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I question your math AdultFriendFinder!
Posted:May 2, 2016 4:07 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2016 3:35 pm
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So............when I go in to the search drop down menu and clik on "browse". Of course as I live in Hawaii I click on Hawaii. For the category "women seeking men" AdultFriendFinder lists 4,039 women.

The next screen gives you the option of viewing the woman that fit into our pre-set cupid settings or......................."view all".

A logical person would believe that "view all" will give me 4,039 profiles.

In an earlier blog I speak of the percent of men looking for women and women looking for men here in Hawaii. Oh my was I wrong!!!

I just viewed all the women here in Hawaii, of all ages, and found 380 that have logged in to thier accounts back to 2-2-2016 and another 140 that reflect not active for over 3 months. Then the screen refreshes to the women currently logged in. The search ended and started over...........

Simple math has the total at 520..............................

AdultFriendFinder, please tell me where you get 4,039 women in Hawaii that are looking to meet a man?
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AdultFriendFinder ?? How about being consistent..............
Posted:Apr 17, 2016 11:41 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2016 8:02 pm
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So.....those little blue boxes are back. My guess is there is someone in the IT department that feels the need to screw with all of us. Us being the people that have paid for a service but have no input as the how that service is provided.

The profiles I viewed is sketchy at best. Don't dare get your cursor near someone elses profile. AdultFriendFinder has decided this is an opportunity to tell others we viewed when we didnt. On top of that the little blue boxe had me viewing 1,000's of profiles and today my number is starting over. That is not consistent!!

Our hotlist. I use mine to keep track of new members I am interested in. There is an option on the hotlist page......"remove". I have removed profiles from here only to have them back in my hotlist the next day. That is not consistent!!

Messages sent. Another blue box on our main profile page. but when you go to the messages window we don't have the option of seeing the messages we sent. If you are going to keep track with a rolling number then also give us the otpion to see ALL the messages we sent. Get your IT department to add a drop down menu for "Sent". This is not consistent!!

Blue boxes. Really! Really??? Why? Did you evr think of sending out a questionnaire asking the members......remember us? The ones paying you to provide a service. How about asking us if we would like to see a change to a feature we are using? This is not consistent!!

Now.................that I have that off my chest! I am going to meet a new AdultFriendFinder friend for breakfast!

May everyones orgasms be overwhelming!!!

Aloha
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"rm_???" what does "rm" stand for?
Posted:Feb 27, 2016 4:05 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2016 3:33 pm
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I have noticed a number of profiles on AdultFriendFinder over the years that have "rm_" in front of the profile name.

Does anyone know the reason?
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"Profiles I Viewed" did you?
Posted:Feb 20, 2016 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2016 9:42 pm
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Should AdultFriendFinder list profiles that our cursor brushed over, or were next to the one we opened as Profiles I Viewed? Or only profiles we click on and "really" view?
Only profiles I opened?
All profiles my cursor touched?
2 Comments , 38 votes
I LOVE chocolate nipples!!!
Posted:Feb 9, 2016 8:58 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 7:36 am
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I grew up here in Hawaii. My first exposure to naked boobies and nipples was here and my love for chocolate colored nipples has gotten greater over the years. I love large nipples. The size of an eraser on the end of a pencil nipples. With areola that scruntch up when aroused. You know......those little bumps appear and her areola can shrink from 3 inches to a 1/2 inch.

Asian women, Hispanic women, Middle Eastern, East Indian, Mixed women......if your nipples are the color of chocolate then I want to worship them. Pamper them. Adore them. Kiss them. Lick them. Suck them. Nibble them and stare at them!!!

Oh.......and I don't have a problem sharing them.....with another man or women.

Tell me.....do you have a strong preferance for a specific body part?
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Are you a woman seeking a lover?
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2016 7:52 am
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What age range are you accepting as a lover?
20 years younger - 5 years older
10 years younger - 5 years older
5 years younger - same age
No specific age range
0 Comments , 10 votes
Age range
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 8:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2016 6:18 pm
8742 Views

If you are a man seeking a female lover how young and how old is your search?
10 years younger - 5 years older
5 years younger - same age
Same age - 10 years older
No specific age range
0 Comments , 10 votes
The correct age................????
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2016 11:33 pm
9104 Views

Have you posted your real age?

In the big picture I guess it doesn't matter. Some choose to be mysterious and keep some of their real info secret. Some choose to deceive. So far I have met......yes I know, I guess I'm a lucky one as I have actually met women on AdultFriendFinder. (see my earlier blog about women failing to pull the trigger and meet men...even though it is 19 to 1 for women here in Hawaii)

So....yes I have met women, four in the last two years that all declared their real age upon meeting or just before we met................possibly to soften the blow??

And all four were older than they posted on their profile. Surprise!!!!!

As much as eight years by one, five years by two others and two years by the fourth. Two years...........I know, why bother.

So the second part of my question........The correct age?

How far are you willing to explore to find a lover?

For me it is twenty years....maybe more if it is a spontaneous. You know...a few drinks...some flirting, touching, passionate kissing and the voila!!!! Sex with a stranger!!!

So women who are thirty nine today on the searchable low side (don't forget spontaneous) and sixty five on the high side. The reality.............yes, we "can't always get what we want....but if we try, sometime we get what we need"! I would be lucky to find a fourty nine year old who is accepting of a ten year age difference.

Oh really!!!!!

Fourty nine year old women are looking for an hoping a 25 year old will fuck their brains out.........right?

So, what is your age range for a lover?
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Closed Triad Relationship
Posted:Jan 17, 2016 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2016 11:32 pm
8982 Views

This is very interesting. Especially for the majority of AdultFriendFinder members.

We are all seeking sexual pleasure. And a friendship because we should get along with our lover(s). Yes ladies I know.............sometimes a stud muffin crosses your path and you just have to have his body on top of yours!! I get it.

But in the long run, some level of stability would be nice.........right?

FWB seem to run their course. I have enjoyed this "relationship" and am not opposed to another.

But...................

If I can find two bi-sexual women who would be interested in trying this then we could all wind up being very happy!!!

Live together. Share the living expenses. Share cooking, cleaning, shopping.....everything that is part of a "normal" two person relationship. But we will all have each other to share and enhance each others sexual pleasure.

Six hands, three mouths, thirty fingers!!!! LOT's of orgasms.

This could work with one woman and two men although I am sticking with my fantasy of two women and ME!!!

Have you ever heard of a closed triad relationship?

Are you aware of polyamory?

And the important question.............are you a bi woman who finds me attractive and would consider a closed triad relationship.....after we find another woman?

Year of the Monkey starts Feb 8. I am a monkey and look forward to a year filled with happiness and pleasure. Joine me?
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Why are you (we) here?
Posted:Jan 16, 2016 12:52 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2016 9:45 am
8731 Views

For me it's to find a like minded woman, sexually speaking. In the common dating scene it might take months of dating to determine your sexual desires. AdultFriendFinder gives all of us the opportunity to lay our cards on the table and express, hopefully honestly, what we like and what we seek in a partner.

Yes I LOVE sex!! I love the sensation when I orgasm!! And I LOVE helping my partner orgasm.

I am here to find a lover and also a partner to have fun with outide the bedroom.

Why are you here?
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Pleasures Endless Pursuit
Posted:Jan 9, 2016 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2016 11:40 pm
9300 Views

There is something that drives each of us in this pursuit. For me.....it is to give my partner(s) pleasure. To develop an intimate bond throughout. From the first meeting when our eyes meet. That first touch of hands. And the passionate desire fueled by that first kiss.

Yes.....pushing her back and spreading her legs so I might skillfully devour her pussy (and my recent discovery of her ass also) until her fingers tear at the sheets, her head drives back into the bed and that final gasp escapes her....................orgasm!!

But it appears that not all women desire this pleasure. I understand a womans desire to be lovers with another woman. Also the desire of a woman who desires the attention of both a man and a woman. I understand and applaud the couples who have discovered the pleasures of sharing sexual pleasure with their partner. What confuses me is the number of women who have been members of AdultFriendFinder for an extended period of time and as I, are online almost every single day.

I'm older (if AdultFriendFinder were around when I was in my 20's and 30's.......oh my!!!) and as others I seek a younger lover. I am a skillful lover who wants to pleasure women. The odds are not in my favor.

Women my age also seek younger lovers. The younger women I desire are also looking for even younger lovers. Here in Hawaii there are 3,887 women seeking a man. And there are 73,555 men seeking a woman!! Yowzaa.................

That is 19 men for every woman searching. I can't help but think there are some very, very picky women in Hawaii. That is a different lover every month!!! The majority of women say they don't want a relationship and also are not into one night stands. FWB.....friends with benefits!! Wonderful concept. Love the idea. And have had this "non relationship and enjoyed it. Very mature and sexually rewarding. Yes.......................please may I have another!!!!!

I hope to receive some feedback from females to help me understand what is really happening from your perspective? Are you in fact changing lovers evry month? Hooray if you are!! Or do you struggle pulling the trigger? You want to approach a man to be lovers but can't do it?

19 men for every women searching for a lover here in Hawaii.

How many lovers have you had in the last year?

How many in the past two years?

Aloha..............and may all your orgasms be overwhelming!!!!
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