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Breaking the AdultFriendFinder Code
Posted:Feb 28, 2018 11:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2020 10:49 am

Finally broke some AdultFriendFinder codes.

"C" after names means a male that wanks on cam most of the time or uses the "C" to catch ladies off guard by saying you're looking for a female but "NO SINGLE MALES"!
Doesn't make a lot of sense.

A "C" will friend you then unfriend you. I suspect the lady does the friending and then the man sees it and does the unfriending. ?

Chatting on AdultFriendFinder IM means that any time the conversation can turn and you're suddenly talking to a stranger. For instance, Lady with her breasts and vagina bared says "I'm looking for a dominant sexual man" then when a man eludes to her looks or something sexual she says "And men wonder why women don't chat on here". It's the old "Come here!! But get away!!" thing. Lol. Huh?

Also when chatting do not get too personal or try to have more than a surface conversation because even though someone says they want honesty and meaningful chat....they do not.

Putting "NOT Bi or Gay" on your profile will ensure you are inundated with gay offers. What??

The closer people are to you ( and yes the miles are wrong on here most of the time) the less likely they are to be interested in you or in meeting you in real life.

When in the chat rooms make sure you watch as much as you talk the first few times in the room. There are veterans and Lifers on AdultFriendFinder and they help run the rooms. You will know them by their bitter and sometimes demeaning comments to those they do not like or have reason to believe may threaten their chat room supremacy.

These are just a few things to remember...but in the essence of promoting respect and having a good time do not let these things deter you. Laugh and go on with your bad self. LMAO
Love them anyway
Posted:Jan 30, 2015 6:17 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2020 10:50 am


People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Be good anyway.

Honesty and frankness will make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.

People need help, but may attack you if you try to help them.
Help them anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

This kind of goes along with the other blog I posted. The poem is a great way to do things but it is far from the easy route. I suppose this post as most things people write down is an attempt at self inspection and re-enforcement. lol Helps to verbalize things at times.

As I have been on this site a while i have seen human nature at its best and it's worst. There are people who think they run a room because they have held down a spot there for years. They tend to be defensive and to attempt to control an absolutely uncontrollable situation. There are those that exhibit every emotion under the sun and those who will get close enough to eviscerate you the first chance they get. It's easy to fall prey to someone that seems normal and who professes to care about you and then they are the first to turn on you and to kick you while you're down. There is every kind of person in the World here. Not everyone is going to love you or even like you. Remember that a person can't help it if they don't like or love you back. Sure if they play you and say things they don't mean then that is on them but, we still control how it affects us and how we react.

This has to all be put into context as it pertains to an Adult chat site. You will be fooled many times. You will get irritated many times. You may fall in and out of lust/love several times. lol During all of this remember that if you are an honest, decent person you will inevitably fare much worse than the average person here. That should not be an excuse for us to fall prey to the same games and emotions as the other people who are here to play. This is an adult site. There will be nudity. There will be backbiting and fights. Rooms seem to be getting more and more polarized. lol It is what it is but it does not have to cause you to become cynical or angry or depressed or anything else. We can control how we feel. Don't blame others for your own misplaced trust. Own it and move on. Have your fun and let everyone else have their fun.

Most people will not likely read this and the more sexier blogs will and should most certainly dominate. I read some of them too. lol I just felt like sharing this as there are more and more people that seem to be turning the chat rooms into territorial battlegrounds and it is becoming less and less fun to be in them. If you are one of the ones that took the time to read this then thanks.
Why are we here?
Posted:Nov 18, 2014 5:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2019 11:20 am

It seems more and more apparent every day that there are so many different types of people on here. Also that there are many that clearly don't understand what ADULT site means. We have 18-20 year olds that can't even buy a drink but they can talk the talk and walk the walk on AdultFriendFinder. We also have people that are genuinely here to look for some companionship and they seem to get lost amongst all the other players and pretenders and the like.

My take on AdultFriendFinder. If you come on here with any expectations....drop them at the door. Any one coming here should just expect to find a room or two to have some friends and some fun and if you should stumble across a good match somewhere then so much the better. I am not a gold member so I can't speak to those benefits but even being a standard member I have enjoyed my visits here. I have met some great people and have had a great time here. Enjoy folks and stop being so serious about it all. It's a chat room for gosh sakes. lol

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