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Aphrodisiacs of the Tongue  

WhatTheHeck013 49F
30 posts
7/16/2021 11:24 am
Aphrodisiacs of the Tongue

The brain is the biggest sex organ a woman has. Foreplay starts well before the clothes come off and for most women I know is not with physical touching, but with the words she is hearing and the actions she is viewing. Some men may find this frustrating. Once you get the hang of initiating the casual sexy banter I think you will find she will right into every fantasy you ever had.

12913 posts
7/16/2021 11:32 am


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.

spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39533 posts
7/16/2021 12:40 pm

Seduction always starts in the mind.

BiSussi 61F
1199 posts
7/16/2021 12:54 pm

Some men will never get it
All they think is that we need huge \8\8 or dildos
Sweet words are so much more effective, but while some men understand that already at age 16, some will not understand it at 76

Thanks for taking the time to reminding men on what matters once again !!!!!!!

I love pussies and adore nice dicks

WhatTheHeck013 replies on 7/16/2021 1:13 pm:
Sooooo true Sussi! I laugh when a man says he wants a "good communicator" Then when you tell him what he doesn't want to hear he gets selective hearing! xoxoxo

goldentouch100 61M  
4 posts
7/16/2021 1:07 pm

I totally agree that the brain is the most important sex organ, However, it is for both the man and woman, not just the woman. I reach out with my words, tone of voice and tamper, to reach out and tease, plant suggestions and touch touch my lady with mental foreplay. This leads to physical foreplay or at times, straight into sex.

needit239 66M
3 posts
7/16/2021 1:38 pm

I agree with you stimulate the mind,and the sweet tasting pussy is right behind

bigbananaguy 50M  
27 posts
7/16/2021 1:49 pm

Indeed, sex is far more mental than merely physical.

Go_Down_Cowboy_2 60M
928 posts
7/16/2021 7:11 pm

Truer words have not been spoken. And that is why, above all else, folks on here have got to be honest and truthful on sites like this. Especially on that rare occasion that there will be a meeting! You can say things to a woman and pique her interest and her libido, but if you aren't honest with your profile, and you meet...a 20 year old photo ain't gonna cut it when your older, greyer, heavier, missing teeth, you know...not what you have portrayed.
Women are not so much into the physical looks, rather more mental illusions and vital to her arousal. I had a girlfriend once, she read all those hot steamy romance novels and fantasized about them with me. I inquired as to how she could get so hot just reading books...WITH NO PICTURES!!! lol, Boy did I learn a lesson or two from her.
Guys on AdultFriendFinder that just ask a woman "Do ya wanna Fuk?" Thinkin that not only are they giving them a compliment by being propositioned by "The Man" but that they are even going to get a reply?? I wish them luck.
Thank you for an interesting First Blog. I'm going to keep my eye on you.

New2Midlo 52M  
1037 posts
7/17/2021 7:42 am

It's all foreplay until the clothes come off. If you can make a woman visualize having sex with you and nail the kissing part, she's yours.

Making every fantasy come true requires trust, which she'll develop after you demonstrate that you are laser focused on her pleasure.

jajo696 66F
4042 posts
7/18/2021 7:25 am

We need TRUE words...followed by true actions n feelings ...not that flowery charming BS.

Once a liar liar pants on fire is found....it makes it sooooo very hard for the next in line.

.....jus sayinnnnn ~~

Flagship1971 50M  
5 posts
7/18/2021 10:15 am

I think the mental part is very important for men and women. In the grand scheme of things, I am an AdultFriendFinder rookie. I know in general men tend to be more visual creatures than women. From what I have read, seen and been told, I fall into old fashion values. I know we are all human and deserve some respect at minimum. I 100% know that I could never just meet out of the blue, even with the sexiest, hottest woman and be truly sexually intimate. I need some sort of connection. Maybe that comes from the buildup of the chase or some meetings that involved play that leave you wanting more. I do have a friend I met here that we moved to a first meeting. I expressed several times we would proceed no expectations / just meeting. I cleaned my place, bought flowers and made dinner. I guess I am not really accustomed to the standard process here. We had an amazing kiss goodnight and that was where we ended that night. Later that night, I was informed what I missed out on and that she had never been treated like that by any man here. I felt her right ass cheek during the kiss but left pocket had 2 condoms in it. Finding this out increased my desire longing for another meeting. We have spent several evenings together and each gets a little hotter and a little more fun but still have not fucked. The tension has really built and is a huge part of the excitement of the chase. So I will repeat that the mental part can play a huge role for men also.

BrimStil 50M  
140 posts
7/27/2021 6:36 pm


Lukin4allofU 57M
76 posts
7/30/2021 3:21 am

Gorgeous lady with an "upcoming B-day!" The first best foreplay is deep long kissing! It is an art which few know how to do. I'd love an opportunity for us to talk...

Lukin4allofU 57M
76 posts
7/30/2021 3:24 am

As well, you are correct...Style and saying the right things sweetly - goes a hellva long way

Wewilldothat4u 56M/64F
24 posts
9/30/2021 11:27 am

i love big,chubby,plump,fat, women onsight. My wife and I are truely in love with each other, and love meeting women, or even walking bye a beautiful, BBW,Fat, chubby, whos knows who she is and looks like and is FULL FIGURED, and drop dead gorgeous, and being a married couple, and were (3) looking at each other eye to eye and giving you a real true blue compliment, instantly look at us and freak out because we (3) all see and feel the instant attraction and so much more, and then you freak out and get upset because, YOU TRUST YOUR SOUL BUT FAIL TO BELIEVE, you are THIS AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. And saddens us majorly, and pisses up because, all 3 of us know feel see and melt from this meeting, greeting and love on sight . So when YOUR READY HOLLER @us

Wewilldothat4u 56M/64F
24 posts
10/10/2021 3:42 pm

There's nothing better than joining a couple that are really into each other, but love to share! When 3 hot bodies and 3 naughty minds collide, there's no telling the heights of debauchery that can be reached!"

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