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There are so many morsels to be savored from romance....smell,taste,imagination, give, receive, tingle and the numerous other senses that go into making romance one of the most wonderful and misunderstood occurrences in life. Let's pontificate on this wonderfully aspect of our being.
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Positive romance
Posted:Nov 19, 2017 6:47 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

Positive thinking is a major factor toward great romance. Just as in life its self, if you do not go about romantic endeavors with a positive attitude you are greatly reducing the degree of enjoyment for romance. Any romantic occurrence is good and it only escalates from there. Sure there are some warts and bumps along the way and people have over looked my warts and bumps.....and we are still very good friends to this day. All genders whine and complain about themselves or potential partners...and this whining, second guessing and doubt has ruined many romantic endeavors or potential endeavor. So, it is a great day to go out and kiss a frog...no telling what may appear, but it sure beats sitting on the sideline kibitzing and being an armchair quarterback.
cold storm thought
Posted:Nov 11, 2017 9:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

We have a major winter storm hitting this weekend, so throwing some warmth your way..... Cat Scratch Fever.

Yes, it is a song but also one of the nuances of romance. Curiosity is one of the causes of this fever, if you do not have a furtive mind.. romance is boring. Another cause is the need to be stroked and rubbed, you have to put the purrrr factor into romance. Anticipation of new excitement can cause this fever, goose bumps just thinking of the possibilities really can raise this fever. There is no prescribed cure for this fever but exploring new remedies sure can bring a smile to your face. Now go stay warm with some of these feline thoughts...even if you are a person.
Tiny Bubbles/ great song and a great nuance to romance
Posted:Nov 6, 2017 7:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2017 5:54 am

I had lunch the other day with an old business associate, we were discussing previous business ventures and philosophizing about life. The major perception we came to was that business ebbs and flows in bubbles, that is... you get into a bubble and business is great and life is grand. Then the bubble can burst at any moment and the dreams and projects you wanted to complete are gone in a puff. Romance is very much the same, when fantasies and dreams are available you had better act on them. That bubble of opportunity can burst at any moment and all you have left is a wet face and regrets of not fulfilling those dreams and fantasies. Go have fun and let those wants and desires flow.....you never know when that bubble will burst
shine/ elbow grease
Posted:Oct 21, 2017 6:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

Shine is used very much in a descriptive way or even as a noun. We are going to use it both ways in our Romance lesson today. What puts the shine on a Romance or the shine emanating from a person after a Romantic encounter. It is pure and simple ...lots of elbow grease and wet lips. A shine does not come easily, it takes lots of attention and passion to bring that little twinkle out in a shine. Whether it is polishing those nipples, wet vacuuming the sensitive areas or whispering erotic instructions....it is well worth the effort when that shine blossoms and the sparkle is blinding. Now don't forget, you can't put a shine on romance with out some effort [ or elbow grease] so get off the couch and enjoy.
Posted:Oct 14, 2017 9:08 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

We all have had fear in our lives....fear of: the dark, monsters under the bed, mean old Mr. Miller, first grade, going blind from masturbation, shots from the doctor, peer acceptance, and many other maladies. Maturation has vanquished some of these fears but there are some that linger and change your lifestyle. Fear is also the biggest deterrent for great romance... fear of: heart break, looking the fool, mental prow-less, physical features, true love, compatibility, what you look like with the lights on, and every other excuse known to mankind. There is an old saying that goes something like this... all we have to fear is fear itself. So there are no excuses in romance because you are afraid of something. Go enjoy every aspect of romance and not be afraid of anything....including what you think of your internal self or what you perceive other people think. You never know what you are missing if you are afraid to try it.
Fall, Fences and Bob Dylan
Posted:Oct 4, 2017 6:56 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

We all have built fences around areas of our personality, these are areas we do not want to show to other people...much less even let them know they exist. There is a physco dynamics study of how people erect these fences for self protection and to keep their true feelings hidden. Most of the readers here think they are liberated and the gate is wide open to their fence....oh silly people. We just sit on the fence and throw small and censored bits of our soul out for consumption and consider ourselves open minded people. Let's do some fall cleaning and throw out some of our hang-ups about romance and display some of that forbidden fruit hidden on the other side of the fence. You can't ride that fence forever, jump off and get your knees stained with grass.....and enjoy yourself. As Bob Dylan sings[ by the way, is turning 76] the times they are a changing.... if he can change, you can too.
bucket list
Posted:Oct 1, 2017 7:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

We have all heard of the Bucket List, brought more recently to our attention by the movie of the same name. Well, there should be a Bucket List of romance with a little understanding added to the process. We all have wishes and fantasy that we dream about in our romantic endeavors, no better time than right now on checking them off the list. Most of the items on the list will not be as satisfying as thought but the collateral enjoyment of that fantasy will go beyond your wildest dreams. So go out there and start marking items off the list while you can still enjoy the ramifications of the actions.
entitled ones
Posted:Sep 28, 2017 6:58 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

No, this is not referring to the entitled generation or a socioeconomic status. It is referring to one of the biggest killers of good romance, and the thought that everyone is entitled to good and lasting romance that they don't have to work for it. There is a saying a wise man once said[ ok ok, it was me]...you only get out of romance what you put into it. Boys and girls, you got to work at romance.....being witty and cute opens lots of doors but you can't rest on those laurels or slowly you are moved out the door. The same position and no creativity and adventure puts rust on the romance. So oil up all your toys and mind and go work at having fun..... and people wonder why you don't get invited back to the playground. Hmmm
Lover Of Life
Posted:Jun 28, 2017 9:06 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

I was listening to a song the other day and it had a line that went.... and I am a lover of life. Now if we take that line and add it to the nuances of romance, wow..... that is a great combination. If you are a lover of life, then you got to be a connoisseur of romance. They both go hand in hand with each other in that.... romance is to be enjoyed and if you love life, it just brings it to a new level. TGIT my friends and go out and be a lover of life and sample all the nuances of romance.
If it is not broke.....
Posted:May 6, 2017 6:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

Jimmy Buffett keeps touring , adding a few new songs with the old..... if it is still working for him, me too.

JB did a song a few years back called" Attitudes and Latitudes" and you can really apply this to romance. There is also a business and sociological term called the Pendulum Effect, combine both of these and you have a remedy for good romance and a more enjoyable life. You have to have a change in routine and life every once in a while....just to appreciate what you have or to realize what you are missing. I do not know whether this is from laziness or fear of the unknown, but damn it.....shake things up a little and enjoy romance and life with a different perspective.

BTW...he does a version of Jesse Winchester's Rhumba Man which is one of my all time favorites in any genre.
Doggie Style
Posted:May 1, 2017 4:57 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

Doggie Style
I figured that would get your attention, but this observation is more about the mind than positions. People get so closed minded when it comes to romance, they think there is only one variety or application and they are unwilling to open their mind to the many wonders that unbridled romance can bring. You should always know where your comfort levels exist but it should be pushed because there may be hidden enjoyment right around the corner that you refuse to explore. The cycle of life and romance is way too short and should not be abused by saying....I only do it doggie style. Stay warm and open my friends.
Posted:Apr 21, 2017 6:05 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm


This is politically correct verses common sense, this argument can be used in politics, life , sex or whatever you desire. We all worry about invading other peoples rights and space but if you just use common sense.... all those little nuggets of PC will fall into space. Below is a post from several years ago, I was just stating that you have to grab the bull by the horns and enjoy life.... this is a comment to that post and my reply. I am not against differences of opinion, It is what makes us unique in that we can practice it without penalties.

Here is the post and my response.

A simple personal philosophy, a kind of existential thing. Life should be lived to the fullest....if you feel it then do it, it's quite simple. You create your own values and enjoyment of life.
I think there are some universal values which must be respected - in the extreme, someone could excuse any violent or degrading behavior as a creation of their values and enjoyment of life.

I know that was not what you were getting at...but I wanted to offer something to stir some thought.
My response....
Your comment is correct in a strict context but in a general philosophical context, we really do set our values that we can live within and enjoy. The problem is we as a society don't think for ourselves but let society or agendas dictate our thought pattern. What happened to common sense and being your own person and responsible for your thoughts and values. There is an old saying...treat people the way you would like to be treated and that should solve your dilemma.

Just common sense my friends...hey, it was rant Friday.
Puzzle of Romance
Posted:Apr 5, 2017 6:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 1:30 pm

The puzzle of romance

I usually have a mental fart that bestows some of my insight into the nuances of romance, but ran across a quote from George A. Burgagni who puts it all together so well and when you insert romance into this puzzle..... it fits perfectly.

Life is like a jigsaw puzzle
So Many pieces come with it
We gather them as we live each day
To see just how they fit

Some people start with the edges
Some start with corners too
Others go for the middle
It’s always up to you

Hold each piece, embrace them
To see where it will go
Sometimes they fit so easily
Then times you never know

Think of these as people
Each one’s a different piece
Some we meet won’t fit at all
Others will fit with ease

We go through life and gather
We use and lose some too!
Some become good memories
Some leave us sad and blue

Some pieces seem to get away
They’re like tiny grains of sand
We think we have them held real tight
But they slip right through our hands

I guess we are all just looking for
One, rare and special piece
The final one to finish our
Life long masterpiece

Our puzzles will be complete
When it happens you will know
The Puzzle comes together
By the pieces you don’t let go!

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