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Tryinit18 59M/51F
57 posts
8/23/2018 7:56 pm
Size matters......

Ok, is it vain as a female to want your partner to be at least 1 inch taller than you are? This isn't a poll, this is me venting out loud. I remember in 6th grade, I had already hit my full height, which was 5'8. Of course the majority of the males in the 6th grade had NOT hit their full height so I spent a lot of my middle school 'leaning' against a table or a wall or a chair just so my boyfriend and I would be the same height..... So now, as a grown ass woman, I have a preference that my partner be at least 5'9.

Here's what sucks.....there are some AWESOME guys out there that are 5'8 or shorter. They know they aren't 6 feet tall, do they look at my height before they message me or do they even care?? Are they uncomfortable being with a woman that might be taller than they are? And they usually like their women in heels!

So how do I come to terms with the idea of being taller then a potential lover? Am I scarred for life because of middle school? Maybe this is a disorder that I can get named after myself.....

I know that I am missing out on some amazing people, amazing lovers and amazing friends by hitting the "too short" button so what am I supposed to do???

The poll starts now:

{=} Tryinit18


Tryinit18 59M/51F

8/23/2018 7:57 pm

Can't wait to see what answers pop up!!


classicalrebel4 65M  
1490 posts
8/23/2018 8:02 pm

I like tall women at 5'10", but I won't turn anyone down that get along with personality wise.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.

bker4ever 62M
199 posts
8/23/2018 8:11 pm

could care less how tall a woman is Not going to judge her by how tall or short she is

BigCountry4640 46M
199 posts
8/23/2018 8:13 pm

I'm 6'1"-6'2" I LOVE tall women with long sexy legs and absolutely love it when they wear heels..... I haven't ever dated anyone taller than I am but I don't think I'd have a problem with it....except that would be a TALLLLL woman in heels....6'5"?????

Pale_Guy 27M
66 posts
8/23/2018 8:14 pm

Height has never really been a deciding factor for me. I am pretty tall myself so most women do tend to be shorter than I am, but when I do meet a woman taller than me they usually leave an impression. And not a bad impression, I remember having this huge crush on a girl back in high school who was a full head taller than me.

lonlyforlove2 77M
16775 posts
8/23/2018 8:17 pm

Young Lady, don't let something that happened 35 years ago bother you, 5-8 you are on the tall side( my opinion) we all have a slight preference, but even at 5-6 with heels a lady is taller than I am , I just don't let it bother me, makes her legs look sexier..

Be sure to look in at lonlyforlove2 . It may make you smile

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1378 posts
8/23/2018 8:22 pm

I used to date a woman who is 5'11" and I never had a problem with her being a little taller than I was when she put on her 4" heels

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Platosgames 98M  
3182 posts
8/23/2018 8:28 pm

I prefer shorter ladies, but to be honest, I never look at height on the profiles. It really isn't one of my deciding factors. And at 5'8", you're not what I would consider tall.

Forget the past, it means nothing. Don't settle for anything less than what you want. There's plenty of guys, good guys, over 5'8".

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx

komodo345 54M
9 posts
8/23/2018 8:28 pm

At this point in our lives, what is important? height? length? girth? the way a person treats you and makes your feel? The type of sex you have? at the end of the day, each of us, has to determine what is important and what isn't it. Is it "settling"? Or is it sticking to what standard make you happy. We shall all be moved.

fashionablegma 77F
7937 posts
8/23/2018 8:35 pm

Oh I can see where you are coming from,i much prefer a guy six foot or taller

timeforfungc73 47M
18 posts
8/23/2018 8:42 pm

yes size matter's
the bigger more perfect,,,and more cum
makes for a yum time

mc_justmc 60M  
6474 posts
8/23/2018 10:30 pm

I was married for 25 yrs to a woman who was 4'11, so when I see anything close to 5' I'm drawn to them, but then I'm reminded I once lived with a woman who was 5'8 and I liked her plenty. I was 5'9, but I think I might have lost a bit in my years, so I say 5'8 now. So size doesn't really matter that much to me.

I_giv_pleasure 56M  
2714 posts
8/23/2018 10:55 pm

I'm at least an inch taller than you. My daughter has the same issue as you. She's almost 5'9. I have gone out with ladies taller than me.

seems6666 49F
4019 posts
8/24/2018 4:33 am

I'm with you on this one.. I couldn't date a guy shorter or the same height as me,,, I like to look up when kissing I'm 5'7 so I like a minimum of 5'9 but I notice there are a lot of hot fit guys that are around 5'8... maybe I'm being shallow but we like what we like.

polaman681 52M  
108 posts
8/24/2018 7:57 pm

Size does matter no one wants a short dicked man like that song.. Size totally totally matters also who wants small breasts?? Not Me yuck....

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