Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Enjoy the Ride
If you could have only seen my blog in 2007 and the ensuing years. I have had 10 years of life experiences in a high level sexual world. I call it the Major Leagues of sex. As you can guess, it was a long time getting here and perhaps just like the Major Leagues, has a delicate shelf life. Enjoy the Ride! I sure am.
Keywords | Title View | Refer to a Friend |
For Those That Want to Get to Know me....
Posted:Sep 20, 2017 10:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2018 1:07 pm
I am better, sexier, smarter and more enjoyable to be around than most men....not all I am sure...but in the top 20 percent!

I am a good looking, stylish, professional man with Richard Gere looks. I have both city and country in me. A great date...not just sex. If you sense cockiness, you are wrong. If you sense confidence....you are right on. . In person, I am a polite, almost shy gentleman but behind that facade, is a voracious sexual being. You won't see a cock pic on my profile, because I have way too much going on and a really good fuck, starts with the mind.

You 30 and 40 somethings that enjoy mature, older men, take note. You can be comfortable approaching me for a hook-up request. I am youthful, healthy and up for the challenge of any younger woman...but I have to tell you the older ones tend to have better libidos! I am a non-judgmental candidate but I prefer repeated and overnight encounters. I am a solid, confident choice for such needs and I even have a professional background proving that...you should ask more!

I will also put this out there...I am a giver...a pleaser and have given a bit of myself to a lot of women through the years (See the final two episodes of Season 6 of GIGOLOS on Showtime). I am hopeful that there is a lady out there that can take me for who I am.

I wish I could market what my female friends tell me! From "your pictures don't do you justice" to comments about my sensual touch and quantity of orgasms. One says "You are a big fat boy", to a specific part of my body and not my tummy. Guys here say a lot of things. The competition is fierce and ultimately, you ladies have to sift through the bull shit and choose whom to meet. Choose wisely!

If you pronounce interest in me, I expect some follow through as well. I know ladies are bombarded with emails here but I will send a limited number of contact requests out of respect.. If you don't respond, that means I will politely move on. Don't expect me to chase you for very long. I am chased too.

I also expect to meet in fairly short order. Typically once met, I am not forgotten. That is were I want to be..."digits in your phone for when you get lonely or horny."

The rest, you can just contact me to find out more. There will be no buyer's remorse here! I am the good stuff...you should take the time and find out how good!
My Ideal Person I love women...overtly sexual and sensual women. There is a certain recipe and we won't know if we have the right ingredients until we meet!

Let's meet soon!
1 comment
One Wild Night
Posted:Oct 4, 2019 2:36 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2019 2:49 pm
Project Manager and I live a pretty cool urban lifestyle here in Seattle. We live like most couples....I cook and clean, she works until 5. I work 7-2 most days and then do Seattle City Excursions for Norwegian Cruise Ship passengers on the weekends.

Two Nights Out with my Adult Ladies
[post 442]
I Think I Found A 10
[post 48061]
[post 467]

Make no mistake, the "Project Manager" and I have a sex life like few other 50 somethings. We both have massive appetites and last night it came a crescendo. Please note we are an open couple.

Right next door is CenturyLink Field where the Seattle Seahawks and the Los Angeles Rams played a thrilling -29 football game. A missed field goal in the final seconds allowed the Seahawks let the neighborhood sound with joy all the rest of the evening.

Prior the game, our building held a get together in our common area and fed us a pregame meal. "The "project Manager" dressed up in a cute t-shirt, short skirt and lime colored thigh highs. She always wears great shoes. She is always really sexy!

Ultimately, we returned to our apartment to watch the game on television (have you priced Seahawk tickets lately?) while the view of the stadium and its nearly seventy thousand inhabitants was just to the left. It is a whole new way to watch and listen to an NFL football game!

The "PM" and I cuddled up and had several drinks and of course I could sense her feeling a bit loose. I was also in an unusually horny state watching her strut around in her outfit. The general rule in our apartment is no pants on the couch while watching TV. I removed pants and like usual, I proceeded touch and fondle way through the game. About mid-way through the 3rd quarter, we were a full-fledged fuck on the couch.

I took her almost fully dressed with her skirt, thigh highs and shoes still on and she loved it!

"I never knew watching football could be so fun," she said later.

Problem was however, I knew I was still horny even after a discharge.

She on the other hand, had a surprise for . About a year ago, she had dated an African-American man a couple of times and they still kept in touch. He is a statistician for the Seahawks and they have exchanged a flurry of texts and pictures through the games of this young NFL season. Last night he got brave enough to drop by at the "Project Managers" invitation.

I took leave so they could visit. I promised upon return, she would be thoroughly fucked because I was not done!

The PM hinted he may want something more than small talk and she met him in a pink little lacy negligee with her gorgeous fuck me heels adorning her feet. She said it started almost as soon as he walked in the door and then the two of them made a healthy mess on the couch where we had fucked several hours earlier. She complained he was quick. I was gone well short of an hour...closer 45 minutes.

She did confirm he was a healthy sized BBC.

When he was gone, she texted the coast was clear so I came home and proceeded fuck her until well after midnight. I was as predicted, ravenous and surpassed typical energy level. I punished her body with deep penetration and she orgasamed multiple times more until she nearly went unconscious and no longer begged for more .

This was one of the few times I was the one left wanting fuck more. Usually it is her wants more and she seldom shows any kind of fatigue (ie. having her legs in the air or being bent like a pretzel for too long).

At 5:45am, just before the alarm went off, guess what I did!?

Yep...still horny.

1 comment
Cleanliness Counts in Sex
Posted:Sep 26, 2019 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 11:15 am
There is no doubt we all like our partners clean but how about the place they live? Does it have be clean?

I had mentioned passing how last Friday's date had a bit of a yuck factor and to be honest, I was a little turned off.

Her apartment was amazing. Somewhere around 10, 00 square feet and with a view die for overlooking the bay Oak Harbor. It was a beautiful apartment but her stuff was everywhere! Because it was messy, it had also not been vacuumed or the kitchen cleaned.

She said she had just moved June so she hadn't had much time get anything done. I moved into place July and didn't rest until it was ready for company. I am still embarrassed about a handful of boxes I have nowhere store and she had a lot more space.

While it was not a big deal, I could imagine how a romantic and sensual setting this apartment would be. Just a few evenings of straightening, organizing and cleaning (and throwing a lot of crap in the 2nd bedroom on a temporary basis).

I also enjoyed her on the couch, but something tells me she didn't want invite into her bedroom.

The photo below is my place
A Friday Night in Oak Harbor
Posted:Sep 23, 2019 11:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 11:14 am
Where is Oak Harbor? I had a general idea, but until I pulled up a map, it was only then that I realized how naive I was!

I had agreed to go to the apartment of a lady I met last weekend in Seattle. The drive there was brutal...classic Friday afternoon Seattle traffic. 3.5 hours. Yes...you read right. It took me three and a half hours to drive about 90 miles.

When I arrived, she met me at the door in a school girl outfit she had told me about during our initial meeting last Saturday.

I Have Date

Oak Harbor is on a southeast facing cove on Whidby Island in the Puget Sound. It is an idialiac little community and I am sure some nearby homes have appeared on HGTVs Island Life home search. Her apartment had about 0 degrees of view on the cove and the lights and reflections made the scene very sensual.

Admittedly there were other things with in the apartment that took away from the scene, but you can ask me to comment on that at a later time.

I requested a tour of her apartment and then we created some small talk, but I was drawn to her body and in turn, she began caressing my cock through the fabric of my jeans. Within minutes, I pulled down her panties and buried two fingers insider her to check for reactions.

In the meantime she was working my cock with her hand and then slipped off my clothes and began working my cock with her mouth. She alternated taking it very deep and then pulling back to massage the tip with a quick tongue motion. In minutes I bent her over the couch and pulled up her skirt and fucked her in that manner (Not my favorite position, but it is still fun for a good starter!)

At this time I was naked and she still wore her bra, skirt, knee socks and school girls shoes. I remember thinking I wish we trusted each other enough to take some pictures as I wanted to preserve this scene more than in my mind!

Finally, I turned her over and began to really fuck her in variations of a missionary position. I grabbed her ass, lower back and hips to push the tip of my cock as deep as I could get then held it there to make sure she understood her pussy belonged to me at that moment.

We fucked for about to 45 minutes, taking one shore break so I could have the excitement of reentering her before I finally finished.

Typically of these first adult sex dates, we talked and chatted for an hour and when I didn't receive and invitation to stay the night, I decided to get on the road home. The return trip took about 90 minutes and all the while, I had a smile on my face!
Two Nights Out with my Adult Ladies
Posted:Sep 19, 2019 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2019 2:41 pm
Two of my very best female friends (and yes, we do have sex) are joining me for concerts this week.

Granted, I am motivated by the performers, but each of two very different artists caused me to invite two different ladies.

"The Project Manager" once dubbed the "HR Tech Queen" is a self described 80s rocker chick. Country music need not apply for this lady's interest. She spits of the mere thought of country music let alone the sound of said brand.

For background please follow the trail...
How Sexual can you be

So I took her to Bryan Adams last night.

I enjoyed the show but if we didn't live down the street from the venue, I might not have purchased these tickets. Clearly this is one major plus to living in Urban Seattle.

As a side note, Bryan Adams followed my idea on how to properly end a concert (for example avoiding a planned and fraudulent encore) He exhausted his collection of most famous songs and three tunes from the end, he excused his band. From that point, the last three songs he performed solo with a guitar and harmonica. He dug deep into his catalog for two of the songs and pulled out a silly traditional Irish folk song to perform at this point.

I have always said that if a band comes out for an encore, they should be picking out the side Bs from their past because they should have exhausted their catalog of music during the actual concert. It is disingenuous for performers to save that most famous song for the last time they return to stage for an encore set.

Tonight, I am meeting "Curvy Girl" in Tacoma for a country music concert by "Old Dominion". This particular band is a shared interest of ours while we shared a house for a year and a half!

For more on "Curvy Girl" follow this crumb....
Before the Shots were Fired, I was Stunned
The Blind Cafe
Sleeping with Another
[post 4071644]
When One Schedules too Much
Money has no Place Here, but Clearly it Helps
Posted:Sep 18, 2019 3:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2019 2:48 pm
The other night, a male reader asked me how much money I had spent on a perspective date. I have to admit I bristled at his implication but not nearly as much as I do when a woman assumes I am going to start throwing currency in her direction just because she possesses female sexual anatomy.

Seattle Excitement
I Have Date

I would say I spent a very minimal investment on this date save for my time and a couple of beverages in this particular situation. This is a woman that clearly understands this adult lifestyle is a two way street.

I am not a gentlemen that can win hearts and minds with my wallet. I am of modest means, but believe me, if I had money, I would be one of the most generous men around because that is who I am. I like to see people happy. It is not because they ask for money or gifts; In fact, as soon as a woman asks for something early in a relationship, I am out.

I am sure almost all of the men with any experience on dating websites but especially adult sites where sex is high on a priority list, have experienced the hot little 20 or 30-something that tries to convince us that our heart has been stolen and now the creases of our wallet must be equally lubricated.

I get and sustain my dates the old fashioned way with brains, personality, and great health! At one point in my life, I was actually compensated for spending time with women, but that is a whole other story. I think once that is all sorted out, the highest quality women stick around and those that were expecting a "sugar daddy" move along leaving me a bruised ego but a healthy bank account!
I Have Date
Posted:Sep 17, 2019 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 11:13 am

I have a date with the lady i met last Saturday night. As a general rule, i don't expect or even pursue sex on a first date (but I a very sure there would have been sex had I pushed). With AdultFriendFinder dates, i generally expect sex on the second date.

For background on this date, please read Seattle Excitement

This date will be at her house which will be about a 90 minute drive.

I am excited!
The Dreaded Steps to Meeting and Having Sex on AdultFriendFinder
Posted:Sep 16, 2019 9:08 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2019 2:49 pm
This is largely a post directed to the gentlemen of AdultFriendFinder, but I hope the ladies will chime in too.

I have been around AdultFriendFinder for a long time and have realized that there are two times of uncertainty in this kind of dating.

The first is after that initial conversation and the two of you seem to think there may be some chemistry that can lead to a meeting. Typically life, or something else (often another man) gets in the way and the lady ghosts.

One woman I was set to date after first arriving in Seattle had a scary NSA date with while on vacation in Hawaii. She was freaked and she seemed a different person when she returned. Ultimately, she canceled and disappeared.

The question begs, how much do I push? Clearly chatting too much can cause a rift, and chatting too little makes no progress . Where is the happy medium?

Should you actually meet and realize that the two of you could have fun and good chemistry, the ghosting begins.

In general, I typically hold first meetings with no expectations. I broke that rule once in August by taking a first date home, but usually I put the lady at ease by making it clear no sex is a given that night.

I have done that twice this month and while we agreed that we would get together, the actual date has not occurred.

"I will reach out to you when I return," the first on said. I have written her a short note or two twice in the last couple of weeks just to stay in her mind, and to her credit she has responded to both, but with no plan or thought of an actual second date.

Now I am waiting for a second date with another lady after great conversation and a few very hot make-out moments tucked away in the quiet corner of a mall.

"I'll def let you know," she said in a text about our next date.

So guys, what are your experiences during these two key junctures in online adult dating? I know many of you complain of little success, but as I talk to women, some of you are having some success! I would enjoy hearing about it!
Seattle Excitement
Posted:Sep 16, 2019 8:42 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 11:08 am

Last week, a lady and I exchanged a flirt and then a couple of emails. She is located away from the city, but was going to be in Seattle over the weekend.

Unfortunately, my weekend was filled with work and related events. In addition, my was going to come watch a football game with me on Saturday evening.

We went through a painful process of trying to agree on a meeting place where I could utilize public transportation. For those not in the know, Seattle is notorious for being unfriendly to those that drive and ultimately park cars.

At around six on Saturday, my canceled for the above reason. The Mariners and a concert venue were both holding events and the streets in my neighborhood were clogged and closed by law enforcement. I could get out but nobody could get in.

I sent my new AdultFriendFinder friend a quick email to see if she still wanted to meet.

She replied "I sure would. My number is XXX-XXX-XXXX".

The location she suggested was the worst possible location in the city, so to save time, I went ahead and drove my car gambling of the possibility of parking. As it turned out, it was a great location about a 20 minute drive away.

As I figured, she was a cutie. Standing about 5'4 and weighing about 120. We talked and laughed for about an hour. She mentioned that she knew I enjoyed "smaller" women" and she liked some rough and tumble play. Finally around 1130, I told her that as was my first date policy, I would exit and head home. She walked me part of the way yo my car so I pulled her between a structural beam and a building and began kissing her deep and wantingly! She responded and sighed dramatically when my hand slipped to her ass and then under the little dress she wore so my fingers encroached on some lacy underwear and the soft flesh of her ass.

Now if only the follow-up invitation will come.
Hello Seattle
Posted:Sep 12, 2019 1:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 8:42 am
Since the last time you heard from me, I have since relocated to Seattle with my HR Tech Lady, now henceforth the the Project Manager. She is a sexy, curvy lady that keeps my interest and has supplied some of the best sex of my life. We have still dabbled in the "lifestyle" by getting ourselves into sexy situations with other couples. More than once, we have visited Club Saphire, a local lifestyle club in South Seattle and flirt our way through the evening. At one point, we even had sex next to another sexy couple.

We made an appointment to see them again, but when the time came, we were blown off thoroughly and disappointingly.

The Project Manager and I have an open relationship too. Admittedly, I am not a one woman man. She told me last week that she understood. "It would be like telling a gay guy not to be gay," she said.

Seattle has not been tempting me much however. It would be nice if I could have a couple of sexy friends, because my Project Manager does travel a lot. I did meet one lady, here on AdultFriendFinder. We had drinks and then returned to may place for sex. When the chemistry is right there is nothing like the quick hook-up.

In reality, getting a woman to understand a man's value as a regular sexual partner takes weeks if not months. Almost all of the lovers I have, have busy schedules and have known me for months or years. Meeting new people has been a struggle in Seattle.

Maybe the term "Seattle Freeze" has some significant merit!
1 comment
Taking What I Want
Posted:Jan 26, 2019 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2019 1:24 pm
So I took the HR Tech Queen out last night for a celebratory dinner out our favorite local Italian Restaurant last night because I will be having to come up with a new name for her soon.

For more on the HR Tech Queen please see How Sexual can you be and follow the links there.

She just received (I should say earned) a big promotion within her major and famous northwest corporation.

To be honest, dinner is a formality. An attempt to say that our relationship is not completely about sex....but I know it, she knows it.

We settled in and started watching the old CHIPs movie on HBO. She came out with a special set of lingerie that we have collected over the months and we sat next to each other pretending the movie was all that!

About half way through, I pulled her into the bed so I could touch her in different ways. She took it as if it were time to fuck.

Clearly, I am down.

We fucked for about an hour before I took a bit of a break to go use the facilities after several glasses of wine. As I thought about it, I was going to need to cum soon, so I may as well use all the mental tools at my disposal.

I grabbed a pair of soft wrist cuffs and bound her hands above her head and began fucking her in earnest. She began to orgasm and then finally I let loose.
Somewhere in the process she squirted which does not happen often for her, but I am sure that it happened is the latter episode rather than the previous hour of fucking.

This morning, we woke up and fucked two more times before she left around 1pm.

She will be back Sunday night too! Yay!
What a Shame (to the Women of AdultFriendFinder)
Posted:Dec 21, 2018 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2019 9:42 pm

I tried AdultFriendFinder once more. I have to admit, I met four ladies back in August-October. One came and played with me several times then has since ghosted. The other ones met me and did not like what they saw. At least they met me and saw in person. I respect that.

I think many women on this site only want the attention they receive. I know most women receive an unbelievable amount of email, but there is shit and there are some treasures hidden in the soil.

Let's take a look at what has happened to me on other sites.

In one week, I met and fucked three women from a famous "affair"site. Unfortunately, none of those relationships lasted as long as I wanted..

Over the summer, I met a high caliber, well educated, richly employed lady on a famous "hook-up" site and we have been overnighting and fucking multiple times weekly. That is adult behavior.

The women of AdultFriendFinder could learn a lesson here.

Over the last few months, I met another lady who drives nearly two hours on a weeknight to play with me and then departs on a late night drive back home to her teenage and reality.

Finally, I met another classy lady with two master's degrees living in the local area on a temporary basis. Like the other two women previously mentioned, this one clearly has a very high sex drive and is looking for ways to feed it on what may be a vanilla dating site. When she found me, she found a man good at the sexual dance and respectful of whom she is.

My point? Women of AdultFriendFinder....get over yourselves. You don't have the corner on the market here. The rudeness of not responding to the right email will cost you quality experiences. Having an impressive list in of "friends" will not get you what you want or here.

Of course, I not sure that most of you are not here just to stroke your own ego.

Men, there are other options. Those of you that are rude to ladies, stand them up or ignore them because you think you may find something better, please stay on AdultFriendFinder. You and the women of AdultFriendFinder deserve each other.

As for me, I will have an overnight full of sex with the "Two Masters" lady this evening.

Merry Christmas to me!
Spanking for the Good
Posted:Dec 12, 2018 9:56 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2021 1:8 am
I learned a lesson last week with a new lover!

She whispered to me that she is really excited when she is spanked.

Now I make it no secret that I am a kind, gentle soul, and it is out of my personality to smack anything. I have learned however, that spankings are appreciated by many....and this one....my god.

I started spanking her and about every third or fourth smack, she would writhe in a near orgasmic bliss. Eventually, she whispered to me "if you keep doing that, I am going to orgasm".

That was just the challenge I needed to stop being nice and appreciate this is what she wanted. I smack harder and with more authority.

Sure enough, six spanks later, she went into full bliss mode.

Oh the lessons we learn!

To link to this blog (TopTwentyPercent) use [blog TopTwentyPercent] in your messages.

56 M
October 2019
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat

Recent Visitors

Visitor Age Sex Date
tall1forfun2 69M11/28
rm_FstMav  51M9/3
Funnyhotthing 53F8/25
AtlanticTwo 58/56C7/16
NightBloom95 58F7/13
Weeload2  57M5/31
yekim1234  57M5/16
Paulxx001  63M5/15