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Whiskey_N_Rum 53M/45F  
43 posts
1/13/2020 7:32 am

I've been in the lifestyle for years, but have been quiet lately and that has affected me emotionally. When we were most active I was more self confident. Now you can call me self conscious, call me shy, call me a coward, all are true!

I love being with a woman, but it has been ages since I have been. It's totally different feelings involved then being with a guy, at least for me. I have no problem attracting guys. Its the girls I have issues with. I am forever thinking I am not worthy, pretty enough, sexy enough, bold enough, etc.

I miss that intimacy you share with a woman. I miss trying to figure out all her quirks, and what arouses her the most. As with most guys, it usually doesn't take much to get them going, let alone to make them .

I am scared to approach a woman, with the intent to play. I fear rejection. I fear being ridiculed. I fear being hurt. All of which I have had happen before, and I am not wanting to experience any more of it.( and I know that's a bit unrealistic as not everyone will be attracted to me)

I know we are all here looking for extra fun, and that we have to take the good with the bad, but I really don't want any more rejections. I've had my fill of them. So let me ask you a question, how do you approach a person confidently (be it or female) with the sole intent of getting them naked and feeling them melt for you?

And I know a lot will use alcohol or drugs to ease their anxiety, and although I drink some, I prefer not to be drunk when I play with people, I want to remember what we do.

Any and all suggestions will be greatly appreciated!

Nothinserious_64 56M
9 posts
1/19/2020 3:36 am

Ohh your super sexy ...any girl would love to play with you....so would I ...lol

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