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TopTwentyPercent 56M
200 posts
9/26/2019 2:14 pm
Cleanliness Counts in Sex

There is no doubt we all like our partners clean but how about the place they live? Does it have be clean?

I had mentioned passing how last Friday's date had a bit of a yuck factor and to be honest, I was a little turned off.

Her apartment was amazing. Somewhere around 10, 00 square feet and with a view die for overlooking the bay Oak Harbor. It was a beautiful apartment but her stuff was everywhere! Because it was messy, it had also not been vacuumed or the kitchen cleaned.

She said she had just moved June so she hadn't had much time get anything done. I moved into place July and didn't rest until it was ready for company. I am still embarrassed about a handful of boxes I have nowhere store and she had a lot more space.

While it was not a big deal, I could imagine how a romantic and sensual setting this apartment would be. Just a few evenings of straightening, organizing and cleaning (and throwing a lot of crap in the 2nd bedroom on a temporary basis).

I also enjoyed her on the couch, but something tells me she didn't want invite into her bedroom.

The photo below is my place


It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


Paulxx001 63M
17886 posts
9/26/2019 2:40 pm

Ooops... oh well...
Hey... naked house cleaning? 🤔
I've never tried it. My cock would probably get in the way... but hey. It's worth a shot. No? 🤔


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:16 am:
I didn't say it wasn't fun....but it could have been more fun if her place was ready for prime time!

austin4fuck 40M
9 posts
9/26/2019 3:20 pm

If you are worried about the atmosphere then host yourself.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:19 am:
This was a situation where she clearly was more comfortable hosting than being hosted. The distance between us is a severe factor too.

Thank you for your comment!

1seeking1 55F
3378 posts
9/26/2019 3:53 pm

Man has to be clean as well as his place . Which is probably why the pool man and I get along so well. We both super hygienic, and he changes the bedsheets more then I do.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:21 am:
Yes. I agree. I was told once that being at my place was very sensual and comforting. That was one of the greatest compliments I could ever receive!

I guess I should start looking for a pool girl!

Thanks for gracing me with your thoughts!

Heathen_G 62M
7847 posts
9/26/2019 3:55 pm

Does the woman's home need to be clean to enjoy her riding you like a bouncy ball? ...... That's entirely your own decision.

I can understand scent being atrocious and throwing you off your game, but some clutter?


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:22 am:
To some extent...I am not an animal and I enjoy the scents of sex. You are right. It is my choice and this is a forum where I can read about your choice and you can read about mine.

BendMeOver278 30F  
2760 posts
9/26/2019 4:23 pm

Dishes left from a day ago? Some clutter and maybe some paper garbage on a counter? Whatever, I don't care.

Science experiment level dirty/moldy would be a turn off.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:24 am:
I didn't do the lab work, but it may have been a mixture. I tried not to do an in depth survey!

It was great to see your comment here!

positively4you 71F  
4152 posts
9/26/2019 5:22 pm

I cannot deal with a dirty kitchen and bathroom. Some clutter, ok. I find it a turn off.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:25 am:
Agreed...my place will have clutter from time to time if you give me a surprise visit but the kitchen and bathroom will generally be clean!

Care to inspect sometime?

Thanks for your moment with me!

Wonder167 53F

9/26/2019 5:30 pm

Difference between clutter/mess and filth. Yet, I'd vacuum and make sure there were no dirty dishes.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:27 am:
I was a little taken aback by her lack of preparedness, but she spent quite a bit of effort preparing herself!

Thank you for your visit to my blog!

BiggLala 48F  
29190 posts
9/27/2019 9:58 am

Well, clearly, cleanliness didn't count enough and you weren't turned off enough.

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TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2019 11:28 am:
Well, that was kind of my point, but any thought of longer term relationship...uh...well...I would return with trepidation!

Good to see your words on my blog again!

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