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aflower2c 45F
7459 posts
11/20/2019 9:36 am

'Age is just a number'
Shouldn't, wouldn't, doesn't, __ matter.

See blog in first comment

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

aflower2c 45F
14967 posts
11/20/2019 9:38 am

Missing words and stuffss 🤪😁🥓🥓

And I'm not complaining because my dating life pretty much follows the general trends in dating throughout life. And where I live it is pretty limited to available men that are sane, healthy, still wanting to enjoy life.


Yes the years-long argument of when age matters, I'm talking about all things legal even though most men would quite enjoy a teen as according to dating stats and what men find attractive.

Until it does matter with sex, dating, and relationship potential.
or using the reason of "I'm attracted to 'insert young/lithe/inexperienced" so yes older women don't fit that.
Yet many women cant say the same thing about being attracted to certain men without receiving grief over "age shouldn't matter!"

Myself I'm definitely more attracted to men with 8 yrs of my age, always have, never really liked a big age gap that most seek. Even my ex husband and my last casual partner where 10yrs older than me and that was definitely a limit for most thigs.
Though I am not a dude in his 40's, so my lower limit for non-sexual kink is 26 yrs, and for sex. Thpigh it depends on the kink, rope bondage woth no sexual activity I'm pretty flexible with age, same with impact, and SM....
Some pretty negative experiences in my early teens and a few in my early 20's left a lingering sense of meh with age gap seekers ie older men and much younger women.

I use age brackets first to keep my search parameters easy. Then single status, then health, lifestyle, ect.

I am 45, hwp, healthy, active, non-smoker, kink friendly, drug free, work fulltime, no young spawn, .... yet the vast majority of men looking at my profile are between 55 and 70.

If age doesn't / shouldn't, matter then where are the men in my age bracket. Lol
or the late 30's men.

What are or were your age brackets/limits when it came to dating? Sex? Relationship potential?

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

Leegs2012 47M
49840 posts
11/20/2019 9:38 am

I like being with Women at the 30 to 55 age range. More experienced.

aflower2c replies on 11/20/2019 10:02 am:
For sex and casual partners I had to keep strict rules with age brackets. (When I was looking for sex) The ages where 25-35 and 50-55. The biggest mistakes I ever made was meeting men close to my age for sex and fwb. Lessons learned.

aflower2c replies on 11/20/2019 10:04 am:
When I broke my own rules it soured me quickly from having sex with men over 38 to 50. Lol

Wish I didn't have to learn lessons the hard way.

Love2eatpussy338 32M
50 posts
11/20/2019 10:09 am


6inchjoey 49M  
927 posts
11/20/2019 10:18 am

Age is just a number as long as where both on the same page and get along, and no limits on what she wants and likes as woman are precious and awesome to love and for potential affairs would be either FWB or Long term or even marriage if that what she wants

aflower2c replies on 11/20/2019 10:40 am:
I'm sure plenty of women in thier 40's will have casual sex with men close to thier own age. Its a hard limit for me.

h4rry66 53M
1464 posts
11/20/2019 10:20 am

I dont remember ever eating a monkey either. But I've eaten monkey nuts before, lol

stopbyandsayboo 48M
770 posts
11/20/2019 5:14 pm

You rock and do not let anyone tell you different..... If your heart stays young you will never grow old hun XOXO


aflower2c replies on 11/20/2019 6:26 pm:
My typos or phone gremlin is making me look not that hot. Lol

EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/20/2019 6:44 pm

What are or were your age brackets/limits when it came to dating? Sex? Relationship potential?

Lower age? 35, I don't really have an upper limit.

I don't have casual sex currently...ever. Can't bring myself to go back to that.

I hope you find someone!

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aflower2c replies on 11/21/2019 7:46 am:
Dating sites will be quiet till after jan2.

author51 57F  
86450 posts
11/21/2019 8:56 am

I have always had an age bracket myself. My lover is 47 and I am 56. 9 years between us but staying young at heart, there is no age difference at all. Since we have been together many times, we both know this.. When I was meeting they had to be 35 and up to no higher than 60. My oldest child is just turning 30 so will never go their age. Might sound shallow but 60 is the oldest I would have ever gone for me.. Just my preference when it comes to older..Age can be a number to some of us that we will never cross..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

aflower2c replies on 11/21/2019 9:03 am:
I have met with men over my upper age limit, but 95% of the time it was a negative experience because of the way they would talk at me instead of with me. One felt like an interrogation on 'why I met'...after that I do not go out of my way to even chat online with men over my highest limit.

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