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OldrHarleyGuy 72M

9/18/2019 12:44 pm

Love those knockers there girl !!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/18/2019 12:47 pm

Interesting stuff.
I'm competitive but I hated team sports. Give me a sport where I can make it happen on my own. Is that bad?
A band.. that was the best yeah sport I was ever on! 👍
Reading profiles? Sure.... why not! lol 😂
A lot of interesting ones out there...
I look at the distance first.... Not into traveling about. But I'm I was in the neighbourhood? 🤔 hmmm... sure! 👍


Apollorising58 63M

9/18/2019 12:48 pm

It's all about being In JOY!

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SimpleManMC 45M

9/18/2019 12:50 pm

Great


scott6250 61M

9/18/2019 12:51 pm

Competition is a healthy thing for sure.

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bigdude11111 52M
44 posts
9/18/2019 12:53 pm

I’m with you 100% until your last line.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/18/2019 12:58 pm

I personally like a good conversationalist, and not one that starts off with a sexual innuendo of some type. You know my friend like I do it's all about our minds, and when they are captured that's what really matters.

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


1quietguy35404 75M

9/18/2019 12:58 pm

I like the Knockers


ur_Latin_Luver 54M
33 posts
9/18/2019 1:02 pm

Thank you for the insight.


Robb7261 26M

9/18/2019 1:10 pm

thanks


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
9/18/2019 1:18 pm

This is an interesting way to look at it. However, it is well known that this site has many more men than women. So the men are forced to be competitive just to get the attraction of someone they are interested in. I agree with you about finding out what their interests are, hobbies, likes and dislikes are and focus on that. I wouldn't call it being competitive if you are interested in someone then show it by finding out what interests they have and go from there. It's been a long time I hope all is well with you. John

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


BiGuy4U53 61M
161 posts
9/18/2019 1:35 pm

i have always been a very competitive no matter what...i use to tell my kids 2 things:
1 second is the first loser and don't say you cant do something, when you have not tried....so yes make that extra effort someone will notice and you will be rewarded...


rebelram999999 55M

9/18/2019 1:38 pm

Joy I am sure you have no problem turning no's into yes's. In fact I doubt there are any no's at all.

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sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
9/18/2019 1:55 pm

For every NO I turned into a YES because of my efforts or being thoughtful enough to change their minds gave me a lesson...….. They said no for a reason..... I should have listened better! the chaos and drama that followed was NEVER worth changing their mind

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justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
9/18/2019 2:00 pm

As an athlete and business owner, I also have *competitiveness* in my DNA. I can absolutely testify to the adrenalized *thrill* of competition and how it elevates us to next-level energy and focus.

One of the take-aways that informs my approach to Life, including building friendships in this community, has been to NOT view competition as a strictly "I win, you lose" proposition. This is not to say "winning" is irrelevant and/or nonessential- because it most assuredly is- at some level (even if there is purpose but no meaning). And- no matter how cleverly we try to disguise it- a lot of Life is about winning and losing. Mostly losing.

The essence of my competitive spirit is in finding JOY (no pun intended ) in competitive engagement, in the thrill of the hunt.

As I participate in the AdultFriendFinder community, I ignore the apparent imbalance in female/male population. And I am not dispirited when my outreaches are ignored or rejected. Instead, I take comfort in having projected the most authentic version of myself I could muster and hope that in this process I have learned a little bit more about myself and (by closely reading profiles, blogposts and other interactions) someone else.

If you are not enjoying the journey, it's unlikely you will be *competitive*.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/18/2019 2:03 pm

When we have the choice of becoming cyborgs in 2135 , knockers will look like that. on the lower end model frames.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
9/18/2019 2:55 pm

the harder I work the luckier I get


Story435 76M
3791 posts
9/18/2019 4:19 pm

Hello Joy.
I would say your right no still means no! Some don't get that.
Everyone should read profiles before they try to contact someone on here or another site they are on. It worked good for me.
Yes it works for men please read profiles.
Yes I do zero in on their likes dose help. Sometimes men don't put much on profiles.
Butch


Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
9/18/2019 4:38 pm

Knockers. lmao.

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/18/2019 8:02 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with how to turn a "no" into a "yes"

however, having said that, my problem is the following:

I don't like hockey, cold weather, or ice skating

I like my women hot, but not too spicy

my profile tells it like it is as if it were an Aaron Neville song

and, still I haven't had one clown or comedian cum my way

so, talk about a needle in a haystack, that's the way the iceberg melts

reminded me of this

Charlie Puth - "Attention"

Oh-oh, ooh
You've been runnin' round, runnin' round, runnin' round throwin' that dirt all on my name
'Cause you knew that I, knew that I, knew that I'd call you up
You've been going round, going round, going round every party in L.A.
'Cause you knew that I, knew that I, knew that I'd be at one, oh
I know that dress is karma, perfume regret
You got me thinking 'bout when you were mine, oh
And now I'm all up on ya, what you expect?
But you're not coming home with me tonight
You just want attention, you don't want my heart
Maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new
Yeah, you just want attention, I knew from the start
You're just making sure I'm never gettin' over you

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njfitguy1 62M
555 posts
9/19/2019 2:06 pm

I always look for common interests


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
9/22/2019 12:49 pm

Yes, I always read profiles and there just has to some things we both enjoy. it's a bonus if the lady has a blog.


playbyday570 63M
45 posts
9/24/2019 1:48 pm

Hahaha.. Love the door knockers lol


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