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There are so many morsels to be savored from romance....smell,taste,imagination, give, receive, tingle and the numerous other senses that go into making romance one of the most wonderful and misunderstood occurrences in life. Let's pontificate on this wonderfully aspect of our being.
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Doggie Style
Posted:Nov 29, 2014 6:25 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

Doggie Style
I figured that would get your attention, but this observation is more about the mind than positions. People get so closed minded when it comes to romance, they think there is only one variety or application and they are unwilling to open their mind to the many wonders that unbridled romance can bring. You should always know where your comfort levels exist but it should be pushed because there may be hidden enjoyment right around the corner that you refuse to explore. The cycle of life and romance is way too short and should not be abused by saying....I only do it doggie style. Stay warm and open my friends.
Posted:Nov 21, 2014 6:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2014 4:51 pm

This is politically correct verses common sense, this argument can be used in politics, life , sex or whatever you desire. We all worry about invading other peoples rights and space but if you just use common sense.... all those little nuggets of PC will fall into space. Below is a post from several years ago, I was just stating that you have to grab the bull by the horns and enjoy life.... this is a comment to that post and my reply. I am not against differences of opinion, It is what makes us unique in that we can practice it without penalties.

Here is the post and my response.

A simple personal philosophy, a kind of existential thing. Life should be lived to the fullest....if you feel it then do it, it's quite simple. You create your own values and enjoyment of life.
I think there are some universal values which must be respected - in the extreme, someone could excuse any violent or degrading behavior as a creation of their values and enjoyment of life.

I know that was not what you were getting at...but I wanted to offer something to stir some thought.
My response....
Your comment is correct in a strict context but in a general philosophical context, we really do set our values that we can live within and enjoy. The problem is we as a society don't think for ourselves but let society or agendas dictate our thought pattern. What happened to common sense and being your own person and responsible for your thoughts and values. There is an old saying...treat people the way you would like to be treated and that should solve your dilemma.

Just common sense my friends...hey, it was rant Friday.
Fall, Fences and Bob Dylan
Posted:Nov 14, 2014 6:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2014 6:17 am

We all have built fences around areas of our personality, these are areas we do not want to show to other people...much less even let them know they exist. There is a physco dynamics study of how people erect these fences for self protection and to keep their true feelings hidden. Most of the readers here think they are liberated and the gate is wide open to their fence....oh silly people. We just sit on the fence and throw small and censored bits of our soul out for consumption and consider ourselves open minded people. Let's do some fall cleaning and throw out some of our hang-ups about romance and display some of that forbidden fruit hidden on the other side of the fence. You can't ride that fence forever, jump off and get your knees stained with grass.....and enjoy yourself. As Bob Dylan sings[ by the way, is turning 73] the times they are a changing.... if he can change, you can too.
Late night port and Saturday morning coffee
Posted:Nov 8, 2014 8:43 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2014 7:46 am

Friday night late...
Ok...You are getting a double feature, but since I'm getting paid such vast amounts{monetary and carnal] what the hell...let it flow. So, some of my thoughts after some great veal and a sniffer of port:

Every sixty seconds you spend angry, upset or mad, is a full minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.

Saturday Morning...

Now, drinking my coffee and finishing my post..... and no I did not forget to hit add post last night, I have learned to edit a post from an evening of imbibing. My reflective addition to this post is: that social or economic status in life has no impact on enjoyment, it is how you perceive life and pursue it.

Enjoy life my friends.
Election time disclosure
Posted:Oct 31, 2014 6:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

Ok... first it was coke changing their formula and then it was me trying to change my format, My readers are not here to answer my questions...they are here to hear my pontification upon the nuances of romance.... I get I get it, so here is a rant on.... you got it. Comfort Zone.

Yes, we all have our comfort zones and routines... from chicken on Friday, bowling on Tuesday, brushing your teeth starting on the right side, sleeping on left side of the bed, missionary style sex on Sunday and oral on Tuesday, same friends and same jokes on Friday. Now don't get me wrong, comfort zones are essential and helps life move on....but don't get lazy and carried away with it. Why are spontaneous occurrences so fun and memorable, why did that flirtatious look make your day, why are dreams centered around far away places and exotic people....it is because it take you out of your routine and comfort zone. You knew I was getting here.....So, take romance out of that comfort zone. Be it just for a test drive, small vacation or a complete overhaul. Life is too short not to paint outside the line to see if you enjoy it and what it looks like
Wash your mouth out with soap
Posted:Oct 26, 2014 6:49 am
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2014 4:26 pm

Yes, you most definitely will get your mouth washed out with soap according to Nuances Of Romance bylaws....if you ever say: I would have, I could have, I should have. There are no excuses in romance, like ...I am too tired, the timing is not right, I feel fat, or whatever comes to mind. Romance does not knock on your door and drag you out... it does knock but you have to drag it inside. So get ready for the knock....and no damn excuses.... like: I would have, I could have, I should have. It is adventure time, cut it loose and have some fun.
Romantic Advise
Posted:Oct 20, 2014 6:24 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

There are three simple rules to enjoy the nuances of romance. Rule number one.....have fun. I notice that most of the members on this site have all these rules... wants, desires, what they will and will not do, agendas and generally making romance too damn difficult. What they really need is to follow these simple rules and the rewards are utterly fantastic. Just remember to have fun and never regret anything that makes you smile....and never let preconceived ideas ruin the fun. Rule number two and three..ohh, they are the same as rule number one....so keep it simple and abide by these three rules and enjoy my friends.
Elbow Grease/ Shine
Posted:Oct 14, 2014 5:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2014 6:48 am

Shine is used very much in a descriptive way or even as a noun. We are going to use it both ways in our Romance lesson today. What puts the shine on a Romance or the shine emanating from a person after a Romantic encounter. It is pure and simple ...lots of elbow grease and wet lips. A shine does not come easily, it takes lots of attention and passion to bring that little twinkle out in a shine. Whether it is polishing those nipples, wet vacuuming the sensitive areas or whispering erotic instructions....it is well worth the effort when that shine blossoms and the sparkle is blinding. Now don't forget, you can't put a shine on romance with out some effort [ or elbow grease] so get off the couch and enjoy.
Fall Thought.... Cat Scratch Fever
Posted:Oct 10, 2014 6:47 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

Yes, it is a song but also one of the nuances of romance. Curiosity is one of the causes of this fever, if you do not have a furtive mind.. romance is boring. Another cause is the need to be stroked and rubbed, you have to put the purrrr factor into romance. Anticipation of new excitement can cause this fever, goose bumps just thinking of the possibilities really can raise this fever. There is no prescribed cure for this fever but exploring new remedies sure can bring a smile to your face.
Hump Day Ditty
Posted:Oct 8, 2014 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

I went for my annual check up this morning and the first thing the doctor said to me was..... that I got to quit masturbating. I asked why.... he said so he could begin the examination. Bada Bing....
Tiny Bubbles/ old song and good advise
Posted:Oct 3, 2014 6:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2014 1:07 pm

I had lunch the other day with an old business associate, we were discussing previous business ventures and philosophizing about life. The major perception we came to was that business ebbs and flows in bubbles, that is... you get into a bubble and business is great and life is grand. Then the bubble can burst at any moment and the dreams and projects you wanted to complete are gone in a puff. Romance is very much the same, when fantasies and dreams are available you had better act on them. That bubble of opportunity can burst at any moment and all you have left is a wet face and regrets of not fulfilling those dreams and fantasies. Go have fun and let those wants and desires flow.....you never know when that bubble will burst
Posted:Sep 30, 2014 6:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2020 8:1 am

No, this is not referring to the entitled generation or a socioeconomic status. It is referring to one of the biggest killers of good romance, and the thought that everyone is entitled to good and lasting romance that they don't have to work for it. There is a saying a wise man once said[ ok ok, it was me]...you only get out of romance what you put into it. Boys and girls, you got to work at romance.....being witty and cute opens lots of doors but you can't rest on those laurels or slowly you are moved out the door. The same position and no creativity and adventure puts rust on the romance. So oil up all your toys and mind and go work at having fun..... and people wonder why you don't get invited back to the playground. Hmmm
Rainy Days and Tuesday
Posted:Sep 23, 2014 6:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2014 7:37 am

Ok...There is the moniker to the song, Rainy days and Mondays always get ME down. Well, let me tell you...Rainy days and Tuesdays are awesome. Billy Joel once crooned...New York State of mind, well Tuesday or whatever day you want is a great state of mind. I personally am having a great day[ if you want details, email], anyway...if you have a great state of mind, everyday is awesome. It is the half empty or half full quandary....there is none. Enjoy every moment and chance you get. Off to make my next memory.

PS... it is first day of fall, see what you can do to make it the best fall ever.

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