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bigstuff_1989 31M
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8/21/2019 11:30 am
Who has some tips for success?

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10168 posts
8/21/2019 12:17 pm

try another site ?

Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
8/21/2019 1:02 pm

Don't send your picture to anyone. No telling what they will do with that picture. If you can't place a picture of yourself [fully clothed is preferable for attracting women], or part of yourself on your profile , you should get off the site.

When you get her attention online, as quickly as possible get her offline to meet you in person somewhere for 10 minutes. This is how you beat your competition [since the mf ratio is off]. ....Avoid chatting for days and weeks with women you have never met, when they actually do live in your area.

Don't be a sucker [ie: Gentleman]..... when you meet the woman, she can buy her own drinks or food. Never spend your money on a woman whom you have no intimate history with. Many a time, a woman will just agree to meet you, so she can get free drinks and free food.

If she does want to go out with you, after meeting you the first time, only allow her 2 or 3 times to go out with you if she doesn't have sex with you. Don't waste your time with time wasters.

lonlyforlove2 77M
16462 posts
8/21/2019 1:30 pm

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BiggLala 48F  
28534 posts
8/21/2019 1:38 pm

To be blunt, the complete opposite of your profile. You have no pic of yourself; the sunset pic doesn't cut it.

The body of your profile also doesn't cut it:
"let me send you a pic before you decide to say no...you will like

My Ideal Person high sex drive and a great connection"

I don't know what your goal was when you joined in 2012, but your success largely depends on your efforts. Would you say you've put in sufficient effort?

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Ladyvivamus 65F
31 posts
12/19/2019 7:05 am

Few members seem aware of this section. There is a course on being successful online.
I prefer seeing a photo that is not a dick pic first. I understand there are valid reasons not to have a face pic here. If it is a face pic, a good natural smile or expression that is confident. A full length or torso pic shows me how a man carries himself indicating sensuality and also shows me if he has extra padding that is a turn off to me.
Men do far better with me by telling me what they would like to do to please me rather than sending a dick pic with 'I'll bet you really want to suck/fuck this'. Dumb as a box of rocks.
The other courses in the section have some good info on sensual massage and more.

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