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anastasia666 42F  
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8/14/2016 12:44 am

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RESPECT : WE all NEED to do Better



Hello Dear Readers,

My good friend JN reminded me it has been awhile since I posted a new blog. I had hoped it would be something funny, sexy or even another installment of the " Prince Charming " erotica..

Sadly this was not to be..

Simple Definition of respect
: a feeling of admiring someone or something that is good, valuable, important, etc.
: a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated in an appropriate way
: a particular way of thinking about or looking at something

RESPECT...a simple word with so much feeling. I have spoken to Andrew ( Founder/CEO of this website ) about the recent " Petition " that caused so much agony, pain and anger. Yes the Petition violated our TOU..( and yes the blogger knew )

TOU:

Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable

(m) "stalk" or otherwise harass another person or user or member;

(b) harm minors in any way or commit abuse;

How hard is it to just respect everyone and their right to privacy and to be a member here ? Why blame another blogger because you fell in the rankings on that cursed Blog List ? Why was it her fault that members liked her posts better and commented on them ? How hard was it to just enjoy your own blog and fans and leave other members alone ? Wouldn't you rather have members think well of you then see the jealousy, lack of decency and respect for others ? THIS is not just one members website..IT belongs to Andrew who created it so folks could network, chat, meet and just have a fun, safe place to trade ideas and have conversations of any kind. This is AdultFriendFinder...NOT finder, Not I have to be NUMBER 1 always, NOT Juvenile jealous site..say it with me friends...AdultFriendFinder..

The petition of hate trying to defame and disrupt the entire blogging process & shame our LBGTQ members was WRONG from the word Go...Yes, a proper apology should be posted by the site for having allowed the petition to be posted as long as it was. The entire LBGTQ community & all members were wronged by the blogger who created this. The fact that so MANY Members are still posting blogs about this issue shows that the obscenity affected all of Us. it still continues now with a new so called Blog about Transgender people and a fake Beauty contest..using photos taken from the web WITHOUT the owners permission. Wrong..So very wrong.

WE all need to do better. RESPECT should be the norm and not some kind of afterthought. I have seen countless attacks on male and female members, employees of this website who had their privacy violated with a former member posting private photos he stole off the web. WHERE is simple respect for one another ? I have fought my own stalker on this site to have her dealt with when she violated my privacy among others. I am not asking for people to be nice or polite..I wish I could but with people hiding behind a computer screen or urging their " fans " to do evil on her behalf, there is no way folks would do that. I can and will ask for RESPECT for all...and NEVER single any member out just because you either do not agree with the way they live their life or practice their faith or out of simple common ugly jealousy.

I am going to work on having the way blogs are listed on site overhauled. No more games or juggling the numbers or cheating. The Blog list should be a reflection of EVERY Blog & member on site who blogs..NOT just one person. I repeat what I have said before...if members dislike other members then IGNORE or BLOCK them. REPORT them for violations and stalking. If a member hates the site or members then they are free to go find any other site they choose to join. I just did a check and see there are more then 2,500 online dating sites with a 1,000 new sites being added every year. I see several online blogging sites..if you want to be Number 1 why not move all your posts and pix to a blog you can control 100 % ?? There would be no other members to get in your way. Just did another check and the G blogs do allow nudity.

PLEASE remember there is NEVER a reason for any member here to abuse, stalk, harass, intimidate or encourage attacks on other members. PLEASE leave other members and their friends alone if you dislike how they live..WHY not concentrate on living your own life ? If you do not like the member or blogger then STOP reading their blogs or posts... RESPECT is such a simple thing to do, a gift to give others and hope someone will give it back to you. KINDNESS is a gift we can give ourselves and others. PLEASE remember you can be a friend or fan and admire someone but you should NEVER feel forced to write something obscene because you think it will impress someone. ALL it does is make you foolish and you are being used. Did you join this site to meet and have fun or did you join to be used and discarded when you fulfill their purpose ?

RESPECT such an easy thing to do...I respect my readers but due to some of the abuse here on site, I have to mark my blog that I need to OK a post or reply before it is posted. Members have used my blog in the past to attack other members and one good friend in the Uk used it once to promote the blogger who wrote the petition. He said nothing to me or even about the post I wrote..It was simply using my blog to promote her as a person, member and blogger. I felt so bad for him because it made him look very foolish.

WE ALL NEED TO DO BETTER

Happy Sun Hugs,

Ana6

Your Faithful A F F Journaiist




I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart



Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/14/2016 1:20 am

ABSOLUTELY.....

And thank you for writing the TOU's.....
I'm not going to deny being rude to a few folks.....and admit even needless.....but I do know my actions have never been with malicious intent, nor down to deciding my views are more important.

We all have our bad days when in a pissy mood. Sometimes its good to vent. Share. Commiserate.

There are many wonderful people on this Site.....its a shame a few think only THEY are entitled to be on it.....

Thank you for this Ana.....

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anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/14/2016 4:55 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    ABSOLUTELY.....

    And thank you for writing the TOU's.....
    I'm not going to deny being rude to a few folks.....and admit even needless.....but I do know my actions have never been with malicious intent, nor down to deciding my views are more important.

    We all have our bad days when in a pissy mood. Sometimes its good to vent. Share. Commiserate.

    There are many wonderful people on this Site.....its a shame a few think only THEY are entitled to be on it.....

    Thank you for this Ana.....

    Please may I mention it on my Blog.


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Hello RB,

Thank you for finding this blog post. I promised Andrew it would be about respect and it was. I think all of us have lost our temper here and possibly even rude to one another...BUT never with the malicious intent that petition had. An employee once asked us all if we ever felt embarrassed about being a member of this site and was it something we hid...I have never been embarrassed until that hateful petition reared its ugly head. I agree with you about our general membership. We have the BEST members & employees and I've been lucky/blessed to have them in my life. I am determined that this site will survive in spite of the evil efforts of a tiny group of bullies. Yes, I said it. There is no better word for them then that one. Feel free to share this blog and let us all take a stand for those who were injured, insulted and hurt. Let's make sure it never happens again.

Hugs & Thanks,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


tymeflyz2fast 70M

8/14/2016 5:22 am

Great and informative post ... thanks.


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/14/2016 5:32 am

Ana,
Here's a thought. I've said this many times before but I'm going to try again.
If you like this idea, maybe you can suggest it to Site.

We know that the Site will never get rid of the List. They like it there for newbies to see.
Also, they want the best blogs to show there ( who THEY consider the best, either by unique responders or responses )

How about we randomly rotate the list with only THOSE blogs?

For example... the people that they have on the list right now would stay the same. But every time you re-opened the blog home page, those same names would be in a different random order.
This would make no one #1. But the Site would still have THEIR idea of who is best showing on the list.

There'd be no reason for harassing, behind the scenes trickery, none of that. Why bother? No one is #1.

I really think if they did that it would get rid of most of the negativity that we see here way too often.

They already have the capability (coding) to do this. They do that with the three " Some Actively Watched Blogs " pictures on the top off the blog home page.

It's a good and fair idea.
They're never going to get rid of that list for business purposes and they want the best (their picks) to show there.
This lets them have what they want but stops all the negativity in the blogs.


scoupe42 57M  
8878 posts
8/14/2016 6:01 am

I agree, 100 percent!


pocogato12 68F  
34095 posts
8/14/2016 6:07 am

Awesome post and very much needed- thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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rachel0718 54F  
20462 posts
8/14/2016 6:09 am

Spectacular post! I appreciate the time you took to put it together. Classy act on your part and I hope others read this and will be more considerate and respectful to ALL on this site.

You put this tangled mess that it out there and explained it perfectly.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!


Rachel Mae


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/14/2016 6:22 am

Ana,
I have a question. Seeing that you mentioned the TOU's, I wonder if you could elaborate on them a bit. IF you want.

You said... " Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, EMAIL, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable. "

But what if that happens? What do you do about it?

IF... person #1 sends a E-mail with content that is against the TOU's, to person #2... ABOUT person #3...... can person #1 send that information (on site) to person #3 ?
If so, can it be sent in toto or must some parts be withheld? And which parts, if that's the case?
If as you say, against the TOU's type E-mails aren't allowed, just what can be done about it, if no one can see it ?

This seems to be a question that many have, but I've never seen a official answer.


rob5ice2 63M
200 posts
8/14/2016 7:38 am

Reference - "I am going to work on having the way blogs are listed on site overhauled. No more games or juggling the numbers or cheating."

Good point. But got me thinking. Could this be a reflection of the world we live in. And a result when we create so many different labels, groups, sub groups, sub groups of groups. And so on.

An example is education at higher institutions. Here we have standards that everyone has to 'supposedly' follow. But then nope...there is labels & groups and other such things that causes issues. Hence with all the competition. We wonder why people cheat or go around the system. When they see the system doing the same. And the rules can encourage at times.

But I say...if you really look around in society. Sometimes in the process of trying to help. We create more sub division.

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Having said that. I did find it interesting that you are taking about being respectful to different people and groups. And so forth.

As you have a picture stating “Be A Real Man and Respect Women”.

When a more appropriate picture to go with the subject would have been. “Be Respectful to Each Other” or something similar? Just my Opinion. We all have our clicks. So from another prospective. What you are implying is women are more important and deserve respect just because they are women. Men are not. Others are not.

And respect is earned... Not given just because of gender or Sex, or so on. That in and of itself go against your premise here. In another post.. or subject... Symbolism has meaning. As much as words do.

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I like this one.... ‘Be Excellent to Each Other!’ and ‘Party On’....lol

But great post. Hope you are having a good weekend.


QUEENBEEV 55F  
4204 posts
8/14/2016 9:30 am

Well said...now if only the one who actually NEEDS to read it...WILL read it.

It's sad that some people have to be told to play nice.

On a site with so many members...you could still have your "fans" and everyone else could have theirs too...there are more than enough friends for everyone.

I never understood why she felt as if you were her friend...you couldn't be anyone else's

It's not even high school antics...it's grade school.

Great post.

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Laxgeek36 49M  
575 posts
8/14/2016 1:24 pm

Well stated Ana


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/14/2016 1:27 pm

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    ABSOLUTELY.....

    And thank you for writing the TOU's.....
    I'm not going to deny being rude to a few folks.....and admit even needless.....but I do know my actions have never been with malicious intent, nor down to deciding my views are more important.

    We all have our bad days when in a pissy mood. Sometimes its good to vent. Share. Commiserate.

    There are many wonderful people on this Site.....its a shame a few think only THEY are entitled to be on it.....

    Thank you for this Ana.....

    Please may I mention it on my Blog.


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mufdiver69er2 60M  
1376 posts
8/14/2016 1:37 pm

very well said...bravo!!

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pagancountrygirl 62F
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8/14/2016 1:43 pm

Thank you for posting this!

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MrRareity 60M  
3999 posts
8/14/2016 1:44 pm

Good post Ana! We all have bad days and have done things we have regretted. But when we continue to keep on then I don't consider them to be mistakes, but they are out to hurt someone. I have seen this being a member for a number you years. It's amazing how just one person can generate enough negative energy that others pick up on it and run with it. It is sad that the site doesn't do more to stop this. About 8 yrs ago this happened and it finally reached the AdultFriendFinder legal department. They did put a stop to it because the site could of gotten into trouble.

What is sad is were all here to have fun, make new friends, and maybe find that one person we fall in love with. If we read something we don't like or we disagree with then there is no reason as adults we can't either say nothing, or try to say what we want to with respect. Maybe, the site should change the agreement we all sign when become members should change.

Again, good post Ana,
John

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Tmptrzz 57F
84452 posts
8/14/2016 1:45 pm

Very well stated blog everyone should read and agree to this..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


bamaman359 60M
1620 posts
8/14/2016 1:46 pm

Men need to respect women, women hold all the cards


tommy609z 61M
576 posts
8/14/2016 1:58 pm

Thank you ana---- well said and I will try, but if i see bullying, i will try to keep calm and help who is being bullied.


northshoretake2 56M  
1628 posts
8/14/2016 2:34 pm

Thanks

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hotmamamm 45F  
16900 posts
8/14/2016 2:49 pm

Thanks for your post. I personally think the list should not exist and it would be more peaceful in blogland. So many blogs are overlooked and truth be told they are the ones that tend to be the most creative. By them not being acknowledgement over silly numbers is a shame. The glitches on the blogs are frustrating. Comments do not go through. People are not held accountable for their actions when they do break TOU's. Which in eyes makes the site just as guilty for allowing this lack of respect and bullying to happen. I am not trying to be rude and I do appreciate all your help and supporting this cause I just frustrated that this is STILL a issue to begin with. Once again thank you for the post and I will support you anyway I can Happy Day To Ya


proteus_2a 54M
7929 posts
8/14/2016 3:05 pm

Right on my lady

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rachel0718 54F  
20462 posts
8/14/2016 3:23 pm

I would really like to share this on my blog. Please allow me to do so. Thanks!


Rachel Mae


bestfriend2156 64M
840 posts
8/14/2016 4:14 pm

thank you for your thoughtful post. Respect should be viewed as a basic human right.


oldbstrd55 63M
3113 posts
8/14/2016 5:21 pm


KtMnDu 68M
6214 posts
8/14/2016 5:23 pm

I am encouraged to see the site take notice......not only take notice, but for you to post up support for what so many of us see as abuse. Personally, I perhaps step over the line a bit, but I value the community here in the Blogosphere, and as such, sometimes I feel I need to poke back....just a little....to shed light on the bad actors......I try my best to stay within certain boundaries, but the medium and the anonymity leads to giant misconceptions, so it is quite the challenge at times.....

But I like to think that I maintain some level of appreciation and respect for others.....we are not perfect, and we may slip at times, but the boundaries are clear, and when those boundaries are crossed, we all need to take notice, and push back.....respectfully.......

Your post here is most appreciated, and let's hope it gets widely distributed and commented upon......the community here is much better for it...........


Raven9376 43M
476 posts
8/14/2016 6:02 pm

I totally agree with you. We all need to respect one another and we are all here to have fun, make new friendship, new lovers, and new relationships.


K1ssGasm 49M

8/14/2016 6:17 pm

Thank you, Ana6. Very nice post indeed.

What's going on? That is what Marvin Gaye wanted to know!

4 Non Blondes also wanted to know What's Up too; thus, got to feeling a little peculiar, so screamed from the top of the lungs... What's going on?

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dayzeeme 52F
6990 posts
8/14/2016 8:26 pm

what a great post!


prem8623 42M
56 posts
8/14/2016 9:35 pm

absolulti right every one should respect each other


NaughtyInSO 109F
9757 posts
8/14/2016 10:18 pm

This is a wonderful, well written and well meant, RESPECTFUL post.

I try to be always polite even with nastiest commenters, but there are times when my patience gets exhausted and I just block them.

That despicable business with "petition" and recent "beauty contest" should not be allowed here. Bullies and bigots should not be allowed here.

Recent events that created such a turmoil made my blood boil and I posted my frustrations on my blog. I didn't call anyone names, didn't spew out insults. I simply expressed my opinion about bullying and bigotry that ignited the war in Blogland. Perhaps, I shouldn't have done that but... it was impossible for me to stay quiet.

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8/15/2016 12:46 am

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8/15/2016 1:56 am

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8/15/2016 2:47 am

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txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/15/2016 3:29 am

it was a excellant blog... an you mentioned that she did break the rules, its not the 1st time... so what happens to her..yet another warning?


wd40w 67M
6978 posts
8/15/2016 4:59 am

The petition...Never should have passed the inspection process...Period...

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japaneseass 53F  
49680 posts
8/15/2016 5:07 am

i am so agree with you. there is no respect among the blogs lately.

it's too sad that the site is allowing this bullshit to continue, where a blogger can stay on this site, way after the one's multiple offenses. i am not taking any side, but speaking the fact here.

i am just so turned off by this recent incident so much to the point, i don't feel like blogging any more.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 6:46 am

Thank you so Much for visiting , reading and Posting.

Have a great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 6:57 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    it was a excellant blog... an you mentioned that she did break the rules, its not the 1st time... so what happens to her..yet another warning?
Hello TX,

Thank you for posting. I know there will be some decisions about this process made and I am certain past indiscretions will be mentioned..This is in the hands of the abuse dept and they will handle this properly. I am sure we will know something very soon. I have faith in the people handling this decision.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 7:02 am

    Quoting wd40w:
    The petition...Never should have passed the inspection process...Period...
WD,

Hello My Friend I agree with you 100 % about the petition. Nothing like that should ever have been allowed or posted. Hopefully from the point forward, nothing like that obscenity will ever be posted again,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 7:12 am

    Quoting japaneseass:
    i am so agree with you. there is no respect among the blogs lately.

    it's too sad that the site is allowing this bullshit to continue, where a blogger can stay on this site, way after the one's multiple offenses. i am not taking any side, but speaking the fact here.

    i am just so turned off by this recent incident so much to the point, i don't feel like blogging any more.
Hello,

Thank you My Friend for stopping by and sharing, I know you are not taking sides and yes, after multiple offenses a member should be removed. I promise you the site did not approve of the petition or its cruelty. The Blogger did not have any backing from anyone associated with the site.

Don't give up on your excellent blog. When the good bloggers fold up their keyboards then the bad guys win. I do not like to let the bad guys win..I want to see all bloggers come together and create a place of peace, freedom and tolerance for all.

Hugs & Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 7:16 am

Hello Darlings,

1st full day of this post and not one single abusive posts in reply I apologize for being late in approving all your wonderful replies. Family issues kept me hopping all Sun night. I will add my replies to your prose as soon as I can,

Thank you all for the support, the xoxo and Love. I owe you all so much and I promise you NONE of Us are giving up.

xoxo,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/15/2016 7:24 am

PS: I forgot to Thank everyone who wants to share this post..Please feel free to share it. I really appreciate your kind words & thoughtful comments. I will make sure Andrew knows too.

xoxo & Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/15/2016 8:30 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Hi Ana. Very nice post. I LOVE IT. This like this is what Makes this place so interesting. that we have good people all over. NOT all of us are jealous, Bad, Selfish, Self centered or Attention hungry people. Hopefully one day we all will understand the meaning of the blogs. that this is for fun and to meet new friends or lovers. the opportunity is there for us. and that is what it should be about. to bring people together. Everyone is entitled to talk to whoever they want. No one in here should be own. to not disrespect them for choosing who they want to talk to or be friends with. I also hope for the day when Gender Marker is Respected by Others, and that when someone claims or says who they are. No one in here should question their gender marker. or make fun out it. because that is very disrespectful to people that have work and fought hard in life to be who they are. Then to come to a website of this nature, out of places. and be judged, persecuted and bully. I agreed. That Petition was create it with HATE and For Personal Gain. And it was a hard slap on the face for the LGBTQ community. It also hurt a lot of other people that one way or another have relatives going or battling gender disorder. The whole things was just WRONG. And even more appalling to see how some Bloggers where going for it and signing that thing. Just to be on the side of the disturb person that create it. Very painful to see that. But more painful to see how people that were against it were denied of their saying. deleting their comments and blocking them to manipulate the results. everything was just wrong. the whole thing was a SICK joke and nightmare for a lot of us that had to see that each day for almost a whole Month before I was taking down by the site. It was a clear You are not welcome message to the LGBTQ community and especially directed to the Transgender Community. I really hope nothing of that nature will ever happen or be tolerated in here. nothing what so ever. I hope the site will have the right people on place at ALL times to put an stop to those abusers.

    It is also important to note that the "Petition" was just an small part of it. I personally suffer Of Persecution, Bashing. Bullying, Gossip, Name calling. and Abuse For Over 3 Long Months. She would make her personal posts about me and my gender. Who I was or not was. Why men should not interact with me or like me. Etc etc. Also going to any post random posts of men, that had nothing to do with me. and abruptly start talking about me to them. on post that they had that had nothing to do with gender or me. she was trying to fit her agenda everywhere and however she could. it didn't matter if she was ruin other people posts. She was entitled to do all that. she didn't care. it was all about what she wanted. No one else. And I have to see those nasty comments day after day. for over 3 months. It was equally painful to see how some others will just look to the other way and leave everything at drama. Yes. to them was all drama. But here is the catch Ana. It was drama when I was trying to bring the problem to light. but it was never drama on her post or what she was saying and doing. Because they were sure commenting there agreeing with her or simply commenting on her nasty posts. Then have the nerve to call it drama when someone else would post against it. They were either: Hypocrites. Scare of her. Maybe they like her nasty ways. Maybe they are made same as her. Or Maybe they were scared to not see her very rare few butt pictures of her. If they say something. you know, cause those pics are like gems. you can't find them too often.

    I Personally think the BEST apology the site could give to all the affected members. will be to removed/suspended the abuser(s). That right there will be the BEST apology. Because it will help others to forget not having to see the abuser(s) each day. And it will send a very STRONG and CLEAR message out there to others. That is what I personally would want or like to see. And I am sure that a lot of the affected members are hoping for that as well. That will be the best vindication and Apology from the site.

    Ana. I truly love this. I am so so glad that the site is working to patch things up with all members. It is also very comforting to see that the site was NOT approving that Petition or behavior. Things went thru the cracks. that is all. but it was NOT approved by the site itself.

    Ana. I am also asking for your PERMISSION to Pimp this post with some friends, other bloggers and people that were totally against all that abuse that was going on. I want them to see it. That way they know that all the fighting effort was worth it. Thank you for the post. It was so nice to finally read something like this. there is always light at the end of the tunnel. and there is always good people out there that protects and defend others from the evil or the wrong. I know that first hand. because I got all that in here. I am in DEBT with so so many wonderful bloggers that reach out and gave me a comforting arm around me. so many of them posting against that. talking how bad it was. when no one else was talking about it. Elastic heart, Kzoos, Resident Bitch. Buni, KitKat. Myelin, Pandora, Rich Walker, KtMnDu, Katie Prevar, Countessmelville, Missy. And many others that I don't remember at this minute. those were the ones to QUICKLY POST and were openly against it. I myself posted about as soon as I saw it. yes. right as I saw it. but I did it on my own way because I knew that was very personal to me in many ways. After all was done and over. I saw the kindness of so many wonderful people, that is when I knew there was more fair honest people in here. than the hurtful, bad bullies people. Also note. That a lot of people sign that thing because they don't know what was the motive behind me. they were practically manipulated to do it. and they fail to check the true motives behind it. I don't blame them. they didn't know that they were dealing with an evil sick person. I have no hard feelings against them. some of them have even come over to my blog saying Sorry. and apologizing for it. admitting that they sign it because they didn't know what was going on. that they got talk in to doing it. that the person told them a very different story by private emails. I have proof of that on my blogs. where some has openly say that. Of course, She never told them the true motives behind it. that everything was for personal gain. that it was all her own, selfish, jealous, sick agenda.

    I will never stop saying Thank you to Everyone who one way or another took the time to speak against the cruelty that was going on. I am in debt with so so many bloggers. that is why I am back. to show them and prove them that their effort was not in vane. that good things are coming out of it. and that I personally will never let them down. I have some good positive surprises coming down their way. to just give me time. and they will see the beautiful things happening even outside from this site. just because of them. They are the ones who deserved all the credit. cause nothing of this would had been possible if they didn't fight it. They stood the ground and didn't moved. tenacious, incorruptible advocates in all this. I will Thank them and remember them til the day I die. Including those bloggers like Terranova and others that even broke ties with her over that. and became strong shoulders of help and comfort to rely on. In a way all that was need it. cause it sure left people's true colors on the open for all to see.

    Also note that a lot of good bloggers like Terranova (That were her very close friends/supporters before all that happen) and others left. because they couldn't admit being on a site that all that was going. seeing the abuser going on day after day not getting stop. many people were left feeling impotent and they choose to leave the site, because they did not wanted to be a part of the injustice that was going on. thru some other bloggers. I been able to have contact with them outside from here. and are talking to some of them in to coming back to the site. They left after I took time off from here to work on things with out being hurt/abuse every day. I was never running. but they didn't know that. I need it to get out of the fire line in order to concentrate on find the proper channels for help. IN and Outside from here.

    I am so sorry for the long post. my apologies. but there is so much that I would want people to understand and see. that I have to take the opportunity to do it each day. so that we never forget what happen in here or just sweep it under the rug like nothing. think twice in the future before calling it or leave a drama. sometimes. when someone cries for help. is because something bad is going on. is because something is hurting them. stop to look at it. pay attention. And if you wish to not get involved. then don't do it. but that meas on BOTH sides. Be fair.
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kzoopair 69M/67F
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8/15/2016 8:38 am

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    Thanks for your post. I personally think the list should not exist and it would be more peaceful in blogland. So many blogs are overlooked and truth be told they are the ones that tend to be the most creative. By them not being acknowledgement over silly numbers is a shame. The glitches on the blogs are frustrating. Comments do not go through. People are not held accountable for their actions when they do break TOU's. Which in eyes makes the site just as guilty for allowing this lack of respect and bullying to happen. I am not trying to be rude and I do appreciate all your help and supporting this cause I just frustrated that this is STILL a issue to begin with. Once again thank you for the post and I will support you anyway I can Happy Day To Ya
You already know I agree with you, Hot. goodatpoetry2 has a very good alternative to the current list that I think might work very well.

You're a much loved and well respected blogger here. Your comment will reach a lot of members, and help them to make the right decision.

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nicelipss66 44F
23707 posts
8/15/2016 10:19 am

    Quoting whatfun36:
    Thank you for this post. You don't need to post my comment. I somehow missed being deceived by that person and signed that petition. After nl came back I did apologize to her and wrote my own post about not to be a jackass. The incident has left me a bit less willing to comment on much of anything.
    Thanks again for this post.
Thank you. As I said yo you before. you have nothing to feel bad about it. you got work on signing that thing. that is what she was doing. pushing people to sign. Sometimes we do things not knowing better. maybe you tho that was the right thing to do at that time. wherever it is. I have no hard feelings tours you or anyone that sign it. because nothing of that would/should had happen. with out the creation of that petition. I also appreciate and admired the fact that when you found out that it was all personal and about me. You came forward. you came clean and Apologized. I appreciate that. but it was not even necessary. I hold nothing against anyone that sign it. I sent you a friend request. lets be friends, patch things up and move on. you are more than welcome to my blog, email or profile. Please don't feel bad or guilty. someone else should be the one feeling that way. NOT You.

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spunkycumfun 60M/65F  
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8/15/2016 10:51 am

Very well said!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6803 posts
8/15/2016 11:29 am

Thank you for this articulate and insightful post.
If someone so blatantly and consistently breaks the TOUs , they should be banned for life. The individual doesn't pay to be on here so there's no lost revenue for the site except for the men who pay to drool at their pics. With the worldwide membership, surely it wouldn't hit the site's bottom line enough to make a difference


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wickedeasy 70F  
32407 posts
8/15/2016 11:39 am

great post.

i've often wondered if the total number of comments is counted including the replies by the blogger. if so, some bloggers choose to hit the respond and others to cut and then respond which is another comment... seems a bit unfair in the counting end of things.

i have no turf in this battle so just an aside.

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wickedeasy 70F  
32407 posts
8/15/2016 11:42 am

excuse me.......

i should say that anyone who cannot respect the LBGTQ community needs to take a step back and consider why they are on a site that considers itself open and unrestricted.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


author51 57F  
99479 posts
8/15/2016 12:09 pm

I bow down to you.That was Brilliant.I am not one to jump into the thick of things unless I am questioned about my intelligence or called out for a mere spelling mistake or when I have close male friends and other bloggers emailing me in my inbox of what some High school drama Queens are sending them and telling them not to post nor watch my blog which was done over 6 months ago because I was climbing up the stupid list of watched bloggers. Un God Damn believable.. I wrote a blog about it and boy did her minions come out in full force.Brain washed as she spewed filth and lies due to insecurity.I feel sorry for those that can not handle competition of any kind.. Thank you for posting this....

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iwalkstilts 45M  
2859 posts
8/15/2016 12:23 pm

Thank you.


sexysixties2 72F  
39002 posts
8/15/2016 1:44 pm

I have been missing for a few days and on my return I found so many on my watched list were pimping this post....I can see why. It is a great post and I have to thank you for it. There is no need for any of us to be disrespectful here and going back over the years it seems as if it is that "LIST" that has caused most of the drama and nastiness. I know we tried to get rid of it when EN was top blogger. Perhaps now the site will see that it is time to showcase the blogs in some way without the competitive aspect....then those members who bash others in their attempt to reach the top spot won't have any reason to behave so badly.

Thank you again.


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sweet_VM 62F
81036 posts
8/15/2016 2:31 pm

Great to see you back blogging again! Well said!!!! hugssssssssssss V

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buxombbw4u 52F
16078 posts
8/15/2016 3:07 pm

I've been a member here since 2003. I've been blogging since... I think 2005, maybe? I've watched "blog wars" come and go, along with some wonderful bloggers who just gave up after being the victims of bullying. I generally stay in my little corner of the site and ignore most of what is going on. I do notice, however, that an awful lot of drama has had the same source.

That said, I have never seen anything quite so egregious as what happened recently. The whole situation was disgusting, and I still can't quite believe that it went on so long, and with no consequences for the instigator(s).

Thank you for taking note, and hopefully putting an end to this behavior, at least in this particular instance.

BTW, by now you may realize that there have been several attempts to change "The List". Good luck and remember that you are never going to please everyone with that.

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Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
8/15/2016 3:37 pm

I find the subject matter good, as that you're trying to promote universal respect, but your meme, "Be a real man and respect women", goes against the TOU, [Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to: (a) .., harassing ,..or otherwise objectionable]

The meme does not unify, but promotes clear division, contrary to your message.

If a man posted a meme stating, "Be a real woman and respect men", you think women would be good with that? I don't.


citizen4722 62M  
67974 posts
8/15/2016 4:32 pm



The blogs shouldn't be about numbers on a list. They should be read without the need to leave derogatory words.
Respect, in other words.


ProfPlayful 56M
3860 posts
8/15/2016 8:59 pm

Thank you for being on the side of good, Ana!

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azriel1970 50M

8/16/2016 4:53 am

I have not a thing to add. Excellent post!!!!!


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/16/2016 5:57 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I find the subject matter good, as that you're trying to promote universal respect, but your meme, "Be a real man and respect women", goes against the TOU, [Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to: (a) .., harassing ,..or otherwise objectionable]

    The meme does not unify, but promotes clear division, contrary to your message.

    If a man posted a meme stating, "Be a real woman and respect men", you think women would be good with that? I don't.
Hello Heathen,

Thank you for adding your thoughts to this conversation on Respect. The reason I chose that meme was because of the large number of men who abused and stalked a member here at the request of a female blogger. Yes, women should respect men too...but the abuse this member suffered through was truly obscene and disgusting. Hence the reason I chose that meme. More women have reported male members causing them no end of grief. Think of how wonderful it would be if all members treated each other with respect. The meme was obviously directed at the men of the site who are treating women with no respect.

Have a Great Tues,

Ana6

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/16/2016 7:19 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    Here's a thought. I've said this many times before but I'm going to try again.
    If you like this idea, maybe you can suggest it to Site.

    We know that the Site will never get rid of the List. They like it there for newbies to see.
    Also, they want the best blogs to show there ( who THEY consider the best, either by unique responders or responses )

    How about we randomly rotate the list with only THOSE blogs?

    For example... the people that they have on the list right now would stay the same. But every time you re-opened the blog home page, those same names would be in a different random order.
    This would make no one #1. But the Site would still have THEIR idea of who is best showing on the list.

    There'd be no reason for harassing, behind the scenes trickery, none of that. Why bother? No one is #1.

    I really think if they did that it would get rid of most of the negativity that we see here way too often.

    They already have the capability (coding) to do this. They do that with the three " Some Actively Watched Blogs " pictures on the top off the blog home page.

    It's a good and fair idea.
    They're never going to get rid of that list for business purposes and they want the best (their picks) to show there.
    This lets them have what they want but stops all the negativity in the blogs.
Hello Good,

Happy Tues. Thank you for this brilliant idea/post. I like your idea for the way the blog list should be handled and I will suggest it to management. I would love to see an end to the negativity but with humans and our emotions like jealousy, we may slow it down, we may ban/delete members but humans being humans, there will always be some negativity in the shadows. It is up to all of Us in how we deal with that.

Thank you so much for your great idea,

Hugs,

Ana6

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/16/2016 7:31 am

Hello

Thank you for taking the time to stop by, read and share your feelings.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/16/2016 7:33 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Awesome post and very much needed- thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hello Pocogato,

You're welcome Thank you for stopping by and sharing your feelings. I've enjoyed reading your posts on the other blogs that brought light to this situation and helped rectify the problem/issue.

Happy Tues Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/16/2016 7:37 am

    Quoting rachel0718:
    Spectacular post! I appreciate the time you took to put it together. Classy act on your part and I hope others read this and will be more considerate and respectful to ALL on this site.

    You put this tangled mess that it out there and explained it perfectly.

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Hello Rachel,

Thank you for your very kind words. I really appreciate it very much. I am hoping that the more the blogging world here is clearly heard and listened to that we can defeat the jealousy, abuse, bullying tactics that some bloggers have resorted to.

Happy Tues Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


pandora684 50F
2092 posts
8/16/2016 2:18 pm

Respect and kindness are free and should be spread around liberally. Thank you for posting this.


Annie_34 61T
5945 posts
8/17/2016 12:21 am

Bonjour Anastasia
Dans le monde actuel le respect devrait être la plus grande valeur
Merci de ci bien le dire
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Hello Anastasia
In today's world the respect should be the largest value
Thank you tell it well
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Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/17/2016 12:52 am

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    excuse me.......

    i should say that anyone who cannot respect the LBGTQ community needs to take a step back and consider why they are on a site that considers itself open and unrestricted.
Absolutely.....I don't get it either....but we all know WHY THIS Site....able to post nude pics.....
Not all of us need to do that to MEET......folks meet us based on our PERSONALITY....which I'm fairly sure, has nothing to do with nude pics....


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Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/17/2016 12:58 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Hello RB,

    Thank you for finding this blog post. I promised Andrew it would be about respect and it was. I think all of us have lost our temper here and possibly even rude to one another...BUT never with the malicious intent that petition had. An employee once asked us all if we ever felt embarrassed about being a member of this site and was it something we hid...I have never been embarrassed until that hateful petition reared its ugly head. I agree with you about our general membership. We have the BEST members & employees and I've been lucky/blessed to have them in my life. I am determined that this site will survive in spite of the evil efforts of a tiny group of bullies. Yes, I said it. There is no better word for them then that one. Feel free to share this blog and let us all take a stand for those who were injured, insulted and hurt. Let's make sure it never happens again.

    Hugs & Thanks,

    Ana6
I have no issue about folks knowing I am on this Site.....I've nothing to be ashamed of either

Since I got the promotion to 'Resident Bitch'....I've been very proud of the title, and have told a few folks offline.....we have a good laugh because I'm genuinely not a Bitch.....clearly only folks who Bully me, think that.....
We can all have disagreements with folks on this Site....but to complain about the letter on someone's profile, for so long.....REALLY....

Happy Wednesday Ana



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Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/17/2016 1:03 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Hello Heathen,

    Thank you for adding your thoughts to this conversation on Respect. The reason I chose that meme was because of the large number of men who abused and stalked a member here at the request of a female blogger. Yes, women should respect men too...but the abuse this member suffered through was truly obscene and disgusting. Hence the reason I chose that meme. More women have reported male members causing them no end of grief. Think of how wonderful it would be if all members treated each other with respect. The meme was obviously directed at the men of the site who are treating women with no respect.

    Have a Great Tues,

    Ana6
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spankandsquirt20 41F
10332 posts
8/17/2016 4:43 am

Thank you for writing this. Most excellently written.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 5:26 am

Hello My Friends,

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts & opinions. I am stunned at how generous you've all been with your time & hearts. For years I've been saying we have the BEST members here and Our Bloggers are amazing & brilliant. Thank you for proving me right.

I am going to work my way from page 1 to this page and reply to all the comments. ( Thanks again ) I will say there were 3 comments that won't be posted but I did email each of those 3 members and explained why. I hope they'll understand.

This Blog Post is about Respect & we do not want any negativity towards members . I understand every member is entitled to their opinion but I did say in my post that I was approving posts so members do not write negative things & attack other members. If the 3 members feel very strong about their posts then may I encourage them to add them to their own blog .

Happy #WickedWed #PinkForRespect & XXOO,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:02 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    I have a question. Seeing that you mentioned the TOU's, I wonder if you could elaborate on them a bit. IF you want.

    You said... " Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
    (a) upload, post, EMAIL, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable. "

    But what if that happens? What do you do about it?

    IF... person #1 sends a E-mail with content that is against the TOU's, to person #2... ABOUT person #3...... can person #1 send that information (on site) to person #3 ?
    If so, can it be sent in toto or must some parts be withheld? And which parts, if that's the case?
    If as you say, against the TOU's type E-mails aren't allowed, just what can be done about it, if no one can see it ?

    This seems to be a question that many have, but I've never seen a official answer.
Hello Good,

Happy Wed & Thank you for your post. To the best of my knowledge if you violate the TOU than you are banned for whatever time limit the site feels is appropriate. Continued offenses can and will get you banned for life.

I would need to clarify with our legal dept but I believe if you receive an email then it is yours to do with as you see fit. I would encourage you to not share any members phone or address with any other member unless you've been asked to do so by said member. If you believe the email is evidence of guilt on the part of the member or threats, you turn it into the abuse dept. I understand one of the Bloggers here has tried to say it is against the TOU to share her emails ...NO, it is against the TOU to publicize any members real name , photos, address...I do know several members received emails ordering them not to speak to a certain blogger here or defend her, visit her blogs, etc...Those emails are evidence of breaking the TOU and should be handed into the site..keeping the original in your email inbox. I hope this helps but I can talk to Legal and ask them to clarify it for Me.

Happy WED,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:10 am

    Quoting Katie_Prevar:
    .

    " I have spoken to Andrew ( Founder/CEO of this website ) about the recent " Petition " that caused so much agony, pain and anger. Yes the Petition violated our TOU..( and yes the blogger knew ) "

    As the Founder/CEO of this website, who has the 'final say' on everything, many of us see a gross inequity with his decision to allow "the blogger", who violated the TOU with that Petition, to have her profile and Blog re-instated after a one day banishment in early May of this year because it was her SECOND TOU violation!

    Yes, her profile and Blog had been 'banned' back in mid-October 2015 for 'bashing the site' over the change in the email policy for Standard members, but after she purportedly promised to never violate the TOU again, her profile and Blog were 'turned back on' within a week.

    The Petition AND her direct and continued harassment of that Blogger only warranted a one-day suspension??????

    As I said, many of us see that decision as a gross inequity on his part, whether he personally was involved with the decision or not, because he IS the Founder/CEO.

    .
Hello Katie,

Thank you for your post. I am not sure, I will need to ask him, but I do believe Andrew was not aware of the petition until I mentioned it to him and to a friend who removed it. He has been very upset about this situation and in fact in discussions with him regarding the blogger, suggested the word "respect" to me and employees about working on that so members never have to go through such abuse & bullying ever again. The site does have a very forgiving policy towards members and a mea culpa but in this case as I type this, that blogger is not on site as a member. Andrew wants to make sure nothing like this ever happens again.

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:20 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Thank you Ana! This is a much needed post. I agree with you and I'm really pleased that you've written it. We can be a depraved collection of perverts and still treat one another with decency and respect.

    I want to pimp your post too.
KZoo,

Happy Wed Thank you for stopping in & posting. Without you and all our other fabulous bloggers who brought attention to this post I am not sure where we'd be right now. I do know because of everyone & their caring, Nice came back and the horrible petition was removed. Please feel free to share this post. I would love to see our entire blogging community come together & share their thoughts on Respect & how we can do better.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:22 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    So good to see you blogging again Ana6. Such a great post. I have much respect for you lady!!
Dear Missy,

Thank you Darling. Glad to be writing again but only sorry it took the pain of a beloved member to get me here. Thank you for your lovely words.

Have an awesome Wed,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:27 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    Well said...now if only the one who actually NEEDS to read it...WILL read it.

    It's sad that some people have to be told to play nice.

    On a site with so many members...you could still have your "fans" and everyone else could have theirs too...there are more than enough friends for everyone.

    I never understood why she felt as if you were her friend...you couldn't be anyone else's

    It's not even high school antics...it's grade school.

    Great post.

    Smooches
Dear Bee,

Thank you so much for your post. I hope the members who signed that petition will see it, see how many people cared to stop such bullying and that whatever lies they were told to coerce them into mean behavior will step forward and apologize to Nice and set a new course on being a better member and happier blogger.

Thank you for agreeing with me about how Jr High this all seemed to become. We have amazing members here from all over the world..why fight over a top spot or who has more friends ? Why not embrace everyone and be grateful we have a site that we can meet such great people and have fun ?

Happy Wed Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/17/2016 6:33 am

thanks for making rules clearer.... i do have emails that show she did write people an put preasure on them to not view others.. in her cursade against 2 blogs if your interested


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/17/2016 6:42 am

    Quoting rob5ice2:
    Reference - "I am going to work on having the way blogs are listed on site overhauled. No more games or juggling the numbers or cheating."

    Good point. But got me thinking. Could this be a reflection of the world we live in. And a result when we create so many different labels, groups, sub groups, sub groups of groups. And so on.

    An example is education at higher institutions. Here we have standards that everyone has to 'supposedly' follow. But then nope...there is labels & groups and other such things that causes issues. Hence with all the competition. We wonder why people cheat or go around the system. When they see the system doing the same. And the rules can encourage at times.

    But I say...if you really look around in society. Sometimes in the process of trying to help. We create more sub division.

    --

    Having said that. I did find it interesting that you are taking about being respectful to different people and groups. And so forth.

    As you have a picture stating “Be A Real Man and Respect Women”.

    When a more appropriate picture to go with the subject would have been. “Be Respectful to Each Other” or something similar? Just my Opinion. We all have our clicks. So from another prospective. What you are implying is women are more important and deserve respect just because they are women. Men are not. Others are not.

    And respect is earned... Not given just because of gender or Sex, or so on. That in and of itself go against your premise here. In another post.. or subject... Symbolism has meaning. As much as words do.

    ----

    I like this one.... ‘Be Excellent to Each Other!’ and ‘Party On’....lol

    But great post. Hope you are having a good weekend.
Hello Rob,

Thank you for finding my blog & commenting on it. The reason I opened my blog with the REAL men respect woman meme is that REAL men do respect women and not abuse them. The blogger who was attacked here on site by a number of male " fans " of another blogger was NOT being respected b y those men..so I chose the meme to reflect that.

I have said WE all can do better & We all deserve to be respected. That is why the other images I chose are a reflection of respect for all.

I am not into sub divisions or putting people in one group or another. I asked for respect for all. Ignore the bloggers or members you do not like and simply leave them alone. That is all. Pretty simple to understand & follow. WE all have to follow the rules of polite society & this web site and the TOU.

How hard is it to just be kind ? Respect everyone's right to exist ?

Happy Wed & Thank you, I had an awesome weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 4:01 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Tyson,

Thank you Sir. That was a very lovely & generous compliment. I appreciate you taking the time to come read this blog and share your thoughts.

Happy Thurs Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 4:04 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    thanks for making rules clearer.... i do have emails that show she did write people an put preasure on them to not view others.. in her cursade against 2 blogs if your interested
Dear Tx,

Happy Thurs. I tried to do my best to make things clearer and was told today that I was right in what I said about those emails. Yes Sir, I would indeed like to see any email evidence that exists so I can turn it all in. I know how difficult this situation must be and I admire your courage in stepping forward.

Thank You so much for your Bravery,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/18/2016 5:12 am

so how do i get those emails into the rite persons hands that will actually read them an do something about it ... i see she was gone one day for another breaking of rules... how many one days does a person get??? You do know an understand what other members are saying about this dont you? how it looks? i do have one question, are you just a blogger or do you work for AdultFriendFinder in daily life an employed by the site?


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/18/2016 5:14 am

have you read my blogs ?


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:25 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Hi Ana. Very nice post. I LOVE IT. This like this is what Makes this place so interesting. that we have good people all over. NOT all of us are jealous, Bad, Selfish, Self centered or Attention hungry people. Hopefully one day we all will understand the meaning of the blogs. that this is for fun and to meet new friends or lovers. the opportunity is there for us. and that is what it should be about. to bring people together. Everyone is entitled to talk to whoever they want. No one in here should be own. to not disrespect them for choosing who they want to talk to or be friends with. I also hope for the day when Gender Marker is Respected by Others, and that when someone claims or says who they are. No one in here should question their gender marker. or make fun out it. because that is very disrespectful to people that have work and fought hard in life to be who they are. Then to come to a website of this nature, out of places. and be judged, persecuted and bully. I agreed. That Petition was create it with HATE and For Personal Gain. And it was a hard slap on the face for the LGBTQ community. It also hurt a lot of other people that one way or another have relatives going or battling gender disorder. The whole things was just WRONG. And even more appalling to see how some Bloggers where going for it and signing that thing. Just to be on the side of the disturb person that create it. Very painful to see that. But more painful to see how people that were against it were denied of their saying. deleting their comments and blocking them to manipulate the results. everything was just wrong. the whole thing was a SICK joke and nightmare for a lot of us that had to see that each day for almost a whole Month before I was taking down by the site. It was a clear You are not welcome message to the LGBTQ community and especially directed to the Transgender Community. I really hope nothing of that nature will ever happen or be tolerated in here. nothing what so ever. I hope the site will have the right people on place at ALL times to put an stop to those abusers.

    It is also important to note that the "Petition" was just an small part of it. I personally suffer Of Persecution, Bashing. Bullying, Gossip, Name calling. and Abuse For Over 3 Long Months. She would make her personal posts about me and my gender. Who I was or not was. Why men should not interact with me or like me. Etc etc. Also going to any post random posts of men, that had nothing to do with me. and abruptly start talking about me to them. on post that they had that had nothing to do with gender or me. she was trying to fit her agenda everywhere and however she could. it didn't matter if she was ruin other people posts. She was entitled to do all that. she didn't care. it was all about what she wanted. No one else. And I have to see those nasty comments day after day. for over 3 months. It was equally painful to see how some others will just look to the other way and leave everything at drama. Yes. to them was all drama. But here is the catch Ana. It was drama when I was trying to bring the problem to light. but it was never drama on her post or what she was saying and doing. Because they were sure commenting there agreeing with her or simply commenting on her nasty posts. Then have the nerve to call it drama when someone else would post against it. They were either: Hypocrites. Scare of her. Maybe they like her nasty ways. Maybe they are made same as her. Or Maybe they were scared to not see her very rare few butt pictures of her. If they say something. you know, cause those pics are like gems. you can't find them too often.

    I Personally think the BEST apology the site could give to all the affected members. will be to removed/suspended the abuser(s). That right there will be the BEST apology. Because it will help others to forget not having to see the abuser(s) each day. And it will send a very STRONG and CLEAR message out there to others. That is what I personally would want or like to see. And I am sure that a lot of the affected members are hoping for that as well. That will be the best vindication and Apology from the site.

    Ana. I truly love this. I am so so glad that the site is working to patch things up with all members. It is also very comforting to see that the site was NOT approving that Petition or behavior. Things went thru the cracks. that is all. but it was NOT approved by the site itself.

    Ana. I am also asking for your PERMISSION to Pimp this post with some friends, other bloggers and people that were totally against all that abuse that was going on. I want them to see it. That way they know that all the fighting effort was worth it. Thank you for the post. It was so nice to finally read something like this. there is always light at the end of the tunnel. and there is always good people out there that protects and defend others from the evil or the wrong. I know that first hand. because I got all that in here. I am in DEBT with so so many wonderful bloggers that reach out and gave me a comforting arm around me. so many of them posting against that. talking how bad it was. when no one else was talking about it. Elastic heart, Kzoos, Resident Bitch. Buni, KitKat. Myelin, Pandora, Rich Walker, KtMnDu, Katie Prevar, Countessmelville, Missy. And many others that I don't remember at this minute. those were the ones to QUICKLY POST and were openly against it. I myself posted about as soon as I saw it. yes. right as I saw it. but I did it on my own way because I knew that was very personal to me in many ways. After all was done and over. I saw the kindness of so many wonderful people, that is when I knew there was more fair honest people in here. than the hurtful, bad bullies people. Also note. That a lot of people sign that thing because they don't know what was the motive behind me. they were practically manipulated to do it. and they fail to check the true motives behind it. I don't blame them. they didn't know that they were dealing with an evil sick person. I have no hard feelings against them. some of them have even come over to my blog saying Sorry. and apologizing for it. admitting that they sign it because they didn't know what was going on. that they got talk in to doing it. that the person told them a very different story by private emails. I have proof of that on my blogs. where some has openly say that. Of course, She never told them the true motives behind it. that everything was for personal gain. that it was all her own, selfish, jealous, sick agenda.

    I will never stop saying Thank you to Everyone who one way or another took the time to speak against the cruelty that was going on. I am in debt with so so many bloggers. that is why I am back. to show them and prove them that their effort was not in vane. that good things are coming out of it. and that I personally will never let them down. I have some good positive surprises coming down their way. to just give me time. and they will see the beautiful things happening even outside from this site. just because of them. They are the ones who deserved all the credit. cause nothing of this would had been possible if they didn't fight it. They stood the ground and didn't moved. tenacious, incorruptible advocates in all this. I will Thank them and remember them til the day I die. Including those bloggers like Terranova and others that even broke ties with her over that. and became strong shoulders of help and comfort to rely on. In a way all that was need it. cause it sure left people's true colors on the open for all to see.

    Also note that a lot of good bloggers like Terranova (That were her very close friends/supporters before all that happen) and others left. because they couldn't admit being on a site that all that was going. seeing the abuser going on day after day not getting stop. many people were left feeling impotent and they choose to leave the site, because they did not wanted to be a part of the injustice that was going on. thru some other bloggers. I been able to have contact with them outside from here. and are talking to some of them in to coming back to the site. They left after I took time off from here to work on things with out being hurt/abuse every day. I was never running. but they didn't know that. I need it to get out of the fire line in order to concentrate on find the proper channels for help. IN and Outside from here.

    I am so sorry for the long post. my apologies. but there is so much that I would want people to understand and see. that I have to take the opportunity to do it each day. so that we never forget what happen in here or just sweep it under the rug like nothing. think twice in the future before calling it or leave a drama. sometimes. when someone cries for help. is because something bad is going on. is because something is hurting them. stop to look at it. pay attention. And if you wish to not get involved. then don't do it. but that meas on BOTH sides. Be fair.
Dear Nice,

Hello & Happy Wed. Thank you for taking the time to share your story of the obscene abuse you had to suffer through because you are YOU and you are Popular and so a Target to the other blogger and her abusive male co horts.

Your speaking and sharing the truth of what it was like to be you and your gratitude to one and all who stood with you and helped is wonderful. Never apologize for using all your heart & words. You've explained it better then I could.

WE Can do better and WE can Never sit back and tolerate such abuse against you or any member ever again. I think even when we re go that blog list there is still going to be jealousy and rage. It is up to all of US to stand up and say NO MORE.

Happy Thurs Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:28 am

    Quoting Katie_Prevar:
    .

    CORRECTION: Her second TOU violations and one-day 'ban' for the Petition and continued harassment of that Blogger occurred in early June of this year.

    .
Katie,

Happy Thurs & Thank you for pointing out the ban, petition and the harassment that did in fact continue and when.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:29 am

Dear Laxgeek,

Thank you for your kind words & for visiting my blog & posting.

Thanks for being One of the Good Guys

Happy Thurs Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:31 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    There IS a place for all of us here. And it has to be safe for all of us.
Kzoo,

Thank you for your brilliant words & how hard you fought for the right reasons and people in need.

If they attack one member, then they are attacking Us all.

Happy Thurs Hugs,

Ana6

#Respect #AllForOneAndOneForAll

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:36 am

    Quoting cdva1:
    My mom once gave me some very good advice. If you don't have something nice to say to someone than it is best not to say anything all. I still try to follow it today.
Dear CDVA1,

Hello & Welcome to my Blog. Thank you for sharing the wonderful quote from your Brilliant Mom. You hit on the essence of what I was saying about members who do not like one another leaving each other alone..There are a lot of great members here who are smart enough to be able to read more then one blog, like more then one blog, comment on more then one blog and ..AND be a fan of more then one blogger.

Happy Thurs Hugs,

Ana6

#Respect #NoMoreHate

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:42 am

Hello Muff,

Happy Thurs Thank you for your Bravo & Kind words. Thank you for discovering my blog and joining us in the blogger uniting adventure.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:44 am

Hello Pagan,

Happy Thurs Thank you for coming here, for the hugs and kind words.

Thank you for caring enough to seek my blog and this post out.

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:53 am

    Quoting MrRareity:
    Good post Ana! We all have bad days and have done things we have regretted. But when we continue to keep on then I don't consider them to be mistakes, but they are out to hurt someone. I have seen this being a member for a number you years. It's amazing how just one person can generate enough negative energy that others pick up on it and run with it. It is sad that the site doesn't do more to stop this. About 8 yrs ago this happened and it finally reached the AdultFriendFinder legal department. They did put a stop to it because the site could of gotten into trouble.

    What is sad is were all here to have fun, make new friends, and maybe find that one person we fall in love with. If we read something we don't like or we disagree with then there is no reason as adults we can't either say nothing, or try to say what we want to with respect. Maybe, the site should change the agreement we all sign when become members should change.

    Again, good post Ana,
    John
Hello Mr Rarity,

Happy Thurs. Thank you for posting and sharing your thoughts & concerns. You said it perfectly..The negative energy breeds more Bad karma, members leave, friendships broken and all of this so someone can be Number 1 ?? I have heard the horror stories about the former blog war. Thankfully that member was removed and the site improved for the better.

Thank you so much for helping me promote the stand of "If you do not like someone or disagree with them then ignore them ." Treat everyone with Respect and leave the drama to soap operas on TV. This is an adult website and members need to ask themselves why are they here ? To attack members or make friends and connections that they can benefit from ?

May I respectfully say... ..I think your profile photo is one of the best I've ever seen. I am sure you here that often but you have not heard it from Me.

Thank you John,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 6:58 am

Missy,

Thank you for asking hon. Of course you can I hope everyone will share it, contribute their thoughts and Uniting the Blogging community for Good and not Bad.

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 7:03 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    so how do i get those emails into the rite persons hands that will actually read them an do something about it ... i see she was gone one day for another breaking of rules... how many one days does a person get??? You do know an understand what other members are saying about this dont you? how it looks? i do have one question, are you just a blogger or do you work for AdultFriendFinder in daily life an employed by the site?
Hello Tx,

I feel the same frustration and confusion. This issue is not settled and is currently being worked on. I can not say more then that at this time. You can either send the blogs to me and I hand them to the people working on this case or you can send copies to the abuse dept yourself. Keep the copies in your inbox and any future replies from the blogger. Yes, I have been dealing with emails for most of the night over the issue. I volunteer to lend a hand to help members and employees. Andrew Our Founder/CEO of this site is a friend of mine.

Happy Thurs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 7:04 am

Hello TX,

Yes I noticed your blog and have some of your posts on my watched post list.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 7:08 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Very well stated blog everyone should read and agree to this..
Hello TMPtrzz,

Happy Thurs Thank you so much for your comment & reading this blog post. I keep repeating myself but I truly do believe if our blogging community unites to stop this kind of abuse and intolerance ..Then we can be a healthy, happier blogging community filled with amazing creative members.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 7:12 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Ready,

Happy Thurs. Thank you for your great post. I am very proud of you for standing up, seeing that your comments hurt others and apologizing for what happened. I love that those you wounded treated you with respect, forgiveness and kindness. What a great example of what doing the right thing can achieve.

I will mention to Site Support the issue with the mobile users and viewing blog problems.

Have a Great day,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/18/2016 7:16 am

    Quoting bamaman359:
    Men need to respect women, women hold all the cards
Hello Bam,

Happy Thurs and Thank you for your post. I truly believe ALL of Us should respect each other equally. I always have said REAL Men Respect Women and REAL Women respect ALL Women & Men.

Imagine how wonderful Our site & world would be if All of Us could live like that & respect each other & our beliefs.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/18/2016 7:39 am

i didnt see a answer to my questions i asked today... can you email me?


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 2:45 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i didnt see a answer to my questions i asked today... can you email me?
Hello TX,

I did reply to both of your posts this morning as soon as I saw them..sorry you did not see them.

In one you asked me if I saw your blog and I said yes. Then you asked me about those emails and I wrote this..

Hello Tx,

I feel the same frustration and confusion. This issue is not settled and is currently being worked on. I can not say more then that at this time. You can either send the blogs to me and I hand them to the people working on this case or you can send copies to the abuse dept yourself. Keep the copies in your inbox and any future replies from the blogger. Yes, I have been dealing with emails for most of the night over the issue. I volunteer to lend a hand to help members and employees. Andrew Our Founder/CEO of this site is a friend of mine.

Happy Thurs,

Ana6

PLEASE do send the emails. If not to me then to the abuse dept and PLEASE keep all evidence.

Happy Weekend

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 4:13 am

    Quoting tommy609z:
    Thank you ana---- well said and I will try, but if i see bullying, i will try to keep calm and help who is being bullied.
Dear Tommy,

Happy weekend Thank you so much for your post. Bullying is such a horrible thing to be involved with or witness it happening to yourself or friends. This is why the Bloggers here have stood up and said ENOUGH.

Please if you see Bullying, report it ..If someone asks you to bully someone, say NO and report it..If you see someone being bullied, step UP, support them and become a wall they can lean and protect them.

Happy weekend Hugs,

Ana6

#AllForOneAndOneForAll

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/19/2016 4:51 am

i asked if you read , only to see her comments an lies... an telling me not to send emails because of rules.. an my challenges i put to her that she hasnt replied to, has to show she lied , in my thinking... i am not comfortable in sending emails to another blogger so if AdultFriendFinder is still working on anything an you being a friend of andrew, you could tell him he could contact me.... didnt i read that less than a year ago you were working to get sandra an her pics back on here???


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 5:43 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Oldtar,

Happy weekend. Thank you for sharing your opinions. I agree with you ..take people as they are and do not discriminate. It's all about respecting people and not judging. Thank you for stopping by my blog.

Have a Great Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 5:59 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i asked if you read , only to see her comments an lies... an telling me not to send emails because of rules.. an my challenges i put to her that she hasnt replied to, has to show she lied , in my thinking... i am not comfortable in sending emails to another blogger so if AdultFriendFinder is still working on anything an you being a friend of andrew, you could tell him he could contact me.... didnt i read that less than a year ago you were working to get sandra an her pics back on here???
Hello TX,

Happy weekend. Yes, I have seen her comments on blogs about this issue and on yours too. I did talk with the site and the only rule is to NOT post any real names, addresses, emails or phone numbers in public. Once the email is sent to you it is yours to do with as you see fit.

We are asking everyone to save whatever evidence you have and to send a copy into the site. I have asked someone here at HQ to email you about this issue & the emails you have mentioned on your blog and mine.

I do not know what or where you read something about me but yes, over the years I have done my best to help all members here when an issue or problem with their account crops up. I did help another member last year who lost her profile when she said something about a problem member being deleted from here. (and it was nothing bad or wrong she just mentioned the member during a difficult time on the site ) I did see the blogger you named missing from the blogs and asked about it. I did send her a message about following the rules on site and to remove the blog in question which seemed to be encouraging members to do things to get around the site's new email policy. . I never heard from her again after that. I was simply trying to help members who fell into an abyss with the site. I promised Andrew I'd do whatever it takes to help us stop the member loss. Right or wrong this was done last year.

I hope you will be hearing from the site by email soon. Please do not delete the evidence in either your account here or private email. Maybe you can send a copy of your evidence to the abuse dept ?

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 6:11 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I love how well written this is and forthright.
    Thank you! This is what we have been wanting the site to say to those of us who felt that the blog post in question was not only in bad taste but disrespectful of a whole group of people.
    With your permission, I would also like to pimp this post.
    I would love it if the blogger in question would be held to the rules, as everyone else is.
    This would be the third time that she has been sanctioned and her profile suspended. I think that means that she should not be allowed on the site any longer. She has several profiles and ALL of them should be taken down and disallowed.
    Thank you again,
    Kitkat
Hello KitKat,

Happy weekend Thank you for your generous and kind words over this blog post. I have asked someone, anyone..more important then me , to step up and apologize over the petition mess..but alas for now, it is Me saying sorry. The petition did target Nice & the entire LBGTQ community...and after them all roads to all Bloggers. Feel free to share the post and I'll keep replying. I admit I did not know the number of times she has been suspended. I do not understand if you've been banned or deleted once, and you love this site, you apologize and get to come back ...then you are back at it again. I have never understood the need for multiple profiles but I guess it is a good way to either 1) spy on people in chat rooms & blogs..2) Boost your own blog up in viewership.

Everyone should follow all the rules..Respect should be the norm not a surprise when it is gifted to others, Everyone should stand up and say NO very loudly when you see someone bullied or lied about.

Happy Weekend Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 6:30 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I am so sad ana. You can tell andrew that. Because the original abuse and bullying against thalia wasnt dealt with, people are angry and lashing out. Now there are sides and insults being flung around. People dont believe that respect is important because the site has not made it important. The impression of the site is that you do what you want when you want and there will not be any consequences. I am just sad my friend.
Missy,

Darling friend I hear you and I feel your Pain. I just put this message you typed directly into Andrew's hands. I do not blame anyone for being angry, let down and lashing out. I do not normally swear..( I worked with kids so you need to train yourself not to swear ) but man oh man..the house here has heard the F word LOUD and clear.

Respect is important to all of Us and I am asking everyone to not give up..to not give into acting as she does to others...Save all evidence and screen shots. United we stand & divided we fall.

I promise you we are not giving up..We need to make sure what happened to Thalia never ever happens to any other member.

Hugs My Friend & I'm so sorry you are hurting, we are all Hurting and this needs to stop,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 6:38 am

Hello Northshoretake,

You're welcome Thank you for stopping by and caring enough to comment.

Happy weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/19/2016 6:47 am

andrew is worried about declining numbers... number of reasons i dropped my gold after 10 yrs plus... things not working here... an now the points thing... cost to IM someone if standard, even after conversation is started im freeze up an have to restart conversation an pay the toll again... unable to read a email a gold has sent a standard is also a bad idea.. takes standards to help in keeping interests going, why pay gold an not have the benifit of emailing who you want to knowing they can read it?????/ another thing, i was given 10,000 points last week..but only recieved 956 of them... i have wrote AdultFriendFinder probably 4-6 times so far... an havent yet been told where the other 9000 points went, an yes i asked the person who gave to the points if AdultFriendFinder took all the points away from her an she said yes... so its many things that need to be worked on .. it is a great site... but it needs to fix things so it keeps its memership up an keeps attracting new members


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 6:48 am

    Quoting jasminum64:
    With the beginning of social media, this is becoming an epidemic. The anonymity of the internet, anyone can say anything they want with no consequences. Here on AdultFriendFinder, it's getting worse every month. We are better than that.
Dear Jasmine,

Happy weekend Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Yes, hiding behind computer screens and leaving negative words or attacks in their wake is the way of the New PC Trolls. It has gotten so much worse. I can harken back to the days of old when the chat rooms had 35+ chatters in it, having fun and the rooms getting so crowded that you would get bounced out and have to rush to get back in...I heard " Ana, I got bounced out " a thousand times a night. People were happy, had each others backs..and protected the room & chatters. A rare troll would show up and be shouted down, ignored, blocked/reported and gone. We need to get back to that and never just sit back and tolerate injustice to anyone on site.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 6:58 am

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    Thanks for your post. I personally think the list should not exist and it would be more peaceful in blogland. So many blogs are overlooked and truth be told they are the ones that tend to be the most creative. By them not being acknowledgement over silly numbers is a shame. The glitches on the blogs are frustrating. Comments do not go through. People are not held accountable for their actions when they do break TOU's. Which in eyes makes the site just as guilty for allowing this lack of respect and bullying to happen. I am not trying to be rude and I do appreciate all your help and supporting this cause I just frustrated that this is STILL a issue to begin with. Once again thank you for the post and I will support you anyway I can Happy Day To Ya
Hello Hot,

You're welcome. Thank you for taking the time to come to my blog and post. I agree with you..that list has got to go or be modified so that those members with emotional issues/jealousy problems will no longer have a reason to attack, bully, harass or threaten other members. I do not think you were being rude at all. You are speaking from your heart and sharing your concerns. You are so right..this issue should not even have to exist on site we should NOT have to be discussing it over and over again.

Have a great weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/19/2016 7:07 am

hmmm i went back to were i read your helping sandra last year... funny today i am blocked from reading it... lol so now i cant give exact date... but it is in her chat room blogs or pages well it was in there...lol so i just wondering was all


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:08 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    andrew is worried about declining numbers... number of reasons i dropped my gold after 10 yrs plus... things not working here... an now the points thing... cost to IM someone if standard, even after conversation is started im freeze up an have to restart conversation an pay the toll again... unable to read a email a gold has sent a standard is also a bad idea.. takes standards to help in keeping interests going, why pay gold an not have the benifit of emailing who you want to knowing they can read it?????/ another thing, i was given 10,000 points last week..but only recieved 956 of them... i have wrote AdultFriendFinder probably 4-6 times so far... an havent yet been told where the other 9000 points went, an yes i asked the person who gave to the points if AdultFriendFinder took all the points away from her an she said yes... so its many things that need to be worked on .. it is a great site... but it needs to fix things so it keeps its memership up an keeps attracting new members
Tx,

I hear you loud and clear. I am sure everyone at Various Inc is worried about declining numbers. In fact , you must have been reading my mind as I have just pointed that out to Andrew. I know the glitches on the site can be frustrating and I am sorry about that. I know how hard the tech dept is working to fix things. I have never been a fan of or supported the standard email situation. To quote a friend of mine ,stopping standards from reading their emails will not entice them to upgrade to Gold. Giving standards back their emails is something I keep asking about. I am sorry for your point situation and will make some calls to see if we can find where they are..those points are yours and you deserve them.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:17 am

    Quoting whatfun36:
    Thank you for this post. You don't need to post my comment. I somehow missed being deceived by that person and signed that petition. After nl came back I did apologize to her and wrote my own post about not to be a jackass. The incident has left me a bit less willing to comment on much of anything.
    Thanks again for this post.
Dear What fun,

Thank you Sir for standing up and apologizing. That is so Brave of you. A lot of other people would have stayed silent or in the shadows to see which way the wind is blowing..YOU stood up and did the right thing.

Thank you for being You & I am so proud of you,

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:21 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    I'd like to pimp this post the next time I post.
    Is that OK?
Good,

Thank you Sir and feel free to " Pimp " this post I am hoping we can unite all the bloggers we can find because we are stronger when we stand together.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:31 am

Dear Proteus,

Thank you Sir for caring enough to stop by my blog & leave a compliment/comment.

Have a Great Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:33 am

    Quoting rachel0718:
    I would really like to share this on my blog. Please allow me to do so. Thanks!
Dear Rachel,

Hello & Happy weekend. Thank for asking & please feel free to share the post as we try to unite the blog community against bullying & abuse.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:40 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Zara,

Thank you for this lovely & lyrical post. I think the reason this subject is touching so many hearts is because Nice is a beloved member here, the abuse was obscene and it could have been any of the female bloggers who by no fault of their own , is popular and loved..This attack was an attack on all bloggers.

Asking all members to use respect and Unite is a very positive message and an important one too so that NO member has to live through what Nice did..

Happy weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:53 am

    Quoting  :

Darling Buni,

You are going to make me cry aren't you ? I will always think of you as a dear friend and I am glad I could help where I did. My own Trust factor was blown to pieces in 2014 when Prince Not so Charming turned out to be psycho/liar.

Thank you for liking my words. I believe in the power of Positive Karma and defeating negativity. If we can get all the bloggers who believe in Positive vibes and respect to Unite..then the bloggers who seek to drive other bloggers off site with racist abuse...will themselves be driven from the site.

#AllForOneAndOneForAll is my Motto

Happy weekend Love & Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 7:59 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Scott,

Happy Friday Thank you for sharing your thoughts with Us. #EveryoneShouldBeRespected is a Great sentence and hash tag. I might have to borrow that to share on Twitter . I wish everyone felt the way you do.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 8:07 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    hmmm i went back to were i read your helping sandra last year... funny today i am blocked from reading it... lol so now i cant give exact date... but it is in her chat room blogs or pages well it was in there...lol so i just wondering was all
Tx,

Thank you Sweetheart for reminding me. You were so kind to go check and rattled my brain..You are right Sir. I am oh so tired..Caring for Dad after his stroke and have not gone to bed yet..I wanted to reply to all of the wonderful people who took the time to post to this blog. I did not want to let anyone down.

I understand you were just wondering and hope I was able to answer you.

Happy Friday,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/19/2016 8:09 am

    Quoting bestfriend2156:
    thank you for your thoughtful post. Respect should be viewed as a basic human right.
Dear BestFriend,

Happy Friday You're welcome & Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog and share your thoughts. Respect should be thought of that way. Perhaps one day it will. We can do our best on site to treat each other this way and perhaps it will catch on.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/20/2016 5:08 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I am so sad ana. You can tell andrew that. Because the original abuse and bullying against thalia wasnt dealt with, people are angry and lashing out. Now there are sides and insults being flung around. People dont believe that respect is important because the site has not made it important. The impression of the site is that you do what you want when you want and there will not be any consequences. I am just sad my friend.
It also seems the Site doesn't except the laws offline, as what should be online.....
Seems 'gender bashing is OK'
Seems stalking someone in public, taking pics of them and posting online to a Sex Site for humilation and degradation is OK

And yet, they have TOU's that state:


Terms of Use

Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;
(m) "stalk" or otherwise harass another person or user or member;

What is this person doing, other than ALL OF THE ABOVE.....

Our actions are purely in response to their BULLY tactics....and shows WE have COURAGE


Please delete my comment if it offends.....
This is our Blog signature...do not visit our Blog as it has nothing to do with sex, and....
WARNING reading and commenting on our Blog could seriously damage YOUR status and reputation


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/20/2016 5:24 am

good morning ana... hope you got some rest... just a couple of thoughts you may pass on to andrew or crew at AdultFriendFinder..... 1 . make blogs where anyone who visits them leave a trail.... meaning show the names of all that look at a blog an doesnt comment available to said blogger... i think its fair for a blogger to know whos looking at an reading blogs... especially now that blog land has gone so toxic... Point being i have talked to you here lately, an said things, an when i go back , those things have dissapeared.. so i think someone else who isnt replying to your blogs is passing on info to others , an being not able to see who has been here gives them the rite to cover their own tracts , remaining innocent ... if you get my drift...
2 . thanks for saying you would make a call about points.... yes it was a gift, but its not really my points, its the givers, an after all the emails i have sent, an the giver says she is also looking into it... if they only want to acknowledge i recieved 956 then give her back the 9000, as they are hers....They have records, they can see what we all are doing here... time for them to act
ok my random thoughts..... lol hope you have a great day an weekend

ps i have still not recieved a email from AdultFriendFinder... so i guess just another thing that got pasted onn... its no biggie as i am sure they are busy an dont care to look into finding out the truth about a blogger they keep reinstating for breaking rules anyway...


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/20/2016 5:26 am

i really do hope you have a good weekend.. i promise to quit harping on your blog page... not fair you taking the blunt of things as your only trying to help people when you really dont even have to...


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/20/2016 6:33 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    It also seems the Site doesn't except the laws offline, as what should be online.....
    Seems 'gender bashing is OK'
    Seems stalking someone in public, taking pics of them and posting online to a Sex Site for humilation and degradation is OK

    And yet, they have TOU's that state:

    Terms of Use

    Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
    (a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;
    (m) "stalk" or otherwise harass another person or user or member;

    What is this person doing, other than ALL OF THE ABOVE.....

    Our actions are purely in response to their BULLY tactics....and shows WE have COURAGE

Hello RB,

I know exactly how frustrating this situation is for everyone. I have never seen anything this obscene and I have seen some really horrible members over the years. We have lost members who really gave their all to the site & were a delight to know..we have lost prestige because of the racist attacks on OUR LBGTQ community. This is why I am asking ALL Members & Bloggers stand United and together.

I won't give up.
I won't give in.
I NEVER Surrender.
I ALWAYS get Justice for those In Need.

Bullies Are cowards who will never win.

WE are Better then this..WE have to do better.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/20/2016 6:42 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    good morning ana... hope you got some rest... just a couple of thoughts you may pass on to andrew or crew at AdultFriendFinder..... 1 . make blogs where anyone who visits them leave a trail.... meaning show the names of all that look at a blog an doesnt comment available to said blogger... i think its fair for a blogger to know whos looking at an reading blogs... especially now that blog land has gone so toxic... Point being i have talked to you here lately, an said things, an when i go back , those things have dissapeared.. so i think someone else who isnt replying to your blogs is passing on info to others , an being not able to see who has been here gives them the rite to cover their own tracts , remaining innocent ... if you get my drift...
    2 . thanks for saying you would make a call about points.... yes it was a gift, but its not really my points, its the givers, an after all the emails i have sent, an the giver says she is also looking into it... if they only want to acknowledge i recieved 956 then give her back the 9000, as they are hers....They have records, they can see what we all are doing here... time for them to act
    ok my random thoughts..... lol hope you have a great day an weekend

    ps i have still not recieved a email from AdultFriendFinder... so i guess just another thing that got pasted onn... its no biggie as i am sure they are busy an dont care to look into finding out the truth about a blogger they keep reinstating for breaking rules anyway...
Morning TX,

Happy Weekend Oh yes, got some sleep and here I am still working online..LOL. I will hand in your suggestion on the blog watchers. I know other members have mentioned the same. I see all of your posts on my blog and my replies to you too. I also asked about your points and was told their is a bug for it and if you need to ask about it and do not let this go..send a msg to Customer Service and post to the Site Support blog.

Happy Sat Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/20/2016 6:44 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i really do hope you have a good weekend.. i promise to quit harping on your blog page... not fair you taking the blunt of things as your only trying to help people when you really dont even have to...
Hello TX,

Thank you so much for your lovely words. Very Kind & generous of you. You are not harping you are sharing.

Happy Sat,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/20/2016 7:32 am

Happy Weekend Darlings...

I should have been replying to the post's comments but fell behind answering emails and IM's about the site & other sites I am working on. I promise later there will be more replies..I will get them all done.

One more thing..ANDREW wanted me to write this blog on Respect and since he asked I did. HE ASKED ME TO DO THIS. ( Had to shout so those who are reading it for others will be able to see my wording. )

This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, intolerance and racism. WE are standing United with our fellow bloggers in support of our LBGTQ community.

#AllForOneAndOneForAll

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/20/2016 7:58 am

i have wrote to them... an recieve a really nice FORM letter that is sent to all that they hope answers any questions, an gives answers to alot of things except what was asked... ROFL


LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2201 posts
8/20/2016 4:10 pm

Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/21/2016 6:16 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Happy Weekend Darlings...

    I should have been replying to the post's comments but fell behind answering emails and IM's about the site & other sites I am working on. I promise later there will be more replies..I will get them all done.

    One more thing..ANDREW wanted me to write this blog on Respect and since he asked I did. HE ASKED ME TO DO THIS. ( Had to shout so those who are reading it for others will be able to see my wording. )

    This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, intolerance and racism. WE are standing United with our fellow bloggers in support of our LBGTQ community.

    #AllForOneAndOneForAll

    Hugs,

    Ana6
Happy Sunday to you, Ana....

Thank you for your work to try and make the Site GREAT for EVERYONE....

Some folks may feel they are being persecuted....but the point is, we are ALL entitled to be here and it is not down to a few to dictate who can blog, what they can blog, and most of all, who they can interact with.

Anyone who thinks THOSE actions are reasonable behaviour clearly have no thought or respect for others.
If pointing out such crud behaviour is 'bullying'.....then those people need to 'take a good hard look at themselves, and less time looking at themselves hard'....

Suffering bullying in SILENCE is not a way to deal with it.....

Being 'united' is not being a 'gang'

Take Care Ana.....

[image]


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This is our Blog signature...do not visit our Blog as it has nothing to do with sex, and....
WARNING reading and commenting on our Blog could seriously damage YOUR status and reputation


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/21/2016 6:37 am

good morning ana... hope your weekend is atleast half way good for you... hope your dad is doing better an again you got some sleep ....

Its always good to read your entries, but things have gone on for so long with no change, NO AdultFriendFinder stepping in NO AdultFriendFinder stopping the one person who is making AdultFriendFinder toxic, not only in her blogs, but in her ability to get others to her harrasment , so that she can say "my hands are clean" But even when she breaks rules , isnt dealt with by AdultFriendFinder... giving one day suspension to her is like giving her a day off to rest an plan more...

IF...This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, ... its easy to talk the talk, an hope for a perfect world... but if you dont do anything to kill or stop the cancer, it takes over an destroys ....If keeping a person is more important than keeping others , then things are fine an no one should wonder why membership is done an or falling... Once things get so bad in revenue that they are forced to shut down site or change , they can ask themselves WAS IT WORTH IT??? An no i am not saying she is only reason, AdultFriendFinder has to change other things to gain back its being a great awesome site that others tell others about an to join, but she is one that is effecting alot of people now, an has caused others to drop off here. AdultFriendFinder has to ask itself " If one person cost us $1.00, is her being here worth it after all the chances she has been given..... I know that employees of AdultFriendFinder arent suppose to blog..BUT>>>BUT MAYBE .. a simple BLOG from Andrew saying things are going to change .. give the members something to see RITE from his own words, show us he cares about what many are saying, show us all if you talk the talk ..you walk the walk.. so us the rules have some meaning an some back bone, an AdultFriendFinder will live by thier own rules and there are true penalties for breaking them.

ok ana, my 2 cents again... this is one you dont have to respond to, as so many things here you cant answer or speak to... i understand that..but hopefully it will bring more replys supporting my thoughts here ...

Again thanks for your help here, an i hope whats left of your weekend is great!!


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/21/2016 7:17 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i have wrote to them... an recieve a really nice FORM letter that is sent to all that they hope answers any questions, an gives answers to alot of things except what was asked... ROFL
Hello TX,

Happy Sun I am glad you received a lovely reply ...even tho form style. The best bet is to post your question about the point directly on the Site Support blog.. ( You will find the link to it on the blog page..called " Support ." Mention you've been given those points as a gift, and you either want the 9,000 + points owed to you or returned to the handle who gave them to you. Get a Bug number too so you can refer back to it with the support blog if this is not resolved to your satisfaction in a timely manner.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/21/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.
Hello Life,

Welcome to My Blog & Thank you for your comment. I agree with you as does most of our blog world..ALL we want is respect to given to all & for the blog world to get back to normal. WE stand united against racism, intolerance, cruelty and bullying.

Forgive me for correcting you but this is truly a one sided bullying situation. A member of our blogging community was bullied and harassed in the most obscene manner. Targeted for removal by another blogger jealous of this blogger and her popularity with all. The entire LBGTQ community came under attack and thus the Bloggers rose as One to defend a woman from being bullied, lied about, threatened, harassed and targeted. When we stand as One we protect those most in need. There is no bullying on this side of the fence. Merely a group of bloggers who when they see horror and obscenity being forced on a innocent woman/member stood tall, stood together and said NO MORE.

Thank you for stopping by & Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/21/2016 7:31 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.
my take on it is... its like a bad neighbor throwing garbage in others yard thinking they can do it... an the neighbors are picking up the garbage an throwing it back to the yard it originated at


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/21/2016 7:32 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    Happy Sunday to you, Ana....

    Thank you for your work to try and make the Site GREAT for EVERYONE....

    Some folks may feel they are being persecuted....but the point is, we are ALL entitled to be here and it is not down to a few to dictate who can blog, what they can blog, and most of all, who they can interact with.

    Anyone who thinks THOSE actions are reasonable behaviour clearly have no thought or respect for others.
    If pointing out such crud behaviour is 'bullying'.....then those people need to 'take a good hard look at themselves, and less time looking at themselves hard'....

    Suffering bullying in SILENCE is not a way to deal with it.....

    Being 'united' is not being a 'gang'

    Take Care Ana.....

    [image]

Dear RB,

Happy Sun morning Thank you for your kind words. Thank you for saying what I keep saying...ALL are entitled to be here, to be a good member, follow the rules, engage with others if that is your choice and respect boundaries and leave folks alone.

I can say that there was nothing reasonable about the brutal attack on Nice. If the blogging world had stayed silent then Nice might not have felt the need or want to return..and the cursed blog list war would be revisited upon the next name on top. How many female members is this site going to lose if this cruelty & bullying is not stopped Once and for all ?

Babe, you know what.. if being a part of this amazing blogging community is being part of a United Gang then sign me up LOL. If standing with some of the most intelligent & supportive men and women I've ever met makes me part of a gang..then so be it. I'd rather be here with all of you then over there. If gang is the worst they can think of we got off lucky.

#SilenceIsNOTanAnswer
#OneForAllAndAllForOne
@SayNOToBullies

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2201 posts
8/21/2016 7:54 am

I do agree with Resident Bitch. I am new to blogland so it has been difficult for me to understand what is going on. I did stand beside nicelips and her supporters and still do, steadfastly so. And against other threatening, harrassing, bullying behavior. I would rather not see hate-filled blogs from my friends but I do understand where they are coming from. It is just my opinion that such blogs add fuel to their fire. again, just my opinion. I stand with my friends while still hoping for a peaceful solution but a solution nonetheless.


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/21/2016 5:47 pm

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear RB,

    Happy Sun morning Thank you for your kind words. Thank you for saying what I keep saying...ALL are entitled to be here, to be a good member, follow the rules, engage with others if that is your choice and respect boundaries and leave folks alone.

    I can say that there was nothing reasonable about the brutal attack on Nice. If the blogging world had stayed silent then Nice might not have felt the need or want to return..and the cursed blog list war would be revisited upon the next name on top. How many female members is this site going to lose if this cruelty & bullying is not stopped Once and for all ?

    Babe, you know what.. if being a part of this amazing blogging community is being part of a United Gang then sign me up LOL. If standing with some of the most intelligent & supportive men and women I've ever met makes me part of a gang..then so be it. I'd rather be here with all of you then over there. If gang is the worst they can think of we got off lucky.

    #SilenceIsNOTanAnswer
    #OneForAllAndAllForOne
    @SayNOToBullies

    Hugs,

    Ana6
Sign me up too. The charges of bullying by the bully is standard operating procedure for that blogger. It lowers the caliber of the conversation down to schoolyard level: "You are!" "No, you are!" And this is done on purpose because it's so infuriating. To make members angry is the only reason that blogger does it. It's an old, old M.O. and veteran bloggers here will confirm that.

I realize that some members get heated and don't control their tempers, or their mouths. They need to be referred to this post. But it doesn't taint the whole protest because there are a couple of unruly partisans. That tactic of accusing all of us of guilt by association isn't going to fly.

I'm not backing down.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 4:23 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    good morning ana... hope your weekend is atleast half way good for you... hope your dad is doing better an again you got some sleep ....

    Its always good to read your entries, but things have gone on for so long with no change, NO AdultFriendFinder stepping in NO AdultFriendFinder stopping the one person who is making AdultFriendFinder toxic, not only in her blogs, but in her ability to get others to her harrasment , so that she can say "my hands are clean" But even when she breaks rules , isnt dealt with by AdultFriendFinder... giving one day suspension to her is like giving her a day off to rest an plan more...

    IF...This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, ... its easy to talk the talk, an hope for a perfect world... but if you dont do anything to kill or stop the cancer, it takes over an destroys ....If keeping a person is more important than keeping others , then things are fine an no one should wonder why membership is done an or falling... Once things get so bad in revenue that they are forced to shut down site or change , they can ask themselves WAS IT WORTH IT??? An no i am not saying she is only reason, AdultFriendFinder has to change other things to gain back its being a great awesome site that others tell others about an to join, but she is one that is effecting alot of people now, an has caused others to drop off here. AdultFriendFinder has to ask itself " If one person cost us $1.00, is her being here worth it after all the chances she has been given..... I know that employees of AdultFriendFinder arent suppose to blog..BUT>>>BUT MAYBE .. a simple BLOG from Andrew saying things are going to change .. give the members something to see RITE from his own words, show us he cares about what many are saying, show us all if you talk the talk ..you walk the walk.. so us the rules have some meaning an some back bone, an AdultFriendFinder will live by thier own rules and there are true penalties for breaking them.

    ok ana, my 2 cents again... this is one you dont have to respond to, as so many things here you cant answer or speak to... i understand that..but hopefully it will bring more replys supporting my thoughts here ...

    Again thanks for your help here, an i hope whats left of your weekend is great!!
Happy Mon Tx,

Thank you Sir, I did sleep well and Dad is up watching " Breaking Bad season 3 " as he is just getting into watching the shows on dvd.

I know what you mean. I've been here and can remember the Great days of this site before it became a war zone. I will ask Andrew to see if he can do that blog post you mention. I think after this racist petition and the fall out a simple explanation via blog post would be greatly appreciated and offer reassurance to ALL members that this kind of inhumanity will NOT be tolerated on site.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 4:27 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    my take on it is... its like a bad neighbor throwing garbage in others yard thinking they can do it... an the neighbors are picking up the garbage an throwing it back to the yard it originated at
TX,

LOL...My friend I do like the way you think. This can sum up the whole bullying mess and now I understand that by me posting this and asking all members to say NO to racism and intolerance, that somehow for just asking for respect for all men and women members...somehow my dear readers...WE have become the bad guys and the bullies. I think we are being accused of being a Gang too instead of a United group of bloggers. I am confused by this but I do thank you all for being smart enough to see through the propaganda and lies of the true bullies.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 4:33 am

Missy,

Happy Mon Darling & You're welcome. Thank you for ALL you did to protect members & bring this horrible issue of bullying/intolerance to light.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:09 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    I do agree with Resident Bitch. I am new to blogland so it has been difficult for me to understand what is going on. I did stand beside nicelips and her supporters and still do, steadfastly so. And against other threatening, harrassing, bullying behavior. I would rather not see hate-filled blogs from my friends but I do understand where they are coming from. It is just my opinion that such blogs add fuel to their fire. again, just my opinion. I stand with my friends while still hoping for a peaceful solution but a solution nonetheless.
Dear Love,

Happy Mon I have been blogging here for awhile but when the last so called " Blog War " hit and the member who started that mess was banned for life. I was blogging around that time and NEVER ran into her or her mess. Lucky for me.

I know the blogs are taking a hit because of this bullying behavior & racist petitions. That is why we are trying to unite ALL bloggers for the common good. Every member with a blog is equal to every other member . No one is better or less then any one else.

Thank you for standing with the innocent victims of cruelty, bullies and abusers.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:11 am

    Quoting  :

Hello 12Pleas,

Thank you Sir for your kind words. Thank you for taking the time to share them with us all.

Have a great Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:13 am

Missy,

Brilliant...Exactly what we've been trying to say.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/22/2016 5:44 am

good morning... No rants, No complaints... sure your pulling your hair out , an neck muscles are sore from shaking your head...lol So take the day off an do something that brings a smile to you... HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!!


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:44 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Sign me up too. The charges of bullying by the bully is standard operating procedure for that blogger. It lowers the caliber of the conversation down to schoolyard level: "You are!" "No, you are!" And this is done on purpose because it's so infuriating. To make members angry is the only reason that blogger does it. It's an old, old M.O. and veteran bloggers here will confirm that.

    I realize that some members get heated and don't control their tempers, or their mouths. They need to be referred to this post. But it doesn't taint the whole protest because there are a couple of unruly partisans. That tactic of accusing all of us of guilt by association isn't going to fly.

    I'm not backing down.
Dear Kzoo,

Consider yourself signed up my Friend. Oh I know how we can all lose our tempers when we are angry and when we are furious at the obscene attack on Nice & Our entire LBGTQ community..It is truly astounding to me that somehow the good guys are now being called the bullies..for WHAT ? For Telling the truth & standing up for innocent members under attack. I hope folks remember that petition was directed at Nice & the LBGTQ members but it could just as easily been directed at ANY of US.

#WeStandWithNice
#SayNoToBullies
#NeverSurrenderNeverGiveIn
#WeWontBackDown

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:52 am

Dear Aroused,

Thank you for your kind words & for finding this blog and being brave enough to share your thoughts with Us all.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 5:57 am

    Quoting  :

Dear MMMMMM,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts & agreeing with Us. I hope we can all spread the word "Respect" all over the Blogging Universe here..

Have a great Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:00 am

Dear OldB,

Thank you Sir your applause..I can hear your generous applause spreading all over the site and embracing the word Respect & ALL Our United members.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:07 am

    Quoting KtMnDu:
    I am encouraged to see the site take notice......not only take notice, but for you to post up support for what so many of us see as abuse. Personally, I perhaps step over the line a bit, but I value the community here in the Blogosphere, and as such, sometimes I feel I need to poke back....just a little....to shed light on the bad actors......I try my best to stay within certain boundaries, but the medium and the anonymity leads to giant misconceptions, so it is quite the challenge at times.....

    But I like to think that I maintain some level of appreciation and respect for others.....we are not perfect, and we may slip at times, but the boundaries are clear, and when those boundaries are crossed, we all need to take notice, and push back.....respectfully.......

    Your post here is most appreciated, and let's hope it gets widely distributed and commented upon......the community here is much better for it...........
Dear KtMnDu,

Thank you for your eloquent post. I really appreciate it. Thank you for standing up for the innocent & shedding that light on bad behavior. As I stated some people prefer to stay hidden and let others speak. That's ok..I can stand for all..Mom and Dad raised a Pepper Pot In me..LOL. I stand when I see bullies and abusers hurting innocent men , women and children. We have to push back against intolerance before those who believe they are better then anyone else target Us all.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:09 am

    Quoting Raven9376:
    I totally agree with you. We all need to respect one another and we are all here to have fun, make new friendship, new lovers, and new relationships.
Dear Raven,

Thank you so much We all appreciate your words. You hit the nail on the head..THAT is why this site exists so men and women can make connections, network & Have fun

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:18 am

    Quoting K1ssGasm:
    Thank you, Ana6. Very nice post indeed.
Dear Clit,

Thank you so much for your kind words. Thank you for finding my blog & for making the word "RESPECT" resonate through out our Blog world.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:21 am

Hello Day,

I love your handle name I said it out loud and just laughed and smiled You are a delight. Thank you for your generous words about this post. Thank you for sharing & visiting,

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:24 am

    Quoting prem8623:
    absolulti right every one should respect each other
Dear Prem,

Thank you for visiting, YOU are so right Everyone should respect each other. We should respect all life and never do unto others that which we would not want done unto Us.

Have a Great Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:38 am

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    This is a wonderful, well written and well meant, RESPECTFUL post.

    I try to be always polite even with nastiest commenters, but there are times when my patience gets exhausted and I just block them.

    That despicable business with "petition" and recent "beauty contest" should not be allowed here. Bullies and bigots should not be allowed here.

    Recent events that created such a turmoil made my blood boil and I posted my frustrations on my blog. I didn't call anyone names, didn't spew out insults. I simply expressed my opinion about bullying and bigotry that ignited the war in Blogland. Perhaps, I shouldn't have done that but... it was impossible for me to stay quiet.

    With your permission, I would like to promote this post.
Naughty,

Thank you for your beautiful Post. Please feel free to share it anywhere you like. Thank you I 100% agree that the horrible petition and so called Beauty contest should NEVER have seen the light of day. You are very brave standing up to what we all saw was racism, abuse and bullying. YOU had every right to speak your mind & heart. I am grateful you did that. If you feel it, speak it. Never stay quiet. Your voice is one of many who will see and receive a Change here on site..and all the lies, abuse, threats will slink back into their hole where they belong.

Thank you for being Brave & Intelligent,

Thank you for finding my blog and adding your voice to shout RESPECT from the members homes all the way to HQ,

#WeWillNotBeSilent
#SayNoToBullies
#WeStandUnited

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:42 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    good morning... No rants, No complaints... sure your pulling your hair out , an neck muscles are sore from shaking your head...lol So take the day off an do something that brings a smile to you... HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!!
Dear TX,

I Love this post !! Thank you for making me smile. I hope you have a fantastic Day & the start of a great, happy week.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:45 am

    Quoting HamburgDave2:
    Respect is Not an Option, it should be a Given
Dear Dave,

Thank you Sir..what an excellent post. I agree with you. I was taught as a child to respect everyone, no matter what colour, faith or who they love..to respect all Life..human and animal.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:53 am

Hello Bob,

Thank you Sir for your very kind comment. I did the best I could and just want everyone to feel safe, welcomed, loved and Happy.

#AllForOneAndOneForAll

Not just a hashtag but a Lifestyle.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/22/2016 6:59 am

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    Eliminate the rankings and any other list that indicate popularity. Just have a list of new posts and a carosel randomly featuring bloggers. The rankings have caused nothing but grief in Blogsville.

    The site hosts a multitude of contests. Attention mongers can actively enter those.
Dear JN,

Thank you my friend for sharing your thoughts on this issue. I totally agree with you about eliminating the blog rankings. You are so right any list that says "Hey You're Popular " is going to be an issue for some. Not all, but some. I love discovering new blogs and bloggers..I do not need a list to tell me who is popular...The ones I adore are Popular with Me.

Thank you for sharing your amazing ideas...

Happy Mon Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


QUEENBEEV 55F  
4204 posts
8/22/2016 8:46 am

The newest form of blog manipulation involves whether or not vag and tit pictures mean "signing" a pledge of sorts...saying you will only receive those naughty pics IF you comment on her blog. And promise to not visit or comment on anyone's blog she doesn't approve of.

How can this behavior be ignored anymore?

It's rather revolting. If this were the first time she had done something like this...it could be maybe looked over as a rookie move...but it has been repeated more than one time over the years.

When does she finally get punished...really punished...not just a slap on the wrist?

How many more people does she have to demean...manipulate...shame...bully...all around HURT before something gets done?

I know you are doing your best...but honestly something should have been done years ago...and then the people she has currently targeted...would have not had to go through any of this bullshit..

I'm in agreement...the list needs to GO...it is the root of all the problems we are talking about now...and have been talking about for years.

Just my take.

Smooches

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

RATEYOURSELF


ranchomongo 66M  
5591 posts
8/22/2016 12:52 pm

I agree with you on the respect..
but to tell you the truth..

i think i would settle for

TOLERANCE

the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with:
"the tolerance of corruption" ·
synonyms: acceptance · toleration · open-mindedness ·

respect should be something attained..
something you work on yourself , for others to respect you.
but we should all tolerate everyone , and anyone.
if i m wrong, just tolerate my answer you don t have to respect me..LOL..
good blog.. some time these are needed more than funny, sexy, or erotic ones..


NOT MY PUPPET



face piles of trials with smiles..
MOODY BLUES


please feel free to visit my blog
happy blogging


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 4:15 am

    Quoting Katie_Prevar:
    .

    Ana,

    We all appreciate your efforts and time, but can you offer any explanation as to why Andrew hasn't taken the responsible action befitting his position as Founder and Chairman of the Board by directing the Abuse Team that she and her 4 profiles/Blogs be banned for life from the site yet?

    From everything contained within this post it appears quite clearly that he has had the facts and evidence in his hands long enough, but is failing to act.

    .
Dear Katie,

Happy Tues Thank you for your lovely comments for Me. Really appreciate that. Very kind of you.

I wish I had the answer you are looking for. I have been keeping Andrew informed about everything from that horrible racist petition up to the death threats/ Death List of members targeted. We should know something this week. I have also asked him to write something for his blog here on site.

When we first discussed how this mess had grown because of one person and their racist taunts/petition...he asked me to write up something and said this word was the one I needed to start with " RESPECT " so I did as he asked me to and here we are. He told me what I good job I had done when I told him how many members had come here and shared their feelings/comments.

I am waiting along with the rest of you for an answer and finally to just be done with members violating the TOU on a daily basis, the death threats , the criminal behavior of photographing women and loading their photos here without their permission...As soon as I hear anything, I will let you all know.

Thank you Katie for being so brave & embracing respect & caring about the members who were targeted.

Have a Great Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 5:24 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    The newest form of blog manipulation involves whether or not vag and tit pictures mean "signing" a pledge of sorts...saying you will only receive those naughty pics IF you comment on her blog. And promise to not visit or comment on anyone's blog she doesn't approve of.

    How can this behavior be ignored anymore?

    It's rather revolting. If this were the first time she had done something like this...it could be maybe looked over as a rookie move...but it has been repeated more than one time over the years.

    When does she finally get punished...really punished...not just a slap on the wrist?

    How many more people does she have to demean...manipulate...shame...bully...all around HURT before something gets done?

    I know you are doing your best...but honestly something should have been done years ago...and then the people she has currently targeted...would have not had to go through any of this bullshit..

    I'm in agreement...the list needs to GO...it is the root of all the problems we are talking about now...and have been talking about for years.

    Just my take.

    Smooches
Hello Queen B,

Welcome Back Hon. Thank you so much for pointing all of this out. I heard about the pledge post and at first I thought it was a joke but no..along with the death threat list this was true too..Just as true and evil as the obscene petition she created to target a more popular blogger.

I also agree that the TOU needs to be strictly enforced. In the 90's when the site was new those TOU were followed 100 %. If you were in a chat room and tried to give out your messenger info you were kicked out of the room, the site and faced banning and deletion..and that was just for saying " I M Me @..." I believe in second chances but after numerous complaints are filed from both men and women all over the world..then it is time to do something to protect members from a situation and a blogger that has escalated beyond normal, decent human behavior.

Demean..manipulate...shame...Bully...HURT/Abuse..Those are the Exact actions the blogger has exhibited. It is time for an end to that cursed blog list rankings and to members who can not and will not follow the TOU. Last time I checked Andrew owned this site and it is called AdultFriendFinder..

Thank you Hugss & Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/23/2016 5:48 am

ok another 2 cents from ole me..... reading your response .. how often you have talked to andrew, How many blogs an rules have been broken in this area... an he says it takes a week to know what is going to happen?????? if it costs AdultFriendFinder one dollar even in membership lost... is that week really worth it... or is it showing that AdultFriendFinder likes the added interest its getting now in blogland??? I wouldnt need a week to make my decision...
ok that was a unplanned response.. Hope you have a good day an that smile finds your way again today


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 5:48 am

    Quoting ranchomongo:
    I agree with you on the respect..
    but to tell you the truth..

    i think i would settle for

    TOLERANCE

    the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with:
    "the tolerance of corruption" ·
    synonyms: acceptance · toleration · open-mindedness ·

    respect should be something attained..
    something you work on yourself , for others to respect you.
    but we should all tolerate everyone , and anyone.
    if i m wrong, just tolerate my answer you don t have to respect me..LOL..
    good blog.. some time these are needed more than funny, sexy, or erotic ones..
Dear Rancho,

Thank you My Friend for stopping by. I appreciate your comments. I think Respect & Tolerance go hand in hand. I do respect you hon and all of my friends/members who respect others rights to exist.

Due to that horrible petition and the aftermath I had to write this. We must never forget or shy away from bringing up this obscene memory..if we forget we might have to repeat this ugly incident.

#WEStandWithNice
#SayNoToBullies
#Respect
#WeAreNotAfraid

Hugsss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 6:31 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    You are easy to stand behind Thalia. Your own behavior shows what you're made of. You made all this happen because you refused to back down. I'm the one who is in YOUR debt. You make me a better person, and I'm so proud of you!
Kzoo,

Happy Tues My Friend, You were one of the first members I noticed who was blogging about the petition and through you I saw the other great bloggers who stood up & stood tall.

#WeStandWithNice

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 6:49 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    ok another 2 cents from ole me..... reading your response .. how often you have talked to andrew, How many blogs an rules have been broken in this area... an he says it takes a week to know what is going to happen?????? if it costs AdultFriendFinder one dollar even in membership lost... is that week really worth it... or is it showing that AdultFriendFinder likes the added interest its getting now in blogland??? I wouldnt need a week to make my decision...
    ok that was a unplanned response.. Hope you have a good day an that smile finds your way again today
Tx,

Happy Tues. Thank you for understanding I am doing the best I can. I know exactly what the cost to the site is. I feel your frustration & concerns.

In this case bad publicity is not good for anyone here. Not the site, the employees or members.

ALL I can say it is being worked on. I just got off the phone with Legal dept.

Once more, I am doing the best I can to resolve this.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:01 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    You already know I agree with you, Hot. goodatpoetry2 has a very good alternative to the current list that I think might work very well.

    You're a much loved and well respected blogger here. Your comment will reach a lot of members, and help them to make the right decision.
Kzoo,

Thank you for your comment and Hot is right. We need to change that damm list so folks never have to suffer as Nice & our entire LBGTQ community has.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:08 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I recall the ban in 2015 and was upset to see the one day suspension after her 2nd violation as well.
Missy,

We need to work on the TOU, the Mea Culpa and to have members who can't follow the rules all the rest of us follow be removed from all Various Inc sites.

This nonsense has reached intolerable levels. The abuse & the threats and bullying has to stop.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:12 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Thank you. As I said yo you before. you have nothing to feel bad about it. you got work on signing that thing. that is what she was doing. pushing people to sign. Sometimes we do things not knowing better. maybe you tho that was the right thing to do at that time. wherever it is. I have no hard feelings tours you or anyone that sign it. because nothing of that would/should had happen. with out the creation of that petition. I also appreciate and admired the fact that when you found out that it was all personal and about me. You came forward. you came clean and Apologized. I appreciate that. but it was not even necessary. I hold nothing against anyone that sign it. I sent you a friend request. lets be friends, patch things up and move on. you are more than welcome to my blog, email or profile. Please don't feel bad or guilty. someone else should be the one feeling that way. NOT You.
Dear Thalia,

Happy Tues Once again hon..You are showing the size of your heart and character. I admire you and your positive spirit.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:14 am

Hello Spunky,

Thank you so much for the validation and for stopping by and sharing your thoughts with all of Us.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/23/2016 7:14 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Tx,

    Happy Tues. Thank you for understanding I am doing the best I can. I know exactly what the cost to the site is. I feel your frustration & concerns.

    In this case bad publicity is not good for anyone here. Not the site, the employees or members.

    ALL I can say it is being worked on. I just got off the phone with Legal dept.

    Once more, I am doing the best I can to resolve this.

    Ana6
ohhhhhhhh dont get me wrong,, i an all of us know your trying... an you dont even have to being a volunteer.. shows the lady who lives inside you is truly caring... my point was only , if it takes a week to make a decision on whats wrong an should be dealt with... after all the comments after all the blogs... its for a reason.. an i am not sure the reason is a good one....

I like yur blog an your way of talking to each person who writes you, never take any of my 2cents as bad against you.. never the intent or meaning .. in what you can do, in what you are trying we all thank , praise, an admire you


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:15 am

Missy,

Happy Tues Babe. I was very happy to forward the blog to him. I thought you did a brilliant job and so well said.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:19 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Jay,

Thank you for finding my blog and sharing your generous compliment with Me and all of Us. Thank you for agreeing. Simple Respect and tolerance of all is such a small thing to ask for and when given and shared with others the results can be HUGE.

Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:29 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Thank you for this articulate and insightful post.
    If someone so blatantly and consistently breaks the TOUs , they should be banned for life. The individual doesn't pay to be on here so there's no lost revenue for the site except for the men who pay to drool at their pics. With the worldwide membership, surely it wouldn't hit the site's bottom line enough to make a difference

Hello Sexy,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of Us . I agree if a member constantly and consistently breaks the TOU, bullies , lies, stalks, harms, shames a fellow member then asks her so called " men " to harm those members...well right there..THAT is the end of that member on any site.

Thank you for your great post,

Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:37 am

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    great post.

    i've often wondered if the total number of comments is counted including the replies by the blogger. if so, some bloggers choose to hit the respond and others to cut and then respond which is another comment... seems a bit unfair in the counting end of things.

    i have no turf in this battle so just an aside.
Dear Wicked,

Happy Tues. Love that handle name. I always try to quote so that in case someone missed the original post they can then see it in my reply. I am doing what I can to adjust that darn blog list which seems to feed and fuel the mania over being Number 1. I think every blogger belongs in the number 1 spot as long as their blogs do not defame or shame, bully , humiliate another blogger/member.

Thank you for stopping by & sharing,

Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:44 am

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    excuse me.......

    i should say that anyone who cannot respect the LBGTQ community needs to take a step back and consider why they are on a site that considers itself open and unrestricted.
Wicked,

Thank you so much for stating this so brilliantly. I could not have said it better myself.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 7:52 am

    Quoting LadyLeo1949:
    My Dad once told me that until you have walked a bit in someone's shoes, you don't know why they are doing what they do....He taught us not to judge because it was not our job, but to love people was. I am admonished to hate the sin but love the sinner...something I try to do every day if it is brought to my attention....

    An older lady once told me as we just sat and talked about life, that when we get to heaven there are going to be a lot of surprises...and I do believe there will be.

    Some people take competitiveness to the extreme, I don't condone nor condemn competition but when it hurts others then I do...

    I don't know who was attacked or why they were attacked and it really does not matter....keep your narrow mind out of the fray and allow others to be themselves...

    Contrary to popular belief, there is enough here for everyone to have their day in the SUN....

    Excellent post....
Dear Lady Leo,

Happy Tues Thank you so much for your fascinating post. I think Our parents must have known each other because I was raised the same way. I do not judge lest I be judged and found wanting. I am in the entertainment business but I would never think I need to hurt someone or compete to be the bigger, hotter or more popular in my field. I love to see EVERYONE feel special & applauded. I'd rather rise surrounded by my equals then rise alone standing on my betters.

Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:00 am

    Quoting author51:
    I bow down to you.That was Brilliant.I am not one to jump into the thick of things unless I am questioned about my intelligence or called out for a mere spelling mistake or when I have close male friends and other bloggers emailing me in my inbox of what some High school drama Queens are sending them and telling them not to post nor watch my blog which was done over 6 months ago because I was climbing up the stupid list of watched bloggers. Un God Damn believable.. I wrote a blog about it and boy did her minions come out in full force.Brain washed as she spewed filth and lies due to insecurity.I feel sorry for those that can not handle competition of any kind.. Thank you for posting this....
Dear Author,

Welcome to my Blog. Thank you for finding it & for your comment. I am sorry fr what you had to go through too just for being popular. I agree with you it is so sad when adults on a free web site can not handle other members being more liked or popular. Competition is sometimes not healthy for those not stable enough to deal with the ups/downs of life, whether it be online or offline.

Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate them.

Happy Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:03 am

Dear I Walk,

Thank you for stopping by and caring enough to comment.

Have a fantastic Tues,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:11 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I have been missing for a few days and on my return I found so many on my watched list were pimping this post....I can see why. It is a great post and I have to thank you for it. There is no need for any of us to be disrespectful here and going back over the years it seems as if it is that "LIST" that has caused most of the drama and nastiness. I know we tried to get rid of it when EN was top blogger. Perhaps now the site will see that it is time to showcase the blogs in some way without the competitive aspect....then those members who bash others in their attempt to reach the top spot won't have any reason to behave so badly.

    Thank you again.

Dear Sexy,

Happy Tues Hon & so great to see and read you here. Thank you for my smile right now & for your kind and generous words about my blog post. I believe I have said I never saw or interacted with the infamous EN..I heard the horror stories though and was shocked.

We need to lose the list and just showcase all blogs, whether by region or type or just here are some blogs...go look..anything that takes the numbers and popularity contest aspect of it away.

Thank you so much Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:16 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Great to see you back blogging again! Well said!!!! hugssssssssssss V
Hello V,

How lovely to see you here Thank you for your kind words. I knew it was time to get back to blogging but wish it had been something happier then this topic of such obscene sadness. Thankfully, we are pulling something Great out of this horror tale.

Hugsss,

Ana6

#AllForOneAndOneForAll
#NoMoreBullies

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:19 am

    Quoting  :

Dear MC,

Thank you so Much for your lovely words. Very kind of you and I appreciate it so much.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:45 am

Hello My Friends,

I apologize that it is taken so long to get my replies up on this post. All pages from 1-3 are done & replied to. I have 12 posts to reply to on Page 4 then we are all Up to date. Hugss for your patience with me.

I am aware of the so called Death or Kill List compiled with the names of the majority of members here. I have been stalked in the past by a woman from this site..and a man from an ABC news website I used to talk to friends who worked there at ABC. I have been coached by the FBI and Local Police on how to deal with threats, death threats etc. This is a clear violation of the TOU and against USA Federal Law. This site keeps a record of such violations and they can be used in a court of law. The site also knows where the computers involved in this KILL List are located. Please save any evidence you have of threatening emails and if you spot those posts in advice line , etc..Please grab a screenshot and report it. I also have friends in News Media and if it should become necessary, they are willing to help stop the threats and those involved in making them.

Stay Safe while online and if you or your family feel threatened in any way by these members please call your local Police & FBI. THIS is Cyber Crime at its worst.

Happy Tues Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 8:53 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I have to say that I would like to hear from Andrew. I feel he has allowed you to do what we want HIM to do...stand up for respect and make this a better place. He is the one with the power and control. You have been amazing and he ought to know that but it is time for Andrew to step up and respond to us. There is plenty of evidence. There have been plenty of violations. Unless Andrew says otherwise, people will assume he is in approval of this behavior and we might as well all act like bullies. Only Andrew can create change now. It is his site. Is this what he wants it to be? It this what he envisioned? Does this make him proud? You cannot answer these questions sweet ana. Only Andrew can and we are all running out of patience waiting for a response.
Missy,

Thank you for sharing this. I just put this directly into Andrew's hands. I'll let you know what happens.

Happy Tues Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/23/2016 9:00 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    ohhhhhhhh dont get me wrong,, i an all of us know your trying... an you dont even have to being a volunteer.. shows the lady who lives inside you is truly caring... my point was only , if it takes a week to make a decision on whats wrong an should be dealt with... after all the comments after all the blogs... its for a reason.. an i am not sure the reason is a good one....

    I like yur blog an your way of talking to each person who writes you, never take any of my 2cents as bad against you.. never the intent or meaning .. in what you can do, in what you are trying we all thank , praise, an admire you
Dear TX,

Oh Hon I know what you meant. I am just so exhausted and trying to do everything at once and feeling like I am letting you all down. I promise not to give up..I will keep on fighting until this site is SAFE for everyone and those that would threaten to murder members and their families are locked up some place, jail or a mental hospital.

Hugss & Happy Tues My Friend & Thank you for explaining,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/23/2016 9:33 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I have to say that I would like to hear from Andrew. I feel he has allowed you to do what we want HIM to do...stand up for respect and make this a better place. He is the one with the power and control. You have been amazing and he ought to know that but it is time for Andrew to step up and respond to us. There is plenty of evidence. There have been plenty of violations. Unless Andrew says otherwise, people will assume he is in approval of this behavior and we might as well all act like bullies. Only Andrew can create change now. It is his site. Is this what he wants it to be? It this what he envisioned? Does this make him proud? You cannot answer these questions sweet ana. Only Andrew can and we are all running out of patience waiting for a response.
i agree missy an have wrote the same thing... the members of AdultFriendFinder deserve to know an it will only mean something from him an his actions... An poor ana has taken the blunt of things, tried to answer honestly an tired to help members... she has done what was asked of her, an i am glad it wasnt me who had t field all the bitching, complaints, etc.. but all of us do know she has tried an done more than most... including the site after being asked to help, time now for AdultFriendFinder to act


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/23/2016 9:36 am

please understand, we all that have wrote ana , are not trying to run your site andrew... rather stop the ones who choose to ignore the rules an chance, engage others to help in what she is trying to do, skirt your TOU laws , so we are not trying to run your site, but stop others from running your site into the ground..


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/23/2016 10:56 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I have to say that I would like to hear from Andrew. I feel he has allowed you to do what we want HIM to do...stand up for respect and make this a better place. He is the one with the power and control. You have been amazing and he ought to know that but it is time for Andrew to step up and respond to us. There is plenty of evidence. There have been plenty of violations. Unless Andrew says otherwise, people will assume he is in approval of this behavior and we might as well all act like bullies. Only Andrew can create change now. It is his site. Is this what he wants it to be? It this what he envisioned? Does this make him proud? You cannot answer these questions sweet ana. Only Andrew can and we are all running out of patience waiting for a response.
I agree Missy. It's beginning to look as if the wheels of justice might not be grinding at all. Ana has my respect too for bearing the brunt of this as the ONLY representative of the site speaking up about it. She's the one voice calling for change who has any connection with Andrew Conru. I have to wonder what's taking so long. Is there some ambiguity about abuse and harassment that i'm missing?

Understand, Ana, this is no challenge to you. You've already won me over and you won't get rid of me easily.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/23/2016 10:59 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear TX,

    Oh Hon I know what you meant. I am just so exhausted and trying to do everything at once and feeling like I am letting you all down. I promise not to give up..I will keep on fighting until this site is SAFE for everyone and those that would threaten to murder members and their families are locked up some place, jail or a mental hospital.

    Hugss & Happy Tues My Friend & Thank you for explaining,

    Ana6
YOU aren't letting us down, Ana. But some of us are feeling like maybe someone else is.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


QUEENBEEV 55F  
4204 posts
8/23/2016 6:42 pm

I think what bothers me the most about this is the way she thumbs her nose at all of us who dare to say anything against her. She doesn't even slow down with all her crazy postings...almost a "I dare you to say anything...I am so special here...nothing will be done"...

A kind of nany nany boo boo if you will. " You can't touch me. I am the reason everyone comes here."

I personally have had to provide a written apology to her after I dared to quote something she said...I was banned for a week.

And she gets a day?

She is just as culpable for those death threats as the man who posted them...it was obvious that they had been in cahoots for a while now...just be gleaning information from their conversation.

She is not trying to hide the fact that she insists that her minions sign a contract stating they will NOT visit any blogs that she deems "unfit".

She did nothing to hide the hideous petition...nothing to hide the post body shaming a complete stranger.

She is bold in her actions...and she has right to be...no one says anything to cause her to stop what she is doing.

She feels as though she is being victimized by those of us who want to put wrongs to right...and it seems (not only to her...but to some of us as well) that she can and will do whatever the hell she wants...and get away with it...because she has and is currently doing just that.

And heaven be damned if you get caught trying to go against her.

I got caught talking against her...I guess I'll be next on the "hit list"...she banned me this morning...I can only fear what's next.

I never thought I would have to fear anything other than the occasional being recognized in public while being here.

Do I have to fear something far more serious now? For trying to stand up for the majority of us...the ones who want to blog and let blog...the ones who don't care to share each other...with each other.

I adore you for helping us...and I wish you luck with the poop-storm that is surely to follow if and when the site chooses to do something about this very bad apple amongst a big ol bunch of fruitcakes!

Smooches darlin!

Not having a go at you...cause I know you are doing your best...

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

RATEYOURSELF


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/23/2016 8:42 pm

Ana, I know I've said this before, but thank you. Really- thank you. So many people don't follow through. No one will ever be able to say that of you, however this turns out.
Your post should be mandatory reading for new members.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 2:43 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i agree missy an have wrote the same thing... the members of AdultFriendFinder deserve to know an it will only mean something from him an his actions... An poor ana has taken the blunt of things, tried to answer honestly an tired to help members... she has done what was asked of her, an i am glad it wasnt me who had t field all the bitching, complaints, etc.. but all of us do know she has tried an done more than most... including the site after being asked to help, time now for AdultFriendFinder to act
Thank you TX,

I know exactly what you mean about deserving to know the truth and from who. I make sure every day that Andrew knows what is going on, how often the TOU was broken or violated and exactly which blogger and their fans are at fault. I have given him Missy's post here and Her Open letter to Andrew blog she wrote. I have asked him to write what he feels is appropriate to this situation. I can post it here or to his blog and share from there. I began discussions today with a new member to the team and I am bringing him up to date on the evil petition and the aftermath up to the Death Threats and the emails demanding members here do not talk to or engage with, read or post to other women's blogs here or else.

We are almost there.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 3:15 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    please understand, we all that have wrote ana , are not trying to run your site andrew... rather stop the ones who choose to ignore the rules an chance, engage others to help in what she is trying to do, skirt your TOU laws , so we are not trying to run your site, but stop others from running your site into the ground..
Dear Tx,

Hello Hon, I totally understand. Andrew knows that the only reason members are standing and asking for change is that it will benefit the site & all members. Perfectly said there my friend...' Not trying to run the site but stop others from running the site into the ground."

I promise you he knows that hon and trust me is as tired of one blogger holding this site hostage along with her so called " fans ."

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 3:29 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    YOU aren't letting us down, Ana. But some of us are feeling like maybe someone else is.
Dear Kzoo,

Thank you My Friend I appreciate that. As I said on another post, Andrew is aware of what is going on and has me working with someone new on finally settling for good.. this grotesque mess the blogger started.

#NotGivingUpOrGoingAway
#StayTheCourse
#RespectIsAWayOfLife

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 4:07 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    I think what bothers me the most about this is the way she thumbs her nose at all of us who dare to say anything against her. She doesn't even slow down with all her crazy postings...almost a "I dare you to say anything...I am so special here...nothing will be done"...

    A kind of nany nany boo boo if you will. " You can't touch me. I am the reason everyone comes here."

    I personally have had to provide a written apology to her after I dared to quote something she said...I was banned for a week.

    And she gets a day?

    She is just as culpable for those death threats as the man who posted them...it was obvious that they had been in cahoots for a while now...just be gleaning information from their conversation.

    She is not trying to hide the fact that she insists that her minions sign a contract stating they will NOT visit any blogs that she deems "unfit".

    She did nothing to hide the hideous petition...nothing to hide the post body shaming a complete stranger.

    She is bold in her actions...and she has right to be...no one says anything to cause her to stop what she is doing.

    She feels as though she is being victimized by those of us who want to put wrongs to right...and it seems (not only to her...but to some of us as well) that she can and will do whatever the hell she wants...and get away with it...because she has and is currently doing just that.

    And heaven be damned if you get caught trying to go against her.

    I got caught talking against her...I guess I'll be next on the "hit list"...she banned me this morning...I can only fear what's next.

    I never thought I would have to fear anything other than the occasional being recognized in public while being here.

    Do I have to fear something far more serious now? For trying to stand up for the majority of us...the ones who want to blog and let blog...the ones who don't care to share each other...with each other.

    I adore you for helping us...and I wish you luck with the poop-storm that is surely to follow if and when the site chooses to do something about this very bad apple amongst a big ol bunch of fruitcakes!

    Smooches darlin!

    Not having a go at you...cause I know you are doing your best...
Dear Queen B,

Happy Wed Hon. Thank you for posting/sharing. i am so glad you did. I was talking with a person at HQ about your post and they are wondering if you kept the communication from the site that asked you to write an apology to the blogger. I've been around here for awhile and have never heard of such a thing and the employee wants to get to the bottom of what was asked of you or demanded of you.

It is the classic trick of Narcissists to claim to be the victim while they are in fact the abuser. No one forced anyone to write that obscene petition or to sign it either. I am so grateful that the bloggers are standing up and saying #NoMore .

I was advised about 5/6 yrs ago when my female stalker was going insane all over the site trying to get at me that if I felt my life was in danger the best course of action was to call my local Police and work from there. With my male stalker being located in NY to Me In Calif..I had to deal with my local cops, NY cops, FBI Computer Crimes Division of Northern Calif..plus More cops in other states and his family, neighbors, friends he had victimized. Going Public was the only way I could protect my family & myself. Was he arrested ? Yes..was he humiliated ? Yes. Did his family know ? Yes, once you threaten to kill a woman who does not even know you, you lose your right to privacy. I can guess from what I was told he was very embarrassed and everyone knew what he had done.

The best course of action is the one we are taking now. The problem blogger only wins when folks are afraid and stay silent or look the other way..We are working our way back to a normal ,happy blog world that does NOT tolerate the actions of a disturbed person.

My best advice for the men who choose to go along with the threat and follow the list of members they are not allowed to engage with..well , enjoy your time on site, enjoy the photos she will provide you and please ignore ALL the other women on site and their pix and blogs...because we'll still be here long after this issue is settled ..Once and For all.

Hang in there Queen..Us Fruitcakes need to stick together..

#WeAreAlmostThere

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 4:24 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Ana, I know I've said this before, but thank you. Really- thank you. So many people don't follow through. No one will ever be able to say that of you, however this turns out.
    Your post should be mandatory reading for new members.
Dear Kzoo,

Thank you my Friend. I am hoping as we resolve this mess and all the members including new ones who will hear of this mess, will not want to ever repeat this disaster.

Hugs & Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/24/2016 5:37 am

HI Ana... its have a good a day Ana day.... I am hoping your dad is doing even better today, that your getting some sleep an feeling better, that your less stressed out by trying to deal with all these problems, an mostly that you have figures a way to cover the bald spots from pulling out your hair over it...


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 5:42 am

    Quoting buxombbw4u:
    I've been a member here since 2003. I've been blogging since... I think 2005, maybe? I've watched "blog wars" come and go, along with some wonderful bloggers who just gave up after being the victims of bullying. I generally stay in my little corner of the site and ignore most of what is going on. I do notice, however, that an awful lot of drama has had the same source.

    That said, I have never seen anything quite so egregious as what happened recently. The whole situation was disgusting, and I still can't quite believe that it went on so long, and with no consequences for the instigator(s).

    Thank you for taking note, and hopefully putting an end to this behavior, at least in this particular instance.

    BTW, by now you may realize that there have been several attempts to change "The List". Good luck and remember that you are never going to please everyone with that.
Hello Buxom,

Happy Wed Thank you for reaching out & sharing your concerns. I agree with you. This recent " Blog war " has left a bad taste in everyone's mouth and a filthy smell all over the site.

We'll figure out something to do with that cursed list. There has to be a better way to share and show all the blogs and bloggers without having jealous meltdowns.

Happy Wed

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 5:48 am

    Quoting citizen4722:


    The blogs shouldn't be about numbers on a list. They should be read without the need to leave derogatory words.
    Respect, in other words.
Dear Citizen,

Thank you so much for your post & words. To me blogs and bloggers were never just a name or number on a list. To me they are people using their words to reach out , console, share and communicate with Humanity.

#RespectForAll
#SayNoToBullies

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 5:52 am

    Quoting ProfPlayful:
    Thank you for being on the side of good, Ana!
Hello Prof,

Thank you for your amazing words. I am merely one of many who feel the same way. We need to return respect & decency to the website & above all to these blogs.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 6:11 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    HI Ana... its have a good a day Ana day.... I am hoping your dad is doing even better today, that your getting some sleep an feeling better, that your less stressed out by trying to deal with all these problems, an mostly that you have figures a way to cover the bald spots from pulling out your hair over it...
Thanks Tx,

Happy Wed Though I am super dooper tired..I shall sleep like a baby tonight. We've had some good news and the end is in sight. I feel very positive about this turn of events. Dad is doing great. He is deep into season # 5 of " Breaking Bad."

Have an awesome Day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/24/2016 6:25 am

well that sounds great, so its just a wait an see..... BUT you need to do something for you today !!!!!!!!!!!! have a great day..


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 6:39 am

    Quoting  :

Qwerty,

Hello & Thank you for being so Brave and locating my blog & this post.

Thank you for agreeing with Us all.

#WelcomeToTheFunBlogs
#NoThreatsOrBlackmailJustFun

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 6:50 am

    Quoting azriel1970:
    I have not a thing to add. Excellent post!!!!!
Dear Azriel,

Thank you so much. Oh I am sure you could add a lot to this discussion. Thank you for finding my blog and joining in with the Blog World idea of Respect & Tolerance for all.

Have a great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 6:56 am

    Quoting PassionCork:
    Brilliantly stated, a must read for anyone in any walk of life.
Dear Passion,

Happy Wed Thank you for your lovely compliment. Very kind of you & I thank you for joining in the Respect discussion.

Have a Great Day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:00 am

    Quoting pandora684:
    Respect and kindness are free and should be spread around liberally. Thank you for posting this.
Hello Pandora,

Happy Wed Thank you for visiting and sharing your thoughts. I agree with you. We should spread kindness & respect freely and with all. Perhaps we'd even reach hearts that are hardened against Us and tolerance for all.

Have a great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:17 am

    Quoting Annie_34:
    Bonjour Anastasia
    Dans le monde actuel le respect devrait être la plus grande valeur
    Merci de ci bien le dire
    ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥


    Hello Anastasia
    In today's world the respect should be the largest value
    Thank you tell it well
    ♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥

Dear Annie,

Merci for your kind words. I wish we could spread respect all over the world. Tolerance for others, respect, kindness then we'd all be in a better,happier, greater place.

Happy Wed & Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:19 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    well that sounds great, so its just a wait an see..... BUT you need to do something for you today !!!!!!!!!!!! have a great day..
Dear TX,

I promise I will Feeling Positive & Hopeful that finally the good news we've been waiting for will be here soon.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:23 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    I have no issue about folks knowing I am on this Site.....I've nothing to be ashamed of either

    Since I got the promotion to 'Resident Bitch'....I've been very proud of the title, and have told a few folks offline.....we have a good laugh because I'm genuinely not a Bitch.....clearly only folks who Bully me, think that.....
    We can all have disagreements with folks on this Site....but to complain about the letter on someone's profile, for so long.....REALLY....

    Happy Wednesday Ana


Happy WED RB,

Your posts are such a delight to read and I always find myself laughing & agreeing with you. I love how the victim & her defenders have become the bad guys and bitches.

The letter ? ohhhh yes...well Thalia is a lovely lady as far as most of us are concerned and I am good with that.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:26 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    Absolutely.....I don't get it either....but we all know WHY THIS Site....able to post nude pics.....
    Not all of us need to do that to MEET......folks meet us based on our PERSONALITY....which I'm fairly sure, has nothing to do with nude pics....

Hello RB,

The one great thing about this site is how it is open to ALL and for a variety of reasons and things to do. Some are here to cam, to blog, to join groups, use IM, Use Chat rooms, email..some are looking for love and some passion.

I have always said the true beauty of a person is the soul that resides inside them. How they treat others is a great JUDGE of who they are as a person.

Happy Wed Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:28 am

Thank you RB ,

Thank you for the support of ALL & this blog post too.

You are amazing & I am very grateful.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:31 am

Dear Spank,

Thank you for finding my blog & caring enough about Respecting others here on site & the real world. Caring so much you took the time to leave a lovely compliment.

I Had to write this as it was burning inside of me to get out & be heard.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/24/2016 7:40 am

[image]

Happy WED Darlings,

Taa Daaaa !!! I finally did it..I managed to reply to all the posts that were posted here. There are only 3 that did not and I sent those members emails about why. I want to thank everyone for their respect, kindness & bravery in posting here.

I know some of the men who posted here might not be able to view my replies because of the emails going out about bloggers and Men needing permission to view any woman on a pre approved list. Maybe one day soon everyone will be able to read and comment on any blog without fear, bullying or needing any ones permission. Maybe Respect will finally be the norm here..

Hugs & Thanks & Happy #WickedWed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/24/2016 8:04 am

ana , i wrote a blog today that i wish you would read... i didnt use the bloggers name as i didnt ask her permission to write about her blog... but she is HOT.. as a hint... just shows how low some men here will stoop an be disrespectful to , because of the one blogger we have here... she gives away points but i guess she didnt give this guy any... lol but wasnt below him to ask someone else , an he states he will get in trouble if the blogger finds out he looked at her profile... made me ashamed to be a man what goes on an how we treat women here.....as petty as it seems , it relates back to ONE blogger, as i am sure the guy wouldnt have shown his disrespect had he not signed up with the other blogger to get nude pics by email.... hope you get my point..


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/24/2016 8:27 am

to make sense where i left off on last note.... she manlipulates men, intiminates them that they cant look at other blogs.... or reply to other bloggers... in doing that i am guessing she thinks her numbers will go higher as they arent adding points to other bloggers...all about self serving an trying to mannipulate site rules to work in her favor, yet being able to say " my hands are clean" by using emails to get her messages across to her followers all to raise her blog number...


LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2201 posts
8/24/2016 9:18 am

Thank you for all your work, Ana, it is greatly appreciated!


ReBar100 53M
4168 posts
8/24/2016 1:39 pm

I grew up on the beach. Nothing special, just happened to be the location. I always tell people I grew up in a Gidget movie.

The beach was a very social place. Everyone was half dressed in bathing suits, people were cooking out doors. There was little drama. If anything, there were just groups that didn't interact. I loved it.

I came out to California and experienced my first true nude beach. We had them back east but they were somewhat outlaws. Here in CA, it was open, legal and wonderful.

The beached here can be small and when the tide comes in, the beach shrinks. People get closer and closer together until there is little space between them. For many, the their new neighbors are total strangers. But the commonality...everybody is naked, or at least topless. And the social aspects were amazing to watch. People laughing together, sharing food, a joint. Complete cooperation in the common good of enjoying the beach.

Physically, emotionally, nothing to hide. There was nothing to hide behind. No clothes...no blog.

It's amazing what happens between people when all the pretense goes away.

Rebar100
Just the right amount of wrong. Occasional participant in various ongoing blogging projects. Rather be naked. The Blog: [REBAR100]


QUEENBEEV 55F  
4204 posts
8/24/2016 2:28 pm

I think we have established my technicalogically stunted I am...and as this was a few years...and a few computers ago...I unfortunately don't have a record of said apology to share with you.

Believe me...I wish I did...it was some of my finest bullshit. I gagged and gritted my teeth throughout the whole darn thing.

It seemed unfair then...and still seems unfair to me.

She delights in inciting hateful feelings in people...then sits back...rubbing her hands in glee...and lets people fight for her...so her hands don't really get too dirty.

She loves being that "damsel" in distress...and there are more than enough "white knights" to rush to her defense...without knowing the other side of the story...aka...the truth.

Sometimes said knights get booted...and she could care less...there are always more waiting in the wings to gather her favor...it's horrible to that they don't know her plans for them include...but not limited to...getting banned from the site...and by the time they find out...it's too late...and she has moved on to her next puppet in line.

All for what?

We all have the same bits as her...and most of us are much much nicer ladies.

I don't have to resort to blackmail and threats to have men view my profile...and that's just the way I like it.

I have noticed that a couple of my fans (as well as hers) have dropped off my list...I'm only assuming they got the "e-mail"...and were forbidden to even look at my pictures.

It's just pathetic...and a little sad...

Oh well...their loss...not mine.

Thank you for all you are trying to do.

Smooches!

Bev

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

RATEYOURSELF


LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2201 posts
8/24/2016 4:21 pm

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    well that sounds great, so its just a wait an see..... BUT you need to do something for you today !!!!!!!!!!!! have a great day..
I agree with tex....we surely appreciate all that you are doing but...you need to take care of yourself as well.

And you don't need to respond to my messages....hugs...i know you read them, all of them, each and every one. From everyone lol


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/24/2016 7:17 pm

    Quoting anastasia666:
    [image]

    Happy WED Darlings,

    Taa Daaaa !!! I finally did it..I managed to reply to all the posts that were posted here. There are only 3 that did not and I sent those members emails about why. I want to thank everyone for their respect, kindness & bravery in posting here.

    I know some of the men who posted here might not be able to view my replies because of the emails going out about bloggers and Men needing permission to view any woman on a pre approved list. Maybe one day soon everyone will be able to read and comment on any blog without fear, bullying or needing any ones permission. Maybe Respect will finally be the norm here..

    Hugs & Thanks & Happy #WickedWed,

    Ana6
And now you have one more! You've done a fine job, Ana, and we're all in your debt.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/25/2016 2:00 am

Good Morning Ana.....well done for catching up

I know some of the men who posted here might not be able to view my replies because of the emails going out about bloggers and Men needing permission to view any woman on a pre approved list. Maybe one day soon everyone will be able to read and comment on any blog without fear, bullying or needing any ones permission. Maybe Respect will finally be the norm here..

That is just sad......


Please delete my comment if it offends.....
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txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/25/2016 4:34 am

post are under review?


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/25/2016 6:29 am

As discussed

[image]

Please delete my comment if it offends.....
This is our Blog signature...do not visit our Blog as it has nothing to do with sex, and....
WARNING reading and commenting on our Blog could seriously damage YOUR status and reputation


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 6:52 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    ana , i wrote a blog today that i wish you would read... i didnt use the bloggers name as i didnt ask her permission to write about her blog... but she is HOT.. as a hint... just shows how low some men here will stoop an be disrespectful to , because of the one blogger we have here... she gives away points but i guess she didnt give this guy any... lol but wasnt below him to ask someone else , an he states he will get in trouble if the blogger finds out he looked at her profile... made me ashamed to be a man what goes on an how we treat women here.....as petty as it seems , it relates back to ONE blogger, as i am sure the guy wouldnt have shown his disrespect had he not signed up with the other blogger to get nude pics by email.... hope you get my point..
Happy Thurs TX,

Thank you Hon for keeping our Blogging Universe going. I did read the blog you wrote. I have heard about the so called " Lists" one of potential victims targeted for death and the other seems to be a list of the most popular female & male bloggers who give their all to keep this site safe & sane. From what I heard One blogger is demanding that men NOT engage, visit, email, view, IM the other more popular women & men. The shame of it is, in this once again flagrant violation of the TOU, the ones who will end up paying by this hostage taking of the Blogs..are the men too afraid to stand up and walk away. ANY blogger or member who tries to force others to engage in criminal activities or do as they order and keep you in fear of her out of control rage...is a member MEN need to distance themselves from right now.

Thankfully this site will see to it that such behavior will NO longer be tolerated and those who did this will be a part of this sites distant past.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting  :

[image]

Hello Boomer,

Welcome to My Blog. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog and comment on this Respect post. You are so right. Some people hide behind their computer screens and lose their humanity and bully others into doing their bidding or else. Some of Us have tried to help those in need..I have thought of offering therapy advice, mental health clinics, advice on how to write a mea culpa and apologize to all of her victims/survivors...but alas I think this one blogger will never accept responsibility for her misdeeds. A fellow Blogger thought the same thing. I wish the blogger well and truly hope that one day soon she will get the help she needs so much to help her deal with all her emotional issues.

Then perhaps she will realize the pain she inflicted on innocent men and women she does not even know, nor will she ever meet, was all in Vain. We need to remember that behind every screen is a living . breathing person and they have a right to be here too.

Thank you for your Bravery,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2201 posts
8/25/2016 7:31 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    Here's a thought. I've said this many times before but I'm going to try again.
    If you like this idea, maybe you can suggest it to Site.

    We know that the Site will never get rid of the List. They like it there for newbies to see.
    Also, they want the best blogs to show there ( who THEY consider the best, either by unique responders or responses )

    How about we randomly rotate the list with only THOSE blogs?

    For example... the people that they have on the list right now would stay the same. But every time you re-opened the blog home page, those same names would be in a different random order.
    This would make no one #1. But the Site would still have THEIR idea of who is best showing on the list.

    There'd be no reason for harassing, behind the scenes trickery, none of that. Why bother? No one is #1.

    I really think if they did that it would get rid of most of the negativity that we see here way too often.

    They already have the capability (coding) to do this. They do that with the three " Some Actively Watched Blogs " pictures on the top off the blog home page.

    It's a good and fair idea.
    They're never going to get rid of that list for business purposes and they want the best (their picks) to show there.
    This lets them have what they want but stops all the negativity in the blogs.
I agree with goodatpoetry....I think this is a good solution for the list. I know you've probably already let Andrew know of this suggestion; perhaps next time you talk to him, you could mention it to him again? Thanks!


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 7:42 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    to make sense where i left off on last note.... she manlipulates men, intiminates them that they cant look at other blogs.... or reply to other bloggers... in doing that i am guessing she thinks her numbers will go higher as they arent adding points to other bloggers...all about self serving an trying to mannipulate site rules to work in her favor, yet being able to say " my hands are clean" by using emails to get her messages across to her followers all to raise her blog number...
[image]

Dear TX,

Darling I hear you...I am frankly surprised that our men here, our members who came here to have fun, meet, chat and even hope for a wee bit of romance would surrender their rights to a person , any person, who tells them YOU can only engage with me..

I wish things were not as they are and soon , thankfully ever reign of terror does end..as this too shall pass.

Once again there will be Light, fun and happiness back in our blog world. Imagine that. #RespectWins

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 7:47 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    [image]

    Dear TX,

    Darling I hear you...I am frankly surprised that our men here, our members who came here to have fun, meet, chat and even hope for a wee bit of romance would surrender their rights to a person , any person, who tells them YOU can only engage with me..

    I wish things were not as they are and soon , thankfully ever reign of terror does end..as this too shall pass.

    Once again there will be Light, fun and happiness back in our blog world. Imagine that. #RespectWins

    Hugs,

    Ana6
...and Ana6 has " Shakespeare Retold" on dvd and forgot the image she meant to share...Alas Poor Ana, she doth typeth too quickly and her wits over ran her fingers and thus no image for thine eyes.."

Well so be it and here the image be

[image]

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 7:54 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Thank you for all your work, Ana, it is greatly appreciated!
Live,

Thank you for your kind words. Really makes me smile. I am glad to help the site, employees and members. I just want to see everyone happy & fulfilled.

Hugs & Happy Thurs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 7:59 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    I am proud to say that a couple of men have stood up to the bully. They have called her out on her behavior or said they will not follow her terms. A few have said she is fine to make her own rules and are ok with not receiving explicit pics. Some seem to support her on her blog but support the rest of at the same time. Some are die hard fans. But not nearly as many as she is expecting to be.
Missy,

Happy Thurs. Wow, that is really great news. Men are feeling respect for themselves and other bloggers here and are actually saying NO ? Yes, of course if it is your blog , you create your space and rules. Yet in the end we ALL follow the TOU..well, most of us do anyway. I wish the supporters and non supporters well and as I said before..WE will be here when that blog is not.

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:02 am

    Quoting ReBar100:
    I grew up on the beach. Nothing special, just happened to be the location. I always tell people I grew up in a Gidget movie.

    The beach was a very social place. Everyone was half dressed in bathing suits, people were cooking out doors. There was little drama. If anything, there were just groups that didn't interact. I loved it.

    I came out to California and experienced my first true nude beach. We had them back east but they were somewhat outlaws. Here in CA, it was open, legal and wonderful.

    The beached here can be small and when the tide comes in, the beach shrinks. People get closer and closer together until there is little space between them. For many, the their new neighbors are total strangers. But the commonality...everybody is naked, or at least topless. And the social aspects were amazing to watch. People laughing together, sharing food, a joint. Complete cooperation in the common good of enjoying the beach.

    Physically, emotionally, nothing to hide. There was nothing to hide behind. No clothes...no blog.

    It's amazing what happens between people when all the pretense goes away.
Dear ReBar,

Happy Thurs & Thank you for your interesting post. I like what you trying to say here.

If everyone stripped away the pretense of their lives and just LIVED then the world would be a much better place. NO lies and NO hiding.

Thank you for your Bravery,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:14 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    I think we have established my technicalogically stunted I am...and as this was a few years...and a few computers ago...I unfortunately don't have a record of said apology to share with you.

    Believe me...I wish I did...it was some of my finest bullshit. I gagged and gritted my teeth throughout the whole darn thing.

    It seemed unfair then...and still seems unfair to me.

    She delights in inciting hateful feelings in people...then sits back...rubbing her hands in glee...and lets people fight for her...so her hands don't really get too dirty.

    She loves being that "damsel" in distress...and there are more than enough "white knights" to rush to her defense...without knowing the other side of the story...aka...the truth.

    Sometimes said knights get booted...and she could care less...there are always more waiting in the wings to gather her favor...it's horrible to that they don't know her plans for them include...but not limited to...getting banned from the site...and by the time they find out...it's too late...and she has moved on to her next puppet in line.

    All for what?

    We all have the same bits as her...and most of us are much much nicer ladies.

    I don't have to resort to blackmail and threats to have men view my profile...and that's just the way I like it.

    I have noticed that a couple of my fans (as well as hers) have dropped off my list...I'm only assuming they got the "e-mail"...and were forbidden to even look at my pictures.

    It's just pathetic...and a little sad...

    Oh well...their loss...not mine.

    Thank you for all you are trying to do.

    Smooches!

    Bev
Dear Queen B,

Hello Darlin..and I totally understand the tech challenge..( C'est Moi ) I meant to ask if you had the communication from the site asking you to write this apology..or did someone from HQ call ? ( a team is looking into how this could have been done to you without permission from HQ )

I am sorry you lost some fans..I think I can predict that when this dust settles..you will be surprised to find yourself awash in fans, new ones and the ones who gave into fear..It is pathetic and very sad. We must move forward, forgive those who fled in fear and keep #RespectAlive.

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:25 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    I agree with tex....we surely appreciate all that you are doing but...you need to take care of yourself as well.

    And you don't need to respond to my messages....hugs...i know you read them, all of them, each and every one. From everyone lol
Dear Live,

Thank you Sweetheart. I promise even though my hours are long and tough..My spirit, mind and body will carry me through to see this site returned to its former glory. I do read every message and do my best to reply as fast as I can. A wonderful , heartfelt message of hope deserves a quick & caring reply.

#WeAreAllInThisTogether
#AllForOneAndOneForAll
#WeStandWithNice

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:36 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Bchman,

Happy Thurs. Thank you for being so kind and finding my blog and for the lovely compliment. You and I are alike..I treat people with respect every day of my life whether they deserve it or not because I refuse to sink to the level of some of the worst of humanity. I prefer to think positive and am a great believer in Karma. What one does comes back to one.

Have an awesome day & Thank you for your Bravery,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:39 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    And now you have one more! You've done a fine job, Ana, and we're all in your debt.
Darling Kzoo,

Thank you my Darling friend for the big smile I am wearing right now. Happy Thurs & Hope you have a truly wonderful day.

Thank you for your generous compliments too,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:42 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    Good Morning Ana.....well done for catching up

    I know some of the men who posted here might not be able to view my replies because of the emails going out about bloggers and Men needing permission to view any woman on a pre approved list. Maybe one day soon everyone will be able to read and comment on any blog without fear, bullying or needing any ones permission. Maybe Respect will finally be the norm here..

    That is just sad......

Good Morning RB,

Happy Thurs I know darlin' it is so dreadfully sad when people sign away their rights to be free, to talk to whoever they like..In a world filled with free porn pix..to walk away from real, fun, intelligent, charming, beautiful people astounds me. You can always find free porn pix in the world..but you can and will not always find great people you want to interact with.

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:45 am

Dear TX,

Happy Thurs Do you mean in general around the site ? ( Could be the death threats/ lists of targeted members ) or do you mean here ? I prefer to keep this blog clean from threats or attacks on innocent members so I review each post before it loads to my blog.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:50 am

Dear RB,

Brilliant image. Fits perfectly with what I've been trying to say. For me it has always been the Quality of my friends..never the Quantity...I am blessed to know so many fascinating, amazing people..I wish everyone the same gift.

#IKnowWhyMyFriendsAreLoved

Have a Great day, Off to finish Disc # 1 of "Shakespeare Retold ." (Been reading him since I was 8..#LoveThatBard

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/25/2016 8:53 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    I agree with goodatpoetry....I think this is a good solution for the list. I know you've probably already let Andrew know of this suggestion; perhaps next time you talk to him, you could mention it to him again? Thanks!
Live,

My Dear Girl you are a certified genius...Thank you for reminding me about this idea & Good's words. I will copy/paste this whole comment and put it right into his hands in a moments time.

You are such a delight and should be told that often

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 2:33 am

[image]

Happy Frisky Friday Darlings,

Hope everyone is well & Happy. Obviously the word is out. The Good Guys & Gals won and the reign of terror in Blog world is over for GOOD. The " man " who threatened bloggers with death and their families too is GONE. The Blogger who started this whole mess is GONE. If they attempt to come back on to the site the profiles will be pulled and banned again.

NOW, we can get our blog world back to normal. Thank you to ALL the bloggers who made this happen. It was all the evidence that you all gathered and turned in with reports of abuse. It is due to some wonderful employees who took all these reports in , viewed the evidence and made the ultimate decision that they broke the rules and had to GO. Thanks to everyone who stood up and said NO MORE to the bullying, lying, criminal activity, shaming, death threats..To all who stood for one of the nicest women I know.. ( Hello Thalia ) for all who stood to stand as One United to protect All our our members from abuse & bullying, Thank you to all of you for finding me and this blog and all of you who came together to say as one " Respect matters " and " NO More Bullying. "

I love being a part of a United Blog World..Thank you all for letting me be a part of this campaign to end abuse on site, in blogs and In our world.

Happy Sexy Weekend & Have Fun Take a Break and Let loose..

WE'VE all Earned this

Thank you Thalia for Uniting Us as One..

#AllForOneAndOneForAll

#RespectWins

xoxo,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 2:40 am

[image]

Happy weekend,

..Just because one image is never enough...

xoxo,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/26/2016 2:58 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    [image]

    Happy Frisky Friday Darlings,

    Hope everyone is well & Happy. Obviously the word is out. The Good Guys & Gals won and the reign of terror in Blog world is over for GOOD. The " man " who threatened bloggers with death and their families too is GONE. The Blogger who started this whole mess is GONE. If they attempt to come back on to the site the profiles will be pulled and banned again.

    NOW, we can get our blog world back to normal. Thank you to ALL the bloggers who made this happen. It was all the evidence that you all gathered and turned in with reports of abuse. It is due to some wonderful employees who took all these reports in , viewed the evidence and made the ultimate decision that they broke the rules and had to GO. Thanks to everyone who stood up and said NO MORE to the bullying, lying, criminal activity, shaming, death threats..To all who stood for one of the nicest women I know.. ( Hello Thalia ) for all who stood to stand as One United to protect All our our members from abuse & bullying, Thank you to all of you for finding me and this blog and all of you who came together to say as one " Respect matters " and " NO More Bullying. "

    I love being a part of a United Blog World..Thank you all for letting me be a part of this campaign to end abuse on site, in blogs and In our world.

    Happy Sexy Weekend & Have Fun Take a Break and Let loose..

    WE'VE all Earned this

    Thank you Thalia for Uniting Us as One..

    #AllForOneAndOneForAll

    #RespectWins

    xoxo,

    Ana6
Indeed, thank you Thalia. Thank you Ana, and everyone else who stood up and was counted. We're better together.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 3:12 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Indeed, thank you Thalia. Thank you Ana, and everyone else who stood up and was counted. We're better together.
Dear Kzoo,

Thank you for this wonderful post. WE are better when we stand together.

#BetterAndStronger..

Hugs & Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/26/2016 4:49 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    [image]

    Happy Frisky Friday Darlings,

    Hope everyone is well & Happy. Obviously the word is out. The Good Guys & Gals won and the reign of terror in Blog world is over for GOOD. The " man " who threatened bloggers with death and their families too is GONE. The Blogger who started this whole mess is GONE. If they attempt to come back on to the site the profiles will be pulled and banned again.

    NOW, we can get our blog world back to normal. Thank you to ALL the bloggers who made this happen. It was all the evidence that you all gathered and turned in with reports of abuse. It is due to some wonderful employees who took all these reports in , viewed the evidence and made the ultimate decision that they broke the rules and had to GO. Thanks to everyone who stood up and said NO MORE to the bullying, lying, criminal activity, shaming, death threats..To all who stood for one of the nicest women I know.. ( Hello Thalia ) for all who stood to stand as One United to protect All our our members from abuse & bullying, Thank you to all of you for finding me and this blog and all of you who came together to say as one " Respect matters " and " NO More Bullying. "

    I love being a part of a United Blog World..Thank you all for letting me be a part of this campaign to end abuse on site, in blogs and In our world.

    Happy Sexy Weekend & Have Fun Take a Break and Let loose..

    WE'VE all Earned this

    Thank you Thalia for Uniting Us as One..

    #AllForOneAndOneForAll

    #RespectWins

    xoxo,

    Ana6
This is SUCH great news.
After YEARS of *behind the curtain* shenanigans, it's finally over.
I thank YOU, for all your help with correcting this injustice. It had really gone on far too long.
And I thank the Site, for ( finally ) understanding.
Better late than never.
Thanks again.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 5:05 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    This is SUCH great news.
    After YEARS of *behind the curtain* shenanigans, it's finally over.
    I thank YOU, for all your help with correcting this injustice. It had really gone on far too long.
    And I thank the Site, for ( finally ) understanding.
    Better late than never.
    Thanks again.
Dear Good,

You're welcome & Thank you so much. I heard about this early Thurs evening and was cheering our site & employees/Members who united to make this happen.

Thank you again for your excellent suggestions about blog list rankings. I delivered your post exactly as you shared it here with me, directly to Andrew.

Have a Fabulous weekend..YOU earned this..

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 67M  
2525 posts
8/26/2016 6:06 am

i am glad thalia is back an actively blogging without fear... but i think we all need to thank her FRIENDS who blogged on her behalf while she was gone, ones who started PINK, an other blogs making everyone aware of how an why she left, ones who started uniting all of us in blog land... There were others who left before Thalia, but its her blog we all enjoyed an missed while she was gone that got a few bloggers here started in thier campaign against how this went down... So i want to thank Thalia for coming back, an the OTHERS who supported her an started things as they did why she took some time off here to reqroup... Mammacita, missy, Kzoopair, comes to mind in thier efforts


PenelopeClear 58F
54 posts
8/26/2016 6:57 am

Do you know why the other profile and blog still remain? I'm afraid this will all start again.

Anyway, bravo and Happy Friday/Weekend!


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 7:30 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i am glad thalia is back an actively blogging without fear... but i think we all need to thank her FRIENDS who blogged on her behalf while she was gone, ones who started PINK, an other blogs making everyone aware of how an why she left, ones who started uniting all of us in blog land... There were others who left before Thalia, but its her blog we all enjoyed an missed while she was gone that got a few bloggers here started in thier campaign against how this went down... So i want to thank Thalia for coming back, an the OTHERS who supported her an started things as they did why she took some time off here to reqroup... Mammacita, missy, Kzoopair, comes to mind in thier efforts
TX,

Good Job My friend I thought I did thank ALL the bloggers in this post but in case anyone feels left out.

THANK YOU TO ALL THE United Bloggers who did this..Everyone with good feelings & intentions did this.. ALL For One And One For All !!

#GoodGuysWon
#WeStandWithNice

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/26/2016 7:32 am

    Quoting PenelopeClear:
    Do you know why the other profile and blog still remain? I'm afraid this will all start again.

    Anyway, bravo and Happy Friday/Weekend!
Dear Penelope,

Happy Weekend Yes, we are aware of the second profile and it will be deleted this morning. Thank you for bringing it to our attention in case we did not know.

Thank you & Have a Great weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/26/2016 9:29 am

    Quoting PenelopeClear:
    Do you know why the other profile and blog still remain? I'm afraid this will all start again.

    Anyway, bravo and Happy Friday/Weekend!
It's gone now.....and if anyone spots her familiar but 'out of date pics' on 'new' profiles, need to be reported immediately

Please delete my comment if it offends.....
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Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
8/26/2016 9:32 am

Thank you Ana SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUUUUUUUUCCCCCHHHHHHH


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kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/26/2016 10:26 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i am glad thalia is back an actively blogging without fear... but i think we all need to thank her FRIENDS who blogged on her behalf while she was gone, ones who started PINK, an other blogs making everyone aware of how an why she left, ones who started uniting all of us in blog land... There were others who left before Thalia, but its her blog we all enjoyed an missed while she was gone that got a few bloggers here started in thier campaign against how this went down... So i want to thank Thalia for coming back, an the OTHERS who supported her an started things as they did why she took some time off here to reqroup... Mammacita, missy, Kzoopair, comes to mind in thier efforts
Resident Bitch/DamnedVixen, KItkat, SnuggleBuni, ElasticHeart, NaughtyInSO, Sexysixties2, goodatpoetry2.....there are so many.

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PenelopeClear 58F
54 posts
8/26/2016 10:38 am

    Quoting PenelopeClear:
    Do you know why the other profile and blog still remain? I'm afraid this will all start again.

    Anyway, bravo and Happy Friday/Weekend!
Spoke too soon. The other profile and post are gone now.
On some level, it's sad. She truly thought she was in the right and being persecuted by others. I can't help but hope that she (and anyone else suffering from "illness") finds some help and peace in offline life.


nicelipss66 44F
23707 posts
8/26/2016 2:56 pm

    Quoting anastasia666:
    [image]

    Happy Frisky Friday Darlings,

    Hope everyone is well & Happy. Obviously the word is out. The Good Guys & Gals won and the reign of terror in Blog world is over for GOOD. The " man " who threatened bloggers with death and their families too is GONE. The Blogger who started this whole mess is GONE. If they attempt to come back on to the site the profiles will be pulled and banned again.

    NOW, we can get our blog world back to normal. Thank you to ALL the bloggers who made this happen. It was all the evidence that you all gathered and turned in with reports of abuse. It is due to some wonderful employees who took all these reports in , viewed the evidence and made the ultimate decision that they broke the rules and had to GO. Thanks to everyone who stood up and said NO MORE to the bullying, lying, criminal activity, shaming, death threats..To all who stood for one of the nicest women I know.. ( Hello Thalia ) for all who stood to stand as One United to protect All our our members from abuse & bullying, Thank you to all of you for finding me and this blog and all of you who came together to say as one " Respect matters " and " NO More Bullying. "

    I love being a part of a United Blog World..Thank you all for letting me be a part of this campaign to end abuse on site, in blogs and In our world.

    Happy Sexy Weekend & Have Fun Take a Break and Let loose..

    WE'VE all Earned this

    Thank you Thalia for Uniting Us as One..

    #AllForOneAndOneForAll

    #RespectWins

    xoxo,

    Ana6
Hi Ana, Thank you. That was very sweet. the pleasure and admiration is mutual. it has been a pleasure working with all of you. I myself have no words to described all this. all I know is that I feel happy with the results. it was a long dragging thing.

Lots of great wonderful bloggers played a BIG part in all of this. I thank all of them. they nothing but exceptional and outstanding.

Ana. Again. Thank you so so very much for everything. your support was always appreciated. you and all the bloggers have my gratitude. I will always remember you guys

Have a happy Friday

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QUEENBEEV 55F  
4204 posts
8/26/2016 6:02 pm

Thank you for being so tenacious...it has bettered us all.

Again...I wish I had bothered to save all that info on the "apology debacle"...to be honest...at that time...I just wanted my profile back...and wasn't thinking very far ahead of that.

I just took my punishment and kept going...as much as I hated it.

Anyhoo...it seems as though Karma won out in the long run.

!

Smooches sweet lady

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

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anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 9:37 am

    Quoting ethicalslutMissy:
    Patience is a virtue and we have been patient. I believe the site is working on the other profile. once it is I will I hide the rest of my blog posts. I had hid most of it when I saw the grim reaper message with my handle. He is gone now. Let's have peace and respect in the blogs and move on.
Hello Missy,

Patience is indeed a virtue. Yes, the second profile was deleted Fri morn. Our Blog world and site can get back to normal & Fun as it should have been. The man who was threatening most of the top bloggers/females on site has also been banned/deleted.

Peace, Happiness & Fun will be the order of the day once more in our Blog world..Oh and this too..

Respect. No more Bullying or threats, lies, shaming. Tolerance for all.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 9:46 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    It's gone now.....and if anyone spots her familiar but 'out of date pics' on 'new' profiles, need to be reported immediately
Dear RB,

Thank you Please if anyone spots either the blogger or her fan who threatened members with death, please report them and their handle name, screen shots or if you are sent those emails with threats. Please turn them into either Me or the abuse dept.

Happy weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 9:52 am

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    Thank you Ana SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUUUUUUUUCCCCCHHHHHHH

    [image]
Darling RB,

You're welcome Thank You for the lovely post & for never giving up. When The bloggers United to support Thalia something great was born. I am so lucky & blessed that I am blogging and in such great company as you & all our bloggers.

#Respect
#FreedomFromBullies
#GoodGuysAndGalsWon

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 9:56 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Resident Bitch/DamnedVixen, KItkat, SnuggleBuni, ElasticHeart, NaughtyInSO, Sexysixties2, goodatpoetry2.....there are so many.
Dear Kzoo,

Thank you dear friend for your kindness and sharing the names of some of our amazing bloggers. It is a joy to be among their company.

Hugs & Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 9:58 am

    Quoting PenelopeClear:
    Spoke too soon. The other profile and post are gone now.
    On some level, it's sad. She truly thought she was in the right and being persecuted by others. I can't help but hope that she (and anyone else suffering from "illness") finds some help and peace in offline life.
Dear Penelope,

Happy Weekend & yes, the other profile was removed. I know in the end she felt she was the victim after she victimized countless male and female members/bloggers. I am sorry her " Illness " keeps her from being able to tell the truth or apologize for her many, many misdeeds. I hope she can get the help she needs and become a better, kinder person.

Have a great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 10:09 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Hi Ana, Thank you. That was very sweet. the pleasure and admiration is mutual. it has been a pleasure working with all of you. I myself have no words to described all this. all I know is that I feel happy with the results. it was a long dragging thing.

    Lots of great wonderful bloggers played a BIG part in all of this. I thank all of them. they nothing but exceptional and outstanding.

    Ana. Again. Thank you so so very much for everything. your support was always appreciated. you and all the bloggers have my gratitude. I will always remember you guys

    Have a happy Friday
Dear Thalia,

Thank you Sweetheart & You're welcome. You withstood everything they threw at you and never lost your composure. You are Braver then I'll ever be. It has been my honour in standing shoulder to shoulder with all your friends & blogging community to see Justice done.

Happy Weekend Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 10:13 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Zara,

Thank you for this lovely message. I truly hope Mr. R sees this message. I am sorry to hear he is another victim/survivor of stalkers. I hope we have seen the last of such intolerance & bullying here on site.

Happy Sat,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 10:18 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Zara,

Thank you for your lovely post. I am sorry that you went through a mess just for asking why someone was using a photo not his own. I believe the man deleted was engaged in something just like that. Oh darlin;, I had to keep my tongue firmly in cheek as I wrote this post. I had to keep my temper in check after reading some of the things the bloggers were accused of by the deleted/banned blogger.

I am proud of everyone for not sinking to the levels they did. Once again, I am lucky to be in this great company of bloggers/members.

Happy Sat,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/27/2016 10:21 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    Thank you for being so tenacious...it has bettered us all.

    Again...I wish I had bothered to save all that info on the "apology debacle"...to be honest...at that time...I just wanted my profile back...and wasn't thinking very far ahead of that.

    I just took my punishment and kept going...as much as I hated it.

    Anyhoo...it seems as though Karma won out in the long run.

    !

    Smooches sweet lady
Dear Queen B,

You're welcome. Little Pepper Pot me can not back down when others are in need. Once I give my word, my word is my Bond. This was a great cause to stand up for.

I am so happy the bad days are in Our Past and no more bullying ever again.

Have a wonderful weekend,

Hugss,

Ana6

#RespectWon
#TruthWom
#WeAllWon

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


ranchomongo 66M  
5591 posts
8/27/2016 9:25 pm

everyone did fine..
now if we can only get rid of who's number one blogger and who's top points earner.
i feel that having this i m higher than you mentality is what got this crap all going to start , having to be higher better i m better cause i dont have a dick..
like how fucking stupid..

who about just randomly letting anyone with a blog be up on top for an hr.. then the next hr.. another set of blogger can get up there..
yes i know people love to read top bloggers and i m sure there is a reason.. but i m sure a blogger that is just started might have just as much insight or maybe more than a top blogger.

just my opinion and maybe with that gets settled ..
i would find a way to get my gold back. till then, it s just causing more problems down the way..
and i don t want to pay for bulling .

Thanks for what you did..ANA
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author51 57F  
99479 posts
8/28/2016 3:01 am

well written and we need to treat others like we ourselves want to be treated..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/28/2016 5:36 am

    Quoting ranchomongo:
    everyone did fine..
    now if we can only get rid of who's number one blogger and who's top points earner.
    i feel that having this i m higher than you mentality is what got this crap all going to start , having to be higher better i m better cause i dont have a dick..
    like how fucking stupid..

    who about just randomly letting anyone with a blog be up on top for an hr.. then the next hr.. another set of blogger can get up there..
    yes i know people love to read top bloggers and i m sure there is a reason.. but i m sure a blogger that is just started might have just as much insight or maybe more than a top blogger.

    just my opinion and maybe with that gets settled ..
    i would find a way to get my gold back. till then, it s just causing more problems down the way..
    and i don t want to pay for bulling .

    Thanks for what you did..ANA
    you re an Angel.
The site wants the BEST (their choice) bloggers to be seen by the newbies for business reasons. That won't change.

But if they rotated the same list (people who are on it now, for example)... then no one is really #1.

That will be an incentive for all the top bloggers to be *friendly* to each other... helping each other to stay on the front page.

And this will allow the newbies to see a friendly, united Blogville, which will be beneficial to the site AND just a nice thing in general.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/28/2016 5:47 am

    Quoting ranchomongo:
    everyone did fine..
    now if we can only get rid of who's number one blogger and who's top points earner.
    i feel that having this i m higher than you mentality is what got this crap all going to start , having to be higher better i m better cause i dont have a dick..
    like how fucking stupid..

    who about just randomly letting anyone with a blog be up on top for an hr.. then the next hr.. another set of blogger can get up there..
    yes i know people love to read top bloggers and i m sure there is a reason.. but i m sure a blogger that is just started might have just as much insight or maybe more than a top blogger.

    just my opinion and maybe with that gets settled ..
    i would find a way to get my gold back. till then, it s just causing more problems down the way..
    and i don t want to pay for bulling .

    Thanks for what you did..ANA
    you re an Angel.
Hello Rancho,

Happy Sun. I am hoping the next big thing to work on will be the blog rankings. I have never been a fan of popularity contests as they can lead to incidents like we just lived through. Thankfully the Blogging community stood together and did the right thing in protecting other members from bullies.

Thank You for your Kind words & I am sure you'll find your way back to Gold and after this giant mess with bullies the site has a policy of Zero Tolerance in regards to them.

Happy Sun Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/28/2016 5:52 am

Dear Katie,

My bad...apologies. I thought I had ok-ed your comment. Thank you we know about this and by Mon it will be dealt with.

Happy Sun,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/28/2016 7:13 am

    Quoting author51:
    well written and we need to treat others like we ourselves want to be treated..
Dear Author,

Happy Sun Thank you for your compliment. Very kind of you. I agree with you. I treat others as I'd like to be treated. Everyone is equal in my eyes.

Have a great Sun,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/28/2016 7:16 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    The site wants the BEST (their choice) bloggers to be seen by the newbies for business reasons. That won't change.

    But if they rotated the same list (people who are on it now, for example)... then no one is really #1.

    That will be an incentive for all the top bloggers to be *friendly* to each other... helping each other to stay on the front page.

    And this will allow the newbies to see a friendly, united Blogville, which will be beneficial to the site AND just a nice thing in general.
Dear Good,

Happy Sun. Thank you for your comment. I agree with you. A rotating blog list will show off all our bloggers united in Blogville without the bullies or fighting for a position on a list.

Have a great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/28/2016 9:41 am

Ana,
It'll even be good for the * #1 on the list * obsessed.

They can just keep refreshing the page until they're on the top of the list... take some pictures... send them to all their friends... get some hard-copies made and place one in each room of the house... and even place one hard-copy on a special table strategically placed in their home with a couple candles on each side and a prayer rug in front...
You know...
Just like they did before...


nicelipss66 44F
23707 posts
8/28/2016 8:44 pm

Ana you are doing excellent job. Love to see how people is interacting here with no fear. great job guys

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anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/29/2016 12:12 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    It'll even be good for the * #1 on the list * obsessed.

    They can just keep refreshing the page until they're on the top of the list... take some pictures... send them to all their friends... get some hard-copies made and place one in each room of the house... and even place one hard-copy on a special table strategically placed in their home with a couple candles on each side and a prayer rug in front...
    You know...
    Just like they did before...
Hello Good,

Thank you for your great post & ideas. As far as I know, the only one obsessed with being Blogger # 1 is no longer allowed on this site for all the TOU violations she engaged in.

Hoping for calm and peace in our Blog World from now on and oh yes, Respect too.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/29/2016 12:31 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Ana you are doing excellent job. Love to see how people is interacting here with no fear. great job guys
Dear Thalia,

Happy Mon/Week to you Darling. Thank you for your kind words. My blog has always been a safe haven for those in need and I am thrilled that members are blogging happily, sharing the fun and NO Fear.

The Site has a reason today to be proud of itself. Bloggers will never live in fear of sharing their words again.

Happy Mon Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/29/2016 5:35 am

What happened to the other 6 pages of comments?


goodatpoetry2 70M
16562 posts
8/29/2016 8:37 am

HEY ! DON"T SCARE US LIKE THAT !


KItkat1415 58F  
19980 posts
8/29/2016 8:43 pm

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    It'll even be good for the * #1 on the list * obsessed.

    They can just keep refreshing the page until they're on the top of the list... take some pictures... send them to all their friends... get some hard-copies made and place one in each room of the house... and even place one hard-copy on a special table strategically placed in their home with a couple candles on each side and a prayer rug in front...
    You know...
    Just like they did before...
You are so funny! I love this...
kk

The observant make the best lovers,
I may not do right, but I do write,
I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life,
Kitkat
Come check out my blog
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KItkat1415 58F  
19980 posts
8/29/2016 8:44 pm

And Ana...
Thank you for all that you have done.
I hope that all is well with you.
Kitkat

The observant make the best lovers,
I may not do right, but I do write,
I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life,
Kitkat
Come check out my blog
KItkat1415
check out this post by me
Adventures In Body Grooming
#39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath
If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/29/2016 11:23 pm

Ana, I think of you always. Be well, and be with us. You've earned our love and respect. Wherever you may find yourself, you will always be in my heart.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


sandupk 40M
30 posts
8/30/2016 12:06 am

cool...


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:19 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    What happened to the other 6 pages of comments?
Dear Good,

Happy Tues Thank you for noticing. Site glitch played havoc with some blogs and handles on Sun.

I am back and am here to stay. My mission to keep posting positive messages and encourage other bloggers who fled the site after being targeted by bullies to come back. We need more Great Members to help the site and bring in new members to interact with our great members already here. New Blood to invigorate our beloved site & membership. The wonderful blogging community came together to stop the bullying and now we need to stand together, encourage others to join & blog . To share all this wonderful writing with each other.

Plus , I am writing a book on this site and boy oh boy do I have some interesting chapters on the antics of this site.

#KeepingItReal
#StayPositive
#RespectWins
#NoMoreFear
#BloglandIsFreeAndSafe

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:27 am

Dear Good,

I promise that I am NOT going anywhere and neither will my fellow bloggers/members. The site is very grateful to ALL who stood up to Bullying and attacking members.

The Blog & Profile are back and Safe and NOT going anywhere. All the United Bloggers are NOT going anywhere.

#GoodGuysWon
#NoMoreBullies

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:34 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    You are so funny! I love this...
    kk
KK,

Glad it made you smile hon. I love witty writing that is funny & smart and defo not mean spirited.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:36 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    And Ana...
    Thank you for all that you have done.
    I hope that all is well with you.
    Kitkat
Dear KK,

You're welcome Hon & Thank you for your kind words. All is Great here & I hope the same for you.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:47 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Ana, I think of you always. Be well, and be with us. You've earned our love and respect. Wherever you may find yourself, you will always be in my heart.
Dear Kzoo,

Thank you so much my friend for your Lovely words. You are all in my heart too and I am so blessed to have you all as friends & fellow members/bloggers.

Thank you for everything,

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 3:59 am

Hello Sanduk,

Happy Tues & Thank you for your comment and for finding my blog. I am glad you think we should all respect others and that Respect is Cool.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 replies on 8/30/2016 4:02 am:
Oops..sorry, typed to fast...My apologies Sandupk

anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 4:28 am

Happy Tues My Darling Friends,

Wow has this blog been amazing I hoped I could reach some of our members and spread the Respect Message from Andrew & Myself but to have such great , thoughtful, witty, concerned comments ..I am awestruck. I've been saying for years that we have amazing members here and thank you for proving me right.

#RespectWon
#NoMoreBullies

I was considering marking this blog read only but then I kept seeing new posts..Hope among our members..so let us Keep this one going. NO negative posts or mean words. Sadly, we have all seen enough of that on site...We've all been dealing with that blogger who was removed for violating the TOU time and time again..Now we see a blog list filled with happy bloggers enjoying the peace & freedom to write & share without fear.

#PositiveWordsFromHappyBloggers

Share anything that makes you smile or feel...If you are having a problem bring it here & perhaps among our Great members we can find a happy solution to any issue.

#WEStandTogetherUnited
#StrongerTogtherThanApart

xoxo,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 replies on 8/30/2016 4:31 am:
GRRRRR...typing to fast & many windows open at once..

LOL..

#StrongerTogetherThanApart

nicelipss66 44F
23707 posts
8/30/2016 5:32 am

Hi Ana

Have a great Tuesday

Check My Doctor Post

Here is the link: Too Hot Body Heat Rises Oh so Thick


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/30/2016 9:37 am

Happy Tues Thalia,

I hope you have a terrific Day

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


kzoopair 69M/67F
25818 posts
8/30/2016 2:16 pm

Welcome home, Ana!

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/31/2016 1:06 am

Dear Kzoo,

Thank you Lovely welcome home

Hope you had a wonderful Tues & even happier Wed

Thank you for being my friend & in my Life,

Hugss,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/31/2016 8:39 am

    Quoting Katie_Prevar:
    .

    Which "Mon" will that be, Ana?

    It's STILL there and it's Wednesday!

    .
Katie,

Happy Wed Yes, I know it is still there, the site is working their way through the posts, deleting them as they go . Collecting evidence along the way.

I'll keep you posted.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
8/31/2016 8:43 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Hrd,

Happy Wed Thank you for visiting my blog & sharing your thoughts here. I think your Father is a very wise man. I wish others had been taught tolerance and respect by their parents instead of jealousy and bigotry.

Thankful that in the end #RespectWon.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


Endlesspassion79 46M
152 posts
8/31/2016 9:38 am

I try hard to be a better person today than I was the day before. I love and respect women, without them I would have no reason to do anything. My existence revolves around the women in my life, my family, my friends, and my lovers! Life wouldnt be much fun without the beauty of women in it. I must admit that I do enjoy my time with friends doing man things like drinking beer, shooting guns, and riding dirtbikes. But I always love coming back home to my sweetie and kissing her pretty lips again!
I'm pretty simple and straight forward. Treat me with respect and I will do the same


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
9/1/2016 1:28 am

    Quoting Endlesspassion79:
    I try hard to be a better person today than I was the day before. I love and respect women, without them I would have no reason to do anything. My existence revolves around the women in my life, my family, my friends, and my lovers! Life wouldnt be much fun without the beauty of women in it. I must admit that I do enjoy my time with friends doing man things like drinking beer, shooting guns, and riding dirtbikes. But I always love coming back home to my sweetie and kissing her pretty lips again!
    I'm pretty simple and straight forward. Treat me with respect and I will do the same
Dear Endless.

Welcome To My Blog. Thank you for sharing such a lovely post with us all. I love the way you put it..." Treat me with Respect and I will do the same. " Well done Sir. That is exactly the message I've been trying to spread here with this post.

#RespectWins
#PositiveKarmaWins

Have a Great Day,Endless & Thank you once more,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
9/1/2016 2:12 am

    Quoting NeroFiddles1000:
    Oh my ...so much angst....how about just a better web experience....the site hasn't gotten better....which may explain the issues you are having.

    You want paying customers.....better make the site something that one "must" have .
Dear Nero,

Happy Thurs Thank you for finding my blog. This blog post was written to improve the site and the way members interact with each other. The site and the way it runs is one thing, and the way members treat each other which affects us all is another.

We are working on lots of new ideas to improve site experience for members. I frequently ask for any new ideas or fixes you'd like to see put in to place and share them with the CEO Andrew. I want to see A F F back as the Number # 1 Dating site in the world. I think we can do it. We have great members & bloggers here who are determined that the days of bullying ,abuse, threats and lies are Over.

Treat Everyone as You would like to be Treated

Have a Terrific Thurs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


missthee 54F  
4258 posts
9/1/2016 3:20 am


anastasia666 42F  
2086 posts
9/1/2016 6:31 am

Dear Miss Thee,

Thank you Your smile made me smile.

Happy Thurs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


rm_cams625 49M
24 posts
9/1/2016 7:58 am

well said we need more women to stand up and say something so the picks get what they deserve?


rachel0718 54F  
20462 posts
9/1/2016 2:35 pm

Well gosh! I guess I am late to this party to say a huge "THANK YOU!" for all of your hard work and others behind the scenes to make this a fun place to be again. I know there are many more here that helped stand up, report and let others know what was going on. Kudos to all of you!

It's great to see that we are getting back to happy, fun, sexy and erotic stories. I am not a great writer like a lot on here, I just enjoy being able to be "me" and share what makes me happy, sad, mad or whatever. People here are my friends. I have grown to love people just from the blogs. Thank you for helping make it a great place to be again!!!


Rachel Mae


niceguybc 32M
13 posts
9/1/2016 7:32 pm

very good! respect is so important


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