is up with men???
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Posted:Nov 21, 2011 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2011 10:02 am
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I have to air my beefs right now. Why is it always that men think that the women have to always drive to see them. I am so fed up. One man from AdultFriendFinder asked me to meet him in Dubai. Imagine that?? Only a $4000.00 ticket for 4 days??? Does he think i am really crazy. I have driven to Cold Lake, Lloydminisister, Camrose as well as to Edmonton and Calgary several times. Not once have these men ever come to Red Deer. Anyone who is not familiar with Alberta...these take from one hour and a half drive to six hours drive. So I finally have to draw the line in the sand and say if a man really wants to meet me...he has to come to see me on my own turf. Enough of always going to meet them. I have had it.
Just wondering if this happens to other women?? Or I am the only crazy sincere woman??
I have had only one man drive to see me once a week in Red Deer and treat me nice. Only to find he was playing me like a fiddle. He was playing with women in Calgary and planning hookups with other women all the while I thought he truly did care for me.
I am not crazy or stupid. I just have a hard time saying no!!!!
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