Preparation is necessary beforehand
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Posted:Sep 8, 2021 9:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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Have you ever actually talked to a person from here?
I have, sometimes it seems awkward as if they were unprepared yo actually talk to a live person. Oh, its easy enough to chat in a chatroom or via text, but when the reality of the fact there is actually a live person on the other end of the phone sets in they tense up.
Sometimes, they are shaken by the fact they told some untruths and are called on it. Other times it seems rehearsed all to well and red flags start flying, bells or sirens ringing in your head. So, be honest. If one will lie to you they will steal from you and vice versa.
Then there are the times when there are no expectations, both are at ease and it feels like you are catching up with a long lost friend, bit in fact you've simply made a nee one. Those are the best times.
This is the approach I take - be guarded to an extent, no expectations, put the other at ease. Nothing will forced or go beyond the boundaries without permission. I personally, have neveret a stranger, (so to speak, lol), I make myself at home wherever I am and find humor can break the ice. And I show interest, ask questions to engage the other party and put them at ease.
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Fu*k you, fun*k me, Now that I have your attention...
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Posted:Sep 7, 2021 6:14 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2021 6:48 am
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Men want a hook-up, women want something more - usually.
Every now and then the alure, attraction or desire does take over. Then there are those rare disorders of nymphomania, but more common bi-polar or split personalities which a chemical imbalance.
A lot of men have misconceptions of a hook-up, an affair not unlike do so many concerning BDSM - that its raw, abusive and they're done.
There reality is that both men and women are not getting all of their needs met physically, emotionally or sexually It's more common to not communicate, bury it, hide it or swallow it to maintain the status quo. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex alone, with your partner or multiple partners. Be safe, respectful and enjoy whether its discreetly or out in the open.
The younger are rebellious, quick to experiment over zealously. The middle aged have regrets and anxieties they have too much to lose only not to realize they are a prisoner of their own device. The older are quick to call it as it truly is, - if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and looks like a duc.. its a duc
If one had a better study of a true BDSM relationship they would understand the amount of communication, importance of the little things that are required to gain the trust, maintain the health, well-being, boundaries, and the passion such as aftercare, cuddling, reward and punishment.
This is oversimplified I know, and there are exceptions to every rule, but I'm not here to write a book about it. If you want or need that little something else, laugh with, extra passion, sex and touch...we are here for that. Do be an ass to make yourself feel superior at the cost of demeaning or hurting another...enjoy the passion.
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Be discreet
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Posted:Sep 3, 2021 4:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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It's important for your safety and well being to be discreet on here, your phone, and your computer. In the world today lowlife's are phishing any and everywhere. It may be for gain, identity theft, blackmail, etc. It also may offend some people in various ways and they just put your photos or information there for everyone to see or.benefit one-way or another. Some it cheating, others immoral, etc. But folks, people have been having sex for thousands of years and it's just sex..Single people are busy building their careers, others may have married into a situation where their mate may not have the same sex drive, others may have a higher sex drive, some have spouse's that for medical reasons can no longer perform at all. Be discreet for yourself and/or those you are interested in bas well as your stability. If you're here obviously you fall into one.or.more of the things 8 just mentioned. , old or in between expand your horizons with someone outside your age, height, build and you may be surprised as to how good the sex can be. Experiment, be safe, find someone outside your norms discreet, honest, reliable and communicative and enjoy the sex!
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How often do you hookup?
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Posted:Sep 3, 2021 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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So, how often do you hookup? Is it someone from here? Have you actually met the person outside of the hookup? What's your secret to being successful? Share your wisdom.
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Ladies, dick pics or not
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Posted:Sep 1, 2021 10:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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Ladies - dick pics or not
Personally, I find it in poor taste along with rude comments. I prefer to show the pics if you ask to be non offsetting. Also, I choose a more alluring, erotic, seductive, intellectually stimulating vocabulary...anyone with 1/2 a brain can say - f**k you. Does that cause you to think yeah, I want that guy.
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Public sex?
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Posted:Aug 29, 2021 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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It's the thrill you may get caught doing something that is natural, but socially unacceptable. Thoughts? I have enjoyed various venues and never been noticed. On Main Street, in the woods, in the car, at sporting events, restaurants and theater's
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Something new, something different
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Posted:Aug 29, 2021 9:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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After lunch Sara sat reading when George walked in. He made small talk as he moved around the kitchen. Clomp, clomp, clomp of his new boots as he moved around and yet he received no failed to get a response from Sara.
Determined to get a response from her he left the kitchen and and disrobed with the exception of his new boots. Clomp, clomp, clomp as he moved around again making small talk. Once again he got no response from Sara.
Frustrated he stomped around the room and asked, "Notice anything new?"
"No George, nothing new - it's still hanging down," was Sara's dispassionate response.
"It's looking at my new boots!," George stated proudly.
"Should've bought a hat George, should've bought a hat," disappointed Sara stated emphatically.
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Public sex - yes or no?
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Posted:Aug 24, 2021 6:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:11 am
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It's the thrill you may get caught doing something that is natural, but socially unacceptable. Thoughts? I have enjoyed various venues and never been noticed. On Main Street, in the woods, in the car, at sporting events, restaurants and theater's.
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