Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

Adult dating deal-breakers: are your criteria reasonable, stringent, or just plain wacky?  

__Crusoe__ 51M
18 posts
2/5/2015 4:04 am

Last Read:
8/27/2017 5:49 am

Adult dating deal-breakers: are your criteria reasonable, stringent, or just plain wacky?

During the course of my decade-long odyssey in the company of my fat squishy friend, I’ve become pretty accustomed to the huge variety of personal tastes expressed in profiles on this, and other adult dating sites. While acknowledging that successful and fulfilling sexual activity is very much dependent on whether one’s partners tick certain boxes (and I’m no exception), now and again I’ve encountered profiles where I felt the criteria were so strict that the individuals concerned were perhaps denying themselves the joys that about 95% of humanity might offer them

Of course, there are the ultra-fitness fanatics who would never consider meeting anyone who doesn’t sport unnaturally hypertrophic Abs, and there are those for whom dating people outside certain racial stereotypes would be anathema (now and again, in fits of facetiousness, I’ve been known to contact those types and offer to show up after dipping my dick in a bath of henna – but somehow they remain unconvinced .

Recently, I spotted a profile owned by someone who was not British, but touring Scotland for a fortnight. She was looking for Scottish guys who were “hairy” (perhaps not unreasonably), but then (perhaps unwittingly) reduced her chances of finding a compatible partner by stating that she would only consider men who were aged between 40 and 43 and had a penis at least 9 inches in length. I’ve really no idea whether her quest was successful, but it got me thinking: In the great scheme of things, if you are in a very specific part of the world for a very short time, can you afford to be so choosy??

Elsewhere, I have seen profiles owned by female citizens of the US of A, in which they state that they will only meet currently serving members of the military. And while we’re still in the New World……I’ve even seen some profiles suggesting that anyone who is an atheist would be denied conjugal rights ……. Which got me wondering whether a religious melding of minds could be a factor that has hitherto been overlooked in the quest for the ultimate orgasm

Although it can’t be denied that this world offers a rich cornucopia of potentially rewarding sexual experiences, I often think it’s ironic that people often isolate themselves in particular niches, whether it be BDSM, fetish, inter-racial, ultra-fitness, or whatever. Of course I realize that sexual attraction is a very individual thing, but speaking for myself, although I have certain “ideals”, I am capable of exercising a degree of flexibility (especially in view of my age……haha……). So my question is this: What are your adult-dating deal breakers? Are they as simple as a set of bad teeth, or are your requirements so esoteric as to be almost impracticable ?? I’d be interested to know .

© Crusoe 2015


ExpatCougar 52F  
26 posts
5/26/2016 5:50 pm

Great question, Crusoe.

My deal breakers are : any anger or rudeness in emails or chats;
smokers;
any lies on marital status, openness of relationship, smoking or race;
bad breath;
talking about themselves all the time;
not listening when I say no.


Become a member to create a blog